FabSwingers.com forum: Unobtainable

By *ildmovement OP Man
46 weeks ago

south Central

Was chatting someone this week about, without knowing someone character wise as that takes time, what initially attracts you to someone across a room or in a crowd that you are in.

An interesting answer was if someone seemed unobtainable.

I presume that is like a challenge and that can be exciting.

What’s yours go too feature of attraction of someone fully clothed in your eye line that makes you go hmmmm, maybe!

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By *ealitybitesMan
46 weeks ago

Belfast

If they smile back at me or aren't playing the room.

If someone gave off a sense of being unattainable they would remain unattained as far as I'm concerned.

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By *ildmovement OP Man
46 weeks ago

south Central

Yea a great smile is very attractive, and if it’s accompanied by a genuine hearty laugh then it’s a good sign that the person is fun and can enjoy life.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
46 weeks ago

There and Here

A tall, good looking, mature man with a great body would probably initially pique my interest, but it's how he holds himself and interacts with others that would make my gaze linger longer - a casual confidence, an easy smile, and a genuine interest in those he's with

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By *ofusplusCouple
46 weeks ago

Limerick

"A tall, good looking, mature man with a great body would probably initially pique my interest, but it's how he holds himself and interacts with others that would make my gaze linger longer - a casual confidence, an easy smile, and a genuine interest in those he's with"

Yes to all of the above! A guy who is just himself, is interested in, and enjoys interacting with others is quite attractive

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By *avon1981Man
46 weeks ago

Letterkenny

A lady who replies or a couple who are engaged and chat is super attractive. It's hard to find sometimes in here and other places but if you meet one it's explosive.

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By *og-ManMan
46 weeks ago

somewhere

Its when you take a sneaky glance and you catch each others eye for a split second too long so go for the walk over to say hello

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By *adger BrocMan
46 weeks ago

Co. Cork

You cannot achieve the unachievable.

You cannot deny the undeniable.

You cannot fathom the unfathomable.

And you can never obtain the unobtainable.

Know your limits.

Play to your strengths.

Seize the moment.

Live your best life and you will have obtained everything that is due to you.

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By *ildmovement OP Man
46 weeks ago

south Central

It’s a confidence thing about been comfortable in your own skin and with the company you keep.

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By *ildmovement OP Man
46 weeks ago

south Central

It doesn’t happen often but when it does it feels so good.

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By *ozzlesMan
46 weeks ago

galway

Its in the eyes for me, a glimpse of promised intelligence, humour, spirit and a positive energy. I can admire physical beauty but I'm attracted to spirit.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Confident, polite, pleasant not manic, independent, healthy body, healthy mind. Mostly I love when someone can focus, focus on me, focus on the moment.

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By *udding RoseWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

Good conversation, a lovely smile, knows how to woo a woman!!!

I like a guy who is happy in their own skin, who can just be themselves!! I'm not a smiler so if a guy makes me smile that's a big thing for me!!

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By *udding RoseWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"Good conversation, a lovely smile, knows how to woo a woman!!!

I like a guy who is happy in their own skin, who can just be themselves!! I'm not a smiler so if a guy makes me smile that's a big thing for me!!

Sorry I forgot to mention what attracts me to a guy..... It's the smile, a natural smile that tells me they are happy, confident. I do like a nice bum but the smile is the main thing for me and his approach from the moment he walks over to me to how he communicates with me..... body language tells a lot!!

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By *ildmovement OP Man
46 weeks ago

south Central

Yes men’s bums do seem to come up a lot when I’m talking to females about their attraction to men

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By *udding RoseWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"Yes men’s bums do seem to come up a lot when I’m talking to females about their attraction to men

The smile is better though!!

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By *ildmovement OP Man
46 weeks ago

south Central

"Yes men’s bums do seem to come up a lot when I’m talking to females about their attraction to men

The smile is better though!!

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if it has a good ass attached to it

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By *udding RoseWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"Yes men’s bums do seem to come up a lot when I’m talking to females about their attraction to men

The smile is better though!!

if it has a good ass attached to it

Ha ha the guys like to look at a girls boobs, us girls like to look at bums or legs!! What can I say but the smile and personality wins!!

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By *exyScientistsCouple
46 weeks ago

Castlebar

Confidence is attractive and stands out in a room...often accompanied with the person looking and smelling good, making good eye contact

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By *ot so needyMan
46 weeks ago

Galway

If someone thinks they are unobtainable. I think they should stay that way.A big ego is a big turnoff to me.

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By *electableicecreamMan
46 weeks ago

The West

Boobs.

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By *adger BrocMan
46 weeks ago

Co. Cork

"Yes men’s bums do seem to come up a lot when I’m talking to females about their attraction to men

The smile is better though!!

if it has a good ass attached to it

Ha ha the guys like to look at a girls boobs, us girls like to look at bums or legs!! What can I say but the smile and personality wins!!

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Remind me not to walk ahead of you on our next fab hike....

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By *udding RoseWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"Yes men’s bums do seem to come up a lot when I’m talking to females about their attraction to men

The smile is better though!!

if it has a good ass attached to it

Ha ha the guys like to look at a girls boobs, us girls like to look at bums or legs!! What can I say but the smile and personality wins!!

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Remind me not to walk ahead of you on our next fab hike...."

Walk like an Egyptian!!!

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By *ildmovement OP Man
46 weeks ago

south Central

"If someone thinks they are unobtainable. I think they should stay that way.A big ego is a big turnoff to me."

I don’t think it’s about them thinking it about themselves, it about the person looking at them thinking they are. That may be an even more confusing explanation

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By *affa31Woman
46 weeks ago

Galway

If we’re talking about a social/m&g, it would be someone who makes the effort to chat to lots of people, even people they’re not sexually interested in. A guy that’s having a laugh with people rather than on the prowl. They’re the guys that I hope one of us will catch the other giving a lingering glance and a little smile.

Obviously a good beard helps

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By *udding RoseWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"If we’re talking about a social/m&g, it would be someone who makes the effort to chat to lots of people, even people they’re not sexually interested in. A guy that’s having a laugh with people rather than on the prowl. They’re the guys that I hope one of us will catch the other giving a lingering glance and a little smile.

Obviously a good beard helps

Beards are nice, some people really suit their beard!!!

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By *adger BrocMan
46 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Sometimes a nicely trimmed beard, good conversationalist, polite, and reasonably ok looking still doesn't do it.

Some people make up their minds that you are not their cup of tea without ever actually getting to know you.

If you find yourself left out of the circle, "walk" away and find your own tribe.

Don't depend on others to make things happen for you....create your own opportunities.

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By *udding RoseWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"Sometimes a nicely trimmed beard, good conversationalist, polite, and reasonably ok looking still doesn't do it.

Some people make up their minds that you are not their cup of tea without ever actually getting to know you.

If you find yourself left out of the circle, "walk" away and find your own tribe.

Don't depend on others to make things happen for you....create your own opportunities.

Sometimes you're attracted to somebody straight away, other times it's the case of getting to know somebody a few times through meeting them in person and through messaging on fab, telegram or Kik or whatever other messaging apps your on!!

Don't judge people by their looks, some people can surprise you! Some guys just have the right approach!!

And Badger you're right, you have to find who you're people/tribe are!! That's what's great about the socials and the walking groups, You get to meet new people and you're going to meet up with people you've met a few times before!! Some people you gel with and others you won't!!

It's about making connections!!

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