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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere

Just reading about this in The Lounge

Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance

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By *DSGCouple
40 weeks ago

That place in

Yes, we have had a meet where the couple asked for soft play only

And that was fine with us, they were finding their feet, it was good fun

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
40 weeks ago

City Centre

I would attend.

There's so much more to my sexuality than penetrative sex. In the right setting with the right ambiance and of course the right guests I'm sure it would make for a very sexually charged event.

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By *voidingboredomMan
40 weeks ago

around

I've been to nice kink/carnivale events like that where there was no hard sex allowed but plenty of sexy extras. Like tiny delight said with the right guests and atmosphere it can be a very erotic experience and feast for the senses.

It is hard to fully immerse yourself in the smell of scented candles and feel of lace or leather and touch of someone's lips etc if you're really focused on fucking them. At least for me anyway, but then I can't multitask

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
40 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

No probably not

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By *adger BrocMan
40 weeks ago

Co. Cork

If it's what people want and what's agreed, what's the problem.

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By *anillabelliniCouple
40 weeks ago

limerick


"I would attend.

There's so much more to my sexuality than penetrative sex. In the right setting with the right ambiance and of course the right guests I'm sure it would make for a very sexually charged event. "

Agree, we also enjoy soft play as much as penetrative play, but again with the right setting and the right people. Everyone has their own likes/dislikes but for us mechanical sex isn't the end goal, we much prefer sensual play and kink play with equally minded people, if it ends in penetration then so be it, if it doesn't but we enjoy ourselves then that's good enough for us

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By *ealitybitesMan
40 weeks ago

Belfast

Yes why not?

As an introduction to group play and as long as everyone was aware of boundaries I don't see anything wrong with it.

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By *s LollyWoman
40 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Absolutely id totally be on board with soft play

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By *aughty MilfCouple
40 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

Definitely everyone starts somewhere

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By *eijaWoman
40 weeks ago

City Centre

In a heartbeat yes! Sure all the foreplay is the best part

B x

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By *ind PaddyMan
40 weeks ago

South County Dublin

A soft play party is a good way to start

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By *scouple07Couple
40 weeks ago

louth, Ireland

Definitely as we are a soft swap couple, would be great to meet other couples/females who are looking for similar

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By *BT4KICKSWoman
40 weeks ago

Cork

Yep why not PIV is only a tiny bit of the fun. Go home and take all that sexy energy and put it to use. What's not to like.

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By *kinnyDippersCouple
40 weeks ago

Dublin

Think we’d enjoy such a party with the right guests and atmosphere. Touch and kissing can be so arousing. M is bi so would girl on girl action be allowed at such a party ?

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By *cotsguyyMan
40 weeks ago

Belfast

Ohhh, absolutely!! What a fantastic way to spend an evening, the tease

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By *ifewantstoplayCouple
40 weeks ago

somewhere

Absolutely we’d attend , would be a lot of fun no doubt.

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"Think we’d enjoy such a party with the right guests and atmosphere. Touch and kissing can be so arousing. M is bi so would girl on girl action be allowed at such a party ?"

Sure look as long as everything is agreed before hand I'd imagine it would be

Would man with man be as acceptable

I'd imagine not

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
40 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Would be like organising a game of basketball and someone trying to persuade us that it's ok that they took all the hoops down, and it's just as much fun just bouncing the ball aimlessly about the pitch

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By *inaandterryCouple
40 weeks ago

Westmeath

Soft play party would an awesome night, several people have already mentioned it, but I'll re illiterate.

