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"I hear this a good bit from couples, lads should realise its fun to play with both, ?? ?? " It’s that guys are full on lying about being bi. You don’t have to be bi, god knows it’s not for everyone. But don’t lie. It’s like lying about your height, it’ll come out eventually! | |||
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"They say unicorns are rare, what about mature couples with a bi guy?" That’s us .It’s himself that’s bi and what we like most in a threesome is MMF | |||
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 this is a joke but it would certainly separate the “weak from the shaft”
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"If also you wish to play with she, first these three tests you must pass with he. - himself" Whats the 3 tests | |||
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"If also you wish to play with she, first these three tests you must pass with he. - himself Whats the 3 tests " My car really needs a wash, so that might be the first. I've got needs too, Bog! | |||
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"If also you wish to play with she, first these three tests you must pass with he. - himself Whats the 3 tests My car really needs a wash, so that might be the first. I've got needs too, Bog!" How about a coffee at the drive thru car wash in Omni | |||
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"They say unicorns are rare, what about mature couples with a bi guy? That’s us .It’s himself that’s bi and what we like most in a threesome is MMF " We are a rare breed. There are few likeminded couples on here! Nice to see another one  | |||
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"It's very hard to know what single guys are bi and those that are straight. Veris do help in this situation. If there is no mention of the guy having any bi experiences, then just move on.A coffee meet is helpful as well to find out what is expected from everyone if a meet is to go ahead." Agree Verification has a lot to say about that person’s lifestyle | |||
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"I really find that weird that guys don’t have the balls to say they are bi. Being bi is a lifestyle and not a crime. Often guys pretend to be a couple as well just to play with another guys. I have atleast 10 in my blocklist" A couples profile dmed me the other night for the 3rd time in 4 months looking to know if I wanted to play and again as usual there was no wife. They have veris on profile and he is down as straight . It really is hard to know these days | |||
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"If also you wish to play with she, first these three tests you must pass with he. - himself Whats the 3 tests My car really needs a wash, so that might be the first. I've got needs too, Bog! How about a coffee at the drive thru car wash in Omni "Make it a flat white with a Premium wash and you got yourself a pass on the first test. | |||
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"So this has been a bit of recurring theme/issue for us and other bi couples. Single men will swear up and down that they are bi at a social then pay absolutely zero attention to D. We have even had men attempt to cuck D Total waste of a meet. We never have meets without a social meet first and we discuss it thoroughly but it’s still an issue. Then recently at a planned social meet (in a bar) a young guy started chatting to us and full on bragged about lying that he’s bi-sexual just to get “at the missis” and not caring what the bloke does “once he’s getting at her”. Mind bogglingly stupid. Have any other bi couples found a way around this. As it is, we don’t meet anyone who doesn’t have “bi” on their profile. " Guys on this site will say mass to get their leg over | |||
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"So this has been a bit of recurring theme/issue for us and other bi couples. Single men will swear up and down that they are bi at a social then pay absolutely zero attention to D. We have even had men attempt to cuck D Total waste of a meet. We never have meets without a social meet first and we discuss it thoroughly but it’s still an issue. Then recently at a planned social meet (in a bar) a young guy started chatting to us and full on bragged about lying that he’s bi-sexual just to get “at the missis” and not caring what the bloke does “once he’s getting at her”. Mind bogglingly stupid. Have any other bi couples found a way around this. As it is, we don’t meet anyone who doesn’t have “bi” on their profile. Guys on this site will say mass to get their leg over " What is mass? I am not very religious  | |||
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"Maybe he's the priest... am sure there's a few on here???" | |||
