FabSwingers.com forum: The purge

By *astello OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Far far away

How often do you purge your friends, hot list or messages.

Do you bother or a regular clear out your style.

Which reminds me.....Purge 2024 commences.

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By *ealitybitesMan
48 weeks ago

Belfast

Rarely because my friends list is in single figures, my messages even more so and I don't use the hotlist feature.

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By *inkyKat2023Woman
48 weeks ago

KinkyVille !!!

I do a clear out of my friends list probably once a month !!!

I clear friends requests & winks weekly

I save messages from people I wanna chat with for longer and then mass delete messages

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By *astello OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Far far away

"I do a clear out of my friends list probably once a month !!!

I clear friends requests & winks weekly

I save messages from people I wanna chat with for longer and then mass delete messages

Very organised

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By *astello OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Far far away

"Rarely because my friends list is in single figures, my messages even more so and I don't use the hotlist feature. "

I'll keep trying so... ever the optimist.. when single figures become double

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By *panishRebelMan
48 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

I just keep a very small friends list. Because of where I live, there's no point in having loads of numbers. I save the conversations that seem worth it. And make notes too. Recently stopped using the Hotlist....

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By *hivers2020Woman
48 weeks ago

lolli land

Never clear out any! They aren’t doing any harm where they are

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By *aelegoMan
48 weeks ago

Limerick

I'd consider purging myself first tbh

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By *s LollyWoman
48 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Friends list very small going forward if we've not chatted in the last few weeks ill unfriend..

Messages i bulk delete regular enough i like to keep a fresh clean box

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
48 weeks ago

The West

Never delete friends list,

Hotlist just tends to get bigger, (yes we're nosey pervs!)

Just delete rubbish messages or those not in our preferences.

Leave friend requests unanswered as it stops another one.

Winks, do nothing with them, forgot you can delete then!

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By *exyScientistsCouple
48 weeks ago

Castlebar

Gonna do it now...

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By *og-ManMan
48 weeks ago

somewhere

"Friends list very small going forward if we've not chatted in the last few weeks ill unfriend..

Messages i bulk delete regular enough i like to keep a fresh clean box

There's the sentence you should use in your bio

Likes to keep a clean fresh box

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
48 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

I have very few on either list. My hotlist is of people I'd like to meet or people who post on the forum that I enjoy reading

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By *iscuits8Man
48 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Every few months, and possibly as little as once or twice a year. I don't have a huge amount of friends nor messages* for them to need much admin!

*new messages always welcome

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
48 weeks ago

There and Here

I never clear friend requests as it stops people re-requesting. Which is lucky because I'm absolutely shite at fabmin

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
48 weeks ago

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
48 weeks ago

Portstewart

We tend to do ours every 2 months. And we always keep it in low numbers as we would get confused lol

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By *astello OP Woman
48 weeks ago

Far far away

Likewise.. I like to keep it tight too. But l do every few months, as see who is still in my life and take out who isn't

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
48 weeks ago

outside belfast x

Just had a clear out of friends and hotlist looking for new people to perv on haha

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I used to purge regularly enough, then I realised I was insulting people, who I genuinely would like as friends. So I m not as purgey any more.... Lols.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I do t have enough on my friends list to warrant a purge

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By *aseylee324Couple
48 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

We don't add people as friends unless we've already met or definitely intend to meet, cuts down on the pic hunters and wondering who the hell they are 3 months later.

Don't do hotlists and messages drop off with time anyway

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By *ustBoWoman
48 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

My friends list is small so doesn't need purging.

Messages I tend to delete as I go normally and don't really look at the ones I haven't.

Hot list is virtually non existent for me so no need to purge that either.

Sigh I suppose I should really interact a bit more on here looking at all that but nah I can't be bothered at the moment. I pop in and out of the forums and that's about it really. The rest is just unwanted admin

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By *ildAtlanticSecretCouple
48 weeks ago

around Clare, Galway, Limerick

Never our friends list but the hotlist gets either put on the friends list or deleted altogether depends on how the first few chats go,

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I use the hotlist to keep track of people I find interesting, not necessarily hot, just their view on life or fab.

I add the odd hottie, but if nothing happening, they get bumped off.

Friends list is much longer and overall a nicer feature.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
48 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Never. Friendslist pretty much stays forever. Mostly due to laziness and general lack of giving a crap

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