FabSwingers.com forum: alcohol and sex

By *ubadubdub OP Woman
33 weeks ago

Hereabouts

How does alcohol affect your sex life?

Do hangovers affect your sex life?

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By *atherjackhackettMan
33 weeks ago

Tipperary

Not much of either lately

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Once upon a time alcohol used to make me very highly sexed....it doesn't have the same effect now though & I'm kinda grateful it doesn't ha

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By *ealitybitesMan
33 weeks ago

Belfast

It doesn't and never has done because I'm teetotal but I've no interest in meeting anyone who needs it before sex.

Again I've never had a hangover and only had one e_perience with a woman who was suffering from hangover horn.

It wasn't an e_perience I'm in a hurry to repeat.

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By *ubadubdub OP Woman
33 weeks ago

Hereabouts

Personally I prefer sober sex, it's less hazy, partners are more likely to be tuned in and sensitive to each other, and communication is clearer. I've more stamina too.

Hangovers do not make me horny at all, in fact they remove my desire

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By *aseylee324Couple
33 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I never drink enough to get d*unk, so it has no effect other than a couple of drinks might make me a little randy

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By *aseylee324Couple
33 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Haven't had a hangover in over 2 decades

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By *aseylee324Couple
33 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I would avoid anyone who wants to get plastered which in this country probably severely limits sexual opportunities but it's all good with me

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
33 weeks ago

South Down

I rarely have hangovers because I rarely drink alcohol, and when I do I'm now more aware of my limits and what is likely to make me feel ill...and thus avoid it.

I've never ever e_perienced hangover horn; anytime I've had a hangover I've just wanted to die quietly in a dark room.

I'm also not a fan of sex with alcohol on board. I prefer to be fully aware of what's going, on plus alcohol dulls sensation for me. I prefer my sexual partners to be sober too.

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By *ouls105Man
33 weeks ago

Foxford

"How does alcohol affect your sex life?

Do hangovers affect your sex life?

Discuss!"

Don't drink anymore but when I did it was hard work for both I'd say always took a little longer lol

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By *ind PaddyMan
33 weeks ago

South County Dublin

I've not had a drink for two months, not that I'm a heavy drinker more social drinker.

It is more fun and intimate when both parties are sober and want to be with one another. I'm more passionate when sober.

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By *panishRebelMan
33 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

Generally prefer sex clear headed. Having said that I met someone a few years back on a night out with my brother, and we drank a lot, there were shrooms and m d m a etc.... we hit it off and played through the night. I brought her breakfast the next day before I went away.

She drove up to see me before I flew back to Spain. We had a beautiful long distance back and forth for 20ish months. All from a d*unken night out with no aftershave etc.

So I would never knock anyone on d*unken sex. Cause in the end who knows.

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By *chochamberWoman
33 weeks ago

Munster

I love how so many swingers are not heavy drinkers.

Sober sex is great, we should all be comfortable staying sober.

Alcohol makes me sleepy, I ll have relaxed sex when d*unk, can be horny when hung over.

Love when my body is healthy and want to get back to that. Cranky hungover heads, and poor alcoholic judgment and bodies is a turn off, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

D*unk sex doesn't do much for me but a horny hangover skin to skin is always welcome

I'm more inclined not to drink since joining fab, always fun to meet someone during or after a sober night out.

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
33 weeks ago

Midlands

Alcohol helps you get up on it. No inhibitions so can be fun if alcohol consumed. Laughs flow. Too much alcohol is messy and not fun

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By *og-ManMan
33 weeks ago

somewhere

Normally at socials I don't drink at all as sometimes I'm driving back to our hotel

If its the same hotel I might or might not have a few beers or shorts ...I can take it either way

Gave up heavy drinking once the kids came and it was my turn to get up at weekends with them

Haven't had a hangover in decades but know that not once when I had one did I wake up and think ....I know I'll have sex ...that'll shift it ....always a hot cup of tea with a fry up

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
33 weeks ago

City Centre

I find a desensitisation with too much alcohol and I wont reach those heady heights compared to say, a more sober e_perience.

I like hangover sex, a lot.

I enjoy a drink with good company but excessive drinking turns me off. I'm not a fan of overloaded inebriated people at socials either

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Only ever had 1 hangover in my life when I was in my early 20's and would never repeat it.

Since then, I always stick to one or two drinks and not that often as I usually drive on nights out.

I would probably have a drink on a night out with a fb of staying overnight

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By *ustBoWoman
33 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It doesn't as I don't drink anymore. I've had two hangovers in my life the last one was when I was in my 20s and it made me realise it wasn't worth it.

I also never found a drink that I particularly like either.

I have had d*unk sex though and it was never great and the two hangovers I had I would not have been able to have sex because any movement caused me to boke those times. Not a sexy look.

I'm not keen on having sex with anyone who is d*unk or being around a load of d*unk people.