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"So this has been a bit of recurring theme/issue for us and other bi couples. Single men will swear up and down that they are bi at a social then pay absolutely zero attention to D. We have even had men attempt to cuck D Total waste of a meet. We never have meets without a social meet first and we discuss it thoroughly but it’s still an issue. Then recently at a planned social meet (in a bar) a young guy started chatting to us and full on bragged about lying that he’s bi-sexual just to get “at the missis” and not caring what the bloke does “once he’s getting at her”. Mind bogglingly stupid. Have any other bi couples found a way around this. As it is, we don’t meet anyone who doesn’t have “bi” on their profile. " I really don't understand at all why they say there bi and then not! In my experience in groups, I have seen many times guys saying there bi but at the end there not! We usually ask them to leave if they slip by us. There not happy but we don't really care! I usually say it straight out to couples, yes I bi and vers... I also play straight if required. | |||
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"So this has been a bit of recurring theme/issue for us and other bi couples. Single men will swear up and down that they are bi at a social then pay absolutely zero attention to D. We have even had men attempt to cuck D Total waste of a meet. We never have meets without a social meet first and we discuss it thoroughly but it’s still an issue. Then recently at a planned social meet (in a bar) a young guy started chatting to us and full on bragged about lying that he’s bi-sexual just to get “at the missis” and not caring what the bloke does “once he’s getting at her”. Mind bogglingly stupid. Have any other bi couples found a way around this. As it is, we don’t meet anyone who doesn’t have “bi” on their profile. I really don't understand at all why they say there bi and then not! In my experience in groups, I have seen many times guys saying there bi but at the end there not! We usually ask them to leave if they slip by us. There not happy but we don't really care! I usually say it straight out to couples, yes I bi and vers... I also play straight if required." Some guys this is an easy opt in but in reality they don’t even know what being bi truly means. | |||
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"If also you wish to play with she, first these three tests you must pass with he. - himself Whats the 3 tests My car really needs a wash, so that might be the first. I've got needs too, Bog! How about a coffee at the drive thru car wash in Omni
Make it a flat white with a Premium wash and you got yourself a pass on the first test.
"Oh. I also want a snack bar. I may be easy, but I aint cheap. | |||
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"If also you wish to play with she, first these three tests you must pass with he. - himself Whats the 3 tests My car really needs a wash, so that might be the first. I've got needs too, Bog! How about a coffee at the drive thru car wash in Omni
Make it a flat white with a Premium wash and you got yourself a pass on the first test.
Oh. I also want a snack bar.
I may be easy, but I aint cheap."Purple one I presume ....I did buy apples the last time and they were from Marks & Spencer ... | |||
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"So this has been a bit of recurring theme/issue for us and other bi couples. Single men will swear up and down that they are bi at a social then pay absolutely zero attention to D. We have even had men attempt to cuck D Total waste of a meet. We never have meets without a social meet first and we discuss it thoroughly but it’s still an issue. Then recently at a planned social meet (in a bar) a young guy started chatting to us and full on bragged about lying that he’s bi-sexual just to get “at the missis” and not caring what the bloke does “once he’s getting at her”. Mind bogglingly stupid. Have any other bi couples found a way around this. As it is, we don’t meet anyone who doesn’t have “bi” on their profile. Guys on this site will say mass to get their leg over " Amen | |||
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"If also you wish to play with she, first these three tests you must pass with he. - himself Whats the 3 tests My car really needs a wash, so that might be the first. I've got needs too, Bog! How about a coffee at the drive thru car wash in Omni
Make it a flat white with a Premium wash and you got yourself a pass on the first test.
Oh. I also want a snack bar.
I may be easy, but I aint cheap.
Purple one I presume ....I did buy apples the last time and they were from Marks & Spencer ..."What no Donuts??? Should be ashamed of yourself BM.  | |||
