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By (user no longer on site) OP   
28 weeks ago

Hey all. Looking for someone’s opinion on a debate I’ve been having with someone in regards to threesomes. My point:

1. I feel it’s best done with 3 single people (not necessarily strangers), as jealousy or inadequacy could come into play if couples are involved.

But the other person is basically saying that they’d be more inclined to have a threesome if they were in a relationship as it’s a trust thing (where I’d see this as technically cheating).

Who, in your opinion would be “correct”, or is there even a right and wrong answer? Discuss (and everyone play nice )

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
28 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

There is no "correct" answer here. It's all down to the individuals (and the dynamics of the couple, if there is one) and how well they gel together.

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By *ogday2181Man
28 weeks ago

Dublin

Was literally about to give the same answer as this!! No correct answer.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
28 weeks ago

Naughty Lane


"There is no "correct" answer here. It's all down to the individuals (and the dynamics of the couple, if there is one) and how well they gel together."

This...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
28 weeks ago


"Hey all. Looking for someone’s opinion on a debate I’ve been having with someone in regards to threesomes. My point:

1. I feel it’s best done with 3 single people (not necessarily strangers), as jealousy or inadequacy could come into play if couples are involved.

But the other person is basically saying that they’d be more inclined to have a threesome if they were in a relationship as it’s a trust thing (where I’d see this as technically cheating).

Who, in your opinion would be “correct”, or is there even a right and wrong answer? Discuss (and everyone play nice )"

I should also add, which would YOU be more comfortable with if you were in the situation.

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By *electableicecreamMan
28 weeks ago

The West

Not sure why one would be better then the other.

Every experience is going to be situational and down to the chemistry and communication of all involved.

Why limit yourself?

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By *heBlowinsCouple
28 weeks ago

West Cork

Totally depends on the people involved! The best ones for us are us together with a 3rd

Zero jealousy- quite the opposite- we loooove to share our bed

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
28 weeks ago

The West

Definitely as a couple. Two single males in a MFM, unless they're very familiar with each, could be a mess!

Also, how do you consider a threesome cheating, on a swingers site?

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
28 weeks ago

South Down

I agree, every situation is unique.

From my own perspective, when in a couple our threesomes were plentiful, however as a single I've felt less inclined, mostly from a safety aspect but also because it's more difficult to organise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
28 weeks ago


"Definitely as a couple. Two single males in a MFM, unless they're very familiar with each, could be a mess!

Also, how do you consider a threesome cheating, on a swingers site?"

I’m not attached to this person in question. In my opinion, if I was in a relationship I wouldn’t be interested in a threesome as I’d feel as if we were cheating. Whereas if I’m single I’d have no commitment to anyone, so I can do it guilt free. Just my opinion on it.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
28 weeks ago

The West


"Definitely as a couple. Two single males in a MFM, unless they're very familiar with each, could be a mess!

Also, how do you consider a threesome cheating, on a swingers site?

I’m not attached to this person in question. In my opinion, if I was in a relationship I wouldn’t be interested in a threesome as I’d feel as if we were cheating. Whereas if I’m single I’d have no commitment to anyone, so I can do it guilt free. Just my opinion on it. "

OK, bit strange for a swingers site.

All sorts on here I suppose!

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By *ofusplusCouple
28 weeks ago

Limerick

Option 3: having a 3sum with a trusted partner? Isn't that the ultimate?

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
28 weeks ago

Belfast

There is no correct answer. Its situational and really how you feel at the time. Weve had a few threesomes as a couple. MFM, MFF and FMF. As long as there is chemistry and a connection with all involved we do not see that as cheating at all as we are doing it together. If i was to go off on my own to be a 3rd for someone else that could maybe be construed as cheating however we ourselves wouldnt see it as such. But hey its a swinging site. Share and share alike

Angel

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By *llthewaysMan
28 weeks ago

City centre/Naas


"There is no "correct" answer here. It's all down to the individuals (and the dynamics of the couple, if there is one) and how well they gel together."

100%, what works for one person might not work for others at all.

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By *insBadMan
28 weeks ago

& around


"Hey all. Looking for someone’s opinion on a debate I’ve been having with someone in regards to threesomes. My point:

1. I feel it’s best done with 3 single people (not necessarily strangers), as jealousy or inadequacy could come into play if couples are involved.

But the other person is basically saying that they’d be more inclined to have a threesome if they were in a relationship as it’s a trust thing (where I’d see this as technically cheating).

Who, in your opinion would be “correct”, or is there even a right and wrong answer? Discuss (and everyone play nice )"

Swinging might not be for you

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By *panishRebelMan
28 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

You prefer this

I prefer that

Give it a wiz

Take it out o the hat!

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By *ajRallying555Man
28 weeks ago

Galway .Limerick

I haven't done to many 3 sum all MFMs. But if couple or strangers. All were great

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