Foreplay is the most sensual and excitement building part of a play session. Xxtina

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By *lueLotusWoman
40 weeks ago

the wilderness

I'd love it if I had someone I was definitely going home with or going home to after otherwise I think I'd be a bit frusty

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

We'd be happy to attend such an event

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By *aid backMan
40 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out

Years and years ago on a different site myself and an ex went to one nobody told me it was a soft play only party so needless to say there was some looks when full sex started happening

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"Years and years ago on a different site myself and an ex went to one nobody told me it was a soft play only party so needless to say there was some looks when full sex started happening "

I actually assumed that couples could have full sex but only with each other and everyone else only hand/ mouth / toys as soft play

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
40 weeks ago

South Down

Yep totally. Penetration isn't the be all and end all for me, so it'd suit me grand

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By *ony85sMan
40 weeks ago

Dublin

I would love it

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By *iImBrunoMan
40 weeks ago

midlands


"We'd be happy to attend such an event"

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yes we would happily attend. Milly x

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By *otownkid1967Man
40 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Don't see why this wouldn't be a success. Would love to attend if opportunity Aries op

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By *mmortalbMan
40 weeks ago

kildare

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By *mmortalbMan
40 weeks ago

kildare

Would be a cool introduction

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By *aid backMan
40 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Years and years ago on a different site myself and an ex went to one nobody told me it was a soft play only party so needless to say there was some looks when full sex started happening

I actually assumed that couples could have full sex but only with each other and everyone else only hand/ mouth / toys as soft play "

This was someone else's Mrs that decided to mount me while I had someone sat on a face

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"Years and years ago on a different site myself and an ex went to one nobody told me it was a soft play only party so needless to say there was some looks when full sex started happening

I actually assumed that couples could have full sex but only with each other and everyone else only hand/ mouth / toys as soft play

This was someone else's Mrs that decided to mount me while I had someone sat on a face "

Its not as if you could hear someone complain

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By *aid backMan
40 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Years and years ago on a different site myself and an ex went to one nobody told me it was a soft play only party so needless to say there was some looks when full sex started happening

I actually assumed that couples could have full sex but only with each other and everyone else only hand/ mouth / toys as soft play

This was someone else's Mrs that decided to mount me while I had someone sat on a face

Its not as if you could hear someone complain "

I didn't it was only later there was a bit of a row between the woman and her husband

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By *etergemmaCouple
40 weeks ago

South Dublin Area

I find it had to think it a good idea.

I would imagine a lot of people would just give in temptation.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
40 weeks ago

Portstewart

We would definitely attend therea so much more than penetrative sex

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By *onderingpurposeMan
40 weeks ago

Belfast

Yes Bog! I'd love an adult soft play area. Slides and ball pools with the padded mangle thing you can fire yourself through. Count me in.

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"Yes Bog! I'd love an adult soft play area. Slides and ball pools with the padded mangle thing you can fire yourself through. Count me in. "

I was thinking throw in jelly or a gallon of lube just to make it interesting

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By *voidingboredomMan
40 weeks ago

around

Paddle pool with lube wrestling/wet t-shirt contest. I mean it's non-penetrative right!?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
40 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"I find it had to think it a good idea.

I would imagine a lot of people would just give in temptation. "

Probably. Also I'd imagine many backing out at the last min once they realise they really weren't going to get their hole.

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By *ighttime loverWoman
40 weeks ago

Galway

I think it could be a great night lots of teasing and getting very aroused.

A great way to start a night of fun...

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"I find it had to think it a good idea.

I would imagine a lot of people would just give in temptation. "

But giving in with their partner to temptation would be normal I assume ( like most things I'm making this up as I go along )

Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex

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By *scouple07Couple
40 weeks ago

louth, Ireland

Find it strange that some don't understand that not all people in this lifestyle want to do full swaps

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By *otownkid1967Man
40 weeks ago

Portlaoise

I personally think it would be a no pressure way for couples and singles to introduce themselves to the lifestyle , if they haven't been to a party or such before. They wouldn't feel under pressure to "perform". These soft play parties have been a great success in the UK for many years.

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By *voidingboredomMan
40 weeks ago

around


"

Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex "

I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either.

It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
40 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Obviously we all make up our own minds as to what we are happy with and nobody should step over agreed boundaries... but I feel I wouldn't want to be second fiddle on a meet and watch the others doing things that I'd like to do but I'm not allowed.

