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By *carlett! OP   Woman
30 weeks ago

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What does this term mean to you? How do you use it? I've heard various ways of it being used or inferred by others. Interested to know the general thinking on it.....

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By *eeking_sensuality77Woman
30 weeks ago

Athlone

If I were to use it it would be in the context of ending/drawing to a close a conversation I was having with someone here. I would expect it to be the same context of said to me too.

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By *eeking_sensuality77Woman
30 weeks ago

Athlone

*if

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I use it as a way to say goodbye at the end of a message, just as a goodbye kinda thing ..... starting to think my messages might be overly formal

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By *oshSardineMan
30 weeks ago

Castleknock

Used as a term of endearment to say a ‘thanks but no thanks’ see ya kinda thing.

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By *aseylee324Couple
30 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

It's a polite "fuck off"

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By *ethmeonfireMan
30 weeks ago

Dublin

Mostly use it to wish people the best of luck on the fab journey

Don’t like being rude to anyone

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By *affa31Woman
30 weeks ago

Galway


"It's a polite "fuck off""

Yup!

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By *ealitybitesMan
30 weeks ago

Belfast

It's a polite way of saying not interested

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By *ozzlesMan
30 weeks ago

galway

Ahhhhh now, what happened to please fuck off being a polite fuck off ? Happy fabbing means have a nice day, have fun, see ya later, good luck, enjoy yourself etc

You can tell I've had quiet a few Happy Fabbing replies and have chosen to interpret them as positively as possible

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
30 weeks ago

Cork


"It's a polite "fuck off"

Yup!"

Well fuck, I've used it just as a kind of good luck... now I feel bad

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By *s LollyWoman
30 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Its definitely my polite way of saying "fuck off and don't message me again"

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By *ubguy777Man
30 weeks ago

ffs,... and here was I thinking they were all being nice to me,.... hahaha x

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By *og-ManMan
30 weeks ago

somewhere

It definitely means no further messages or replies to this one needed

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By *ublinstud_MisstattooCouple
30 weeks ago

City Centre


"What does this term mean to you? How do you use it? I've heard various ways of it being used or inferred by others. Interested to know the general thinking on it..... "

Nice way of making sure they understand we aren't interested in most cases

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By *adger BrocMan
30 weeks ago

Co. Cork

It probably does mean " not interested in any further communication" to most fabbers but only means "f*ck off" when used by those who tend to resort to using such coarse language on a regular basis.

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By *ozzlesMan
30 weeks ago

galway


"It probably does mean " not interested in any further communication" to most fabbers but only means "f*ck off" when used by those who tend to resort to using such coarse language on a regular basis.

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That's me

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By *carlett! OP   Woman
30 weeks ago

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Good to see people's perspective. I've always used it to close down conversation after chatting for a bit. As in, good luck on here but nope, not for me lol Feels like nice way of ending chats. But some people use it differently & was curious about it all. Thanks for the reply's everyone xxx

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By *carlett! OP   Woman
30 weeks ago

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"It probably does mean " not interested in any further communication" to most fabbers but only means "f*ck off" when used by those who tend to resort to using such coarse language on a regular basis.

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Your reply feels a bit judgey. I dunno. I'm a bottle of Prosecco in so who knows lol but what's wrong with coarse language every now & then when needed?

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By *og-ManMan
30 weeks ago

somewhere


"It probably does mean " not interested in any further communication" to most fabbers but only means "f*ck off" when used by those who tend to resort to using such coarse language on a regular basis.

Your reply feels a bit judgey. I dunno. I'm a bottle of Prosecco in so who knows lol but what's wrong with coarse language every now & then when needed? "

A good fuck off can sometimes be the right words to use

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By *unFellaMan
30 weeks ago

Derry


"What does this term mean to you? How do you use it? I've heard various ways of it being used or inferred by others. Interested to know the general thinking on it..... "

Usually closer of a conversation. Like a pleasant good bye

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
30 weeks ago

ireland

Always took it to mean the end of conversation,no need to say anymore !

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By *carlett! OP   Woman
30 weeks ago

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By *carlett! OP   Woman
30 weeks ago

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"It probably does mean " not interested in any further communication" to most fabbers but only means "f*ck off" when used by those who tend to resort to using such coarse language on a regular basis.

Your reply feels a bit judgey. I dunno. I'm a bottle of Prosecco in so who knows lol but what's wrong with coarse language every now & then when needed?

A good fuck off can sometimes be the right words to use "

Sometimes it's definitely needed lol but try my best not to.

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By *adger BrocMan
30 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"It probably does mean " not interested in any further communication" to most fabbers but only means "f*ck off" when used by those who tend to resort to using such coarse language on a regular basis.

Your reply feels a bit judgey. I dunno. I'm a bottle of Prosecco in so who knows lol but what's wrong with coarse language every now & then when needed?

A good fuck off can sometimes be the right words to use

Sometimes it's definitely needed lol but try my best not to."

A bit like the idea that when you are explaining you are losing, I believe that when you have to resort to using profanities you are showing weakness in your ability to convince others of the correctness of your position through normal conversation.

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By *oshSardineMan
30 weeks ago

Castleknock


"It probably does mean " not interested in any further communication" to most fabbers but only means "f*ck off" when used by those who tend to resort to using such coarse language on a regular basis.

Your reply feels a bit judgey. I dunno. I'm a bottle of Prosecco in so who knows lol but what's wrong with coarse language every now & then when needed?

A good fuck off can sometimes be the right words to use

Sometimes it's definitely needed lol but try my best not to.

A bit like the idea that when you are explaining you are losing, I believe that when you have to resort to using profanities you are showing weakness in your ability to convince others of the correctness of your position through normal conversation. "

Sometimes, it’s necessary to use a profanity because it’s the only way to get your point across to someone who you’ve tried to get your point across to but they are like a dog with a bone and won’t let go at which stage, a profanity or profanities are the only thing that will make it cease.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
30 weeks ago

City Centre, Dublin


"What does this term mean to you? How do you use it? I've heard various ways of it being used or inferred by others. Interested to know the general thinking on it..... "

It’s the fab equivalent of the passive aggressive “have a nice day!”

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By *adhatter and coCouple
30 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

It means end of conversation

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By *uriousandkinky69Couple
30 weeks ago

Templepatrick

Can someone use it in context? I really don't understand lol

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By *adhatter and coCouple
30 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility


"Can someone use it in context? I really don't understand lol "

Thank you for your message but we are not meeting at the moment . Happy fabbing x

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By *uriousandkinky69Couple
30 weeks ago

Templepatrick

Thank you x

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By *ubadubdubWoman
30 weeks ago

Hereabouts


"It definitely means no further messages or replies to this one needed "

Yep.

It's a polite au revoir

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By *heBlowinsCouple
30 weeks ago

West Cork

I (Mr.) use it as a friendly goodbye- It's not a 'fuck off' for me- merely a 'we wish you well', or 'good luck on your (sexual) journey!'

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
30 weeks ago

South Down


"It definitely means no further messages or replies to this one needed "

I no longer use it but when I did it was in this context.

If I need to tell someone to fuck off, I use the phrase "fuck off you bastarding cunt"

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