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"So this has been a bit of recurring theme/issue for us and other bi couples. Single men will swear up and down that they are bi at a social then pay absolutely zero attention to D. We have even had men attempt to cuck D Total waste of a meet. We never have meets without a social meet first and we discuss it thoroughly but it’s still an issue. Then recently at a planned social meet (in a bar) a young guy started chatting to us and full on bragged about lying that he’s bi-sexual just to get “at the missis” and not caring what the bloke does “once he’s getting at her”. Mind bogglingly stupid. Have any other bi couples found a way around this. As it is, we don’t meet anyone who doesn’t have “bi” on their profile. " I've had the opposite effect where I talk to a bi couple and say as bi as I go I'd get a double bj, wouldn't do anything else bi. Told that's grand by both in the couple, then keep chatting and eventually talk leads to planning a meet up, suddenly there mood changes to if I don't suck dick and get fucked in the ass there is no chance of meet. When I told them "hold on, you never mentioned any of this being mandatory for a meet", I was told you should have with a bi couple and blasted as being a time waster. So my experiences, gobshites and lack of communication on both sides when it comes to these matters/scenarios | |||
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"Verified Bi Only seems to be the only way....or ask them for their Fab Guys Profile....and check that out. " That seems to be the solution. Check his verifications and if there is no mention of bisexual fun then chances are he isn’t. On the other side of that coin as a straight male who enjoys a mfm, I would always read verifications on a couples profile to ensure I’m not wasting their time or vice versa. | |||
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"For us, the guy must say bi on his profile. What's as frustrating, are people who don't read our profile and are surprised when say we are only interested in bi. Bi is best "Absolutely Living the best of both worlds | |||
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"This has happened to us on a few occasions Beginning to realise guys will say anything for an a sexual oppprtunity "Funny that Hatter I attempted to arrange a meet with you and I got excuse after excuse. | |||
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"This has happened to us on a few occasions Beginning to realise guys will say anything for an a sexual oppprtunity
Funny that Hatter I attempted to arrange a meet with you and I got excuse after excuse."firstly Sam it was Mrs hatter that put up them two posts in reply to the op s initial text here,so less of the "funny that hatter". You know well there were reasons that we didn't get to meet, which were always at cliffony beach which didn't suit both of to be there at the same times,,so no need for the accusations.. in my reply to the op s text I fully agree, because we have got every sort of offer of bi fun with me in pretense of getting a direct route to have fun with Fiona, from the, he can suck my cock for a few mins and then i will fuck Fiona, I will rim both of ye , before i fuck Iona, etc etc, endless offers with the same agenda,, ok in fairness we are ing them out and currently have some genuine guys we interested in. Maybe there should be a Kik group set up for couples with genuine bi guys and see how that pans out.. | |||
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"This has happened to us on a few occasions Beginning to realise guys will say anything for an a sexual oppprtunity
Funny that Hatter I attempted to arrange a meet with you and I got excuse after excuse. firstly Sam it was Mrs hatter that put up them two posts in reply to the op s initial text here,so less of the "funny that hatter". You know well there were reasons that we didn't get to meet, which were always at cliffony beach which didn't suit both of to be there at the same times,,so no need for the accusations.. in my reply to the op s text I fully agree, because we have got every sort of offer of bi fun with me in pretense of getting a direct route to have fun with Fiona, from the, he can suck my cock for a few mins and then i will fuck Fiona, I will rim both of ye , before i fuck Iona, etc etc, endless offers with the same agenda,, ok in fairness we are ing them out and currently have some genuine guys we interested in. Maybe there should be a Kik group set up for couples with genuine bi guys and see how that pans out.. "Ha ha I'd rim you both just to get at Henry and hoover ur house ?? ?? | |||
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"This has happened to us on a few occasions Beginning to realise guys will say anything for an a sexual oppprtunity
Funny that Hatter I attempted to arrange a meet with you and I got excuse after excuse. firstly Sam it was Mrs hatter that put up them two posts in reply to the op s initial text here,so less of the "funny that hatter". You know well there were reasons that we didn't get to meet, which were always at cliffony beach which didn't suit both of to be there at the same times,,so no need for the accusations.. in my reply to the op s text I fully agree, because we have got every sort of offer of bi fun with me in pretense of getting a direct route to have fun with Fiona, from the, he can suck my cock for a few mins and then i will fuck Fiona, I will rim both of ye , before i fuck Iona, etc etc, endless offers with the same agenda,, ok in fairness we are ing them out and currently have some genuine guys we interested in. Maybe there should be a Kik group set up for couples with genuine bi guys and see how that pans out..
