FabSwingers.com forum: Is it wrong to describe yourself as attractive

By *ove2please23 OP Man
42 weeks ago

Dublin

Wondering if if describing myself in first message by saying i consider myself attractive as being arrogant or cocky

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By *ot so needyMan
42 weeks ago

Galway

"Wondering if if describing myself in first message by saying i consider myself attractive as being arrogant or cocky"

Not at all you are beautiful .

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By *ogladyWoman
42 weeks ago

The bog

"Wondering if if describing myself in first message by saying i consider myself attractive as being arrogant or cocky"

Well ya are attractive so it only being truthful..

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By *eardedDeviantMan
42 weeks ago

Glasgow / Newcastle / Villamart

"Wondering if if describing myself in first message by saying i consider myself attractive as being arrogant or cocky"

When I was young I would never have, now I have the confidence and experience to know I am, at least to some people lol

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By *ofusplusCouple
42 weeks ago

Limerick

Underpromise and overdeliver always

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By *apri 555Man
42 weeks ago

wexford or Dublin

"Underpromise and overdeliver always

This

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By *ove2please23 OP Man
42 weeks ago

Dublin

"Wondering if if describing myself in first message by saying i consider myself attractive as being arrogant or cocky

Well ya are attractive so it only being truthful.."

Well thank you very much i can gladly say the same you look beautiful

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By *ove2please23 OP Man
42 weeks ago

Dublin

Thanks for the replys i was thinking that i come across wrong because of it as unsuccessful here to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Been called RUGELEY ATTRACTIVE.

I CAN LIVE WITH THST

can finndv damn gleess

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I suppose if you are severely deformed and ring bells shouting Esmeralda, maybe then it would be bad. In saying that if you put some lingerie on, someone here would fuck you.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
42 weeks ago

There and Here

I don't think so OP. It's certainly not something that offends me

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
42 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

It's not wrong, unless it's wrong, in which care it's definitely wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, it's all subjective, but it's good to have self esteem and to feel positive about yourself. I quite like self assuredness.

Excessive modesty can be annoying.

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By *ealmc1973Man
42 weeks ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

I am old, I am fat, I am bald, I am ugly as feck...

To call myself attractive requires proper dose of courage and whiskey

Seriously though: '...I consider myself to be good team player, considerate, attractive and educated. I can converse on any topic with ease and my dick is the size of omnibus..' Those lines belong to job application, or not?

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By *aseylee324Couple
42 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Wrong? No, so long as you're not using it to put others down. Confidence is attractive, arrogance is not.

It's also worth remembering that beauty is subjective, and other aspects of a person besides physical appearance play into how attractive they are to someone else

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By *exyScientistsCouple
42 weeks ago

Castlebar

Everyone is attractive to someone...

Although beautiful people can be unattractive because of their personality. And vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

It would definitely be wrong to describe me as attractive...I prefer "well worn but enthusiastic"

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I am extremely attractive and I tell everyone. Not that they need telling.

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By *ogday2181Man
42 weeks ago

Dublin

Fine line between confidence and arrogance. Just try not be a cunt!!

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By *astelloWoman
42 weeks ago

Far far away

Definitely in the eye of the beholder.

Ive met self confessed hotties but beauty is only skin deep and personality can be awful. Having said that, being attracted to someone can be based on a wide range of atrributes.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
42 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

You can call yourself whatever you want

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By *adhatter and coCouple
42 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Attractive is not a word I’d use for a man tbh

Handsome , good looking yes attractive no

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By *elle111Woman
42 weeks ago

"Underpromise and overdeliver always

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absolutely.

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By *ofusplusCouple
42 weeks ago

Limerick

"Definitely in the eye of the beholder.

Ive met self confessed hotties but beauty is only skin deep and personality can be awful. Having said that, being attracted to someone can be based on a wide range of atrributes. "

Agree with this

This is exactly why face pics mean very little to us in themselves.

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By *ardyboy54321Man
42 weeks ago

Fermanagh

My mirror tells me every morning "Hardy you look shit hot today " so it must be true

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By *rakesterlingMan
42 weeks ago

Dublin

I scream in horror every morning in the bathroom when I wash my hands, and look up beyond the toothbrushes, toothpastes, and various personal hygiene items strewn on the shelf above it.

That's how attractive I am.

Stuff of nightmares.

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By *3nsesMan
42 weeks ago

Dublin

I wouldnt necessarily say its arrogant or cocky, but I do wonder "what's the point?" of self describing your looks when the other person is going to do that anyway once they see what you look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I think a large percentage of attractiveness is grooming. If you are well groomed and maintain a healthy body and mind, that in itself is physically attractive. After that, share a pic and let the viewer decide themselves. It's all just subjective opinion anyway, there is no tight or wrong.

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By *om TangoMan
42 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I wouldn’t call myself attractive. I’ve been told I’m a fairly handsome gentleman. Think I’d much rather the title gentleman man over attractive. Maybe it’s just me but I’m more into lady’s that can have banter and openness more over her looks. Personality is what draws me more to a person. If you can hold a conversation, not judgemental and enjoy the craic I’m interested.

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
42 weeks ago

Waterford

"Wondering if if describing myself in first message by saying i consider myself attractive as being arrogant or cocky"

It might be deluded but it's not wrong

By the way do I need to say this is just a smart arse general comment and not a critique of the posters pics.

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By *uckitfuckitCouple
42 weeks ago

everywhere

We had couples telling us they were classed as good looking they didn't tell us their mammies were the ones to tell them

Moral of the story only meet people who send face pic

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