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"Aswell the travelling community are an extremely religious community and I don't think the swinging lifestyle would go well with that side of their lifestyle." You'd be surprised the number of people here who are religious but don't see any problem with that hypocrisy. | |||
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"Aswell the travelling community are an extremely religious community and I don't think the swinging lifestyle would go well with that side of their lifestyle." Extremely religious ...seriously  | |||
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"Aswell the travelling community are an extremely religious community and I don't think the swinging lifestyle would go well with that side of their lifestyle. Extremely religious ...seriously "I would have thought they were more superstitious than religious. | |||
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"Aswell the travelling community are an extremely religious community and I don't think the swinging lifestyle would go well with that side of their lifestyle. Extremely religious ...seriously "Yaaaaa I see the irony there lol | |||
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"This isn’t a post bashing the traveling community just a legitimate post wonder are there any into the swinging scene , some of the traveler woman are absolute goddess to be fair , it’s on my bucket list to have some fuck with them" I have met men and women a TV from the Traveller community. They keep a low profile,I think because of non traveller prejudice And the possibility of being ostracized with in their own community s No difference to all of us basically | |||
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"This isn’t a post bashing the traveling community just a legitimate post wonder are there any into the swinging scene , some of the traveler woman are absolute goddess to be fair , it’s on my bucket list to have some fuck with them" Traveller women are fine women. Culturally they live by strict rules. If you are known to have slept with one, according to their traditions, you will need to marry her. If you don't, then her family will punch the snot out of you any then you will marry her. Typically swinging isnt there thing. But aside from traditions she is still a woman, so there may always be an exception. | |||
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"Aswell the travelling community are an extremely religious community and I don't think the swinging lifestyle would go well with that side of their lifestyle. Extremely religious ...seriously
I would have thought they were more superstitious than religious. "Isn’t religion and superstition the same thing……….pulls pin and walks away | |||
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"Aswell the travelling community are an extremely religious community and I don't think the swinging lifestyle would go well with that side of their lifestyle. Extremely religious ...seriously
I would have thought they were more superstitious than religious.
Isn’t religion and superstition the same thing……….pulls pin and walks away"BOOM! | |||
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"Something wasn't sitting right with me about this thread and it's taken me a while to put my finger on it so I'll phrase it as a question as it's a sensitive subject. How do you think an Asian or Black person (for example) would feel reading that someone had them as a fuckit list item based on their ethnicity?" You have probably realised by now the vast majority of black guys on this site market themselves as BBC ! Why not go one further and ask how blondes feel being fetished by guys into blondies or redheads etc. Get a grip ffs | |||
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"Something wasn't sitting right with me about this thread and it's taken me a while to put my finger on it so I'll phrase it as a question as it's a sensitive subject. How do you think an Asian or Black person (for example) would feel reading that someone had them as a fuckit list item based on their ethnicity?" Totally understand this point of view. It makes me a little uncomfortable too, but many people in minority groups here in Ireland will offer themselves for meets based on their ethnicity also, so it's a delicate line to walk. I guess it's down to the person in the minority group and what their comfort levels to this are. Certainly some would be put off, whereas others are specifically looking for a level of objectification, or are happy to fulfil the desires of others on the basis of ethnicity. Tricky. | |||
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"Something wasn't sitting right with me about this thread and it's taken me a while to put my finger on it so I'll phrase it as a question as it's a sensitive subject. How do you think an Asian or Black person (for example) would feel reading that someone had them as a fuckit list item based on their ethnicity? You have probably realised by now the vast majority of black guys on this site market themselves as BBC ! Why not go one further and ask how blondes feel being fetished by guys into blondies or redheads etc. Get a grip ffs" He has a point though, no? As a fat woman, I wouldn't be interested in having sex with someone who wanted to tick "fat woman" off their fuck-it list. Lots of people aren't cool with being reduced to a physical attribute, or race, or ethnicity. | |||
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"Something wasn't sitting right with me about this thread and it's taken me a while to put my finger on it so I'll phrase it as a question as it's a sensitive subject. How do you think an Asian or Black person (for example) would feel reading that someone had them as a fuckit list item based on their ethnicity?" What's a sensitive subject, people having a type and a fuckit list? I hope that's not what you are alluding to. | |||
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"Fetishising people on the basis of their ethnicity, some people object. Some people find the Cap is Black week in Cap d Adge is racist, flying back guys in to service ladies who have a preference for BBC. Some people consider that racist. So I guess, the question being posed is "is it OK to fetishise any person?" should we simply be attracted to someone because their individual self attracts us, not their race or ethnicity? " Most of these particular fetishes are ok with me, some people who are target of the fetish quite enjoy it. The one that does not sit well with me at all, though, is the whole black man thing. Particular as it originated in the US, a country steeped in racism. This whole fetish is a fall out from slavëry. I just don't like that angle! Some in the black porn industry have tried to market it and twist it to make it look like the dominant black man, taking control. But that's just not it's origin! | |||
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"Perhaps we would all be better off not getting offended on behalf of anyone, when they haven’t expressed any offence? It’s also very easy to say I don’t find xyz offensive when you don’t fit the profile. Do I find the desire to fuck someone based on their ethnicity/race/whatever odd? Yup! Surely people prefer to fuck people they’re attracted to and surely that’s not an entire race. But anyway, everyone’s free to express desire for whoever they want. If it’s not for you, then you ignore it. " Well said. Totally agree with you | |||
