FabSwingers.com forum: "the clothes maketh the man".

By *ubguy777 OP Man
47 weeks ago

Do they?

Ladies, do you care what a man wears, how he dresses, is it important to you?

What item of clothing or footwear, if any, is a definite no-no to you, a real deal breaker?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Dirty, uncared for shoes

You can tell a lot about a man by his shoes

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By *eralt80Man
47 weeks ago

cork

Or lack of clothes

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
47 weeks ago

ireland

Aslong as he doesn't show up in a mankini,all good

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By *ubguy777 OP Man
47 weeks ago

"Aslong as he doesn't show up in a mankini,all good

lol

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By *ubguy777 OP Man
47 weeks ago

"Dirty, uncared for shoes

You can tell a lot about a man by his shoes

So I've heard

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Dirty, uncared for shoes

You can tell a lot about a man by his shoes

This is very true we had a coffee meet in London with a guy who turned up in runners that looked like a dogs chew toy

we made our excuses and left

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
47 weeks ago

Edinburgh

No the man maketh the clothes.

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By *eijaWoman
47 weeks ago

City Centre

I love a man who dresses well

I like to make an effort myself so love a guy that does too...

I always look at shoes...they tell a lot about a man

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Depends on where and when I’m meeting him if he is working I like work wear as much as a well dressed on a night out man . Naked is fine too ha maybe I just like men

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By *og-ManMan
47 weeks ago

somewhere

What about workmen in snickers and boots

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Always remember the shoes, no matter what Andy Dufresne says, everyone always notices the shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

The navy suit, brown/tan shoe trend..hope it passes

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"The navy suit, brown/tan shoe trend..hope it passes

God awful, I concur

More men in kilts please!!

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By *anUTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Rural

"Dirty, uncared for shoes

You can tell a lot about a man by his shoes

Lol I go as rugged as possible, the more battle scarred the better, ain't a shoe wearer either. Boots Man like a western lol

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
47 weeks ago

Midlands

Some like them suited n booted.

Some like them in snickers.

Some like them in dirty work clothes with rough hands.

Some just love to see your willy.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

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By *ubguy777 OP Man
47 weeks ago

"Dirty, uncared for shoes

You can tell a lot about a man by his shoes

This is very true we had a coffee meet in London with a guy who turned up in runners that looked like a dogs chew toy

we made our excuses and left

lol that's funny

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By *ubguy777 OP Man
47 weeks ago

any more fashion no-no's or deal breakers?

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By *ilderMan
47 weeks ago

dublin

"No the man maketh the clothes. "

I like to think it takes two to tango

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By *electableicecreamMan
47 weeks ago

The West

When you consider how much effort a woman can go to to look and feel her best, the thirty minutes it takes me to find a clean shirt and trim my beard really feels like the bare minimum.

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By *voidingboredomMan
47 weeks ago

around

I love the little ritual of getting dressed up to meet, even if the clothes don't last long on. It shows consideration and a bit of effort.

I really don't like tan shoes

Burgundy or black!!

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By *exyScientistsCouple
47 weeks ago

Castlebar

Some guys just look so sexy in clothes that I can't wait to get them off. Couldn't say exactly

what it is?

I've very few deal breakers...

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
47 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

Trousers that are too short irk me.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
47 weeks ago

There and Here

"Old man" clothes would be a big turn off for me. Also ill-fitting suits and suits out of context...like if someone dressed up for a coffee meet in suit. Poorly fitting jeans bother me more than they really should.

I like a man who dresses as cool as I do

who can carry off something a little unusual, who knows instinctively how to dress & what suits him, and isn't bound by convention or what others think.

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By *anUTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Rural

"When you consider how much effort a woman can go to to look and feel her best, the thirty minutes it takes me to find a clean shirt and trim my beard really feels like the bare minimum."

Tell me about it lol when I cross dressed I took nearly two hours, shaving my legs and body etc, shower, fake tan, makeup, then deciding what to wear lol I just needed a break.

I learnt a lot about men too lol and their misunderstanding of how long it takes, one slight wrong stroke with eyeshadow or lipstick....it's chaos lol

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By *apri 555Man
47 weeks ago

wexford or Dublin

As a bloke who spends most of his time in workwear, I like to dress up a little weather its for a coffee meet or just a night in the local

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By *ealitybitesMan
47 weeks ago

Belfast

""Old man" clothes would be a big turn off for me. Also ill-fitting suits and suits out of context...like if someone dressed up for a coffee meet in suit. Poorly fitting jeans bother me more than they really should.

I like a man who dresses as cool as I do

who can carry off something a little unusual, who knows instinctively how to dress & what suits him, and isn't bound by convention or what others think."

I once said on here that I would never wear a suit to a coffee meet because it could appear pretentious and I wouldn't be comfortable.

The only expectation I have when meeting someone for the first time is that they are relaxed and comfortable in what they are wearing and not putting on a show.

I stand by what I said and in the past if I was meeting straight after work I always took my jacket and tie off.

For some unknown reason a few people read that as me telling everyone else what they should or shouldn't wear.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
47 weeks ago

There and Here

I like a man who dresses as cool as I do

who can carry off something a little unusual, who knows instinctively how to dress & what suits him, and isn't bound by convention or what others think.

I once said on here that I would never wear a suit to a coffee meet because it could appear pretentious and I wouldn't be comfortable.

The only expectation I have when meeting someone for the first time is that they are relaxed and comfortable in what they are wearing and not putting on a show.

I stand by what I said and in the past if I was meeting straight after work I always took my jacket and tie off.

For some unknown reason a few people read that as me telling everyone else what they should or shouldn't wear. "

I'm a huge believer in people wearing whatever they want and whatever makes them feel good. And if you're meeting someone for the first time, feeling relaxed and comfortable is important.

I dress for myself, and I admire the same in others.

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By *aseylee324Couple
47 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Shorts

Unless you're under 12

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By *ubguy777 OP Man
47 weeks ago

"Shorts

Unless you're under 12"

lol

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By *habMan
47 weeks ago

Boomtown

"I'm a huge believer in people wearing whatever they want and whatever makes them feel good. And if you're meeting someone for the first time, feeling relaxed and comfortable is important.

I dress for myself, and I admire the same in others. "

Absolutely

Plenty chavs dressed in BT's finest

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"The navy suit, brown/tan shoe trend..hope it passes

Hate it, black jeans, bottoms are a staple to any man’s wardrobe, can match with any top

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By *arajeanCouple
47 weeks ago

mayo

Grey tracksuit no no

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
47 weeks ago

ballina

Cannot deal with tighty whitie briefs.. boxers or commando for me..

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By *astelloWoman
47 weeks ago

Far far away

Hawaian shirts when not in hawaii.

Cowboy boots when not astride a horse

Burmuda shorts when not in a mysterious triangle

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By *ubguy777 OP Man
46 weeks ago

Some great answers!

lol

Thanks.

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