FabSwingers.com forum: How many repeat meets do you have with someone?

By *chochamber OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Munster

Just wondering do you either feel done, get bored, or limit repeat meets so it doesn't turn into something more than what was intended at the outset?

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By *heMystroMan
37 weeks ago

Dublin

Go with the flow. Unless it’s specified in the chats before the meet it is what it is. But if that changes and evolves then that is human behaviour but all parties need to be of the same opinion. Life is too short not to have fun if you get on.

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By *obbym522000Man
37 weeks ago

Galway

"Just wondering do you either feel done, get bored, or limit repeat meets so it doesn't turn into something more than what was intended at the outset? "

generally meet a few times then mutually agree to call it a day

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By *voidingboredomMan
37 weeks ago

around

Depends on the individual situation. I wouldn't limit anything. Personally I'm open to whatever develops if the chemistry is there so I wouldn't stop myself from repeat meets if we got along.

I definitely get bored sometimes and don't really want to repeat meets even if the sex is really good

I've had less good play fun with people I'd prefer to meet more often based on general connection

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By *og-ManMan
37 weeks ago

somewhere

So the thread is repeated twice

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By *aseylee324Couple
37 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

We forgot to call a halt and somehow it turned into more than a decade

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By *hilaboutMan
37 weeks ago

kilkenny

If it's good repeats are amazing.

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By *amesnplanesMan
37 weeks ago

Banbridge and Dublin

Some members feel that fabs is the perfect method to have regular new one off lovers.

Whilst I do get that kink, as others have hinted here, the repeat meets and play brings a very different and special dynamic.

But if you're bored or "taking one for the team" this will dramatically effect the longevity of the lifestyle experience.... And most probably you're drift away very rapidly.

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By *appydatscMan
37 weeks ago

dublin

Yep repeats the best provided u haven’t completed the to do list or add to the to do list quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Two or three unless it's exceptional. One of reasons I'm here is for variety.

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By *electableicecreamMan
37 weeks ago

The West

I prefer repeat meets and would seek out connections with a bit of longevity.

Sometimes that could be every couple of weeks or it could be a couple of times a year depending on distance.

I do prefer to let things go sooner rather than later if I feel like the kind of connection I like to have isn't there.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Repeating like an echo...chamber

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I love the feeling of wanting more of someone so defo into the repeats !

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By *rRiosMan
37 weeks ago

dublin

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By *rRiosMan
37 weeks ago

dublin

"Repeating like an echo...chamber

Nice!

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By *agic mike1Man
37 weeks ago

around

I'm with my lady friend for the last 6 years.

And everytime we meet is as good as the first time we had fun.

If you find a lady that's a definite repeat meet, hold on to her, and not only will she be a friend, but a lover

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By *ealitybitesMan
37 weeks ago

Belfast

I would never put a number on it.

I've met some people once, some 3 times and one person every week for the last 4 years.(Apart from when I'm ghosting her that is

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By *lipyourflopMan
37 weeks ago

Dublin

I generally meet someone about 6 and a half times and then block them

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
37 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

I have as many as we both want so long as everyone is happy to continue. I've had some bloody amazing repeats

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By *leasurer77Man
37 weeks ago

Athlone

Usually find the meets get better and better each time.

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By *ildAtlanticSecretCouple
37 weeks ago

around Clare, Galway, Limerick

With the right people I guess it just gets better and better

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Just depends on the person or the couple with me and if the vibe continues. Happy to keep going as long as everyone is happy and getting what we want with no drama.

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By *ealmc1973Man
37 weeks ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

ONS is never the aim, personally. That's for teenagers, mind you, if there is no other way and needs must

how can one exploit all the possibilities without repeated meets?

FWB is ideal scenario for me, just keeping it simple and making sure, that all involved do know that.

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By *runchMan
37 weeks ago

Dublin

Why did you feel the need to post twice?

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By *chochamber OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Munster

"Why did you feel the need to post twice? "

The question? The repeat posts was a tecnical glitch.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
37 weeks ago

South Down

It's difficult to quantify. It's not something I'm necessarily looking for but neither is it something I'd rule out if I particularly clicked with someone, in which case I'd take it as it comes rather than putting a definitive number on it.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
37 weeks ago

South Down

"Why did you feel the need to post twice? "

If you're going to insist on nitpicking, it was three times.

