FabSwingers.com forum: I feel blue :o(

By *each_Pitt OP Woman
27 weeks ago

Belfast

Just putting it out there in the hope it might dissipate.

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By *carlett!Woman
27 weeks ago

Sorry to hear. A problem shared is a problem halved. Hope you're feeling ok soon.

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By *each_Pitt OP Woman
27 weeks ago

Belfast

Or doubled ...

If I'm honest all my problems are tiny and I need to have a word with myself. My main thing is I have literally nobody I can turn to for support and today it hurts my heart

Ty for acknowledging me tho it's very much appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"Or doubled ...

If I'm honest all my problems are tiny and I need to have a word with myself. My main thing is I have literally nobody I can turn to for support and today it hurts my heart

Ty for acknowledging me tho it's very much appreciated xx"

If you ever need to sound off or just chat feel free to mail me . We all go through them times

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By *each_Pitt OP Woman
27 weeks ago

Belfast

Ty so much that's very kind xx

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By *eeeeMan
27 weeks ago

tralee

Every one needs some 1vto talk to once in awhile

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By *oshSardineMan
27 weeks ago

Castleknock

If you want a chat or to scream, drop me a mail Peach. It’s good to talk, even if it’s just writing your feelings or thoughts down. I hope things improve for you with time.

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By *ozzlesMan
27 weeks ago

galway

There's a definite gap in the market somewhere between the Speaking Clock and the Samaritans

Somewhere all of us lonely singles could have a chat and a laugh with another human for a few minutes when you hit those bad days where it all seems just a little bit shite.

Hope you're feeling better soon

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By *og-ManMan
27 weeks ago

somewhere

You can also make a call to your local Samaritans to have a chat if you want

That's what they are there for and they can listen

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By *ozzlesMan
27 weeks ago

galway

"You can also make a call to your local Samaritans to have a chat if you want

That's what they are there for and they can listen "

Not needed by me fortunately but I appreciate the sentiment. I was trying to empathize with the OP.

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By *ogday2181Man
27 weeks ago

Dublin

Hi Peach,

Well done for putting it out there, that suggests it wouldn't get too far before you do ask for help.

In my experience, even the loneliest person normally has someone somewhere to reach out to, it doesn't have to be a bestie.

I'd bet there are people in your who you might unknowingly be pushing away as that's how feeling down can work. We push people away when feeling low and then feel bad when their not there.

I currently use the EAP service in my job and would recommend it to anyone who has this as an option.

I genuinely hope you're ok and my PM is always open to anyone who needs a chat.

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By *each_Pitt OP Woman
27 weeks ago

Belfast

Thankyou all for your kind words

The EAP in my work gets good reports and might actually be worth looking into

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By *ogday2181Man
27 weeks ago

Dublin

"Thankyou all for your kind words

The EAP in my work gets good reports and might actually be worth looking into

Definitely is!! IMO everyone should do counselling at some stage. Take the taboo away its just talking. You can say stuff without fear of judgement by anyone in your life.

What have you got to lose?

If it doesn't work you've learned something. It might even spur you in to try something else.

Things in your head can spiral. When said out loud to someone they take on a whole new meaning and you can bring the logic back into the thought process.

You'll be OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Sunbathe naked!

It cures most things!

Hope the clouds lift soon

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By *lay rock69Man
27 weeks ago

monaghan

Sorry to hear that op here if I can help in any way x

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
27 weeks ago

Portstewart

Op please feel free to get in touch if you need to vent about anything or just chat and no this isn't some kind of ploy just wanted to say that sometimes we all need to vent so that things can be solved

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By *each_Pitt OP Woman
27 weeks ago

Belfast

Ty so much

My problems are really not problems in the greater scheme

I'm too sensitive and had a really bad day. Hope the sun will shine tomorrow and brighten me right up xx

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By *eeeeMan
27 weeks ago

tralee

The sun is supposed to shine alright

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
27 weeks ago

ireland

Feel better soon OP ,reach out and talk to someone !

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By *og-ManMan
27 weeks ago

somewhere

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By *og-ManMan
27 weeks ago

somewhere

Whats The EaP in work...what does it mean...sorry never heard of it

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By *indenMan
27 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Hopefully brighter days are coming OP, literally and metaphorically.

There’s always someone out there, even if it’s a completely stranger…….

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By *ogday2181Man
27 weeks ago

Dublin

"Whats The EaP in work...what does it mean...sorry never heard of it"

Employee assistance program.

It could be access to a free counsellor(6 free seszions) to different types of help or advice.

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