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By *ofusplusCouple
40 weeks ago

Limerick


"

Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex

I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either.

It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though!"

So you basically watched? Or did you need to turn your back as well?

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By *scouple07Couple
40 weeks ago

louth, Ireland


"

Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex

I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either.

It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though!"

But you was made aware of this before meeting and still met them!

If it wasn't going to be something you enjoyed then why still meet? Not criticising but just wondering as you said your not that into blowjobs

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By *antra MassageMan
40 weeks ago

South Side.


"

Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex

I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either.

It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though!

But you was made aware of this before meeting and still met them!

If it wasn't going to be something you enjoyed then why still meet? Not criticising but just wondering as you said your not that into blowjobs "

Yes, I'd love a soft play party. I'll bring my massage table and oils.

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"

Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex

I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either.

It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though!

But you was made aware of this before meeting and still met them!

If it wasn't going to be something you enjoyed then why still meet? Not criticising but just wondering as you said your not that into blowjobs

Yes, I'd love a soft play party. I'll bring my massage table and oils. "

Ok so after Toxic you're the first on the party list

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40 weeks ago


"In a heartbeat yes! Sure all the foreplay is the best part

B x"

I agree! The fun of the intimate play...

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By *s LollyWoman
40 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"

Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex

I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either.

It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though!

But you was made aware of this before meeting and still met them!

If it wasn't going to be something you enjoyed then why still meet? Not criticising but just wondering as you said your not that into blowjobs

Yes, I'd love a soft play party. I'll bring my massage table and oils.

Ok so after Toxic you're the first on the party list "

Cough Cough what about me

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By *voidingboredomMan
40 weeks ago

around


"

But you was made aware of this before meeting and still met them!

If it wasn't going to be something you enjoyed then why still meet? Not criticising but just wondering as you said your not that into blowjobs "

I mean I don't mind blowjobs...

Yeah the extra info is that it was their first time meeting another guy and just wanted some soft play really. They didn't even fuck themselves. But I like meeting people and trying things and they were a sexy couple so I said I'd help them out anyway with their first mmf experience

I'd have been disappointed if that's all they wanted if they weren't very clear and up front, but they absolutely were and I agreed to it so it was all good!

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"

Are there couples that have MFM with one of the M not having penetrative sex

I met a couple before and the arrangement was very clear that there would be no penetrative sex or kissing (I think they were insecure about it) and that I was there to receive oral only. I couldn't go down on the woman either.

It was grand because it was very clear before we met but im not a massive fan of getting blowjobs. They enjoyed it though!

But you was made aware of this before meeting and still met them!

If it wasn't going to be something you enjoyed then why still meet? Not criticising but just wondering as you said your not that into blowjobs

Yes, I'd love a soft play party. I'll bring my massage table and oils.

Ok so after Toxic you're the first on the party list

Cough Cough what about me "

How are you with your hands

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By *ythenMan
40 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin

Absolutely I’d be 100% on board with that

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
40 weeks ago

Casa Del Fun

Hmmm that’s a good question!….

It’s not something we’re looking for, but can see where everyone is coming from.

We only have certain opportunities to play and would prefer a full on meet (gets rid of all our frustrations lol)

We use socials as ‘soft meets’ with the added bonus of full play with the right sparkles

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By *etergemmaCouple
40 weeks ago

South Dublin Area

I totally get the idea of softplay and think there's definitely a place for it between 2, 3 or 4 people but in a full on party I just cant see it being workable.

Too many moving parts as such

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
40 weeks ago

The West


"I totally get the idea of softplay and think there's definitely a place for it between 2, 3 or 4 people but in a full on party I just cant see it being workable.

Too many moving parts as such "

At least half of the party is going to build up such fervour from all the foreplay, that they'll just have to start fucking!

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"I totally get the idea of softplay and think there's definitely a place for it between 2, 3 or 4 people but in a full on party I just cant see it being workable.

