FabSwingers.com forum: How could I make my profile look better?

By (user no longer on site) OP
29 weeks ago

Hi everyone, I'm after making this forum post because I have a question. What can I do better with my profile? How can I make it look more attractive for people to look at and make it look like a more approachable profile. I'd love to be able to talk to more people on here and I think my profile might be holding that back.

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
29 weeks ago

kinda dublin

From what I've heard in previous threads like this. Get a pic of you in a suit, or just dressed sharp. And have that as your profile pic.

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By *ACOLCouple
28 weeks ago

limerick

Although this is a swingers site, your profile is mainly pics of your dick, maybe keep 1 dick pic or move them all to friends only and keep the one for the public more on what you do... but in a teasing way.

Maybe don't disclosed that you are a virgin yet? That would turned me away, although I know it might be a few people's kink, it also might mean drama... even if there is none.

Try adding abit more into your profile, do you like hiking, playing games or what is something you like doing.

21 might make you look too young for a suit, but have pics where you have clothes on.

Lina.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
28 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Agree as above. Your pics aren't helping you. Start from scratch with them. Take 1 new good dick pic. Take 1 underwear pic. Take 1 clothed pic. That's all you need. Work with angles and lighting to see what works best.

On the last thread you said you were going to try socials. How is that going for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Put some women in it...I'd like it more

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By *ACOLCouple
28 weeks ago

limerick

"Put some women in it...I'd like it more"

How? He has no experience, also don't just use women as bait.

Lina.

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By *chochamberWoman
28 weeks ago

Munster

Improve photos, take all the messy stuff out of the background, get sexy undies and pose a bit. Take a photo either in the shower all suds up or after with nice fresh glistening skin.

Think about what you can offer, and offer that.

Currently it's a no accommodation and no experience profile, switch that up to willing to pay for hotels and willing, eager and excited to learn and explore.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Put some women in it...I'd like it more

How? He has no experience, also don't just use women as bait.

Lina."

First...it was a joke as I'm not into dudes

Second...it was a joke. Welcome to the party

Third...I'm sure he has been with a girl before... surely.

I've seen plenty of women's profiles with Langer's coming in from stage left, pretty sure they weren't trying to bait other women with them.

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By *ACOLCouple
28 weeks ago

limerick

"Improve photos, take all the messy stuff out of the background, get sexy undies and pose a bit. Take a photo either in the shower all suds up or after with nice fresh glistening skin.

Think about what you can offer, and offer that.

Currently it's a no accommodation and no experience profile, switch that up to willing to pay for hotels and willing, eager and excited to learn and explore. "

Great advice!

Lina.

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By *om TangoMan
28 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Awful that no female or couples would offer to meet this young man for a coffee and give him some guidance and confidence to help him on his journey. The young man has been honest from his pass forum post and this one. Surely there has to be some kind heart person/people that would help this young man.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
28 weeks ago

South Down

"Awful that no female or couples would offer to meet this young man for a coffee and give him some guidance and confidence to help him on his journey. The young man has been honest from his pass forum post and this one. Surely there has to be some kind heart person/people that would help this young man."

Could a man not offer the same?

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By *ACOLCouple
28 weeks ago

limerick

This is sounding abit pushy not gonna lie.

Social is where he needs to go, can't push a person by guilt tripping them into meeting...

Lina.

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By *ACOLCouple
28 weeks ago

limerick

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By *ACOLCouple
28 weeks ago

limerick

Could a man not offer the same? "

Correct.

Lina.

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By *electableicecreamMan
28 weeks ago

The West

It's a bit naive to assume that someone giving him a veri is going to change anything about his situation except increasing both his expectations and his disappointment.

Getting verified doesn't get you laid. Being the person someone else is attracted to gets you laid.

OP the best advice is to make an effort. Be present and available and pro active be very patient.

And good luck

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By *affa31Woman
28 weeks ago

Galway

I don’t think you should be relying on changing up your profile to improve your chances.