One of the socials I was at I was hassled a lot by a male half of a couple who was getting pretty d*unk and it was a horrible e_perience and I ended up having to leave early with a friend I went with as he would not go away or take no as an answer.

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By *voidingboredomMan
33 weeks ago

around

Used to drink and get very very horny hungover but it was purely physical

Haven't drank in years and find it far more intense to be able to stare someone straight in the eyes while you have sex dead sober. Very handy to be able to drive here and there too

A little insecurity of mine is that people who are over a certain limit of d*unkenness are interested in me because they are d*unk and wouldn't be if they were dead sober and I find that a real turn off

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By *ilted lightMan
33 weeks ago

ABC

Could have put it any better myself. Hangover horn is definitely real

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

As a woman who has been to countless sex parties and a non drinker.

The serious players drink very little or not at all.

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By *o strings but a G-stringMan
33 weeks ago

city

"How does alcohol affect your sex life?

Do hangovers affect your sex life?

Discuss!"

I think when young it helps reduce the inhibitions. But being older and wiser means we know inhibitions can simply be ignored by respecting the limits of willing partners

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By *tslife222Man
33 weeks ago

by the sea louth

Don’t drink alcohol for the last 12 years.

Certainly don’t miss the handovers etc

The only slight thing I miss, is having a few for Dutch courage esp around socials etc.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
33 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

The comments I am reading on this thread do not represent my e_perience of attending (and organising) events.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Sober sex is so much better ....I prefer it that way.

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By *voidingboredomMan
33 weeks ago

around

"The comments I am reading on this thread do not represent my e_perience of attending (and organising) events."

I was just thinking there's alot of sobriety on this thread with very few people saying "yeah get a bottle of wine into me and everything is better".

I mean, they're called cock-tails for a reason, right?

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By *affa31Woman
33 weeks ago

Galway

"The comments I am reading on this thread do not represent my e_perience of attending (and organising) events."

Certainly not of socials…I can’t attest to the level of d*unkenness at play parties

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By *ubadubdub OP Woman
33 weeks ago

Hereabouts

Oh Jeepers I'm no pioneer when it comes to drinking, don't let me be misinterpreted

d*unken sex happens, but my preference would be sober

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By *om TangoMan
33 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I’m kinda into kink playing and I’d much rather both didn’t have any drinks before playing. My fear would be that someone would consent to something d*unk and regret it the next day. Plus if I’ve a few whiskeys in me I can get it up but can’t cum. Drinks can be done during the aftercare once a bottle of water is downed.

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By *ealitybitesMan
33 weeks ago

Belfast

"The comments I am reading on this thread do not represent my e_perience of attending (and organising) events."

I've written often enough about my e_periences at socials and my reasons for leaving some.

Those were alcohol fuelled but some people are just arseholes regardless of whether they have been drinking or not.

I've seen blazing rows and fights between couples at socials who couldn't stand up so I'm not sure how they were planning on inviting anyone back to their room.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Oh Jeepers I'm no pioneer when it comes to drinking, don't let me be misinterpreted

d*unken sex happens, but my preference would be sober "

Ya I’m the same d*unken sex is like a big effort ha but whatever about when I’m hungover it’s the horniest I ever get only one way to fix it

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By *itdubguyMan
33 weeks ago

Dublin

Personally it doesn't affect me but some people find it helps with their inhibitions. One or 2 drinks isn't a bad thing but 10 or 12 and one of you is probably gonna fall asleep or throw up on the other before the fun starts lol

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By *rystalsswingCouple
33 weeks ago

Galway

The morning after sex for me (Cherry) is mandatory.

Love it

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By *electableicecreamMan
33 weeks ago

The West

Sure. Having a few drinks with a lover is a lovely way to relax of an evening.

I'd say that's pretty normal for a lot of people.

Proper d*unk sex would be really rare for me and probably only ever happens with with someone I'm quite close to but filthy d*unk sex is a lot of fun.

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By *electableicecreamMan
33 weeks ago

The West

I just realised I didn't actually answer the question!

Alcohol doesn't affect my sex life in as much as they don't have a direct relationship. Otherwise it's as above.

Defo get the hangover horn. The remedy is often solo effort!

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By *ep-n-PixieCouple
33 weeks ago

Kildare , Dublin, Meath

Hangover horn is unreal for me…. luckily Pixie is always on hand to relive me

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By *WEETESTSTRAWBERRYFOR1Woman
33 weeks ago

Clare

Definitely no point in over doing it on the drinks side especially at social event's. Prefer to remember the night before and have no regrets from alcohol made decisions.

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By *itlbeeCouple
33 weeks ago

I find it really difficult to orgasm if I've been drinking, so the swinging I've done completely sober has been far more pleasurable.

I think everyone Swinging needs to go easy on the drinks, I've definitely seen couples way too d*unk at play parties.

I heard of one just recently that got ruined by someone new being sick in the playroom. Heavy drinking and vigorous activity are a bad combo.