Too many moving parts as such

At least half of the party is going to build up such fervour from all the foreplay, that they'll just have to start fucking! "

But full sex with their partner is within the parameters of soft play is it not

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
40 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"I totally get the idea of softplay and think there's definitely a place for it between 2, 3 or 4 people but in a full on party I just cant see it being workable.

Too many moving parts as such

At least half of the party is going to build up such fervour from all the foreplay, that they'll just have to start fucking!

But full sex with their partner is within the parameters of soft play is it not

"

I could be wrong, but I always assumed that there was no p-in-v at all at a soft play party.

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By *etergemmaCouple
40 weeks ago

South Dublin Area

How about a softplay no kissing party?

That sounds like fun

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"How about a softplay no kissing party?

That sounds like fun "

Is licking allowed?

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By *1CorkCouple
40 weeks ago

London

Think this would leave us a little frustrated and wanting more. If it was attended by couples that we had prospect of making connections with for a future full swap meet, then yes - like a supercharged tactile social. If soft swap couples only in attendance, then it’d be a negative from us.

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"How about a softplay no kissing party?

That sounds like fun "

Kissing seems to be a bigger issue for some couples completely

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"How about a softplay no kissing party?

That sounds like fun

Kissing seems to be a bigger issue for some couples completely "

This used to irk me but I could completely forego kissing now myself. I also no longer believe that shite about a correlation between food kissing and a good fuck....one is not a guarantee of the other

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

*good, not food

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By *imherkkCouple
40 weeks ago

Co Kilkenny

Let us know if this is going ahead. Might be a great way of meeting other couples for fun in the future

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By *ony dunneMan
40 weeks ago

dublintoni

Yea would love some soft play only

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"*good, not food "

Sure kissing food will be tomorrow's thread at this stage

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By *ORBCouple
40 weeks ago

Dundalk


"*good, not food "

You haven't got your dentures in again.

It's soft play not soft chew

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
40 weeks ago

south Dublin

I dont understand

If you want to go to a party and soft play then just go to a party and soft play! There should never be any pressure to full play if you dont want to.

I dont understand why there'd be a party where restrictions like that would be put on all attendees. Surely the attendees own wishes, and obv those who they are playing with, are what is really important.

Not that ive really noticed much about what other people are doing at sex parties but surely one couple/group can soft play beside another couple/group in full play? Or am i missing the point on this?

Mrs Bugs

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
40 weeks ago

south Dublin


"I dont understand

If you want to go to a party and soft play then just go to a party and soft play! There should never be any pressure to full play if you dont want to.

I dont understand why there'd be a party where restrictions like that would be put on all attendees. Surely the attendees own wishes, and obv those who they are playing with, are what is really important.

Not that ive really noticed much about what other people are doing at sex parties but surely one couple/group can soft play beside another couple/group in full play? Or am i missing the point on this?

Mrs Bugs"

I should have said there should never be any pressure to play at all! Whether that be soft or full!

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"*good, not food

Sure kissing food will be tomorrow's thread at this stage "

Wake me up when the hard play thread is kicked off

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By *scouple07Couple
40 weeks ago

louth, Ireland


"I dont understand

If you want to go to a party and soft play then just go to a party and soft play! There should never be any pressure to full play if you dont want to.

I dont understand why there'd be a party where restrictions like that would be put on all attendees. Surely the attendees own wishes, and obv those who they are playing with, are what is really important.

Not that ive really noticed much about what other people are doing at sex parties but surely one couple/group can soft play beside another couple/group in full play? Or am i missing the point on this?

Mrs Bugs"

Maybe some soft play couples wouldn't be comfortable with a party with full swap couples, sometimes full swap couples (and yes we have met some ourselves) would keep trying to convince them to go further than they are comfortable with

Just a different outlook on why this could work, as I'm sure full swap only parties happen

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"How about a softplay no kissing party?

