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"I think nearly everyone likes bareback sex... that's not to say they will actually do it as it's a real risk, but it's still ok to like it." Bang on. Bare feels best Care is better Take a test Wise n healthier A jacket over Sound and sober Will keep your life Free of sickly strife | |||
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"Bareback does feel very different but the only person ever getting it Bareback is hubby " Same here | |||
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" Had an interesting conversation with a couple the other day that are exclusively bareback and would have a lot more experience than us and their take on it , especially at social meets was that 90% of people at them who are safe sex only throw that idea straight out the window in the heat of the moment and possibly with the help of a few gins lol." We've met lots of couples and the above has not been our experience at all. | |||
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" Had an interesting conversation with a couple the other day that are exclusively bareback and would have a lot more experience than us and their take on it , especially at social meets was that 90% of people at them who are safe sex only throw that idea straight out the window in the heat of the moment and possibly with the help of a few gins lol. We've met lots of couples and the above has not been our experience at all." Yep, I think they got their figures the wrong way around!? | |||
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"Bareback does feel very different but the only person ever getting it Bareback is hubby Same here " Great minds think alike lol | |||
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" Had an interesting conversation with a couple the other day that are exclusively bareback and would have a lot more experience than us and their take on it , especially at social meets was that 90% of people at them who are safe sex only throw that idea straight out the window in the heat of the moment and possibly with the help of a few gins lol. We've met lots of couples and the above has not been our experience at all. Yep, I think they got their figures the wrong way around!?" Maybe it's just the gin drinkers we need to avoid, the filthy heathens  | |||
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"Just on Danu's story I was in a club in Copenhagen with a woman in a sex sling just merrily waiting for anyone who wanted her while her husband was tied in a corner (this was a fetish club). And there were quite a few guys lining up. I was chatting to them later in the smoking area and I actually asked about whether she was nervous about all the bare sex and she looked at me as if I was an uncultured yokel and said: "This is Denmark. Sex testing is free and nobody would dare go to a fetish club without being tested and having results from the days before. There would be criminal charges if anyone got sick" We did not end up having any fun because I think she got the impression that the Irish haven't a clue what they're doing... " great story  | |||
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"Only with cuck couples or regular affairs with married ladies. Otherwise too risky" Why do you think cuck couples or married women are safer? | |||
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"Married women doesn’t have that much free time so it decreases the number of encounters and then the risk. " What if her husband has loads of time to shag around bare? | |||
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"Married women doesn’t have that much free time so it decreases the number of encounters and then the risk. " Sweet suffering Jaysus!! You're really going with that??!!! Wow! | |||
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"Married women doesn’t have that much free time so it decreases the number of encounters and then the risk. What if her husband has loads of time to shag around bare? " First thing that came into my head!! You've got no idea what her husband is in to, or up to! Do you picture him as some loser at home? He could be out barebacking men, women, TV, TS etc ...Woman having an affair are very high risk! | |||
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"Everyone makes choices for themselves and that's fine... but don't kid yourself that any particular demographic offer risk free bareback sex " Agree. There is not a risk free bareback sex, what I mean, if the risk scale goes from 100% to 0% to keep it as minimum as possible based on regular meets and trust. | |||
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"Everyone makes choices for themselves and that's fine... but don't kid yourself that any particular demographic offer risk free bareback sex Agree. There is not a risk free bareback sex, what I mean, if the risk scale goes from 100% to 0% to keep it as minimum as possible based on regular meets and trust. " That risk scale doesn't really go to zero, not in this country anyway. Maybe in other EU states that turn around testing in a few hours. It's more likely to go from Very high to Medium High. Particularly with people you wouldn't know extremely well, or those having affairs, because you've no idea what's really going on there. | |||
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"Everyone makes choices for themselves and that's fine... but don't kid yourself that any particular demographic offer risk free bareback sex Agree. There is not a risk free bareback sex, what I mean, if the risk scale goes from 100% to 0% to keep it as minimum as possible based on regular meets and trust. That risk scale doesn't really go to zero, not in this country anyway. Maybe in other EU states that turn around testing in a few hours. It's more likely to go from Very high to Medium High. Particularly with people you wouldn't know extremely well, or those having affairs, because you've no idea what's really going on there." Let’s say Medium-Low as I am regularly tested and trust is very important in life. | |||
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" Let’s say Medium-Low as I am regularly tested and trust is very important in life. "What about her? How do you know you're her only bit on the side? If her partner doesn't know, you probably don't either? | |||
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" Let’s say Medium-Low as I am regularly tested and trust is very important in life.
What about her? How do you know you're her only bit on the side? If her partner doesn't know, you probably don't either? "Well if she's married she's probably too busy at home cooking and cleaning to have many bits on the side... | |||
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" Let’s say Medium-Low as I am regularly tested and trust is very important in life.
