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By *irWhiskey OP   Man
34 weeks ago

The water of life

What would you do different when you joined fab or change something from back then?

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By *ealitybitesMan
34 weeks ago

Belfast

I would do some people different.

Swerve, avoid, ignore.....

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
34 weeks ago

ballina

I wouldn't take one for the team..

if someone catfishes u in any way... Good bye

Trust my gut

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
34 weeks ago

Magical Forrest

Trust your gut … if it’s too good to be true then it is … first impression is always right …

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By *ural delightMan
34 weeks ago

Enniskillen

Put myself out there more

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I would not be as trusting.

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By *eestar10Man
34 weeks ago

cavan


"I would not be as trusting. "

I second this

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By *oxic1998Woman
34 weeks ago

Belfast

Wouldn't change a thing with who I have met but wish I was more outgoing in social situations

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By *apphire SeductressWoman
34 weeks ago

Louth


"I would not be as trusting.

I second this "

I third this and trust your intuition it’s hardly ever wrong

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By *cuk4funCouple
34 weeks ago

city centre


"I wouldn't take one for the team..

if someone catfishes u in any way... Good bye

Trust my gut

"

This...our first meet was very close to been our last but thank God we met a fabulous cpl afterwards. Hornycouple from meath showed us how great fab can be but we've learned a lot too over the years . Quality over quantity and due diligence is our preference.

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By *reenfrogoMan
34 weeks ago

nearby


"I would not be as trusting. "

Thats for sure

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
34 weeks ago

South Dublin

Good one


"I would not be as trusting. "

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By *anther PurrrsWoman
34 weeks ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring

Be more guarded and less trusting till I got to know people better

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By *astelloWoman
34 weeks ago

Far far away

People can be very manipulative.

You can create beautiful friendships from here.

Go at your own pace.

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
34 weeks ago

Cork

From the start here ,one of our rules was trust your gut, we've tweaked this continuously as time goes by, not because of us because of others. One thing that we find amazing about here is this really is a small community with alot of great people involved.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
34 weeks ago

kinkytown

Would know who to avoid

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By *chochamberWoman
34 weeks ago

Munster

I would really, really, really stick to my rules, not let anyone circumvent them. No attached men, most of them are time wasters.

I would 100% value myself, as even though this site is fun, the reduction of normal boundaries is difficult for people to navigate.

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By *chochamberWoman
34 weeks ago

Munster


"I would really, really, really stick to my rules, not let anyone circumvent them. No attached men, most of them are time wasters.

I would 100% value myself, as even though this site is fun, the reduction of normal boundaries is difficult for people to navigate.

"

Have to value yourself to teach people how to treat you.

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By * tale of 2 citiesCouple
34 weeks ago

Belfast

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By *og-ManMan
34 weeks ago

somewhere

Knowing who to avoid so no one can try to Black-mail me.

That and cheaper donuts

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By *affa31Woman
34 weeks ago

Galway

I probably wouldn’t put myself in a few of the potentially dodgy situations I put myself in but I was in my early 20s and silly thankfully nothing bad ever happened.

I don’t think I’d change anything else. Every situation was a learning curve and part of who I am today.

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By *ub23Man
34 weeks ago

wandering

Back myself more!

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By *issMollyXXXWoman
34 weeks ago

Limerick

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By *issMollyXXXWoman
34 weeks ago

Limerick

It's undeniably challenging for

people to navigate the blurring of

normal boundaries, especially

evident here but on other online platforms also. The disappearance of basic manners and respect is sad really. Treating others with the same decency you expect should

be a no-brainer. Sadly, my trust levels have taken a hit due to encounters with people lacking discretion under the guise of being "nice." I am also more aware of those skilled in emotional manipulation or gaslighting, often disguised as the epitome of charm.

Trust your instincts, they rarely lead you astray.

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By *voidingboredomMan
34 weeks ago

around

Take everything less personally, don't be afraid to get out there as myself and with my own personality.

Be clear from the very outset with myself about what I really want from fab and then go look for it/invite it

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By *oss_BeaumontMan
34 weeks ago

Skerries


"I would not be as trusting.

I second this

I third this and trust your intuition it’s hardly ever wrong "

So true. There's a great book called 'the gift of fear' that goes into this. We'll sometimes ignore a feeling that took thousands of years to evolve, specifically for our safety, in order to rationalise something.

Trust yourself. And if someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. The word 'no' is a complete sentence.

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By *irWhiskey OP   Man
34 weeks ago

The water of life


"It's undeniably challenging for

people to navigate the blurring of

normal boundaries, especially

evident here but on other online platforms also. The disappearance of basic manners and respect is sad really. Treating others with the same decency you expect should

be a no-brainer. Sadly, my trust levels have taken a hit due to encounters with people lacking discretion under the guise of being "nice." I am also more aware of those skilled in emotional manipulation or gaslighting, often disguised as the epitome of charm.

Trust your instincts, they rarely lead you astray."

Well said. I have for a long time thought this about any social media. The fervor to be "first" in commenting/reacting/cancelling is fucking nuts. People have forgotten how to sit back, do more research, reflect and come to conclusion on how they feel or understand something. Rather than taking a one sided battle axe to everything. Which I think it leads into the intense need for people to put on a persona that is who they appear to be but behind everything is much more sinister in capability.

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By *aseylee324Couple
34 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Had the advantage of plenty of internet interactions and already knowing my gut instincts to be spot on when I joined. Would have met more frequently if we had known Covid was ahead!

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By *og-ManMan
34 weeks ago

somewhere

Speaking of Covid ....miss those threads

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