When I see that happen I automatically think there's been a technical hiccup.

Why do you feel the need to call the duplicate post out?

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By *runchMan
37 weeks ago

Dublin

"Why did you feel the need to post twice?

If you're going to insist on nitpicking, it was three times.

When I see that happen I automatically think there's been a technical hiccup.

Why do you feel the need to call the duplicate post out?

Not fond of echo chambers,no pun intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"Why did you feel the need to post twice?

If you're going to insist on nitpicking, it was three times.

When I see that happen I automatically think there's been a technical hiccup.

Why do you feel the need to call the duplicate post out?

She posted once. The other two were echos

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By *adger BrocMan
37 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Lots and lots and lots.

I feel as if I'm repeating myself.

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By *eathguy200Man
37 weeks ago

trim

Repeats are good but hard not to form a connection

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By *chochamber OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Munster

Yeah, maybe a limit of 10 hookups is reasonable to protect everyone's feelings. Dunno, must mull it over.

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By *ustBoWoman
37 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I would never put a number on it.

I've met some people once, some 3 times and one person every week for the last 4 years.(Apart from when I'm ghosting her that is

Yes Casper

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By *hilaboutMan
37 weeks ago

kilkenny

If u go back 10 times gonna be hard not to go 11 n 12 its obviously being enjoyed .

As we're all adults its something should be discussed openly with partner

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By *ustBoWoman
37 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I like repeat meets, some do only end as one offs for whatever reasons though. But I feel it gets better with repeat meets with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Each meet and person are different. There is nothing concrete to put a limit on it, just down to who is involved, what they want and what can work.

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By *ctoboyMan
37 weeks ago

Glasgow

I have been meeting with a couple from here monthly when I’m over on business for around 20yrs. We just enjoy each others company and of course the fun

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By *chochamber OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Munster

"I have been meeting with a couple from here monthly when I’m over on business for around 20yrs. We just enjoy each others company and of course the fun

Longer than most marriages!! A throuple made in heaven.

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By *our naughty neighboursCouple
37 weeks ago

Banbridge area

Repeat meets are the best! We had this for quite a good few years with someone. As long as there is trust then you can push few boundaries

As long as they are part of your social life it makes it better in our own experience

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By *itlbeeCouple
37 weeks ago

I find time sex is always a bit awkward I think sex with someone new only really gets really great by the third time,l. It takes time to figure out someone's vibe and preferences.

So unless things go bad the first times were usually looking to do another meet.

You can't get bored of someone if you only see them every few months, instead the anticipation of seeing them again makes it kind of explosive!

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By *adhatter and coCouple
37 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

We prefer repeat meets . Only looking for one guy .

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By *ildAtlanticSecretCouple
37 weeks ago

around Clare, Galway, Limerick

"I find time sex is always a bit awkward I think sex with someone new only really gets really great by the third time,l. It takes time to figure out someone's vibe and preferences.

So unless things go bad the first times were usually looking to do another meet.

You can't get bored of someone if you only see them every few months, instead the anticipation of seeing them again makes it kind of explosive!"
. That's just the perfect answer

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By *ndrew1974Man
37 weeks ago

kilkenny

Shortly after joying fab many years ago I randomly bumped into a couple while out one night and we clicked. They are a great couple and I meet them on a regular bases

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I think it gets better each time, you know what each like. Being comfortable with each other is so important to the enjoyment and that truly only comes from spending time together naked.

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By *s LollyWoman
37 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"I think it gets better each time, you know what each like. Being comfortable with each other is so important to the enjoyment and that truly only comes from spending time together naked.

This 100%

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By *og-ManMan
37 weeks ago

somewhere

Just over 2 years worth at this stage

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By *exyScientistsCouple
37 weeks ago

Castlebar

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By *andi19Couple
37 weeks ago

somewhere

We had a couple as regulars for a good few months, meeting almost every weekend! It was amazing!