Ha ha I'd rim you both just to get at Henry and hoover ur house ?? ?? "Missed Henry...long time admirer of that photo | |||
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"So this has been a bit of recurring theme/issue for us and other bi couples. Single men will swear up and down that they are bi at a social then pay absolutely zero attention to D. We have even had men attempt to cuck D Total waste of a meet. We never have meets without a social meet first and we discuss it thoroughly but it’s still an issue. Then recently at a planned social meet (in a bar) a young guy started chatting to us and full on bragged about lying that he’s bi-sexual just to get “at the missis” and not caring what the bloke does “once he’s getting at her”. Mind bogglingly stupid. Have any other bi couples found a way around this. As it is, we don’t meet anyone who doesn’t have “bi” on their profile. I've had the opposite effect where I talk to a bi couple and say as bi as I go I'd get a double bj, wouldn't do anything else bi. Told that's grand by both in the couple, then keep chatting and eventually talk leads to planning a meet up, suddenly there mood changes to if I don't suck dick and get fucked in the ass there is no chance of meet. When I told them "hold on, you never mentioned any of this being mandatory for a meet", I was told you should have with a bi couple and blasted as being a time waster. So my experiences, gobshites and lack of communication on both sides when it comes to these matters/scenarios" To be fair, that sounds a lot more like a disrespect for boundaries. You don’t read as bi AT ALL. You just don’t care who sucks your cock. if anyone ignored my boundaries like that I’d be out the door, and I have been. But I’d never call myself bi when I just don’t care who gives me head. LOL | |||
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"For us, the guy must say bi on his profile. What's as frustrating, are people who don't read our profile and are surprised when say we are only interested in bi. Bi is best "Bi is best! Though I appreciate how hard it is for couples to find a real bi guy. I regulary had to pass a questionaire to show how bi I am | |||
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"I'm bi and love swinging both ways.Genuine bi guys should be verified as such.Then you know you are meeting a genuine bi guy. " This 100% | |||
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"We'd be up for a kik group for bi guys and bi-friendly couples" Sounds great, but my experience when I crossed dressed was bi guys are a disaster for meeting, I was pretty dam good at it too. I'm man enough to doll myself but yet most guys love the chase, rinse and repeat. Stupid messages, not reading the profile, and some were indignantly passive aggressive. I learned a lot about men during the cross dressing phase, a good honest funny genuine guy is a dime a dozen. Same stupid messages, a lot of them were a waste of time besides my verifications they were all good honest men and trans... | |||
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"In the short length of time I've (Mr)been on here I couldn't concur more with what you say.. Guys will be Guys,will swear blind that they are bi or Bicurious in order to get access to the female..That includes lying." We totally agree with this | |||
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"This has happened to us on a few occasions Beginning to realise guys will say anything for an a sexual oppprtunity
Funny that Hatter I attempted to arrange a meet with you and I got excuse after excuse. firstly Sam it was Mrs hatter that put up them two posts in reply to the op s initial text here,so less of the "funny that hatter". You know well there were reasons that we didn't get to meet, which were always at cliffony beach which didn't suit both of to be there at the same times,,so no need for the accusations.. in my reply to the op s text I fully agree, because we have got every sort of offer of bi fun with me in pretense of getting a direct route to have fun with Fiona, from the, he can suck my cock for a few mins and then i will fuck Fiona, I will rim both of ye , before i fuck Iona, etc etc, endless offers with the same agenda,, ok in fairness we are ing them out and currently have some genuine guys we interested in. Maybe there should be a Kik group set up for couples with genuine bi guys and see how that pans out.. "Thats bad . | |||
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"In fairness Olivia could u blame them.... Yr stunning.. most guys would happily suck ur hubby to be with u... but many would not take his cock as not all bottom" Appreciate that Broweyes. I understand people may not be bottoms and that's fine. We wouldn't force someone to do something against their will or uncomfortable with. But lying to people isn't on. If a guy is straight atleast admit that and save wasting time. | |||
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"In fairness Olivia could u blame them.... Yr stunning.. most guys would happily suck ur hubby to be with u... but many would not take his cock as not all bottom Appreciate that Broweyes. I understand people may not be bottoms and that's fine. We wouldn't force someone to do something against their will or uncomfortable with. But lying to people isn't on. If a guy is straight atleast admit that and save wasting time. " agree on that.. lot of time wasters on here who just want to chat.. you have to be selective.. and even at that its hard find the genuine ones... long process to tho for us newbies to get to that trusted level... | |||
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"I'm bi and love swinging both ways.Genuine bi guys should be verified as such.Then you know you are meeting a genuine bi guy. " Very true - can verify himself | |||
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"This is a double edged sword,some bi's lie about being straight and straight about being bi. I'm straight but get messages from straight guys! Everyone would get on better here if they stated clearly on their profile what their orientation was. To out the guys lieing to get at the female is simple, have him communicate with the male only and be clear that's she's in the dugout until the second half of the game and only brought into play if he scores in the first half." Thats playing senior hurling alright | |||
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"I hear this a good bit from couples, lads should realise its fun to play with both, ?? ?? It’s that guys are full on lying about being bi. You don’t have to be bi, god knows it’s not for everyone. But don’t lie. It’s like lying about your height, it’ll come out eventually!" Read the verifications and you can see that they are meeting bi couples.. | |||
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"I hear this a good bit from couples, lads should realise its fun to play with both, ?? ?? " It's the best fun to play with both, I love it.. | |||
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 Not cool, guys 
One of my (Mr.) biggest turnoffs is being told (typically in the first message) that a guy isn't bi but they'll let me suck their cock if I want. No thanks. Wrong approach mate. Instant no.
