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By *erri Kelly OP   Couple
28 weeks ago

mayo

Does anyone else enjoy the Dirty Little Slut dynamic in their relationship,we don't mean using slut in a derogatory term.keri is a strong independent confident lady in the vanilla world, she holds a position of authority in her work place. But when it comes to the bedroom she loves doing what's she is told without hesitation to satisfy me or to heighten her sexual experiences, it is like night and day between fab and vanilla life, its like her having her own dirty little secret and the naughtier and sluttier she gets the harder she comes and I so enjoy knowing what she is really like

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By *ofusplusCouple
28 weeks ago

Limerick

Yeah! It's role-play which lots of people are into, but the important thing is she is in full control at all times. It's actally empowering

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By *heBlowinsCouple
28 weeks ago

West Cork

YES

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By *heBlowinsCouple
28 weeks ago

West Cork

We're *very* much into consensual slutplay- and the even more submissive kinky side that some on F-life might be aware of

It's our favorite dynamic

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By *itlbeeCouple
28 weeks ago

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Yeah, it's a pretty interesting dynamic. I take slut to just mean someone who enjoys sex and is very enthusiastically into it, and therefore I think enjoy being called it in the moment.

But for me, I don't really like having terms like "dirty" attached to it, or anything that suggests shame or disgust.

Even though people typically put those together. People can be very particular in their dirty talk.

I'm.more of a praise kink gal. I like mixing praise with slut play

"My gorgeous slut", or "beautiful little whore".

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By *icsJourneyWoman
28 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

Dynamics is something that we include in to our daily lives. My partner and I are Switches. So we can be with submissive and dominant and sometimes we switch mid scene.

We play with Caregiver/little (when it's Females being little it's often called DD/lg) and that goes Daddy little girl or Mommy little boy.

We play with me being an Owned Fucktoy that he gets free use of. Any time anywhere, perhaps even sleeping. I'm never going to object as my libido is higher anyway.

We play me as Goddess he's only there to worship my body and he's unimportant (like I might not even allow him to finish). I might degrade him too.

I find there's more understanding of this on Fet than Fab.

It has to be done responsibility with communication and consent as it is close to the bone with peoples mental health.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
28 weeks ago

West Cork


"Dynamics is something that we include in to our daily lives. My partner and I are Switches. So we can be with submissive and dominant and sometimes we switch mid scene.

We play with Caregiver/little (when it's Females being little it's often called DD/lg) and that goes Daddy little girl or Mommy little boy.

We play with me being an Owned Fucktoy that he gets free use of. Any time anywhere, perhaps even sleeping. I'm never going to object as my libido is higher anyway.

We play me as Goddess he's only there to worship my body and he's unimportant (like I might not even allow him to finish). I might degrade him too.

I find there's more understanding of this on Fet than Fab.

It has to be done responsibility with communication and consent as it is close to the bone with peoples mental health. "

We're very similar! We don't use the dd/lg terminology but everything else is how we are at home. And absolutely agree about the understanding on fet and triggers for some. To each their own but it's such a beautiful thing when everyone is consenting and enjoying themselves

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By *icsJourneyWoman
28 weeks ago

Northern Ireland


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We're very similar! We don't use the dd/lg terminology but everything else is how we are at home. And absolutely agree about the understanding on fet and triggers for some. To each their own but it's such a beautiful thing when everyone is consenting and enjoying themselves

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We are both Queer (although both cis) and our friends are anything and everything (and somethimes nothing)...so we tend to stay away from gendered words. I like CG/l as a replacement for DD/lg.

Also the Little part of it sometimes doesn't feel right. I can be a grown ass woman too and still feel cared for and loved by my partner. I do enjoy little space too but not all the time.

Sometimes MommyDom seems to get less acceptance than Daddy. Which is so common its practically mainstream. Its just a variation on FemDom and it'll be no shock I'm a fan of that too.

We also both do Sadist, not at the same time obviously! I enjoy Impact with giving and taking. Taking a heavy session as a masochist is my safe and happy place. Drop is a bugger though. I went through Drop yesterday.

I love that I met and fell for a Switch. We both agree that if we hadn't we would need either a Dom or a Sub separately each to satisfy that need.

I'm VicsJourney on Fet too. Feel more at home there. Follow me if you want and you are on there too

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By *heBlowinsCouple
28 weeks ago

West Cork


"

We're very similar! We don't use the dd/lg terminology but everything else is how we are at home. And absolutely agree about the understanding on fet and triggers for some. To each their own but it's such a beautiful thing when everyone is consenting and enjoying themselves

We are both Queer (although both cis) and our friends are anything and everything (and somethimes nothing)...so we tend to stay away from gendered words. I like CG/l as a replacement for DD/lg.

Also the Little part of it sometimes doesn't feel right. I can be a grown ass woman too and still feel cared for and loved by my partner. I do enjoy little space too but not all the time.

