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By *entle giant2017 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

kerry

If a boyfriend or a girlfriend is constantly insisting on communicating via WhatsApp instead of ordinary phone calls

Is that a red flag on privacy and a trust issue too. .

Run or stay in the relationship. .

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By *affa31Woman
38 weeks ago

Galway

I don’t see any issue with it.

Maybe they have limited minutes and unlimited data.

Maybe their phone reception is shit and they get better reception through WhatsApp

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By *udding RoseWoman
38 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

Phonecalls are free on WhatsApp so makes sense to phone via the app!!

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By *entle giant2017 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

kerry

Not a data or network issue. .

Commenting about the background constantly if they are not sure where the person is

Wanting to know every move and movement .

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By *og-ManMan
38 weeks ago

somewhere


"Not a data or network issue. .

Commenting about the background constantly if they are not sure where the person is

Wanting to know every move and movement . "

The red flag is your last sentence....

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By *entle giant2017 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

kerry

Always wanting to use video call

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By *ACOLCouple
38 weeks ago

limerick


"If a boyfriend or a girlfriend is constantly insisting on communicating via WhatsApp instead of ordinary phone calls

Is that a red flag on privacy and a trust issue too. .

Run or stay in the relationship. .

"

Well, clearly run because that is a weak excuse from your part, and it seems like anything will be seen as a red flag to you.

Lina.

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By *udding RoseWoman
38 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

Sounds like you're not happy in your relationship - you need to talk things through with your girlfriend! She seems insecure from what you've said, you need to sort that with her.

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By *affa31Woman
38 weeks ago

Galway

I mean, if it’s your relationship, it’s more of a red flag that you’re on here as a single male no?

If there’s trust issues, talk about them and if not resolved, walk away.

If there’s control issues, run away.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"I mean, if it’s your relationship, it’s more of a red flag that you’re on here as a single male no?

If there’s trust issues, talk about them and if not resolved, walk away.

If there’s control issues, run away. "

Exactly what i was going to say. If it is your relationship and you are on here as a single male without her knowledge i think she has good reason to be wondering what you are up to.

If you arent happy just let her go find someone else.

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By *entle giant2017 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

kerry

Just putting out a soundbite for a friend that's not involved in the swing lifestyle .

His girlfriend INSISTS that they communicate via WhatsApp VIDEO CALLS

Is that a form of stalking ?

Can't go for a pint with mates or do anything on his own.

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By *affa31Woman
38 weeks ago

Galway

No not stalking but it is controlling behaviour. He needs to talk to her about why she doesn’t trust him or walk away.

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By *udding RoseWoman
38 weeks ago

Somewhere out there


"Just putting out a soundbite for a friend that's not involved in the swing lifestyle .

His girlfriend INSISTS that they communicate via WhatsApp VIDEO CALLS

Is that a form of stalking ?

Can't go for a pint with mates or do anything on his own.

"

She's insecure and very controlling and something needs to be done about it!! He either sort things out with her by having a good talk with her or he needs to end it!!

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By *nA101Couple
38 weeks ago

limerick

They need to sit down and see where the problem is . Relationships won't work out without trust

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By *inkywife1981Couple
38 weeks ago

A town near you

I can't remember the last time I sent an sms text message.

Me and wife communicate via WhatsApp when we're apart

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
38 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Using WhatsApp instead of voice calls is pretty normal... but if suspicion is already there then it might well add to that suspicion.

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By *j47Man
38 weeks ago

limerick

Tell him delete the app problem solved

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By *ustinSiderMan
38 weeks ago

Belfast


"If a boyfriend or a girlfriend is constantly insisting on communicating via WhatsApp instead of ordinary phone calls

Is that a red flag on privacy and a trust issue too. .

Run or stay in the relationship. .

"

My girlfriend always video calls me using WhatsApp any time we talk.

I see nothing wrong with it as it doesn't matter where I am or what I am doing, as I have absolutely nothing to hide.

In fact I like to see her pretty face on my screen.

If the person you're referring to is wanting to know every move your friend makes and everything he does then that is much different, and is very controlling behaviour.

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By *lay2pleaseMan
38 weeks ago

Ireland

Fair comment.... just because youre paranoid it doesnt mean you're right.

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By *unlinguyMan
38 weeks ago

South Dublin

Would be worse if she did not want to communicate with him much, or did not want video calls etc or would he complain about that too.

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By *ythenMan
38 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin


"I don’t see any issue with it.

Maybe they have limited minutes and unlimited data.

Maybe their phone reception is shit and they get better reception through WhatsApp "

Exactly … ??

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