FabSwingers.com forum: Are they that rare?

By *ewcorkcpl23 OP Couple
36 weeks ago

Cork

Just curious on something at the moment, we've been on here a while have had a few couple fun meets, also in this time we have been actively looking for a FFM too. It's happened on a few occasions now where we spark up an interest and conversation with single lady's, things appear to be going well, exchange pics ,mention meeting up for coffee or fun whatever the case maybe, we go back in a day or so later to touch base with said female to see without reason she has blocked and hidden profile. We aren't regulars on the social scene so maybe it's difficult for them to fully trust others on here maybe that's why, but has anyone experienced this if so what's yer taughts on it, just curious maybe it's a thing here, maybe we are doing something wrong we dunno. Cheers .

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By *og-ManMan
36 weeks ago

somewhere

Apologies if you were looking for answers from women but I thought I'd answer if thats ok

Are you sure that the profiles you were chatting to were women and not just men pretending to be female profiles ...noticed that fake profiles tend to fall at the first hurdle of an actual coffee meet

I know you don't socialise but I'd advise you to get to at least one social

Between the chat groups beforehand and the networking on the night you can help build up a group of women comfortable in your presence which can open up so many opportunities for ye

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By *xcited And CuriousCouple
36 weeks ago

Dublin

Yep - without multiple verifications-by-meeting, can you be sure that single female isn't actually a married bloke collecting your pictures and giving you pics he swiped from the www.

I don't claim to be a porn connoisseur, but I've browsed enough to recognise quite a few pics presented on here as own-pics that I've actually seen on porn sites over the last 10+ years...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
36 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

By far the best way is to go to events and meet some girls face to face. Single girls get so many messages that many messages just get lost. It also gives her a bit of confidence that you're serious and that you have a bit of a spark together. Good luck!

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By *ot Pins2000Woman
36 weeks ago

belfast

If it’s any consolation I had the same challenge when I had a couple profile last year. I went to socials on behalf of us both and it was so clique-y (or whatever the word is!) that it was near impossible to get chatting and make introductions. I ended up being the additional gal in FFM and just gave up on the couple thing and created a single profile.

You never know who might connect with you on your post though. Fingers crossed for you xx

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By *ewcorkcpl23 OP Couple
36 weeks ago

Cork

Thanks for all your replies, I guess deep down we knew the answers would be get your tails to socials a bit more, can fully see where ye are going. We need to just work harder.

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By *eijaWoman
36 weeks ago

City Centre

"Thanks for all your replies, I guess deep down we knew the answers would be get your tails to socials a bit more, can fully see where ye are going. We need to just work harder."

100% get to a social. I am friends with many single females and socials are the easiest/safest way to meet them. There is no pressure to play and the best way to see if there is chemistry for future adventures.

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