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"I would attend. There's so much more to my sexuality than penetrative sex. In the right setting with the right ambiance and of course the right guests I'm sure it would make for a very sexually charged event. " Agree, we also enjoy soft play as much as penetrative play, but again with the right setting and the right people. Everyone has their own likes/dislikes but for us mechanical sex isn't the end goal, we much prefer sensual play and kink play with equally minded people, if it ends in penetration then so be it, if it doesn't but we enjoy ourselves then that's good enough for us | |||
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"Think we’d enjoy such a party with the right guests and atmosphere. Touch and kissing can be so arousing. M is bi so would girl on girl action be allowed at such a party ?" Sure look as long as everything is agreed before hand I'd imagine it would be Would man with man be as acceptable I'd imagine not | |||
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"Years and years ago on a different site myself and an ex went to one nobody told me it was a soft play only party so needless to say there was some looks when full sex started happening " I actually assumed that couples could have full sex but only with each other and everyone else only hand/ mouth / toys as soft play | |||
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"Years and years ago on a different site myself and an ex went to one nobody told me it was a soft play only party so needless to say there was some looks when full sex started happening I actually assumed that couples could have full sex but only with each other and everyone else only hand/ mouth / toys as soft play " This was someone else's Mrs that decided to mount me while I had someone sat on a face | |||
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"Years and years ago on a different site myself and an ex went to one nobody told me it was a soft play only party so needless to say there was some looks when full sex started happening I actually assumed that couples could have full sex but only with each other and everyone else only hand/ mouth / toys as soft play This was someone else's Mrs that decided to mount me while I had someone sat on a face " Its not as if you could hear someone complain | |||
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"Years and years ago on a different site myself and an ex went to one nobody told me it was a soft play only party so needless to say there was some looks when full sex started happening I actually assumed that couples could have full sex but only with each other and everyone else only hand/ mouth / toys as soft play This was someone else's Mrs that decided to mount me while I had someone sat on a face Its not as if you could hear someone complain " I didn't it was only later there was a bit of a row between the woman and her husband | |||
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"Yes Bog! I'd love an adult soft play area. Slides and ball pools with the padded mangle thing you can fire yourself through. Count me in. " I was thinking throw in jelly or a gallon of lube just to make it interesting | |||
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"I find it had to think it a good idea. I would imagine a lot of people would just give in temptation. " Probably. Also I'd imagine many backing out at the last min once they realise they really weren't going to get their hole. | |||
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"I find it had to think it a good idea. I would imagine a lot of people would just give in temptation. " But giving in with their partner to temptation would be normal I assume ( like most things I'm making this up as I go along ) Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex | |||
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" Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex " I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either. It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though! | |||
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" Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either. It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though!" So you basically watched? Or did you need to turn your back as well? | |||
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" Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either. It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though!" But you was made aware of this before meeting and still met them! If it wasn't going to be something you enjoyed then why still meet? Not criticising but just wondering as you said your not that into blowjobs | |||
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" Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either. It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though! But you was made aware of this before meeting and still met them! If it wasn't going to be something you enjoyed then why still meet? Not criticising but just wondering as you said your not that into blowjobs " Yes, I'd love a soft play party. I'll bring my massage table and oils. | |||
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" Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either. It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though! But you was made aware of this before meeting and still met them! If it wasn't going to be something you enjoyed then why still meet? Not criticising but just wondering as you said your not that into blowjobs Yes, I'd love a soft play party. I'll bring my massage table and oils. " Ok so after Toxic you're the first on the party list | |||
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"In a heartbeat yes! Sure all the foreplay is the best part B x" I agree! The fun of the intimate play... | |||
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" Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either. It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though! But you was made aware of this before meeting and still met them! If it wasn't going to be something you enjoyed then why still meet? Not criticising but just wondering as you said your not that into blowjobs Yes, I'd love a soft play party. I'll bring my massage table and oils. Ok so after Toxic you're the first on the party list " Cough Cough what about me | |||
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" But you was made aware of this before meeting and still met them! If it wasn't going to be something you enjoyed then why still meet? Not criticising but just wondering as you said your not that into blowjobs " I mean I don't mind blowjobs... Yeah the extra info is that it was their first time meeting another guy and just wanted some soft play really. They didn't even fuck themselves. But I like meeting people and trying things and they were a sexy couple so I said I'd help them out anyway with their first mmf experience I'd have been disappointed if that's all they wanted if they weren't very clear and up front, but they absolutely were and I agreed to it so it was all good! | |||
