FabSwingers.com forum: Anal a requirement?

By *dfab OP Man
51 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Just curious.

I know anal can be enjoyable.

I know there's 1000 plus nerve endings in the area.

However my question is do women feel its now a part of the sexual copulation requirement?

Do you feel pressure to have it on your Interests?

Despite the fact many may not have tried/enjoyed but, due to it's apparent social norm nowadays, you feel you should have it as an Interest.

Curious to know and probably have not worded the question exactly as intended but I hope you get my meaning.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
51 weeks ago

There and Here

No, definitely not. It's not on my interests because it's not something I particularly enjoy

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By *aseylee324Couple
51 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I'm not 12, I don't feel pressured to do things just because they're currently in fashion

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By *og-ManMan
51 weeks ago

somewhere

Porn has a lot to answer for doesnt it the way it helps push sexual acts into the main stream

Anal is definitely one of those things that went mainstream and into normal conversations in films and TV programmes

Whats next I wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Here’s the thing - when you meet guys who are well verified and know that this isn’t a dial a ride site then there are less issues regarding expectations.

I find expectations belong to the inexperienced members. People who push tend to find their time on fab short lived. I’ve had people push certain things before- for safety depending on the stage they might get the harry met sally treatment after 2 minutes then hoofed out but generally the conversation before hooking up will let me know if they are someone I will allow into my personal space.

Proper swinging is getting to know people and finding these things out. Parties, socials and events are great for this in a more casual format than coffee and meeting one to one. So again this is how I choose to meet people and feel there’s less pressure in these environments because someone always has your back if a pressure problem arises.

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By *astelloWoman
51 weeks ago

Far far away

Anal no way José

Never liked or enjoyed. Clenches butt cheeks

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By *adger BrocMan
51 weeks ago

Co. Cork

I'm sure José will be very disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Don't get that many messages now because my filters and extensive block list. But back in the day I would get one line messages off randomers with such romantic messages including can I fuck your ass and nice ass can I come in it. Of course hun pop up to Junction 14 and I'll be bent over the bonnet with my cheeks spread. I think the prevalence of porn might be a reason for these types of messages. Anyway lads hurry on up to Junction 14 my ass is getting awful chilly waiting

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By * tale of 2 citiesCouple
51 weeks ago

Belfast

In unrelated news AA roadwatch are reporting a large line of traffic backed up on the M7 from kildare village heading south

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By *electableicecreamMan
51 weeks ago

The West

I can't really be arsed with anal so it never really comes up

I've definitely been asked by more women if they could peg me. That's a polite no from me. Can't imagine being pressured.

I have friends who told me about lads who, after doing anal once, pestered them about it constantly.

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By *ot neuteredMan
51 weeks ago

Kildare

"In unrelated news AA roadwatch are reporting a large line of traffic backed up on the M7 from kildare village heading south "

There's monstrous heaving goin on near Monsterevin

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
51 weeks ago

Dublin

"Don't get that many messages now because my filters and extensive block list. But back in the day I would get one line messages off randomers with such romantic messages including can I fuck your ass and nice ass can I come in it. Of course hun pop up to Junction 14 and I'll be bent over the bonnet with my cheeks spread. I think the prevalence of porn might be a reason for these types of messages. Anyway lads hurry on up to Junction 14 my ass is getting awful chilly waiting "

Brilliant as always

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"In unrelated news AA roadwatch are reporting a large line of traffic backed up on the M7 from kildare village heading south "

AA stands for All Anal

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By *annyZ100Man
51 weeks ago

Limerick

Over the years I've only met one woman who was into it. Nice as it is, I wouldn't even suggest it to a woman unless they already indicated that they were interested in it.

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By *yeCandyDublinCouple
51 weeks ago

Lucan

"In unrelated news AA roadwatch are reporting a large line of traffic backed up on the M7 from kildare village heading south

AA stands for All Anal

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Oral sex will make your day,

But anal sex will make your hole weak.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
51 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Not a requirement for either of us... But we both would with the right partner

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By *ilderMan
51 weeks ago

dublin

"In unrelated news AA roadwatch are reporting a large line of traffic backed up on the M7 from kildare village heading south

AA stands for All Anal

And 'roadwatch' means 'watching you getting riden', right?....

