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"I don't even know what some of the terms mean if I'm being honest .....yet I was clever enough to get a feckin tracker mortgage " I'm sure you coild find a way to include the tracker on your profile.... | |||
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"In the Fet community, labels are important to them. And those labels seem to define them. In swinging, it's actually quite vanilla( that's the first time I've said that, I've gone too far down the rabbit hole). Take the word Dom. I don't like to use it, suggestions of domineering, non concensual, aggressive. I'd use the word confident and assertive to describe myself. Alas, that's not a fetish. " I am part of the Fet community, and I am Madochist Submissive. I enjoy pain as part of play. I’ve always been sexually submissive. I can’t change who I am. I don’t switch. My partner is a Dom- but he is never ever aggressive. He give me what I need. It is always with consent. I have never met a Dom who is aggressive to me. What you have described for being Dom is completely incorrect. A true Dom always respects their sub. I choose who I submit to, and with one word it all ends. | |||
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"I don't even know what some of the terms mean if I'm being honest .....yet I was clever enough to get a feckin tracker mortgage " Were you clever enough not to be still on a tracker though? I don't understand many of the labels but I can see a value in them. There's comfort in conformity even if the conforming is with other non conformist. It's far easier to say I'm a DDT ( for the uninitiated that's disappearing danish toys) than say I like to have pieces of Lego shoved up my Jacksie | |||
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"In the Fet community, labels are important to them. And those labels seem to define them. In swinging, it's actually quite vanilla( that's the first time I've said that, I've gone too far down the rabbit hole). Take the word Dom. I don't like to use it, suggestions of domineering, non concensual, aggressive. I'd use the word confident and assertive to describe myself. Alas, that's not a fetish. I am part of the Fet community, and I am Madochist Submissive. I enjoy pain as part of play. I’ve always been sexually submissive. I can’t change who I am. I don’t switch. My partner is a Dom- but he is never ever aggressive. He give me what I need. It is always with consent. I have never met a Dom who is aggressive to me. What you have described for being Dom is completely incorrect. A true Dom always respects their sub. I choose who I submit to, and with one word it all ends. " But I'm sure there is more to you than just "Madochist Submissive" right? That doesn't fully describe every aspect of you. I've had the displeasure of meeting a few aggressive Dom's unfortunately, and SA and physical/mental abuse is far from unheard of in that community. There are good and bad the same as everywhere else. Unfortunately the opportunity for abuse is clearly quite wide here. | |||
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