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By *alted!Man
33 weeks ago

Cork

D*unken sex, let's face it, its not much fun as sober sex. But that's more down to the lose of sense and memory.

However nothing wrong with having a few drinks...before, during and after. Just keep yourself well paced.

Any party's iv been to most have been drinking. But just like in vanilla life overly d*unk people are to be avoided

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By *hilaboutMan
33 weeks ago

kilkenny

I find having driving in slows the climax which makes for great sex

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By *perienceMan
33 weeks ago

Cavan

The morning after drinking, I'm at peak horniness.

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By *oodforfun10Man
33 weeks ago

Westport

D*unk sex can be great fun.

And hangover horn sex...mmmm!

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By *ogladyWoman
33 weeks ago

The bog

I'm always d*unk at socials and have loads of hangovers...

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Hangovers make my sex next level

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Hangover horn is real.

Too much drink defo limits performance so finding the sweet spot is key.

There's also folk that might struggle with confidence who'll have a sip to help the chat flow...

I'm naturally full of shit so I can do without

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By *ecret-64Couple
6 weeks ago

Wrexham

"I'm always d*unk at socials and have loads of hangovers..."

My kind of girl. X

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By *om TangoMan
6 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

If I’ve a feed of pints in me you would need to start me by hand and jump on when it’s going. I try to avoid drinking if playing is planned

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By *ecret-64Couple
6 weeks ago

Wrexham

I find alcohol enhances my sexual desires. Never suffer from hangovers or lack of interest once d*unk.

Only become more horny.

Hubby loves it.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
6 weeks ago

Portstewart

Beard doesn't drink and I only have a couple once in a blue moon and if we're having a play meet I'd only ever have a single drink as many years ago on our first e_perience the guy got hammered and wouldn't leave us girls alone to explore so beard made everything stop and we left

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I don’t drink so it is not a consideration for me, but I imagine it must be a help in terms of settling nerves and reducing inhibitions especially at a first meet, either social or play.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"How does alcohol affect your sex life?

Do hangovers affect your sex life?

Discuss!"

Don't drink alcohol so l can't say tbh but great thread OP 👍

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By *ionycusMan
6 weeks ago

Babylon

Honestly, I'm a big fan of a few drinks. Definitely getting to know each other,but also between rounds.

The day after a heavy drinking session I'll wake up with "a horn that would bate a jackass out of a quarry", and I'll be gagging for debauchery.

Twice in my life I've had brewers droop, and twice it was due to overindulgence on Whiskey, in my defense, it was more than a bottle each time.

Drink is a great friend but a terrible master, and the ruination of many a good man has been the combination of "the whiskey glass, and the woman's ass". Luckily I've been ruined years ago and am nearly at the aged XO stage now.

😁

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By *HLxWoman
6 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't drink alcohol often and I don't like to have sex when I've had a few. I'd rather sleep and enjoy myself the next morning/day 😁

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By *oosmoothballsMan
6 weeks ago

Dublin

I enjoy a couple of drinks before sex but anymore than a couple and its spoiled. That morning hangover horn is hard to beat down though.

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By *ohnFKMan
6 weeks ago

Where the Streets Have No Name

For me it's 'Pints or Play'

Very rarely both.😉

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By *HLxWoman
6 weeks ago

Belfast

"For me it's 'Pints or Play'

Very rarely both.😉

Well put!

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By *ohnFKMan
6 weeks ago

Where the Streets Have No Name

"For me it's 'Pints or Play'

Very rarely both.😉

Well put! "

Cheers 🍻😜

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By *oc09Man
6 weeks ago

near u

I rather have sex Sober or hungover not d*unk tho

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By *HLxWoman
6 weeks ago

Belfast

"For me it's 'Pints or Play'

Very rarely both.😉

Well put!

Cheers 🍻😜"

🍸🥂🍹🍷

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By *orthern_donkMan
6 weeks ago

Carrick On Shannon

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By *orthern_donkMan
6 weeks ago

Carrick On Shannon

Maybe a small glass of red but better without.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

The more hungover I am the hornier I get

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By *orklad86Man
6 weeks ago

cork

"How does alcohol affect your sex life?

Do hangovers affect your sex life?

Discuss!"

Best way to get rid of a hangover is a good sex sessiom

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By *unmale34Man
6 weeks ago

"How does alcohol affect your sex life?

Do hangovers affect your sex life?

Discuss!"

When I'm hungover I get very horny, had on for hours ha.

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By *unmale34Man
6 weeks ago

Hard*

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By *0kc00Man
6 weeks ago

cork

Sober sex is so much better than d*unk sex. I'm always horny in the mornings but the horniness* (not sure if i've just invented a new word) is off the charts when hungover. Also, the endorphins released during sex take the headache away...downside is the banging headache comes rushing back straight after

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By *yanphilip30Man
6 weeks ago

dublin 24

"How does alcohol affect your sex life?

Do hangovers affect your sex life?

Discuss!"
Alcohol affects performance so I don't use it, at least from one day before fun time 😁

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