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By *exyScientistsCouple
37 weeks ago

Castlebar

Early days but hoping for repeats to build a connection and have the anticipation and excitement of seeing someone again. Rather than the first time nerves

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By *astelloWoman
37 weeks ago

Far far away

Fwb is my thing.. Essentially a friend first. With a good healthy dose of lets get very naughty

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By *carlett!Woman
37 weeks ago

I think repeat meets can be good, but everyone needs to be on the same page

The more you meet, the better you know what the other likes.

Disclaimer: I seldom do repeat meets lol don't know if that says more about me or the guys/girls I've met

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By *ubadubdubWoman
37 weeks ago

Hereabouts

"I think repeat meets can be good, but everyone needs to be on the same page

The more you meet, the better you know what the other likes.

Disclaimer: I seldom do repeat meets lol don't know if that says more about me or the guys/girls I've met

Same here

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By *anandjoCouple
37 weeks ago

Lurgan

We started as a one off, progressed to “scratching an itch” and here we are quite a few months later still scratching that itch but as a couple now. Definitely more satisfying than random one off meets

Jo x

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By *antra MassageMan
37 weeks ago

South Side.

I much prefer repeat meets. It takes a while to get to know a woman, and how she likes to be touched and satisfied. A regular FWB is what I'm looking for.

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By *asual777Man
37 weeks ago

i travel all over

I used to worry about it turning into a relationship but it’s fine really

Especially if there are others

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I must be in my own with this but I never liked repeats for a long time. I put that down to going through a divorce though. But 8/9 months ago I met someone on Fab who changed my mind on that, and he still rocks my world.

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By *chochamber OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Munster

"I must be in my own with this but I never liked repeats for a long time. I put that down to going through a divorce though. But 8/9 months ago I met someone on Fab who changed my mind on that, and he still rocks my world. "

Very sweet..... Think you are similar to me.

But I ld (usually) meet a handful of times and then move on. It feels weird to me if I m not drifting on after 5 or 6 times.

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By *hilaboutMan
37 weeks ago

kilkenny

Such a beautiful confidence boost when a lady wants repeat meets .can be so special

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By *oy.2022Man
37 weeks ago

Dublin

To repeat meet, I need to have a meet first

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By *aseylee324Couple
37 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Realistically for me, the thrill is in the hunt, I'm going to get bored after a couple of meets unless there are long intervals between them. Plus someone pushing for repeats is a turn off.

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By *voidingboredomMan
37 weeks ago

around

I agree with alot of the points made. I love the thrill of the hubby too, the flirting and the actual challenge of getting someone into bed.

It's a real boost when they want to meet again, and the sex is usually better the more you know what each other likes!

But I couldn't meet the same person every week no matter how well we got along unless it was more than sex. A few times in a year for sex sure but it is a bit of a turn off if someone is always looking to meet

Not that I've anyone breaking down my door, mind you

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By *urganguyMan
37 weeks ago

around

"We started as a one off, progressed to “scratching an itch” and here we are quite a few months later still scratching that itch but as a couple now. Definitely more satisfying than random one off meets

Jo x"

And I'll second that much more comfortable with each other privately and exploring together. Have developed a very close bond where we can sound ideas off each other in a free and no judgement way.

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By *xcited99Couple
37 weeks ago

omagh

"I find time sex is always a bit awkward I think sex with someone new only really gets really great by the third time,l. It takes time to figure out someone's vibe and preferences.

So unless things go bad the first times were usually looking to do another meet. We totally agree with this.

You can't get bored of someone if you only see them every few months, instead the anticipation of seeing them again makes it kind of explosive!"

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
37 weeks ago

Midlands

Repeat meets with a likeminded individual definitely ups the naughtiness and ensures relentless devilment

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By *lingSeeker17Man
36 weeks ago

Cork//Limerick

With repeat meets you can be casually undressing each other while catching up with each others news or or discussing the rugby or the hurling. I’ve had one lady call me over for an opinion on an outfit to wear on her next meet!

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By *unandcuriousCouple
36 weeks ago

Antrim

We have stuck with the same guy for a good few years and everything is as exciting as the last and feel really comfortable and want it more and more

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By *eijaWoman
36 weeks ago

City Centre

Repeat meets are my absolute favourite with the right person. I don't see an issue if you are both open, honest and on the same page. The fun just gets better and better in my opinion.

I have had some amazing fwbs that I have met for years and we still gravitate back towards each other.

B x

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