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By *lo1 slo2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

newry

being new here what are we supposed to do if people just send invites but you have never spoke to them by message or in chat or even the forum is it not rude just to delete them or just accept we have sent out messages but rarely get a response and they are polite and non pushy any tips please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally for me if I excepted all friend requests I would have far to many . I have stated in my profile don't send a friend request if we have not chatted.

So unfortunately I end up deleting them

I think some people send request to see friend only pics. And the people u except probably would not end chatting anyway if not before hand...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally for me if I excepted all friend requests I would have far to many . I have stated in my profile don't send a friend request if we have not chatted.

So unfortunately I end up deleting them

I think some people send request to see friend only pics. And the people u except probably would not end chatting anyway if not before hand...

"

I totally agree I do the same

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By *lo1 slo2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

newry

oh right i understand so i should change my profile and would people really be that desperate to see so pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't accept them unless you have chatted to them, I don't and I get random friendship requests all the time, thing is if you leave them sitting there, they cannot request again nor can they see your pictures which is probably why they have done it.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Personally for me if I excepted all friend requests I would have far to many . I have stated in my profile don't send a friend request if we have not chatted.

So unfortunately I end up deleting them

I think some people send request to see friend only pics. And the people u except probably would not end chatting anyway if not before hand...

"
ditto

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

a fun thing to do is go in when they are off line! perv theirs then delete lol

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By *allfungent24Man
over a year ago

city

I generally send a friend invite to someone that catches my eye so that they can look at my private pics if they wish to do so.

If they don't respond I leave it at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a fun thing to do is go in when they are off line! perv theirs then delete lol "

Lol that's what we do

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Have had this happen invites from peeps I have never met or chatted with my friends are usually peeps id like to stay in contact withusually delete them some from as far away as England ffs we are never going to meet

But I like the sneaky suggestion of waiting till their off line have a perve and delete

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

i like to keep most though do a clear out, but keep the guys i met in england and down south so we can have fun if we're that way again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being new here what are we supposed to do if people just send invites but you have never spoke to them by message or in chat or even the forum is it not rude just to delete them or just accept we have sent out messages but rarely get a response and they are polite and non pushy any tips please "

i usually dont accept invtes unless ive spoken to them first,unless i think the guy is fit,il accept when hes offline to have a luk at the pics if i like il keep as a friend if not just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I had a few message and friend invites and like a typical noob I accepted them all. Cue a load of emails from single gay and bi males with various requests for photos and meets and it took me a while to work out that maybe I should not have done that

Anyway, as mentioned already you can block single males (although if you do I don't know of that works in the forum?) Some of them can be really pushy and rude and make the single males on here that are genuine have an even more difficult time getting anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have had this happen invites from peeps I have never met or chatted with my friends are usually peeps id like to stay in contact withusually delete them some from as far away as England ffs we are never going to meet

But I like the sneaky suggestion of waiting till their off line have a perve and delete "

typically cj lolnaughty naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being new here what are we supposed to do if people just send invites but you have never spoke to them by message or in chat or even the forum is it not rude just to delete them or just accept we have sent out messages but rarely get a response and they are polite and non pushy any tips please

i usually dont accept invtes unless ive spoken to them first,unless i think the guy is fit,il accept when hes offline to have a luk at the pics if i like il keep as a friend if not just delete "

Clever girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tons of friend invites i just don't accept them now unless i have chatted or have interest in them.. They just want to see pvt pics is all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have tons of friend invites i just don't accept them now unless i have chatted or have interest in them.. They just want to see pvt pics is all..."

yours are scary tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ya mean my pics are scary tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What ya mean my pics are scary tut tut"

im stil recovering, doctor is hoping to let me out in public in next few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh right i understand so i should change my profile and would people really be that desperate to see so pics "
slos can i be yer fwiend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh right i understand so i should change my profile and would people really be that desperate to see so pics slos can i be yer fwiend "

can I be sexyblues friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya already are ya nob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya already are ya nob "

true but id like be a special friend

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By *lo1 slo2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

newry


"oh right i understand so i should change my profile and would people really be that desperate to see so pics slos can i be yer fwiend "
accepted hunni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is normally so delighted to receive any sort of interest I accept immediately without question lol.... Unless they have a cock of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh right i understand so i should change my profile and would people really be that desperate to see so pics slos can i be yer fwiend accepted hunni "

Mmmmm now to perve a very hot lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put a notice on my profile about people sending them without mailing at least. Women and couples complain about men sending them without asking but some (a small few) will do just this. Usually mail explaining i don't accept them without a mail at least. Just manners really.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Have had this happen invites from peeps I have never met or chatted with my friends are usually peeps id like to stay in contact withusually delete them some from as far away as England ffs we are never going to meet

But I like the sneaky suggestion of waiting till their off line have a perve and delete

typically cj lolnaughty naughty "

Mmmm its ur fault U bring out the naughty cj

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