That sounds like fun

Kissing seems to be a bigger issue for some couples completely

This used to irk me but I could completely forego kissing now myself. I also no longer believe that shite about a correlation between food kissing and a good fuck....one is not a guarantee of the other"

How does a guy fuck up a fuck, if you know what I mean, what makes it a bad fuck, other than he being all selfish in the play

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
40 weeks ago

south Dublin


"I dont understand

If you want to go to a party and soft play then just go to a party and soft play! There should never be any pressure to full play if you dont want to.

I dont understand why there'd be a party where restrictions like that would be put on all attendees. Surely the attendees own wishes, and obv those who they are playing with, are what is really important.

Not that ive really noticed much about what other people are doing at sex parties but surely one couple/group can soft play beside another couple/group in full play? Or am i missing the point on this?

Mrs Bugs

Maybe some soft play couples wouldn't be comfortable with a party with full swap couples, sometimes full swap couples (and yes we have met some ourselves) would keep trying to convince them to go further than they are comfortable with

Just a different outlook on why this could work, as I'm sure full swap only parties happen "

Sorry to hear that you've found yourself in a situation where people were trying to convince you to do something you are not comfortable doing. That is really NOT acceptable behaviour. In my experience it is far from the norm.

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By *apri 555Man
40 weeks ago

wexford or Dublin

This sounds like something we would love to attend,

For some reason our couples page can't post on the forums,

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By *scouple07Couple
40 weeks ago

louth, Ireland


"I dont understand

If you want to go to a party and soft play then just go to a party and soft play! There should never be any pressure to full play if you dont want to.

I dont understand why there'd be a party where restrictions like that would be put on all attendees. Surely the attendees own wishes, and obv those who they are playing with, are what is really important.

Not that ive really noticed much about what other people are doing at sex parties but surely one couple/group can soft play beside another couple/group in full play? Or am i missing the point on this?

Mrs Bugs

Maybe some soft play couples wouldn't be comfortable with a party with full swap couples, sometimes full swap couples (and yes we have met some ourselves) would keep trying to convince them to go further than they are comfortable with

Just a different outlook on why this could work, as I'm sure full swap only parties happen

Sorry to hear that you've found yourself in a situation where people were trying to convince you to do something you are not comfortable doing. That is really NOT acceptable behaviour. In my experience it is far from the norm. "

We no its not thr norm as we've also met some amazing people who are full swaps but have respected our boundaries, just feel some soft swap couples wouldn't to be in that situation

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"This sounds like something we would love to attend,

For some reason our couples page can't post on the forums,

"

Try the advice on this thread to sort that out

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/help/1571364

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Sounds like a fun way of getting to know new people

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
40 weeks ago

south Dublin


"I dont understand

If you want to go to a party and soft play then just go to a party and soft play! There should never be any pressure to full play if you dont want to.

I dont understand why there'd be a party where restrictions like that would be put on all attendees. Surely the attendees own wishes, and obv those who they are playing with, are what is really important.

Not that ive really noticed much about what other people are doing at sex parties but surely one couple/group can soft play beside another couple/group in full play? Or am i missing the point on this?

Mrs Bugs

Maybe some soft play couples wouldn't be comfortable with a party with full swap couples, sometimes full swap couples (and yes we have met some ourselves) would keep trying to convince them to go further than they are comfortable with

Just a different outlook on why this could work, as I'm sure full swap only parties happen

Sorry to hear that you've found yourself in a situation where people were trying to convince you to do something you are not comfortable doing. That is really NOT acceptable behaviour. In my experience it is far from the norm.

We no its not thr norm as we've also met some amazing people who are full swaps but have respected our boundaries, just feel some soft swap couples wouldn't to be in that situation "

Nobody wants to be in any situation where people are trying to convince them to do something they dont want to do, no matter what it is... kiss, soft play, full play, kinks, etc etc anything really! Thankfully it is not the norm!

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By *electableicecreamMan
40 weeks ago

The West


"Just reading about this in The Lounge

Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance

"

So like a social event but with handjobs?