What about her? How do you know you're her only bit on the side? If her partner doesn't know, you probably don't either?
Well if she's married she's probably too busy at home cooking and cleaning to have many bits on the side... "So vote yes in the referendum is what you're saying | |||
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" Let’s say Medium-Low as I am regularly tested and trust is very important in life.
What about her? How do you know you're her only bit on the side? If her partner doesn't know, you probably don't either?
Well if she's married she's probably too busy at home cooking and cleaning to have many bits on the side...
So vote yes in the referendum is what you're saying "Voting Yes will only increase STI's in the country. Note NO | |||
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"Some left-of-field takes on this that we weren’t expecting. We love bareback with each other, but have never encountered anyone requesting or expecting bareback since we’ve been swinging - including the gin drinkers. That said, we do have a fantasy and long term ambition to establish a small circle of trust with another couple, or couples, where a friendship based relationship could result in jettisoning condoms for the regular sexual dimension. We may never get there, and it may simply remain a fantasy, as it would require the perfect cocktail of familiarity, friendship, trust, sensuality, temporary abstinence from other activity and testing to beat the band… we can live in hope." Weve been in exactly that kind of arrangement. Where we were in a foursome where we all had sex with each other, and after all getting tested we ditched the condoms. It would need to be a very trusting specific set of circumstances though. | |||
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"Married women doesn’t have that much free time so it decreases the number of encounters and then the risk. Regular cock couples meetings are like an affair, they are faithful to the bull. " The last married woman i had an encounter with (safe encounter).Left me with a nasty eye infection. Have since purchased some goggles | |||
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"Weve been in exactly that kind of arrangement. Where we were in a foursome where we all had sex with each other, and after all getting tested we ditched the condoms. It would need to be a very trusting specific set of circumstances though." Absolutely. Thats a great place to get to with another couple. | |||
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"Some left-of-field takes on this that we weren’t expecting. We love bareback with each other, but have never encountered anyone requesting or expecting bareback since we’ve been swinging - including the gin drinkers. That said, we do have a fantasy and long term ambition to establish a small circle of trust with another couple, or couples, where a friendship based relationship could result in jettisoning condoms for the regular sexual dimension. We may never get there, and it may simply remain a fantasy, as it would require the perfect cocktail of familiarity, friendship, trust, sensuality, temporary abstinence from other activity and testing to beat the band… we can live in hope." This is our ideal fantasy. | |||
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"We are very forward about safe sex and nothing but that infact I am allergic to latex and just for incase I always carry latex free condoms. Well we agreed with a couple to meet, things progress blah blah, we discuss the fact that I am allergic and required latex free Condoms, which the guy proceeds tonsay he doesnt have, and would never expect anyone to accomodate us like that, so we always carry our own. Hubby went and got the Condoms as I was busy with the girl. Well the guy put it on, then fucking took it off, and i did not notice, hubby actually notice. It must of been maybe 10 second, but that is enough for me to want to murder that ass!. We stop play then and there, I felt so violated. Hubby was furious. Unfortunately won't be going nowhere near people on their 20s. Althought someone thatbwont respect boundaries will do it regardless of age. Lina. "Oh my god.... 
I'd have murdered him on the spot... | |||
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"I remember being at a swinger's party year's ago and caution was thrown to the wind by a lady from South America She was quite fit and attractive, wore really hot lingerie and a thong for easy access, she'd just grab a guys hard micky and and slip it in and he'd not hesitate Sounds like my type of party lol I think most guys that evening indulged in giving her one, she enjoyed it that was her kink, the guys were lining up at the sling. Married guy's and all, the lady I was with quite enjoyed watching it, but the amount of bodily fluids mixed that night would make a German orgy look quite tame. Luckily she was clean and the guys were too, but it was definitely a shot in the dark for all involved. I remember one lady asking her fella did he use protection in the room with her, he said of course he did in his ring lol he was one of the first to cum inside her. "
Sounds like my type of party lol | |||
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I'd have murdered him on the spot..."Yeah, I was abit shocked at first, but the next day I was furious, also the testing that needs to be done and so on. Lina. | |||
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"We are very forward about safe sex and nothing but that infact I am allergic to latex and just for incase I always carry latex free condoms. Well we agreed with a couple to meet, things progress blah blah, we discuss the fact that I am allergic and required latex free Condoms, which the guy proceeds tonsay he doesnt have, and would never expect anyone to accomodate us like that, so we always carry our own. Hubby went and got the Condoms as I was busy with the girl. Well the guy put it on, then fucking took it off, and i did not notice, hubby actually notice. It must of been maybe 10 second, but that is enough for me to want to murder that ass!. We stop play then and there, I felt so violated. Hubby was furious. Unfortunately won't be going nowhere near people on their 20s. Althought someone thatbwont respect boundaries will do it regardless of age. Lina. "Just as an FYI: that technically meets the definition of rap5, men need to know this. If a person advises that they only consent to sex with a condom, it is rap5 to penetrate without wearing one. | |||
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I'd have murdered him on the spot...