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"Fetishising people on the basis of their ethnicity, some people object. Some people find the Cap is Black week in Cap d Adge is racist, flying back guys in to service ladies who have a preference for BBC. Some people consider that racist. So I guess, the question being posed is "is it OK to fetishise any person?" should we simply be attracted to someone because their individual self attracts us, not their race or ethnicity? Most of these particular fetishes are ok with me, some people who are target of the fetish quite enjoy it. The one that does not sit well with me at all, though, is the whole black man thing. Particular as it originated in the US, a country steeped in racism. This whole fetish is a fall out from slavëry. I just don't like that angle! Some in the black porn industry have tried to market it and twist it to make it look like the dominant black man, taking control. But that's just not it's origin!" Not too dissimilar to the image of Asian women as hypersexual and docile originating on the back of American led wars and the importing of Asian pr*stitutes until the Page act was passed. This wasn't a white knight question meant to attack anyone btw. I appreciate the considered responses and some of them make sense to me. Nothing to get all het up about. | |||
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"There is nothing wrong with "fetishising" for a particular type, whether it's based on hair, eyes, skin colour, race etc. Replace the word "fetishise" with "preference" and suddenly there is no issue. Quit making life more difficult and erecting imaginery barriers where they do not belong. " You could replace "fetishise" with "preference" but it's not the same thing. Is that preference ok when it reinforces harmful stereotypes, or perpetuates the othering of those who we view as different to ourselves? Forbes have an excellent article that's a thought provoking read | |||
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"There is nothing wrong with "fetishising" for a particular type, whether it's based on hair, eyes, skin colour, race etc. Replace the word "fetishise" with "preference" and suddenly there is no issue. Quit making life more difficult and erecting imaginery barriers where they do not belong. You could replace "fetishise" with "preference" but it's not the same thing. Is that preference ok when it reinforces harmful stereotypes, or perpetuates the othering of those who we view as different to ourselves? Forbes have an excellent article that's a thought provoking read" I think you are reading far too much into this. What so called "harmful stereotype" did the OP infer when he stated his desire to have sex with a traveller lady as he finds some of them very attractive? | |||
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"There is nothing wrong with "fetishising" for a particular type, whether it's based on hair, eyes, skin colour, race etc. Replace the word "fetishise" with "preference" and suddenly there is no issue. Quit making life more difficult and erecting imaginery barriers where they do not belong. You could replace "fetishise" with "preference" but it's not the same thing. Is that preference ok when it reinforces harmful stereotypes, or perpetuates the othering of those who we view as different to ourselves? Forbes have an excellent article that's a thought provoking read I think you are reading far too much into this. What so called "harmful stereotype" did the OP infer when he stated his desire to have sex with a traveller lady as he finds some of them very attractive? " My comments were less directly concerning the OP and more about the wider discussion that opened up | |||
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"I think it's probably best if people who worry about being fetished don't join what is essentially a sex site where 1st impressions are your public photos. Women in general are fetished by men as sexual objects and women who don't like such attention prob don't post pictures of a sexual nature on a swinger sites but lots do. Black men who don't like being fetished for their skin colour prob don't join swinger sites and post pics of their cocks with captions like BBC but lots do. " It's perfectly possible to swing (and ergo have sex) without objectifying others or allowing one's self to be objectified. Everyone has a place here and can display whatever pictures they wish. You can be sexual without being reduced to a set of body parts or a single physical attribute. Some are happy to be objectified or fetishised, some aren't, and perhaps we should consider that just because some are, it doesn't necessarily mean that all are. | |||
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"I think it's probably best if people who worry about being fetished don't join what is essentially a sex site where 1st impressions are your public photos. Women in general are fetished by men as sexual objects and women who don't like such attention prob don't post pictures of a sexual nature on a swinger sites but lots do. Black men who don't like being fetished for their skin colour prob don't join swinger sites and post pics of their cocks with captions like BBC but lots do. It's perfectly possible to swing (and ergo have sex) without objectifying others or allowing one's self to be objectified. Everyone has a place here and can display whatever pictures they wish. You can be sexual without being reduced to a set of body parts or a single physical attribute. Some are happy to be objectified or fetishised, some aren't, and perhaps we should consider that just because some are, it doesn't necessarily mean that all are. " Post a pic of big tits expect guys who love big tits to fab or message Post a pic of small perky tits expect guys who love small perky tits to fab or message Post a pic that shows a bbw woman with that description in profile and expect guys who like bigger women to fab and message Post a pic that shows your darker skinned expect people who have a preference for darker skin to fab or message We all have preferences nothing says that the person being "objectified" has to partake in those preferences | |||
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"Maybe educate yourself on Irish Traveler woman instead of asking this stupid question ! " Maybe learn how to spell and use correct diction,instead of embarrassing yourself. | |||
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"It's dangerous to make assumptions about individuals etc within any people group, community or organisation. Assumptions are the Mother of All f.ck ups. "Totally agree, If ppl wanna swing does not matter what ethnicity or religious belief they have they will swing. I recently visited a uk club. Met a lovely couple from the travelling community. Swear the laughs that were had. They were regulars gave me loads of tips Set me up with their hot male friend
What I love most about swinging is it does not matter where you are from or who you are.
If ppl wanna fuck you/ you wanna fuck them the game will begin so to speak.
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"Really interesting replies guys, the odd snowflake but that’s to be expected even on here lol " Just remember to research the historical origins of your kinks and anything on your "fuckit list" so as not to offend a snowflake who may be offended on someone else's behalf  | |||
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"We got a message a little while ago who wanted to meet Laura because he had "never fucked a fat lass". Sometimes objectification is clear and obvious. We like to get to know the individual a little and make sure everyone is respectful and interested in us as whole human beings and not just one attribute. Having said that there is nothing wrong with objectification if all involved are happy with that." Your missus is far from fat !!(just checked for clarification) | |||
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