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By *amien88Man
40 weeks ago

wicklow

Definitely be interested

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By *reamersCouple
40 weeks ago

na

We would definitely be interested great way to meet new and exciting people and no pressure the excitement of it

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"Just reading about this in The Lounge

Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance

So like a social event but with handjobs?"

Making sure to wash your hands before putting them into the box of donuts

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By *dfabMan
40 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Sounds like fun alright

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By *uskysoundsCouple
40 weeks ago

Mazarrón, Spain

Absolutely

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
40 weeks ago

Portstewart

Are you taking the lead in organising this bogman

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
40 weeks ago

south Dublin


"Just reading about this in The Lounge

Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance

So like a social event but with handjobs?"

Haha now i see the appeal!

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By *on Juan the MADridMan
40 weeks ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/

Definitely. Please count me in for anyone thinking to arrange one.

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By *astelloWoman
40 weeks ago

Far far away

When l read soft play.. I can only think of a ball pit and a slide..

Will there be miwadi?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Needed that laughter thank you lol

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"When l read soft play.. I can only think of a ball pit and a slide..

Will there be miwadi? "

Sugar free and popcorn

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
40 weeks ago

Northside


"When l read soft play.. I can only think of a ball pit and a slide..

Will there be miwadi?

Sugar free and popcorn "

Is the popcorn for the ones watching??

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"When l read soft play.. I can only think of a ball pit and a slide..

Will there be miwadi?

Sugar free and popcorn

Is the popcorn for the ones watching?? "

Yes you can have some

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By *panishRebelMan
40 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

Play dough or as I grew up calling it malla....

Now that's soft play

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere


"Play dough or as I grew up calling it malla....

Now that's soft play "

There's a word I haven't seen in years ...great stuff with a funny smell

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By *otownkid1967Man
40 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Malla brings back school memories

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By *astelloWoman
40 weeks ago

Far far away

And the dirty fingernails.. For some reason it turned out grey like plaster no matter what colours you had.. Under nails. Looked like dirt, grass and poo.. Ah the memories

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By *og-Man OP   Man
40 weeks ago

somewhere

So we have a name for the party

The miwadi and malla party

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By *ot neuteredMan
40 weeks ago

Kildare

If there was malla at the party how long would it be until someone fashioned some genitally inspired artwork

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By *ncharted nightsCouple
40 weeks ago

funtown

We would consider going

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By *ivskiWoman
40 weeks ago

mid ulster

I would consider it. especially when it would be my first party

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By *UIETELLE2052Couple
40 weeks ago

Dundrum/Rathfarnham

Yes we would attend a soft play party. So who is going to organise it ?

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By *otownkid1967Man
40 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Think the Bigman would be the man to organise this hopefully

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By *aughtyKildareMan
39 weeks ago

tullamore

Yes I would definitely attend a soft play meet,

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
39 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I'd almost organise it just to prove that you people wouldn't be able to resist fucking

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By *og-Man OP   Man
39 weeks ago

somewhere


"I'd almost organise it just to prove that you people wouldn't be able to resist fucking "

I've been able to make people resist fucking me for years

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago


"When l read soft play.. I can only think of a ball pit and a slide..

Will there be miwadi? "

This was my first thought too, lol.

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By *weetpea2000Woman
39 weeks ago

Wexford

Yes...sign me up!

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By *mmortalbMan
39 weeks ago

kildare


"I'd almost organise it just to prove that you people wouldn't be able to resist fucking

I've been able to make people resist fucking me for years "

Hahaha this hit home, you and me both ??

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By *lexxx65Couple
31 weeks ago

Newport. IOW.

Sounds fun

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By *r and Mrs lustyCouple
31 weeks ago

Roscommon

Yes we would be interested

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By *OCONO5Couple
31 weeks ago

Sensual Center

Yes ..we would

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By *ampoonerMan
31 weeks ago

dundrum

Yep I would!

