FabSwingers.com forum: What keeps you on fab and what pushes you away?

By *panishRebel OP Man
38 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

Like everyone (I presume) fab can have different effects on me. Sometimes I take a break....I just need it, sometimes I feel addicted and I don't like feeling controlled so I quietly feck off. However I do enjoy it...the banter, the possibilities, the characters the unusual, the serious and the ridiculous. It's all given me pleasure. It has led to some fine memories.

What keeps you on here and what pushes you away?

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By *ORBCouple
38 weeks ago

Dundalk

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By *ORBCouple
38 weeks ago

Dundalk

It's no more than a hobby.

It has never been a lifestyle choice so I can take it or leave it and have never been fully invested in it.

I stay for that reason alone and despite the best efforts of some forum celebs and their cortege over the years nothing drives me away

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I come and go. I have a great busy life outside fab and that is what keeps me very happy and grounded.

Fab is just a distraction and it is so lovely to meet different interesting people. Some are regular and some not so much so.

What I dislike here is negative people that can easily drag down the mood with their dark gloomy personalities. I just tune out when I see them around.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Meeting nice people and fun banter keeps me on, men talking to me like a sex object that's only there for their pleasure pushes me off it.

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By *og-ManMan
38 weeks ago

somewhere

Nothing pushes me away but dislike certain aspects of it

I met someone on here just over 2 years ago and so I'm very lucky in that we get to go to socials and holidays together with lots of other fabbers that I now count as friends and then we get to go away weekends together just the 2 of us

I also happen to like the forums ....I learned a huge amount about myself by asking questions on here when I first joined the site

And after all that the sexual experiences have been fuckin great

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By *ustBoWoman
38 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I pop in and out of here. I'm not that invested in here. I am not a swinger and never claimed to be.My life outside of here is too busy at the moment to invest any great amount of time on here but I enjoy popping and reading the forums,seeing all the personalities on the forums,sometimes the same people with different personalities

.I enjoy reading the differing opinions and thoughts that people have on here.

Nothing really annoys me about fab because why would I let something that isn't a major part of my life annoy me. I am adult enough to just roll my eyes and move on when I see things that I think are so far from my way of thinking or what I enjoy.

It has made my journey on here so much easier.

Fab is both good and bad but once you find a way to enjoy it rather than it annoy you it's fine.

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By *asual777Man
38 weeks ago

i travel all over

What keeps me here is the fffffffMMMMMMMMMMMMMs

Or versions thereof.

Sometimes I need two weeks off though. Because there are more important things which require prioritising

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

On:

Some very genuine people

Off:

Dick pics and stupidity

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By *astelloWoman
38 weeks ago

Far far away

The absolutely genuinely lovely people that l have met. The biggesr bonus has been finding new friends to be open with.

Downside is time is takes from day to day living. Pushy people, bitchiness and manipulative individuals.

But l love the forums and the odd coffee date too.

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By *dfabMan
38 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Banter on the Ireland forums and sexy pics/vids, along with the frisson of excitement of possibly getting a wink/message

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By *eftariiMan
38 weeks ago

Dublin

I had no idea there was a community on here outside of the pics and videos.

I'd say it is Banter in the various forums; that keeps me logging in more often than usual. Bar that it hasn't been a great experience...

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By *chochamberWoman
38 weeks ago

Munster

The potential for fulfilment of so many fantasies keep me here.

The entitled men push me away.

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By *amsevenMan
38 weeks ago

cork

Still here to browse the forums and chat sometimes. And don't use any other social media apps.

Really should have deleted by now as I don't make any effort any more to meet, and when I did I guess the ratio of messages sent to replys received would be a turn off, and ratio men to women

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By *electableicecreamMan
38 weeks ago

The West

Came for the ride, stayed for the craic.

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