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What does attraction feel like for you?

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By *electableicecream OP   Man
38 weeks ago

The West

Do you get flutters or forget how to speak?

I can get really distracted by the urge to kiss someone to the point where I lose track of the conversation.

If I'm crushing on someone I can feel like an awkward teenager again and get quite amused with myself.

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By *astelloWoman
38 weeks ago

Far far away

I get giggly.. I get an incredible urge to rub my hands all over their chest.. Naked one of course..of course highly inappropriate in the wrong situation. Something about neck, chest and shoulders that give me the flutters.

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By *lipyourflopMan
38 weeks ago

Dublin

I fart alot. That's how you know I like you. The more excited I get the squeakier the fart.

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By *hivers2020Woman
38 weeks ago

lolli land

I stare and smile like an eejit, especially when they are talking and then I rabbit on and constantly forget my trail of thought so end up just standing there, and if they say something funny I laugh too hard and snort, can never manage to think of anything witty to retort with and yeah, generally become the most unfanciable female on the planet! Oh and chance are I’ll either fall in front of them or spill my drink, or spit it out, what ever unattractive qualities you can think of…. That’s me

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By *elle111Woman
38 weeks ago

NI

If I make eye contact and the chemistry is strong I will look everywhere but ur eyes lol lol until we get intimate then I can see into ur soul. and yep the urge to kiss someone u are attracted too is distracting! And such a let down if they aren’t a great kisser, it is dead in the water.

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By *otownkid1967Man
38 weeks ago

Portlaoise

I start to speak very fast and repeat myself

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I smile a lot and can’t look away, it usually involves a lot of teasing too, sometimes to the point where one woman actually thought I didn’t like her, it’s adolescent like, I know but I genuinely can’t help it.

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By *ealitybitesMan
38 weeks ago

Belfast

I'm assuming I'm different from most because for me there is no nervous anticipation, no distraction or noticeable tingle.

Everything is in the moment and by the time I lean in for that first kiss it's more of a test to see if the kiss conveys a sense of passion and intensity.

I've had meets with women who would be classed as fab hot and it has been extremely easy to not be attracted to them in person because of their attitude.

I'm rarely attracted to anyone who isn't attracted to me.

One of the joys of anhedonia.

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By *oodOmensfor2Couple
38 weeks ago

Ennis

Definitely get the flutters and start overthinking every little thing I do or say in their presence.

Mrs

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By *chochamberWoman
38 weeks ago

Munster

I talk.... Incessantly

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By *eralt80Man
38 weeks ago

cork

I definitely get the butterflies in the tummy and turn into a jibbering idiot, never knowing what to say.

Although some say I’m a jibbering idiot at the best of times.

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By *aseylee324Couple
38 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more."

Snap

Hearts of stone

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.

Snap

Hearts of stone "

Sorry I’m not going to believe you or Caseylee, attraction is defined as the action or power of evoking interest in or liking for someone or something. That to me means emotion of some kind so I can’t believe you guys,

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By *ot Pins2000Woman
38 weeks ago

belfast

Oh I get the flutters and get all ‘touchy’ and sometimes giggly. Love that feeling though!

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By *aseylee324Couple
38 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows


"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.

Snap

Hearts of stone

Sorry I’m not going to believe you or Caseylee, attraction is defined as the action or power of evoking interest in or liking for someone or something. That to me means emotion of some kind so I can’t believe you guys, "

Liking someone and wanting to have sex with them are two different things

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.

Snap

Hearts of stone

Sorry I’m not going to believe you or Caseylee, attraction is defined as the action or power of evoking interest in or liking for someone or something. That to me means emotion of some kind so I can’t believe you guys, "
I don't even like myself

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By *electableicecream OP   Man
38 weeks ago

The West

I was at a fab social recently and was introduced to someone who was so outrageously attractive to me I think all I managed was a single 'hi' and then I just stood there until I could escape.

I would have found this very embarrassing as a younger guy but these days it's quite funny and I just laugh at myself. In fact I'm sure I'll tell them what happened the next time we meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Heightened awareness, positive mood and the good old chemical reaction

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By *og-ManMan
38 weeks ago

somewhere


"I was at a fab social recently and was introduced to someone who was so outrageously attractive to me I think all I managed was a single 'hi' and then I just stood there until I could escape.

I would have found this very embarrassing as a younger guy but these days it's quite funny and I just laugh at myself. In fact I'm sure I'll tell them what happened the next time we meet!"

Its ok I knew

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By *rish_GuyMan
38 weeks ago

Foxford

For some strange reason I can't really say what I do, when I'm attracted to a woman.

The closest thing to it, that I do is keep looking at her for a time, then for some reason, when I'm talking to her, I'll start to look everywhere else, but her.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
38 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Id be Shy and unable to think of something sensible to say so the Conversation would dry up rapidly , then id make an excuse and head away quickly lol

Co .

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By *j47Man
38 weeks ago

limerick


"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.

Snap

Hearts of stone "

Old age more like

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.

Snap

Hearts of stone

Old age more like "

Ah how timely of you to appear

Now I remember I do get a bit of a twitch from the thoughts of pegging you

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By *j47Man
38 weeks ago

limerick


"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.

Snap

Hearts of stone

Old age more like

Ah how timely of you to appear

Now I remember I do get a bit of a twitch from the thoughts of pegging you "

Reminds me to wear my galvanized undies when meeting u

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By *eehornyWoman
38 weeks ago

Mayo

Like alot here (which I find comforting) I'd go shy and probably blush and start to mix up my words. A few have said it's cute but I beg to differ

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

It really depends on a few things. If it's unexpected then I can stumble and get taken aback. If it's in a situation where I'm already heightened I'll be extremely calm and intense. If I can I'll be in control, unless I'm surprised, then it's lust. I love it when this happens.

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By *ozzlesMan
38 weeks ago

galway

I get efficient, it drives me nuts but I just start trying to organise and arrange things or tidy stuff. Its like subconsciously I want to show off or something, then I realise I'm doing it and overcompensate by trying to look paid back and then realise I look like a complete spa! I really shouldn't be let out in public at all

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