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By *rish In DubaiMan
31 weeks ago

Carlow


"In a heartbeat yes! Sure all the foreplay is the best part

B x"

This 100%. Nothing can beat good foreplay.

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By *R.MandMRS.TCouple
31 weeks ago

lurgan

We would go definitely

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By *nA101Couple
31 weeks ago

limerick

Would definitely be interested

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By *izandpaulCouple
31 weeks ago

merseyside


"Just reading about this in The Lounge

Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance

"

Yes.

Just like we would attend a social where no play allowed or expected.

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By *og-Man OP   Man
31 weeks ago

somewhere


"Just reading about this in The Lounge

Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance

Yes.

Just like we would attend a social where no play allowed or expected. "

Every social over here is like that to be honest

Meet lots of fab friends in a hotel venue

Nothing expected and any arrangements can be made in private for later upstairs if you want to

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By *izandpaulCouple
31 weeks ago

merseyside


"Just reading about this in The Lounge

Would you attend an event where soft play only was acceptable and fully agreed by everyone in advance

Yes.

Just like we would attend a social where no play allowed or expected.

Every social over here is like that to be honest

Meet lots of fab friends in a hotel venue

Nothing expected and any arrangements can be made in private for later upstairs if you want to "

We've never been to a social where play is allowed.

Find pubs generally frown upon shagging in the bar.

Well, maybe apart from a few select ones.

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By *uriouscpl3536Couple
31 weeks ago

kildare

Sounds like fun

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
31 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

As above, socials are usually no play (beyond stuff you'd get in any normal public place), and then play parties where full play is allowed. Or course everyone is free to just enjoy soft play at any play party if that's what they want.

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By *exicansCouple
31 weeks ago

wexford

We definitely go

Mrs

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By *ACOLCouple
31 weeks ago

limerick


"Soft play party would an awesome night, several people have already mentioned it, but I'll re illiterate.

Foreplay is the most sensual and excitement building part of a play session. Xxtina "

Totally!!! We need that from our couple, although full swap is nice! Soft swap is the ultimate reward!

Lina

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By *r and Mrs lustyCouple
30 weeks ago

Roscommon

Definitely we would be more than happy for soft play

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By *cottybear74Man
30 weeks ago

kilkenny

Yes I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Yes I would, especially where there's nice, intimate kissing involved. Kissing is so hot...

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By *ettaManMan
30 weeks ago

Kerry and Dublin

Yep, absolutely.

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By *eehornyWoman
30 weeks ago

Mayo

Yes I would... one of the hottest nights I've had on fab was hours of foreplay, kink and teasing.

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By *ewtyronecpl 100Couple
30 weeks ago

Dungannon

Soft play couple only here

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By *carlett!Woman
30 weeks ago

.

Nope

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
30 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

No p-in-v? it's not for me

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By *og-Man OP   Man
30 weeks ago

somewhere

This thread is a slow burner....10 weeks old at this stage

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By *carlett!Woman
30 weeks ago

.


"This thread is a slow burner....10 weeks old at this stage "

LoL nothing wrong with old, otherwise half of us would have no luck on here hahaha ??

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
30 weeks ago

South Dublin


"I find it had to think it a good idea.

I would imagine a lot of people would just give in temptation. "

I agree, if it got hot and heavy you might get carried away

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By *xstevenxxMan
30 weeks ago

Ashbourne

Yes

It’s not always the sex

Building friendships counts just as much in my eyes if

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
30 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

It's like playing pool, but knowing you you aren't allowed to pot any balls.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
30 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"Yes

It’s not always the sex

Building friendships counts just as much in my eyes if "

That's what non-sex parties are for

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By * DareCouple
30 weeks ago

Donegal and Galway generally

Yes we would for certain…. It’s all good fun and ways to meet new people

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By *og-Man OP   Man
30 weeks ago

somewhere


"It's like playing pool, but knowing you you aren't allowed to pot any balls.

"

Thats a normal game of pool for me

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