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"I had something similar OP but it was in the work place. Before i knew it, they were talking to me in meetings & virtual meetings like i was their human dildo. One in particular turned their camera off & described to me how they were undressing. I escalated it to mgmt, HR got involved & the 2 women couldnt see what they did wrong. One in particular said “whats the issue, he’s a man & i’m a woman, i cant get in trouble for this.” They both ended up losing their jobs & i do feel bad about it but at the same time equality is what we all want & if its affecting you, then best to address it." Sorry to hear this, that's an awful situation to be put in. | |||
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"I've been pt~ing a class of women there's 25 of them, twice a week the past month, they were like lambs at the beginning but now it's like their a gang and the absolute filth from their mouths now is unreal. I'm not complaining I love the banter I never instigated any of it I'm very professional that way BUT I tend to try see things from other people's pov, if I was a woman in a class pt~ing men and they start all that messin the girl be traumatized! The question is why is it fellas don't care about being sexualised but women do, and why is it women would go mental for sexualising them but feel its OK for them to do it! Just curious! " A class but definitely not classy! | |||
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"I think you need to shut it down politely, maybe don't laugh along with it, and say "OK, enough fun and games it's time to focus on the reason we are here". " I agree you need to shut it down, and if it's making you uncomfortable (or it's unwelcome for ANY reason) you should report the situation to your HR department. It's not ok for anyone to do this, male or female. Many many women do not endorse or engage in this kind of behaviour. The legal definition of sexual harassment "is when someone carries out unwanted sexual behaviour towards another person that makes them feel upset, scared, offended or humiliated. It is also when someone carries out this behaviour with the intention of making someone else feel that way. This means that it can still be sexual harassment even if the other person didn’t feel upset, scared, offended or humiliated". And it's perhaps this that is why some men might find it less threatening than women in general. It's the person in receipt of the behaviour who decides if it's unwanted. | |||
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