FabSwingers.com forum: Turn the lights back on

By *heLateLateShow OP Man
39 weeks ago

Swordz

All the women I have ever had sex with want to do it in the dark, why is it?

Do they not want me to see them or do they not want to see me?

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By *og-ManMan
39 weeks ago

somewhere

Try having sex in the afternoon ....sorted

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By *voidingboredomMan
39 weeks ago

around

Sounds a bit cheesy but you could try saying you'd prefer to look at their amazing body while you have sex. Might give them a bit of confidence?

I've had some people ask for dark before but not that often. And some love the sex but not being looked at for their own reasons. But I'd usually have a sexy candle or two at least. Candles or a small lamp, unless in specifically asked for total darkness which I haven't been in a long time

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By *heLateLateShow OP Man
39 weeks ago

Swordz

your a bit leaner then me, i guess it's. me thing, I am always in the dar k

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By *voidingboredomMan
39 weeks ago

around

I don't think it's got much to do with you if a woman wants it dark then it's more likely her own body or image she doesn't want on display or to be seen. Maybe I'm wrong

Of course some people just want the taboo feeling of anonymity too but I don't think that's what you're talking about

Candles all the way!

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By *oghunter33Woman
39 weeks ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Try having sex in the afternoon ....sorted

Day sexy is the way forward, but I prefer raw morning sex over plinky plonky afternoon one.

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By *igtasty121Man
39 weeks ago

Nowhere

Miners hat on is the way forward, safe sex and all..

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By *ofusplusCouple
39 weeks ago

Limerick

Sometimes it's to do with body image but other times it's a form of sensory deprivation to allow her to focus on the other four senses. Sometimes the visuals can take from the experience as they dominate the others, in my opinion.

Mrs

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By *heLateLateShow OP Man
39 weeks ago

Swordz

"Sometimes it's to do with body image but other times it's a form of sensory deprivation to allow her to focus on the other four senses. Sometimes the visuals can take from the experience as they dominate the others, in my opinion.

Mrs

Good to know, everyones a winner

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By *mmmm300Woman
39 weeks ago

cork

"Try having sex in the afternoon ....sorted

Day sexy is the way forward, but I prefer raw morning sex over plinky plonky afternoon one.

Plinky plonky sex

great phrase, love it like wishy washy

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Try having sex in the afternoon ....sorted

Day sexy is the way forward, but I prefer raw morning sex over plinky plonky afternoon one.

If it’s plinky plonks you might need to try a different flavour, maybe a little better aged

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
39 weeks ago

Magical Forrest

Day … night … morning … lunchtime … afternoon …. Lights on … daylight … prefer seeing the person I am with …. Especially looking into their eyes during sex…. Intensifies the whole experience… but that’s just me …

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By *panishRebelMan
39 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Day … night … morning … lunchtime … afternoon …. Lights on … daylight … prefer seeing the person I am with …. Especially looking into their eyes during sex…. Intensifies the whole experience… but that’s just me … "

Oh yes ....that intense look eye to eye during sex...I totally agree....it raises the levels.

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By *ealitybitesMan
39 weeks ago

Belfast

Roll it there Roisin.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
39 weeks ago

Hereabouts

Mrs

I tend to keep my eyes closed for that reason I think. To focus inward on sensations.

So it doesn't matter to me if it's dark or bright since I put the blinkers on myself

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By *voidingboredomMan
39 weeks ago

around

So it doesn't matter to me if it's dark or bright since I put the blinkers on myself

... Blinkers you say

or just a blindfold

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By *exyScientistsCouple
39 weeks ago

Castlebar

Lights off, blackout curtains pulled, blindfolds on...

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Lights off, blackout curtains pulled, blindfolds on...

what do you intend to get up to

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By *exyScientistsCouple
39 weeks ago

Castlebar

"Lights off, blackout curtains pulled, blindfolds on...

what do you intend to get up to "

Be afraid

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39 weeks ago

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By *weetpea2000Woman
39 weeks ago

Wexford

Morning, afternoon- blinds open, curtains open.

Evening, night time- lights for ambience and so I don't stub my toe!

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By *dfabMan
39 weeks ago

Dunboyne

"Morning, afternoon- blinds open, curtains open.

Evening, night time- lights for ambience and so I don't stub my toe!"

F me! That guy's hung like a trojan if you're stubbing your toe on it

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