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" Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either. It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though! But you was made aware of this before meeting and still met them! If it wasn't going to be something you enjoyed then why still meet? Not criticising but just wondering as you said your not that into blowjobs Yes, I'd love a soft play party. I'll bring my massage table and oils. Ok so after Toxic you're the first on the party list Cough Cough what about me " How are you with your hands | |||
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"I totally get the idea of softplay and think there's definitely a place for it between 2, 3 or 4 people but in a full on party I just cant see it being workable. Too many moving parts as such " At least half of the party is going to build up such fervour from all the foreplay, that they'll just have to start fucking! | |||
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"I totally get the idea of softplay and think there's definitely a place for it between 2, 3 or 4 people but in a full on party I just cant see it being workable. Too many moving parts as such At least half of the party is going to build up such fervour from all the foreplay, that they'll just have to start fucking! " But full sex with their partner is within the parameters of soft play is it not | |||
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"I totally get the idea of softplay and think there's definitely a place for it between 2, 3 or 4 people but in a full on party I just cant see it being workable. Too many moving parts as such At least half of the party is going to build up such fervour from all the foreplay, that they'll just have to start fucking! But full sex with their partner is within the parameters of soft play is it not " I could be wrong, but I always assumed that there was no p-in-v at all at a soft play party. | |||
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"How about a softplay no kissing party? That sounds like fun " Is licking allowed? | |||
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"How about a softplay no kissing party? That sounds like fun " Kissing seems to be a bigger issue for some couples completely | |||
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"*good, not food " Sure kissing food will be tomorrow's thread at this stage | |||
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"*good, not food " You haven't got your dentures in again. It's soft play not soft chew | |||
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"I dont understand If you want to go to a party and soft play then just go to a party and soft play! There should never be any pressure to full play if you dont want to. I dont understand why there'd be a party where restrictions like that would be put on all attendees. Surely the attendees own wishes, and obv those who they are playing with, are what is really important. Not that ive really noticed much about what other people are doing at sex parties but surely one couple/group can soft play beside another couple/group in full play? Or am i missing the point on this? Mrs Bugs" I should have said there should never be any pressure to play at all! Whether that be soft or full! | |||
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"*good, not food Sure kissing food will be tomorrow's thread at this stage " Wake me up when the hard play thread is kicked off | |||
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"I dont understand If you want to go to a party and soft play then just go to a party and soft play! There should never be any pressure to full play if you dont want to. I dont understand why there'd be a party where restrictions like that would be put on all attendees. Surely the attendees own wishes, and obv those who they are playing with, are what is really important. Not that ive really noticed much about what other people are doing at sex parties but surely one couple/group can soft play beside another couple/group in full play? Or am i missing the point on this? Mrs Bugs" Maybe some soft play couples wouldn't be comfortable with a party with full swap couples, sometimes full swap couples (and yes we have met some ourselves) would keep trying to convince them to go further than they are comfortable with Just a different outlook on why this could work, as I'm sure full swap only parties happen | |||
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"How about a softplay no kissing party? That sounds like fun Kissing seems to be a bigger issue for some couples completely This used to irk me but I could completely forego kissing now myself. I also no longer believe that shite about a correlation between food kissing and a good fuck....one is not a guarantee of the other" How does a guy fuck up a fuck, if you know what I mean, what makes it a bad fuck, other than he being all selfish in the play | |||
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"I dont understand If you want to go to a party and soft play then just go to a party and soft play! There should never be any pressure to full play if you dont want to. I dont understand why there'd be a party where restrictions like that would be put on all attendees. Surely the attendees own wishes, and obv those who they are playing with, are what is really important. Not that ive really noticed much about what other people are doing at sex parties but surely one couple/group can soft play beside another couple/group in full play? Or am i missing the point on this? Mrs Bugs Maybe some soft play couples wouldn't be comfortable with a party with full swap couples, sometimes full swap couples (and yes we have met some ourselves) would keep trying to convince them to go further than they are comfortable with Just a different outlook on why this could work, as I'm sure full swap only parties happen " Sorry to hear that you've found yourself in a situation where people were trying to convince you to do something you are not comfortable doing. That is really NOT acceptable behaviour. In my experience it is far from the norm. | |||
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"I dont understand If you want to go to a party and soft play then just go to a party and soft play! There should never be any pressure to full play if you dont want to. I dont understand why there'd be a party where restrictions like that would be put on all attendees. Surely the attendees own wishes, and obv those who they are playing with, are what is really important. Not that ive really noticed much about what other people are doing at sex parties but surely one couple/group can soft play beside another couple/group in full play? Or am i missing the point on this? Mrs Bugs Maybe some soft play couples wouldn't be comfortable with a party with full swap couples, sometimes full swap couples (and yes we have met some ourselves) would keep trying to convince them to go further than they are comfortable with Just a different outlook on why this could work, as I'm sure full swap only parties happen Sorry to hear that you've found yourself in a situation where people were trying to convince you to do something you are not comfortable doing. That is really NOT acceptable behaviour. In my experience it is far from the norm. " We no its not thr norm as we've also met some amazing people who are full swaps but have respected our boundaries, just feel some soft swap couples wouldn't to be in that situation | |||
