FabSwingers.com forum: Baby Reindeer

By *ikey2022Eire OP Man
44 weeks ago

Clare

Anyone seen this yet on Netflix.

I wonder if fab has any baby reindeer stories, I've no doubt it does.

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
44 weeks ago

kinda dublin

Just finished the series last night.

Great show, very gruesome.

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By *ungry CatCouple
44 weeks ago

Belfast

It was quite disturbing, but very gripping

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By *ogday2181Man
44 weeks ago

Dublin

I'll have to give this a go.

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
44 weeks ago

Cork

Mental stuff.

I just read that the actor who plays the lead is the actual victim in real life telling his own story

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By *!nksgirlWoman
44 weeks ago

IRELAND

"Anyone seen this yet on Netflix.

I wonder if fab has any baby reindeer stories, I've no doubt it does."

I started episode 1 then turned it off as it was just annoying...should I go back to it? Stick with it?

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
44 weeks ago

kinda dublin

"Mental stuff.

I just read that the actor who plays the lead is the actual victim in real life telling his own story

Jesus, how did he actually manage to act out those scenes again?!

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
44 weeks ago

There and Here

"Mental stuff.

I just read that the actor who plays the lead is the actual victim in real life telling his own story

Jesus, how did he actually manage to act out those scenes again?!"

It was based on his own experience with a stalker rather than an actual true story, however all the emails etc were real. He'd already ran it as a play.

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By *ealitybitesMan
44 weeks ago

Belfast

"Anyone seen this yet on Netflix.

I wonder if fab has any baby reindeer stories, I've no doubt it does."

I know men and women through fab who have had experiences with stalkers and I have a non fab related experience so it's not uncommon.

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
44 weeks ago

kinda dublin

"Anyone seen this yet on Netflix.

I wonder if fab has any baby reindeer stories, I've no doubt it does.

I know men and women through fab who have had experiences with stalkers and I have a non fab related experience so it's not uncommon. "

I (Mr) had a stalker ex before. She dedicated her life to setting up fake accounts, harassing any girl I had contact with on FB/Fab. Spewing the same sort of vile diarrhoea to them as in that show, trying to destroy their lives.

I met 3 other girls who were going through the exact same experience cuz their boyfriend briefly dated her at one point.

She denied it was her, but it coincidently all stopped the day she was sectioned.

Awful experience altogether, I wouldn't recommend it.

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By *ealitybitesMan
44 weeks ago

Belfast

"Anyone seen this yet on Netflix.

I wonder if fab has any baby reindeer stories, I've no doubt it does.

I know men and women through fab who have had experiences with stalkers and I have a non fab related experience so it's not uncommon.

I met 3 other girls who were going through the exact same experience cuz their boyfriend briefly dated her at one point.

She denied it was her, but it coincidently all stopped the day she was sectioned.

Awful experience altogether, I wouldn't recommend it."

All very similar to my friends experiences and in one case I got dragged in because the stalker tried to poison our friendship with lies and threatening to contact all my verifications with "the truth".

Neither woman had met each other and the only link was that they both shared an ex from many years before.

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By *reenfrogoMan
44 weeks ago

nearby

Its a hard watch

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Just watched first 3 episodes I can see why people are calling it gruesome

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By *each_PittWoman
44 weeks ago

Belfast

Really enjoyed the 1st few episodes but the end was a bit disturbing

Maybe some of you 1s will get my newest pic which I thought was hilarious

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By *rishguy81Man
44 weeks ago

South Dublin

Sent from my iPhone

Get chills reading that now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Really enjoyed the 1st few episodes but the end was a bit disturbing

Maybe some of you 1s will get my newest pic which I thought was hilarious

Omg that's so funny

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By *og-ManMan
44 weeks ago

somewhere

Have watched the first 3 so far

So many questions but will hold off so not to spoil

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By *ikey2022Eire OP Man
44 weeks ago

Clare

Tough watch people, 4 episodes in.

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
44 weeks ago

kinda dublin

Ye should look up the show's creator Richard Gadd on Youtube. That awful comedy routine in the show, was his exact routine when he started out. Exact same jokes and stupid dancing.

Sent frm my ipheon

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By *eductivepiercingsWoman
44 weeks ago

louth

Its absolute garbage! guy hasn't got a single ounce of balls in his body. A prime example of how far men have fallen into being feminine in society.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
44 weeks ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

"Its absolute garbage! guy hasn't got a single ounce of balls in his body. A prime example of how far men have fallen into being feminine in society.

You’re def a fella pretending to be a ladies account

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By *og-ManMan
44 weeks ago

somewhere

"Its absolute garbage! guy hasn't got a single ounce of balls in his body. A prime example of how far men have fallen into being feminine in society.

Sent from my iphone

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By *ustBoWoman
44 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've watched a few episodes and just can't get my head around the mentality of either of them to be honest.

