FabSwingers.com forum: What's in a hand job?

By *electableicecream OP Man
38 weeks ago

The West

Are you confident in your hand job/finger skills?

Or do you feel like every body is different and it's new every time?

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By *osyRedLipsWoman
38 weeks ago

Kildare

As a researcher for Sydney University I'm proud to say graduated with a Masters in Handjobs

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
38 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

Never had any complaints and never expect to have any

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By *eijaWoman
38 weeks ago

City Centre

"As a researcher for Sydney University I'm proud to say graduated with a Masters in Handjobs

Well I got tips from the best and my introduction to coconut oil say no more

B xx

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

My hands are small, but very skilled for a handjob. If I’m allowed, I’ll include my lips too….just saying….

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By *ubadubdubWoman
38 weeks ago

Hereabouts

I'd give myself a C- on this one.

My arm gets tired, the angles feel unnatural and I only realised recently that lube could be used

Im an enthusiastic audience and rather encourage my partner while they do it themselves

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By *astelloWoman
38 weeks ago

Far far away

Every hand job requires some instruction from the receiver. So l prefer to observe and follow suit. But its nice when you hit that perfect spot.. Boom shake shakdme da room.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

On yourself, you can have an opinion. On others it really is theirs alone. It ain't like opening a bottle or carton of milk, they are all different shapes and sizes . Therefore I suggest a "wank off ".

I believe 6 of each gender will be required (all genders accepted). And then once we fill the ARK, then we get the contestants.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Can beat a hand job ..love irishvikings hand job vid

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By *ddiesayshello2Man
38 weeks ago

dundalk , Monaghan,meath

of any ladys would like to practice I will GLADLY let you practice on me, I know I know Im so kind. or even if you want to watch me and take notes no worries

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By *indenMan
38 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

In the interests of improving, I’ll continue practicing…..

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
38 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Every hand job requires some instruction from the receiver. So l prefer to observe and follow suit. But its nice when you hit that perfect spot.. Boom shake shakdme da room. "

1000% this. Sex acts aren't a test of skill. If something isn't working then give feedback. What worked for a previous partner may well be an instant turnoff for the next. Good sex is about giving and taking feedback.

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By *electableicecream OP Man
38 weeks ago

The West

I feel like every time I meet someone new there's a discovery phase in exploring new sensations.

I've definitely learned to share and communicate how I like to be touched rather than suffer through for fear of hurting feelings or just regretting own bad communication skills.

So I feel like I am more confident to share what makes me tick. Of course I'm often surprised to too and my own self service routines need blown up every now and again.

I've also learned to ask multiple choice questions that don't cause awkward answers. Some people are kind or shy and might not want to say 'no that's not good, 5mm higher and clockwise please'

But asking 'This, or this?' works quite well for me.

And there's nothing quite like uttering or hearing that phrase 'wow, no one has ever done that to me before'

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
38 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

I'm pretty good with my hands...

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By *ddiesayshello2Man
38 weeks ago

dundalk , Monaghan,meath

"I'm pretty good with my hands...

you can practice on me anyday :0)

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
38 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

"I'm pretty good with my hands...

you can practice on me anyday :0)"

Aren't you thoughtful?!

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By *ddiesayshello2Man
38 weeks ago

dundalk , Monaghan,meath

"I'm pretty good with my hands...

you can practice on me anyday :0)

Aren't you thoughtful?!

I do try lol

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By *ildGroverMan
38 weeks ago

rathfarnham

I thought "usually my cock" would be the answer to that question.

I remember once having to think outside the box and grab some hair gel when the hand and aforementioned cock were too dry

Oddly enough ive had loads of non lubricated handjobs in more recent years without a problem

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By *runchMan
38 weeks ago

Dublin

"My hands are small, but very skilled for a handjob. If I’m allowed, I’ll include my lips too….just saying….

Well hello there

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By *runchMan
38 weeks ago

Dublin

"Every hand job requires some instruction from the receiver. So l prefer to observe and follow suit. But its nice when you hit that perfect spot.. Boom shake shakdme da room. "

..and the winner is!

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By *runchMan
38 weeks ago

Dublin

"I'd give myself a C- on this one.

My arm gets tired, the angles feel unnatural and I only realised recently that lube could be used

Im an enthusiastic audience and rather encourage my partner while they do it themselves

An enthusiastic audience

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
38 weeks ago

ballina

"Every hand job requires some instruction from the receiver. So l prefer to observe and follow suit. But its nice when you hit that perfect spot.. Boom shake shakdme da room. "

Thos 100%

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By *obbym522000Man
38 weeks ago

Galway

"I'd give myself a C- on this one.

My arm gets tired, the angles feel unnatural and I only realised recently that lube could be used

Im an enthusiastic audience and rather encourage my partner while they do it themselves

now theres sense talking. nothing like onesself for kniwing where ones chemical levels are for climaxing...

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By *atieglamTV/TS
38 weeks ago

south

No complaints this far.... Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Not trying to be controversial here but they really do nothing for me, as part of a blowjob great but on there own nah

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By *hivers2020Woman
38 weeks ago

lolli land

I can honestly say I don’t remember the last time I was asked for or I initiated a hand job, apart from a quick stroke before it being placed elsewhere!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
38 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"I can honestly say I don’t remember the last time I was asked for or I initiated a hand job, apart from a quick stroke before it being placed elsewhere! "

Yeah I gotta say, hands are great and all, but if there are better options available then why bother

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By *hivers2020Woman
38 weeks ago

lolli land

"I can honestly say I don’t remember the last time I was asked for or I initiated a hand job, apart from a quick stroke before it being placed elsewhere!

Yeah I gotta say, hands are great and all, but if there are better options available then why bother

Agreed although I take that thought process to the extreme and once the kiss is good then I skip foreplay completely

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By *wing and a missCouple
38 weeks ago

somewhere

"Are you confident in your hand job/finger skills?

Or do you feel like every body is different and it's new every time?"

No handjob experience per se but as far as fingers go, every body is different for sure

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
38 weeks ago

villiage

Practice makes perfect for everyone

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By *BT4KICKSWoman
38 weeks ago

Cork

Love giving handjobs. Love the control learning his pressure points and edging him over and over. Handjobs can be just amazing so many techniques to be used it's definitely a skill worth learning. It's so not just pump pump and done

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
38 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"It's so not just pump pump and done "

You never gave me a hand job obvs

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By *BT4KICKSWoman
38 weeks ago

Cork

"It's so not just pump pump and done

You never gave me a hand job obvs

No I try not to go for two pumps and done, it more fun than way .

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By *panishRebelMan
38 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

I don't normally hand job myself. It's nice when others do it. But it never brings me to the edge. I have enjoyed watching people try....and try....and try....

I need the real deal or simulation when on my own.

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By *ffairofthemindMan
38 weeks ago

"As a researcher for Sydney University I'm proud to say graduated with a Masters in Handjobs

I'm sure there's a university somewhere offering that...

I'm away to google not gobble

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