Yeah, I was abit shocked at first, but the next day I was furious, also the testing that needs to be done and so on.
Lina. "I honestly don't know If I'd (bob) have been able to control myself from punching him.. | |||
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"We are very forward about safe sex and nothing but that infact I am allergic to latex and just for incase I always carry latex free condoms. Well we agreed with a couple to meet, things progress blah blah, we discuss the fact that I am allergic and required latex free Condoms, which the guy proceeds tonsay he doesnt have, and would never expect anyone to accomodate us like that, so we always carry our own. Hubby went and got the Condoms as I was busy with the girl. Well the guy put it on, then fucking took it off, and i did not notice, hubby actually notice. It must of been maybe 10 second, but that is enough for me to want to murder that ass!. We stop play then and there, I felt so violated. Hubby was furious. Unfortunately won't be going nowhere near people on their 20s. Althought someone thatbwont respect boundaries will do it regardless of age. Lina. "This is shocking behaviour. Sorry you went through that | |||
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"We are very forward about safe sex and nothing but that infact I am allergic to latex and just for incase I always carry latex free condoms. Well we agreed with a couple to meet, things progress blah blah, we discuss the fact that I am allergic and required latex free Condoms, which the guy proceeds tonsay he doesnt have, and would never expect anyone to accomodate us like that, so we always carry our own. Hubby went and got the Condoms as I was busy with the girl. Well the guy put it on, then fucking took it off, and i did not notice, hubby actually notice. It must of been maybe 10 second, but that is enough for me to want to murder that ass!. We stop play then and there, I felt so violated. Hubby was furious. Unfortunately won't be going nowhere near people on their 20s. Althought someone thatbwont respect boundaries will do it regardless of age. Lina.
This is shocking behaviour. Sorry you went through that "This whole thing works because we are all free to do what we want, so long as we don't impose our own desires and ways unwanted people on another. This is more then just a health and personal choice issue. We put ourselves into situations where we can be at ease, free, and safe. The boundaries are set by willingness and acceptance of agreed limits. This is a deliberate trampling across your limits. No means no always. As said above I am sorry you went through this. Trust is the heart of things, it's delicate, and needs to be treated with care. We can make mistakes but this is borderline illegal in my mind. I am angry thinking about it. | |||
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"We are very forward about safe sex and nothing but that infact I am allergic to latex and just for incase I always carry latex free condoms. Well we agreed with a couple to meet, things progress blah blah, we discuss the fact that I am allergic and required latex free Condoms, which the guy proceeds tonsay he doesnt have, and would never expect anyone to accomodate us like that, so we always carry our own. Hubby went and got the Condoms as I was busy with the girl. Well the guy put it on, then fucking took it off, and i did not notice, hubby actually notice. It must of been maybe 10 second, but that is enough for me to want to murder that ass!. We stop play then and there, I felt so violated. Hubby was furious. Unfortunately won't be going nowhere near people on their 20s. Althought someone thatbwont respect boundaries will do it regardless of age. Lina.
This is shocking behaviour. Sorry you went through that
This whole thing works because we are all free to do what we want, so long as we don't impose our own desires and ways unwanted people on another.
This is more then just a health and personal choice issue.
We put ourselves into situations where we can be at ease, free, and safe. The boundaries are set by willingness and acceptance of agreed limits.
This is a deliberate trampling across your limits. No means no always.
As said above I am sorry you went through this.
Trust is the heart of things, it's delicate, and needs to be treated with care. We can make mistakes but this is borderline illegal in my mind.
I am angry thinking about it.
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" This whole thing works because we are all free to do what we want, so long as we don't impose our own desires and ways unwanted people on another. This is more then just a health and personal choice issue. We put ourselves into situations where we can be at ease, free, and safe. The boundaries are set by willingness and acceptance of agreed limits. This is a deliberate trampling across your limits. No means no always. As said above I am sorry you went through this. Trust is the heart of things, it's delicate, and needs to be treated with care. We can make mistakes but this is borderline illegal in my mind. I am angry thinking about it. " Yeap, I totally agree! I am trusting you with my body, least you can do is respect my boundaries. I still get cross and very wary of anybody now. Lina. | |||
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"Hubby here. To make matters worse, he took the condom happily, put it on, and before penetration with lina, he took it off. We also not on any birth control and if I want to have the sensation of coming inside lina I to wear the condom. Generally don't but it was terrible situation to be in and I was fuming. " I think you were wise not to be violent but feck it, that would push me that way. The thing is, how many others has he done the same with? | |||
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