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"Can't understand why someone would lie about been bi and actually not , Its the opposite for me , i find it hard to meet couples because I'm bi , " Absolutely the opposite effect for some of us at least Added to that that you have a public face pic- some of us are weird I guess  | |||
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"Can't understand why someone would lie about been bi and actually not , Its the opposite for me , i find it hard to meet couples because I'm bi , " That's the exact issue I have..I can play it straight in a MMF but prefer it bi. Very difficult to find anyone interested. Maybe I should move to Ireland. | |||
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"Can't understand why someone would lie about been bi and actually not , Its the opposite for me , i find it hard to meet couples because I'm bi , That's the exact issue I have..I can play it straight in a MMF but prefer it bi. Very difficult to find anyone interested. Maybe I should move to Ireland." Let us know how you get on with that! | |||
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"Mr is not bi so we’ve no experience with this which is probably evident in my reply but I can totally see how this would happen often on here. I’m curious…if you set out more expectations about the bi play during a threesome from the start then the MFM does it change the outcome at all? If you said F will only join in occasionally but we’d love to start off with….are you interested in playing with both? If they were straight you’d hope if they know it’ll start off with more bi play it would scare them into owning up from the start. When you chat with them about bi play and what you both like at the social do they still bluff it? How irritating…and for them to try and cuckhold is just disrespectful when it’s not asked for. Sorry you’ve had these experiences " In our experience, we haven't had any lads overtly lie about it when it came to it in the bedroom. Maybe we're just lucky or pretty good about sussing out the chancers? Or maybe it's because we prefer a bi MMF but have often not required it so there was no reason to lie about it. The "straight" guys who offer their cock to me (Mr) to suck though... Feels like they're offering me a consolation prize Not hot dude.
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"Theres only one way to find out if they are bi or not, see how good they are at sucking cock "Met a couple off-site a whilst back. As it turns out my sucking skills were better than hers! Still meet him when I can get to Dublin...which is often | |||
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"I think most prefer ver, but not that I have such huge experience to stand by it" I've had a handful of meets with bi MFM and there's been a vers preference with all of those. | |||
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"I think most prefer ver, but not that I have such huge experience to stand by it I've had a handful of meets with bi MFM and there's been a vers preference with all of those. " Can't speak for others - have absolutely no data apart from the few people who share on Fab and other such sites.. Depends on the vibe from the guy- we're switches here and go with whatever feels right | |||
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"don't get it I get plenty messages from guys but then you look at profile it says straight and interested in women only. they need to be honest with themselves first " In our experience, that's almost always not because they're lying to themselves, but as a means to get with the women and couples who have "no bi men" on their profiles | |||
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"So this has been a bit of recurring theme/issue for us and other bi couples. Single men will swear up and down that they are bi at a social then pay absolutely zero attention to D. We have even had men attempt to cuck D Total waste of a meet. We never have meets without a social meet first and we discuss it thoroughly but it’s still an issue. Then recently at a planned social meet (in a bar) a young guy started chatting to us and full on bragged about lying that he’s bi-sexual just to get “at the missis” and not caring what the bloke does “once he’s getting at her”. Mind bogglingly stupid. Have any other bi couples found a way around this. As it is, we don’t meet anyone who doesn’t have “bi” on their profile. I've had the opposite effect where I talk to a bi couple and say as bi as I go I'd get a double bj, wouldn't do anything else bi. Told that's grand by both in the couple, then keep chatting and eventually talk leads to planning a meet up, suddenly there mood changes to if I don't suck dick and get fucked in the ass there is no chance of meet. When I told them "hold on, you never mentioned any of this being mandatory for a meet", I was told you should have with a bi couple and blasted as being a time waster. So my experiences, gobshites and lack of communication on both sides when it comes to these matters/scenarios" Can ya send me a PM with their name. Seem fun. | |||
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"don't get it I get plenty messages from guys but then you look at profile it says straight and interested in women only. they need to be honest with themselves first In our experience, that's almost always not because they're lying to themselves, but as a means to get with the women and couples who have "no bi men" on their profiles "I imagine some have it to limit how many messages they get from men too. I've enjoyed my experiences with men but still have a preference for women and so don't need my inbox flooded with half assed messages and dick pics. Changed it to be more honest about my sexuality but checking messages was definitely a nicer experience before! | |||
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"don't get it I get plenty messages from guys but then you look at profile it says straight and interested in women only. they need to be honest with themselves first In our experience, that's almost always not because they're lying to themselves, but as a means to get with the women and couples who have "no bi men" on their profiles
I imagine some have it to limit how many messages they get from men too.