She is just completely obsessive and obviously lying from the very start and he had a few opportunities to put a stop to it and didn't. I find it all very strange. I don't even know if it's worth finishing the series as I find it so twisted.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
44 weeks ago

City Centre

I thought it was brilliantly done. It certainly made me question my understanding of mental health issues and how it engulfs the abused, the abusers and ripples outward to family, friends and lovers. And how I questioned in the past the reasoning of those who have stayed in abusive relationships or went back to them or those who experienced abuse and how it went full cycle later in life. The theatre monologue was something else. Superbly written.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
44 weeks ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

If I’m totally honest I don’t think it was good, it was a brutal, tough watch at times and I didn’t enjoy it. Not sure if it’s shedding a light on mental illness and how the lines blur between the abuser and the abused or it’s just a perfect example of traumaporn and the commodification of suffering.

This is just my interpretation and it’s not absolute but it’s my thoughts at the time, happy to amicably discuss

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By *eductivepiercingsWoman
44 weeks ago

louth

"Its absolute garbage! guy hasn't got a single ounce of balls in his body. A prime example of how far men have fallen into being feminine in society.

You’re def a fella pretending to be a ladies account "

lol then little man you can watch me on cams in a few minutes

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
44 weeks ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

"Its absolute garbage! guy hasn't got a single ounce of balls in his body. A prime example of how far men have fallen into being feminine in society.

You’re def a fella pretending to be a ladies account

lol then little man you can watch me on cams in a few minutes "

I shan’t watch it out of basic principle

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By *ublinstud_MisstattooCouple
44 weeks ago

City Centre

It's actually pretty good shocked

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By *ozzlesMan
44 weeks ago

galway

I thought it was uncomfortable viewing. It's certainly not entertaining but it is thought provoking and well acted.

I may just start recording everything from now on

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
44 weeks ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

I think there’s actually an episode of black mirror on Netflix basically pointing out people making shows about terrible things that happened purely to satisfy viewers hunger for trauma and get a heap of streams

Kinda felt that was what was going on here

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By *eductivepiercingsWoman
44 weeks ago

louth

"Its absolute garbage! guy hasn't got a single ounce of balls in his body. A prime example of how far men have fallen into being feminine in society.

You’re def a fella pretending to be a ladies account

lol then little man you can watch me on cams in a few minutes

I shan’t watch it out of basic principle"

child

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By *eehornyWoman
44 weeks ago

Mayo

"I thought it was brilliantly done. It certainly made me question my understanding of mental health issues and how it engulfs the abused, the abusers and ripples outward to family, friends and lovers. And how I questioned in the past the reasoning of those who have stayed in abusive relationships or went back to them or those who experienced abuse and how it went full cycle later in life. The theatre monologue was something else. Superbly written."

Exactly this... its like Stockhom syndrome.

No one knows how they would react until they are in the situation and then it's just a fight for survival and sanity

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
43 weeks ago

Cork

Good show, but very taught provoking with a few good twists too. It reminded me a bit of a podcast I listened to before called the witness where at the the 1st episode I had a view in my head of the people involved by the end of this and the podcast my view had totally changed 360. I'd highly recommend both.

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By *ffairofthemindMan
43 weeks ago

Real engaging watch, proper rollercoaster stuff and hugely thought provoking. The fact there is an element of truth to the whole thing makes it even mpre mindblowing

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
43 weeks ago

There and Here

"I've watched a few episodes and just can't get my head around the mentality of either of them to be honest.

Definitely finish it Bo as it'll go on to explain why he didn't try to stop it sooner

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
43 weeks ago

outside Strabane

Absolutely mental... And to think is a true story.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
43 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

"Really enjoyed the 1st few episodes but the end was a bit disturbing

Maybe some of you 1s will get my newest pic which I thought was hilarious

PP I saw this earlier this week and thought it was brilliant

As for the show, well it's just crazy. It's a difficult watch but compelling. I had to finish it but still thinking about it now days after

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By *rishguy81Man
43 weeks ago

South Dublin

Well said, it's great to highlight how abuse is so damaging. We need more of this type of understanding in society.

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By *rishguy81Man
43 weeks ago

South Dublin

"Its absolute garbage! guy hasn't got a single ounce of balls in his body. A prime example of how far men have fallen into being feminine in society.

So you're saying that men should be men, shut up and take the abuse..?

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By *ealitybitesMan
43 weeks ago

Belfast

I'm 3 episodes in and tbh don't find it any more shocking or distributing than many other shows.

Unfortunately it's all too familiar though.

The stalking part is something I have experience of but to a much lesser degree.

The back story though is very similar to something a family member went through 25 years ago when someone he was in a relationship with was spinning tales about her extremely important and secretive job and her close relationship with many household names.