Since you’ve already been active on the forum, your best bet is to stop posting threads asking how to get a meet and start engaging on the fun threads, show your personality, get to know people on here and make people want to meet you, even if it’s just for a coffee and a laugh.

If you’re free on the 26th and can come to cork, you’re more than welcome to attend my social. You’ll get verified there but also show people that you have the balls to get out and meet people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

Thanks for the response to the post. I'll definitely get rid of some of the dick pics and take some normal pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

I'll try that out thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

I should buy a suit a some stage

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

Ok I'll try a shower puc and see what that's like. I'll put in the stuff about hotels because I don't mind paying for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

You would be wrong. I've never been with a girl in any capacity

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

I was thinking about going to it but I'm working that day unfortunately. The few social meets I've seen on here that let unverified people can go to are all on days I'm working

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
28 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"I was thinking about going to it but I'm working that day unfortunately. The few social meets I've seen on here that let unverified people can go to are all on days I'm working

You're going to have to make some kind of effort if you're looking for things to change. Good luck!

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By *chochamberWoman
28 weeks ago

Munster

I meet unverified people for coffee all the time, I m not the only one. You need to be more pro active on Fab and possible in real life too.

You need to work on self reliance techniques.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

I want to go to some meets but the problem with work is I've only started in a new job and can't get most days off in the summer because other people on the shift have them booked off. I am keeping an eye fir socials that are on days that work for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

I'm messaging a lot of people on here and I usually end up getting left on read. I'm gonna try and be more active in some of the forums

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By *electableicecreamMan
28 weeks ago

The West

"I'm messaging a lot of people on here and I usually end up getting left on read. I'm gonna try and be more active in some of the forums"

Messaging is like pissing in the wind except the wind is a howling gale of ten thousand rabid penis's.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
28 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"I want to go to some meets but the problem with work is I've only started in a new job and can't get most days off in the summer because other people on the shift have them booked off. I am keeping an eye fir socials that are on days that work for me"

If you can't make socials then how are you gonna me able to meet anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Don't expect it to be easy.

Most of the ladies on here have a huge choice, as do the couples. Single horny guys are 300plus all the time. I can't really give you any advice except you get back what you give out.

Maybe get yourself a pair of Snickers work pants as for some reason they have the effect yoga pants have on men , on women.

Don't ever think someone has to respond to you, it's ladies night every night as it should be.

Go to a social meet some people, break into the clique and you'll be drowning in squirt in no time.

Good luck with it

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
28 weeks ago

City Centre, Dublin

If you think it’s awful that no woman or couple is meeting this young man, wait til you hear about the thousands of other men who aren’t getting meets either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

All I'm saying is I'm not able to book days off. I'm trying to find days that suit me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

I like that analogy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

Thanks

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By *electableicecreamMan
28 weeks ago

The West

"I like that analogy"

If you use the reply quite button then people will know who your are replying to

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By *electableicecreamMan
28 weeks ago

The West

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

"I like that analogy

If you use the reply quite button then people will know who your are replying to"

Ah shit, I thought I was pressing the reply one

My bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

Thanks everyone for being really nice. I appreciate everyone that got back to me.

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By *chochamberWoman
28 weeks ago

Munster

Awful, that you won't meet him, give him your guidance, be his wing man, get some action lined up for him, or offer to take it up the arse, so at least he could experience anal if he wished, or offer him a BJ, to get so e experience. Quite selfish of you in fact..... Just awful.... What's the world coming to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

Jesus lad I don't know where you were going with this at all. It seems like you're trying to guilt people on behalf of me. I don't like that at all. I only made this forum post to ask advice from people on my profile not guilt them into meeting me.

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By *ettaManMan
28 weeks ago

Kerry and Dublin

Delete it!

I'm joking. I didn't have a look at it and I'm in no position to be giving profile advice, I just couldn't resist the set-up.

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