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You look great... for your age

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By *osyRedLips OP   Woman
29 weeks ago

Kildare

I don't get that many messages these days because of filters and a extensive block list. But this week I got a couple of messages from guys saying I look great for my age and I didn't have the body of a 48 year old. I'm curious though what should a body look like at that age! They are meaning it as a compliment of sorts but I'm not ready to be sent out to pasture yet! As long as there's life in this old slut I'll be still in the Fab old folks home saying let me slip in my false teeth for the Gluck Gluck 9000 or maybe you prefer if I didn't slip them in

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Genuinely I think it's a compliment..though put across awkwardly especially younger lads. I mean it's a step up from "fine chassis on ya for the miles on the clock" but for what it'd worth I think they're saying you've got it in spades.

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By *ubcpl1611Couple
29 weeks ago

kildare

You look gorgeous nice body

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By *ilentnoiseMan
29 weeks ago

Belfast

I imagine it is meant with the best of intentions and as a compliment, but is clusmy use of language and/or a lack of awareness how such a comment may actually land.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
29 weeks ago

Cork

I have definitely done my fair share of failed compliments, as others said, it's probably not intentional.

If people's ages weren't shown on their accounts, I wonder how many would be accused of being 10 years younger or older.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago


"I don't get that many messages these days because of filters and a extensive block list. But this week I got a couple of messages from guys saying I look great for my age and I didn't have the body of a 48 year old. I'm curious though what should a body look like at that age! They are meaning it as a compliment of sorts but I'm not ready to be sent out to pasture yet! As long as there's life in this old slut I'll be still in the Fab old folks home saying let me slip in my false teeth for the Gluck Gluck 9000 or maybe you prefer if I didn't slip them in "

Hahaha i enjoyed this.

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By *aseylee324Couple
29 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Its a way of saying everyone but you is an old hag by that age. Boy are they in for a shock when they see my face

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By *ot so needyMan
29 weeks ago

Galway

As a girl said to me a couple of weeks age is just a number. If you are attracted it makes no difference.

But seriously you do look good for your age.lol

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By *ire1888Man
29 weeks ago

Dublin


"I don't get that many messages these days because of filters and a extensive block list. But this week I got a couple of messages from guys saying I look great for my age and I didn't have the body of a 48 year old. I'm curious though what should a body look like at that age! They are meaning it as a compliment of sorts but I'm not ready to be sent out to pasture yet! As long as there's life in this old slut I'll be still in the Fab old folks home saying let me slip in my false teeth for the Gluck Gluck 9000 or maybe you prefer if I didn't slip them in "
you have a fantastic body. You must look after yourself . But there is a lot of beautiful ladies here

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By *j47Man
29 weeks ago

limerick


"Its a way of saying everyone but you is an old hag by that age. Boy are they in for a shock when they see my face"

Face for radio is it

Mind you i fixed that by bringing 2 paper bags to meets

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By *j47Man
29 weeks ago

limerick


"I don't get that many messages these days because of filters and a extensive block list. But this week I got a couple of messages from guys saying I look great for my age and I didn't have the body of a 48 year old. I'm curious though what should a body look like at that age! They are meaning it as a compliment of sorts but I'm not ready to be sent out to pasture yet! As long as there's life in this old slut I'll be still in the Fab old folks home saying let me slip in my false teeth for the Gluck Gluck 9000 or maybe you prefer if I didn't slip them in "

Dont knock the fab nursing home McCarthy seems to get on alright there

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By *ot so needyMan
29 weeks ago

Galway


"I don't get that many messages these days because of filters and a extensive block list. But this week I got a couple of messages from guys saying I look great for my age and I didn't have the body of a 48 year old. I'm curious though what should a body look like at that age! They are meaning it as a compliment of sorts but I'm not ready to be sent out to pasture yet! As long as there's life in this old slut I'll be still in the Fab old folks home saying let me slip in my false teeth for the Gluck Gluck 9000 or maybe you prefer if I didn't slip them in you have a fantastic body. You must look after yourself . But there is a lot of beautiful ladies here "

Ah sure there all lovely ladies.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
29 weeks ago

South Down


"I imagine it is meant with the best of intentions and as a compliment, but is clusmy use of language and/or a lack of awareness how such a comment may actually land."

I agree it's often this, or schmoozing for the ride, or fear of words with historically negative connotations

I often get "don't put yourself down" because they've read the bit in my profile that says I'm a wee fat woman. When I tell them I'm not putting myself down that's usually met with "you're not fat, your gorgeous/hot/sexy". Ermmmm are the two things mutually exclusive? Can I not be both gorgeous/hot/sexy AND fat?

Now I'm on the verge of being old too - people's heads will explode when I add that to my profile

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By *og-ManMan
29 weeks ago

somewhere

@lipstick Kisses

How about gorgeous/hot/sexy AND fat cat lady

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago


"I imagine it is meant with the best of intentions and as a compliment, but is clusmy use of language and/or a lack of awareness how such a comment may actually land.