Sometimes MommyDom seems to get less acceptance than Daddy. Which is so common its practically mainstream. Its just a variation on FemDom and it'll be no shock I'm a fan of that too.

We also both do Sadist, not at the same time obviously! I enjoy Impact with giving and taking. Taking a heavy session as a masochist is my safe and happy place. Drop is a bugger though. I went through Drop yesterday.

I love that I met and fell for a Switch. We both agree that if we hadn't we would need either a Dom or a Sub separately each to satisfy that need.

I'm VicsJourney on Fet too. Feel more at home there. Follow me if you want and you are on there too

"

Will do- keep it real y'all

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By *ewcouple200Couple
28 weeks ago

dublin

Yeah, it's a pretty interesting dynamic. I take slut to just mean someone who enjoys sex and is very enthusiastically into it, and therefore I think enjoy being called it in the moment.

But for me, I don't really like having terms like "dirty" attached to it, or anything that suggests shame or disgust.

Even though people typically put those together. People can be very particular in their dirty talk.

I'm.more of a praise kink gal. I like mixing praise with slut play

"My gorgeous slut", or "beautiful little whore".

[We sometimes replace dirty with " naughty" but always use sexy and hot etc..]

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By *icsJourneyWoman
28 weeks ago

Northern Ireland


"Yeah, it's a pretty interesting dynamic. I take slut to just mean someone who enjoys sex and is very enthusiastically into it, and therefore I think enjoy being called it in the moment.

But for me, I don't really like having terms like "dirty" attached to it, or anything that suggests shame or disgust.

Even though people typically put those together. People can be very particular in their dirty talk.

I'm.more of a praise kink gal. I like mixing praise with slut play

"My gorgeous slut", or "beautiful little whore".

[We sometimes replace dirty with " naughty" but always use sexy and hot etc..]"

'MY Good Girl' never fails for me. My God I love praise.

For me having various levels of shaming thrown at me from judgemental adults when I was a teen, the word slut is difficult for me. So when I started in BDSM I put that as a hard limit along with humiliation and degradation. Then I met someone I trusted. During play he said you are a little slut and I'm going to get all my mates to use you and I just got so turned on. After he was like was that OK? And it actually was but I need to be in the right head space

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By *erri Kelly OP   Couple
28 weeks ago

mayo

We were at a wedding where we also had a room upstairs, after the meal I received a message saying "I'm up stairs call up for a minute " when I went to the room keri was inside dress pulled up bent over and waiting, I took her from behind, she had no intention of cuming she just wanted my load, after I had finished she fixed herself up and headed back down,when I rejoined her she was sitting with her friends giving me the eye and a naughty smile, as in to say if they only knew, now that to me is a DLS in full control of the situation, and for being a good girl she was rewarded later that night

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By *icsJourneyWoman
28 weeks ago

Northern Ireland


"We were at a wedding where we also had a room upstairs, after the meal I received a message saying "I'm up stairs call up for a minute " when I went to the room keri was inside dress pulled up bent over and waiting, I took her from behind, she had no intention of cuming she just wanted my load, after I had finished she fixed herself up and headed back down,when I rejoined her she was sitting with her friends giving me the eye and a naughty smile, as in to say if they only knew, now that to me is a DLS in full control of the situation, and for being a good girl she was rewarded later that night "

That's really hot.

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By *ACOLCouple
28 weeks ago

limerick


"We were at a wedding where we also had a room upstairs, after the meal I received a message saying "I'm up stairs call up for a minute " when I went to the room keri was inside dress pulled up bent over and waiting, I took her from behind, she had no intention of cuming she just wanted my load, after I had finished she fixed herself up and headed back down,when I rejoined her she was sitting with her friends giving me the eye and a naughty smile, as in to say if they only knew, now that to me is a DLS in full control of the situation, and for being a good girl she was rewarded later that night "

Very hoooot! Great fun.

Lina.

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By *erri Kelly OP   Couple
28 weeks ago

mayo

That is only the tip of the iceberg when it comes to keri's naughtiness, it's like she gets off on seeing my reaction to what she will do or what I ask her to do ,the more I think about it maybe the one with the real control and power is keri ,using her power as a naughty girl to get what she wants, am I being take advantage of here

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By *ACOLCouple
28 weeks ago

limerick

Well it is meant to be like that, without you knowing the calls the shots.

Lina.

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By *j47Man
28 weeks ago

limerick


"We were at a wedding where we also had a room upstairs, after the meal I received a message saying "I'm up stairs call up for a minute " when I went to the room keri was inside dress pulled up bent over and waiting, I took her from behind, she had no intention of cuming she just wanted my load, after I had finished she fixed herself up and headed back down,when I rejoined her she was sitting with her friends giving me the eye and a naughty smile, as in to say if they only knew, now that to me is a DLS in full control of the situation, and for being a good girl she was rewarded later that night "

Its the knowing looks that sdo it for me

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By *on Juan the MADridMan
28 weeks ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/

Everything is fine and exciting if the communication, consensus and consent are properly set up.

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