I've enjoyed my experiences with men but still have a preference for women and so don't need my inbox flooded with half assed messages and dick pics. Changed it to be more honest about my sexuality but checking messages was definitely a nicer experience before!"That's exactly why there are gender based mail filters though | |||
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"don't get it I get plenty messages from guys but then you look at profile it says straight and interested in women only. they need to be honest with themselves first In our experience, that's almost always not because they're lying to themselves, but as a means to get with the women and couples who have "no bi men" on their profiles "There’s also a cohort of people that, even if they’re not explicitly ‘no bi men’, are still very dubious of bi men… They can be open minded initially while still harbouring pretty deep-seated doubts below the surface. Which means that trust is harder to establish from the off and the interactions less straightforward. Easier (but not ethical of course) to just pretend in such scenarios…. | |||
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"All I know is its hard to get in with a nice bi couple. I'm starting to think this may be why. I'm Bi. Top only but as for all other play I'm in. Love when everyone plays together. I think some of the replies here are bang on. A lot of guys will say anything to get the ride but it's a low act to mislead a couple like that then enter the dynamic they should consider themselves lucky to have been let in only to single out one of you. They are absolute low life's. Should be able to name n shame or at very " It's a pity you are far away but a top is my guys dream. He's Verse bottom. Tops are hard to find I'm sure you are snowed under | |||
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"So this has been a bit of recurring theme/issue for us and other bi couples. Single men will swear up and down that they are bi at a social then pay absolutely zero attention to D. We have even had men attempt to cuck D Total waste of a meet. We never have meets without a social meet first and we discuss it thoroughly but it’s still an issue. Then recently at a planned social meet (in a bar) a young guy started chatting to us and full on bragged about lying that he’s bi-sexual just to get “at the missis” and not caring what the bloke does “once he’s getting at her”. Mind bogglingly stupid. Have any other bi couples found a way around this. As it is, we don’t meet anyone who doesn’t have “bi” on their profile. " Had a meeting with a couple last year in NYC. He wasn't my cup of tea but once we start playing I enjoyed it | |||
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"Y’all should do a blow job test at the start! this is a joke but it would certainly separate the “weak from the shaft”
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"When couples are looking for bi males Is it mainly Tops Bottoms Or ver" Both but Tops at the 'top' of the list | |||
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"All I know is its hard to get in with a nice bi couple. I'm starting to think this may be why. I'm Bi. Top only but as for all other play I'm in. Love when everyone plays together. I think some of the replies here are bang on. A lot of guys will say anything to get the ride but it's a low act to mislead a couple like that then enter the dynamic they should consider themselves lucky to have been let in only to single out one of you. They are absolute low life's. Should be able to name n shame or at very It's a pity you are far away but a top is my guys dream. He's Verse bottom. Tops are hard to find I'm sure you are snowed under" I'm actually surprised tops are hard to find. | |||
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) and always love to put on a show with the man for the lady... If she decides to join in or just watch and direct even better. I might be wrong the i think that's the whole idea of being with a couple with a BI MAN. So yeah, any tests are welcome ?? | |||
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"don't get it I get plenty messages from guys but then you look at profile it says straight and interested in women only. they need to be honest with themselves first In our experience, that's almost always not because they're lying to themselves, but as a means to get with the women and couples who have "no bi men" on their profiles "This is so very much the case. Conversely though, the amount of couples who say no bi men on their profiles but are happy for bi women to contact them is quite hilarious. Each to their own I guess. Great post LosBeautifuks! ?? | |||
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"We had a guy message 2 weeks ago said he was bi-curious then a day before we were auto meet he started saying that he wasn’t and wouldn’t play with the 2 of us only L and got really pushy about how he wanted to meet at a certain time and place and saying that D could watch but definitely no go near him … Some people just think they are gods gift ….." Sadly there are plenty of weirdos on this site. Give genuine people a bad name. | |||