I agree it's often this, or schmoozing for the ride, or fear of words with historically negative connotations

I often get "don't put yourself down" because they've read the bit in my profile that says I'm a wee fat woman. When I tell them I'm not putting myself down that's usually met with "you're not fat, your gorgeous/hot/sexy". Ermmmm are the two things mutually exclusive? Can I not be both gorgeous/hot/sexy AND fat?

Now I'm on the verge of being old too - people's heads will explode when I add that to my profile

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So funny!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
29 weeks ago

Belfast

I get told I don't look my age and I often say I don't act my age but I'm not really sure how I'm supposed to look or act.

I read recently that half the actors playing nursing home residents in Cocoon were in their 40s and Clive Dunn was 48 when he played Corporal Jones in Dad's Army.

People in their 40s and 50s dressed older in previous generations so it's all relevant.

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By *og-ManMan
29 weeks ago

somewhere

Ive seen some fabbers on here and at socials recently who were in their 60's and I genuinely thought they looked amazing

Some people just lucky with their genes I suppose

But then again I'm 59 so maybe my brain is moving towards the older age group anyway

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By *aseylee324Couple
29 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows


"Ive seen some fabbers on here and at socials recently who were in their 60's and I genuinely thought they looked amazing

Some people just lucky with their genes I suppose

But then again I'm 59 so maybe my brain is moving towards the older age group anyway "

Remember how 60 was ancient when you were 20? It's still ancient to a 20 year old

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By *ACOLCouple
29 weeks ago

limerick


"I don't get that many messages these days because of filters and a extensive block list. But this week I got a couple of messages from guys saying I look great for my age and I didn't have the body of a 48 year old. I'm curious though what should a body look like at that age! They are meaning it as a compliment of sorts but I'm not ready to be sent out to pasture yet! As long as there's life in this old slut I'll be still in the Fab old folks home saying let me slip in my false teeth for the Gluck Gluck 9000 or maybe you prefer if I didn't slip them in "

You look great regardless of age...

I think men are fixated with age so much that most of those saying you look great for 48 are the ones who grow up watching TV in where adults had grau hair and so on...

Lina.

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By *electableicecreamMan
29 weeks ago

The West

You can leave those false teeth in the jar. I'll just pop this stiffy pill and we'll be done before the bridge game starts.

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By *hivers2020Woman
29 weeks ago

lolli land

I find it a bit of a back handed compliment. Much like “oh you look great, have you lost weight?” Like you can only look good if you loose weight, drives me mad

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
29 weeks ago

South Down


"@lipstick Kisses

How about gorgeous/hot/sexy AND fat cat lady "

Accurate

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By *oryou47Man
29 weeks ago

carlow


"Its a way of saying everyone but you is an old hag by that age. Boy are they in for a shock when they see my face"

I can put a bag over your face then

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By *chochamberWoman
29 weeks ago

Munster


"You can leave those false teeth in the jar. I'll just pop this stiffy pill and we'll be done before the bridge game starts."

Be still my beating heart

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By *ogladyWoman
29 weeks ago

The bog

I get a lot of I don't look my age..I just say it's the bog air has me well preserved..

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By *og-ManMan
29 weeks ago

somewhere

Im at the age where Horlicks means something that it didn't years ago

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By *adhatter and coCouple
29 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

I get these messages too ,The guys are trying to give a compliment , I take no heed of compliments unless given face to face

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By *carlett!Woman
29 weeks ago

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It always feels like a backhanded compliment, although I get that it's not meant to be one. Nice to "hear" none the less, lol but I get your apprehension. I'm with you, I'll be rocking it out in the nursing home too lol

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By *ensualandslow321Man
29 weeks ago

Tullamore


"I don't get that many messages these days because of filters and a extensive block list. But this week I got a couple of messages from guys saying I look great for my age and I didn't have the body of a 48 year old. I'm curious though what should a body look like at that age! They are meaning it as a compliment of sorts but I'm not ready to be sent out to pasture yet! As long as there's life in this old slut I'll be still in the Fab old folks home saying let me slip in my false teeth for the Gluck Gluck 9000 or maybe you prefer if I didn't slip them in "

Jasus aren't you luckly you're not my age what would they be saying then !!

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By *iscokidMan
29 weeks ago

Cork County

Met a lady this evening for coffee who turns 65 next week, looks great for her age and more mid 50s.

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By *astelloWoman
29 weeks ago

Far far away

Feck ... I've enough mileage to be classed as vintage.

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By *amesnplanesMan
29 weeks ago

Banbridge and Dublin

Age is but a number....

But I have vanilla friends that were bragging about a one night love session implying that my male friend considered he was one hell of a lover, until he discovered the lady had chronic asthma.

Alas, one female colleague then chimes in that she's deeply offended as her daughter has a chronic asthma condition which apparently has no resemblance to vigorous activities.

No digging their way out of that hole

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

The 90s were 30 years ago, they feel like 10 years ago. 50 back then was grandma style. 50 now looks better than 30 did then .

You should take it as a compliment.

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