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"This sounds like something we would love to attend, For some reason our couples page can't post on the forums, " Try the advice on this thread to sort that out https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/help/1571364 | |||
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"I dont understand If you want to go to a party and soft play then just go to a party and soft play! There should never be any pressure to full play if you dont want to. I dont understand why there'd be a party where restrictions like that would be put on all attendees. Surely the attendees own wishes, and obv those who they are playing with, are what is really important. Not that ive really noticed much about what other people are doing at sex parties but surely one couple/group can soft play beside another couple/group in full play? Or am i missing the point on this? Mrs Bugs Maybe some soft play couples wouldn't be comfortable with a party with full swap couples, sometimes full swap couples (and yes we have met some ourselves) would keep trying to convince them to go further than they are comfortable with Just a different outlook on why this could work, as I'm sure full swap only parties happen Sorry to hear that you've found yourself in a situation where people were trying to convince you to do something you are not comfortable doing. That is really NOT acceptable behaviour. In my experience it is far from the norm. We no its not thr norm as we've also met some amazing people who are full swaps but have respected our boundaries, just feel some soft swap couples wouldn't to be in that situation " Nobody wants to be in any situation where people are trying to convince them to do something they dont want to do, no matter what it is... kiss, soft play, full play, kinks, etc etc anything really! Thankfully it is not the norm! | |||
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"Just reading about this in The Lounge Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance " So like a social event but with handjobs? | |||
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"Just reading about this in The Lounge Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance So like a social event but with handjobs?" Making sure to wash your hands before putting them into the box of donuts | |||
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"Just reading about this in The Lounge Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance So like a social event but with handjobs?" Haha now i see the appeal! | |||
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"When l read soft play.. I can only think of a ball pit and a slide.. Will there be miwadi? " Sugar free and popcorn | |||
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"When l read soft play.. I can only think of a ball pit and a slide.. Will there be miwadi? Sugar free and popcorn " Is the popcorn for the ones watching?? | |||
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"When l read soft play.. I can only think of a ball pit and a slide.. Will there be miwadi? Sugar free and popcorn Is the popcorn for the ones watching?? " Yes you can have some | |||
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"Play dough or as I grew up calling it malla.... Now that's soft play " There's a word I haven't seen in years ...great stuff with a funny smell | |||
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"I'd almost organise it just to prove that you people wouldn't be able to resist fucking " I've been able to make people resist fucking me for years | |||
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"When l read soft play.. I can only think of a ball pit and a slide.. Will there be miwadi? " This was my first thought too, lol. | |||
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"I'd almost organise it just to prove that you people wouldn't be able to resist fucking I've been able to make people resist fucking me for years " Hahaha this hit home, you and me both ?? | |||
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"In a heartbeat yes! Sure all the foreplay is the best part B x" This 100%. Nothing can beat good foreplay. | |||
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"Just reading about this in The Lounge Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance " Yes. Just like we would attend a social where no play allowed or expected. | |||
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"Just reading about this in The Lounge Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance Yes. Just like we would attend a social where no play allowed or expected. " Every social over here is like that to be honest Meet lots of fab friends in a hotel venue Nothing expected and any arrangements can be made in private for later upstairs if you want to | |||
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"Just reading about this in The Lounge Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance Yes. Just like we would attend a social where no play allowed or expected. Every social over here is like that to be honest Meet lots of fab friends in a hotel venue Nothing expected and any arrangements can be made in private for later upstairs if you want to " We've never been to a social where play is allowed. Find pubs generally frown upon shagging in the bar. Well, maybe apart from a few select ones. | |||
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"Soft play party would an awesome night, several people have already mentioned it, but I'll re illiterate. Foreplay is the most sensual and excitement building part of a play session. Xxtina " Totally!!! We need that from our couple, although full swap is nice! Soft swap is the ultimate reward! Lina | |||
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"This thread is a slow burner....10 weeks old at this stage " LoL nothing wrong with old, otherwise half of us would have no luck on here hahaha ?? | |||
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"I find it had to think it a good idea. I would imagine a lot of people would just give in temptation. " I agree, if it got hot and heavy you might get carried away | |||
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"Yes It’s not always the sex Building friendships counts just as much in my eyes if " That's what non-sex parties are for | |||
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"It's like playing pool, but knowing you you aren't allowed to pot any balls. " Thats a normal game of pool for me | |||
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