She bought property and involved numerous tradespeople, estate agents, bank managers and a solicitor in a scam which involved hundreds of thousands of pounds.

I became the spanner in the works because she accidentally name dropped people I knew extremely well and that rang alarm bells.

I put two and two together and joined the dots and made everyone aware it was all a con.

It had been going on for 6 months but unravelled in the space of a few days.

The figures I had uncovered were only half of what was really going on once the police got involved.

She was never prosecuted because she had been sectioned a few years before and it all fell under the MH umbrella but somehow she was able to run for election as a local councillor the following year.

She was removed from the ballot when all the people she had scammed got involved.

That experience left me very cynical about people using MH as an excuse for their actions and nothing has surprised me since.

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By *udding RoseWoman
43 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

I've just finished watching episode 4, that was really fucked up....

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By *udding RoseWoman
43 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

Finished watching it, it was gruesome to say the least.... I do have one question though .... Why didn't he get justice against the guy that r*ped him, it doesn't make any sense....

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
43 weeks ago

kinda dublin

"Its absolute garbage! guy hasn't got a single ounce of balls in his body. A prime example of how far men have fallen into being feminine in society.

This Andrew Tate narrative that bigots seem to be throwing about, that men have fallen into being feminine these days is pure nonsense.

Would you rather young lads these days acted like the when you were growing up in the 80s?

Elton John,Freddie Mercury, Bowie, Boy George? Even the rock stars all had long beautiful hair, covered in makeup and nail polish, prancing around stage in glitter and tight pants.

If anything, men in society have become unattainably masculine. Every male star these days seems to be some pumped up strong Marvel type beefcake.

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
43 weeks ago

kinda dublin

"I'm 3 episodes in and tbh don't find it any more shocking or distributing than many other shows... "

Wait till you get to episode 4.

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By *ealitybitesMan
43 weeks ago

Belfast

"I'm 3 episodes in and tbh don't find it any more shocking or distributing than many other shows...

Wait till you get to episode 4."

I'm on the last episode and can honestly say I won't give it another thought once it's finished.

Martha is a carbon copy of the woman I described above in the way she looks and speaks.

They could literally be the same person.

Unfortunately I've seen so much shit in my life that I'm numb to it all and haven't seen anything in this that hasn't been covered before or that will leave a lasting impression.

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By *og-ManMan
43 weeks ago

somewhere

Finished it tonight

Horrible experience for the guy to go through in fairness

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By *udding RoseWoman
43 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"Finished it tonight

Horrible experience for the guy to go through in fairness "

It was pretty horrendous alright, the guy manipulated him with all the drugs he gave him and then that girl turned into a nightmare, was glad he got justice against her but the guy deserved to be sent to jail and the key thrown out!!

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By *ubblebutt.69Woman
43 weeks ago

nottingham

I have a female like this now who my self and husband played with as a 3 way & she will literally read my verification and them msg said profile and under different fab accounts just to tell then shes played with me …

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Anyone seen this yet on Netflix.

I wonder if fab has any baby reindeer stories, I've no doubt it does."
it's crazy especially because based on real life it happened lead actor

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By *oni-massage-guyMan
43 weeks ago

Fareham

"Its absolute garbage! guy hasn't got a single ounce of balls in his body. A prime example of how far men have fallen into being feminine in society.

Martha????

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By *irdnBorisMan
43 weeks ago

meath

Started watching it last nite and im hooked on it its a good watch so far

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
43 weeks ago

Lucan

I watched it a couple of weeks ago and lived it. I really really wanted to box him a couple of times all the same.

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By *udding RoseWoman
43 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"I watched it a couple of weeks ago and lived it. I really really wanted to box him a couple of times all the same. "

He should have reported it sooner alright!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
43 weeks ago

Lucan

"I watched it a couple of weeks ago and lived it. I really really wanted to box him a couple of times all the same.

He should have reported it sooner alright! "

There's a few things but I don't want to spoil anything

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By *ceryMan
43 weeks ago

Malahide & Waterford

Gee ... and here was I thinking here's a bunch of nature loving Fab people about to talk about their deer experience in Killarney National Park

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By *udding RoseWoman
43 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"Gee ... and here was I thinking here's a bunch of nature loving Fab people about to talk about their deer experience in Killarney National Park

No, far from it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Watched a few episodes but I was getting annoyed so I'm not watching anymore.

He didn't seem to help himself get out of bad situations. Maybe because I haven't watched it all I'm not fully understanding it though.

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By *rishhotwifeyCouple
42 weeks ago

dublin

That’s a trauma response people deal with trauma differently. Keep watching though.

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By *irdnBorisMan
42 weeks ago

meath

Was a good watch apart from gruesome bit but u have to watch it for yourself true story too

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By *og-ManMan
42 weeks ago

somewhere

Reading a lot about the real woman involved as she's now named

She's a fruitcake not the victim as she's claiming

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