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"We had a guy message 2 weeks ago said he was bi-curious then a day before we were auto meet he started saying that he wasn’t and wouldn’t play with the 2 of us only L and got really pushy about how he wanted to meet at a certain time and place and saying that D could watch but definitely no go near him … Some people just think they are gods gift ….." We've decided to exclude the ones who say bi-curious and also the ones who are straight on their profile but claiming otherwise in my inbox. I just blocked someone who said yes he'd play with my bf as long as there's a female to play with. Presumably he means me but I'm not exactly flattered. | |||
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"We had a guy message 2 weeks ago said he was bi-curious then a day before we were auto meet he started saying that he wasn’t and wouldn’t play with the 2 of us only L and got really pushy about how he wanted to meet at a certain time and place and saying that D could watch but definitely no go near him … Some people just think they are gods gift ….. We've decided to exclude the ones who say bi-curious and also the ones who are straight on their profile but claiming otherwise in my inbox. I just blocked someone who said yes he'd play with my bf as long as there's a female to play with. Presumably he means me but I'm not exactly flattered. " The charmer!  | |||
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"As a Top i have found iam rarer than i wpuld have gussed. And frpm my point of view the whole point of meeting a Bi couple is to play with and be played with by both. Its kind of what it says on the tin. 3some." Agreed . Guys who do this are greedy selfish fuckers. They wouldn't chat to an all male couple. So what gives them the right to chance their are with a bi couple | |||
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"As with all sexuality types Bisexual people can experience alot of negativity from self proclaimed "straight people". The sexuality spectrum has seven different types, check it out its a interesting read. attraction is a must,if a person is identifying as Bisexual it doesn't mean they'll be with any male that shows interest or claims to be Bi...communication is key to navigate hard and soft limits and likes and dislikes. Ie. Bi-top ,Bi-bottom , Bi- vers. " Totally agree. The amount of husbands that think you'll fuck them simply because your bi. Is gas . | |||
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"Agree with this above. The other problem is I am Bi. I am attracted to Woman As well! Yes iam a BI TOP and there are some very fuckable guys on here, but when it comes to couples i want a free. flowing 3some. Also sometimes i like a 1on1 with Girls. Sometimes in the messages i get its ALL about the guy, i get it and yes I will Fuck your Husband, but do you want me to fuck you as well? Iam Not a Cock on a spring, i would like to enjoy myself to, not just fullfill a fantasy but have some of mine fullfilled as well." As with a FFM. We're of the mind if you invite someone into our bed. They should be spoiled by both of us. All 3 should get equal amounts of attention. | |||
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"Agree with this above. The other problem is I am Bi. I am attracted to Woman As well! Yes iam a BI TOP and there are some very fuckable guys on here, but when it comes to couples i want a free. flowing 3some. Also sometimes i like a 1on1 with Girls. Sometimes in the messages i get its ALL about the guy, i get it and yes I will Fuck your Husband, but do you want me to fuck you as well? Iam Not a Cock on a spring, i would like to enjoy myself to, not just fullfill a fantasy but have some of mine fullfilled as well. As with a FFM. We're of the mind if you invite someone into our bed. They should be spoiled by both of us. All 3 should get equal amounts of attention. " | |||
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" i get it and yes I will Fuck your Husband, but do you want me to fuck you as well? " The answer to this is not really, I don't necessarily want to be fucked. I am quite happy to watch my bf be fucked by a guy. So I know that's not what you want to hear in particular but I am upfront about this with my messages and always advocate clear communication from the outset. I would say I would chase a lot of single guys away but that's also fine. But neither am I going to dangle a fuck with me as bait so I can enjoy seeing my bf having a great time. | |||
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"Sorry for some reason it was not logging my post as a response quote to yours. Honesty upfront is always cool. It was the point i was trying to make as it happens." That's fair | |||
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"Well it's VA Bi night for us tomorrow, and we are definitely looking for Bi play for MM fun as well as F being involved." VA bi night is best club night about. ( well I’m torn between it’s and Chams BBW event) I love VA perfect mix of relaxed and play area | |||
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"Well it's VA Bi night for us tomorrow, and we are definitely looking for Bi play for MM fun as well as F being involved. VA bi night is best club night about. ( well I’m torn between it’s and Chams BBW event) I don't know what VA is but enjoy! I love VA perfect mix of relaxed and play area " | |||
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