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"Had a very interesting yet disappointing situation, which I might go into at a later time.... Cut a long story short.....a lady just admitted to me that her latest verification was from a guy she never met..he "asked " her for verification and would do the same back.. Now I've withdrew my interest,told her that this is a massive no no here and trust is what keeps this society going....blocked her. Id love to name said person but I respect the rules, have you had the same experience lately folks and how do you deal with it " Best thing to do is report the profile to admin and move on | |||
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"I'm wondering why ? Why they did it. Why she told you. Why you needed to put it out there. Why I am commenting on it. Why , Quiet Friday night maybe." Why though. .... ..... | |||
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"It makes you wonder how "real" that a verification is anymore. How many now are "real meet" verified as opposed to the coffee meet / chat that is requested to give a non verified member a step up the ladder ? It might be well intentioned but its not what I would consider to be a qualified meet. Have never read a bad one either !" A verification is meant as a means to show the person is real and showed up as planned. | |||
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"It makes you wonder how "real" that a verification is anymore. How many now are "real meet" verified as opposed to the coffee meet / chat that is requested to give a non verified member a step up the ladder ? It might be well intentioned but its not what I would consider to be a qualified meet. Have never read a bad one either !" What's your definition of a "real meet"? | |||
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"It makes you wonder how "real" that a verification is anymore. How many now are "real meet" verified as opposed to the coffee meet / chat that is requested to give a non verified member a step up the ladder ? It might be well intentioned but its not what I would consider to be a qualified meet. Have never read a bad one either ! A verification is meant as a means to show the person is real and showed up as planned. " I think it has to represent more than just a prearranged coffee meet that is never planned to go any further, but thats only my opinion. | |||
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"It makes you wonder how "real" that a verification is anymore. How many now are "real meet" verified as opposed to the coffee meet / chat that is requested to give a non verified member a step up the ladder ? It might be well intentioned but its not what I would consider to be a qualified meet. Have never read a bad one either ! A verification is meant as a means to show the person is real and showed up as planned. I think it has to represent more than just a prearranged coffee meet that is never planned to go any further, but thats only my opinion." How can you plan for things to go further without meeting the person? I mean, does it only have value of you then go on to have sex? | |||
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"It makes you wonder how "real" that a verification is anymore. How many now are "real meet" verified as opposed to the coffee meet / chat that is requested to give a non verified member a step up the ladder ? It might be well intentioned but its not what I would consider to be a qualified meet. Have never read a bad one either !" Real meet = getting your hole is what you're saying essentially  | |||
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"It makes you wonder how "real" that a verification is anymore. How many now are "real meet" verified as opposed to the coffee meet / chat that is requested to give a non verified member a step up the ladder ? It might be well intentioned but its not what I would consider to be a qualified meet. Have never read a bad one either ! Real meet = getting your hole is what you're saying essentially "Well it involves more than having a prearranged coffee meet for the purpose of getting an easy green tick, I earned my stripes here the old fashioned way, Green ticks werent handed to me. | |||
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"Had a very interesting yet disappointing situation, which I might go into at a later time.... Cut a long story short.....a lady just admitted to me that her latest verification was from a guy she never met..he "asked " her for verification and would do the same back.. Now I've withdrew my interest,told her that this is a massive no no here and trust is what keeps this society going....blocked her. Id love to name said person but I respect the rules, have you had the same experience lately folks and how do you deal with it " We most certainly wouldn't verify anyone we don't know or haven't met! Verifications are very important for us not necessarily the content of them more so who has given them. This is worrying to hear! | |||
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"It makes you wonder how "real" that a verification is anymore. How many now are "real meet" verified as opposed to the coffee meet / chat that is requested to give a non verified member a step up the ladder ? It might be well intentioned but its not what I would consider to be a qualified meet. Have never read a bad one either ! Real meet = getting your hole is what you're saying essentially
Well it involves more than having a prearranged coffee meet for the purpose of getting an easy green tick, I earned my stripes here the old fashioned way, Green ticks werent handed to me. "Old fashioned way = getting yout hole then. You're just saying the same thing! It's a verification, it just... verifies that people are genuine. That's all. Even in the FAQ of the site it shows a green tick means "Verified genuine by other members" If it was your interpretation of it they'd probably call it a... sexual performance review or something | |||
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"It makes you wonder how "real" that a verification is anymore. How many now are "real meet" verified as opposed to the coffee meet / chat that is requested to give a non verified member a step up the ladder ? It might be well intentioned but its not what I would consider to be a qualified meet. Have never read a bad one either ! Real meet = getting your hole is what you're saying essentially
Well it involves more than having a prearranged coffee meet for the purpose of getting an easy green tick, I earned my stripes here the old fashioned way, Green ticks werent handed to me. "Now it sounds like sour grapes. The percentage of people using the forums is small. Those verified through the "help a fabber out" threads smaller still. Some will go on to attend events and meet others, some won't. A verification is only one tool in your arsenal. | |||
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There's very little you can do OP but avoid. Be grateful for the early warning.
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"We all know the verification system has flaws and that there's some 'veri-misconduct' unfortunately such as verifying a person without meeting him/her/them/whatever. Yet the verification system is better than nothing and a good source of information. It's easy enough to distinguish between the assembly line veri and the more individual one or a mg veri and a play veri etc....... crucial bit is to use your brain when you read them
There's very little you can do OP but avoid. Be grateful for the early warning.
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"We all know the verification system has flaws and that there's some 'veri-misconduct' unfortunately such as verifying a person without meeting him/her/them/whatever. Yet the verification system is better than nothing and a good source of information. It's easy enough to distinguish between the assembly line veri and the more individual one or a mg veri and a play veri etc....... crucial bit is to use your brain when you read them
There's very little you can do OP but avoid. Be grateful for the early warning.
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