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By *MCOUPLECouple
51 weeks ago

North Coast

We both love anal but the feeling of a meet has to be correct for it to happen, privately it’s often though.

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By *BT4KICKSWoman
51 weeks ago

Cork

All depends on the person but my "rule" is if you want to fuck my ass, I can fuck yours.

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By *asual777Man
51 weeks ago

i travel all over

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By *asual777Man
51 weeks ago

i travel all over

I quite like it , and it’s a plus if it happens . It has a different feel . A bit like going to a restaurant and sometimes ordering a starter main course AND dessert

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By *adylaceWoman
51 weeks ago

Waterford City

Not a fan here. I had an ex that loved it so we ended up doing it a good bit but it does nothing for me. I usually end up bored because it doesn't turn me on at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"All depends on the person but my "rule" is if you want to fuck my ass, I can fuck yours. "

Proper order

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By *ubadubdubWoman
51 weeks ago

Hereabouts

"Just curious.

I know anal can be enjoyable.

I know there's 1000 plus nerve endings in the area.

However my question is do women feel its now a part of the sexual copulation requirement?

Do you feel pressure to have it on your Interests?

Despite the fact many may not have tried/enjoyed but, due to it's apparent social norm nowadays, you feel you should have it as an Interest.

Curious to know and probably have not worded the question exactly as intended but I hope you get my meaning."

Nope. Never felt pressure or expectation or the like.

Not an issue

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By *anillabelliniCouple
51 weeks ago

Cork limerick and in-between

Nothing should ever be “an expectation” or pressure when meeting, if it is, then for us personally that’s where the meet ends without any apologies.

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By *1CorkCouple
50 weeks ago

Cork

Nothing worse than, and as self defeating as, a man pushing for anal on a meet, or before a meet in messages. For me, it’s something to be earned / built up to - and sometimes (more often than not) it won’t happen regardless of male’s input for myriad of reasons, therefore no reflection on his performance either.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

The anticipation is generally better than the act and it tends to get boring quickly.

I'm a fan of teasing and playing around the area as once it gets popped it quickly gets repetitive. In saying that , someone asking me to do it for them will instantly turn me on

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By *ea ShellsWoman
50 weeks ago

Sligo

Great line of discussion and thankfully the responses are more than acceptable to me. I did worry that in any group scenario it was expected. Happy to hear others saying it’s not. Everyone has a choice. And agree in pre chat messages you should know what the other person is hoping for during any meeting.

Good to hear from other ladies too on here.

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By *o strings but a G-stringMan
50 weeks ago

city

"All depends on the person but my "rule" is if you want to fuck my ass, I can fuck yours. "

That's the opposite to my rule. A lady can peg my ass without any expectations of me getting anal in return. I love the power role it puts a woman in and the feeling of a woman inside of me.

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By *aseylee324Couple
50 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

"Great line of discussion and thankfully the responses are more than acceptable to me. I did worry that in any group scenario it was expected. Happy to hear others saying it’s not. Everyone has a choice. And agree in pre chat messages you should know what the other person is hoping for during any meeting.

Good to hear from other ladies too on here. "

You always have the right to say no,to anything, at any time.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
50 weeks ago

The West

You always have the right to say no,to anything, at any time."

The absolute golden rule!

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By *tockings199Couple
50 weeks ago

Waterford

I have started it recently with my new regular and we both love it xx

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By *nightrider777Man
50 weeks ago

Dublin

Some brilliant responses on this lol

I love it, its not for everyone though, it has to be the right environment and with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Oh gosh, I think once again I’m in the minority, but it’s my favourite thing to do. Maybe I have just been lucky with my partners and my current partner, who are so good at it. I can’t explain how good it feels. To any ladies who may be nervous, try some butt plugs first start small and work your way up in sizes and some silicone lube, (some people prefer coconut oil). Preparation is key though, a good anal douche before is essential

Playblue sex shop has a good range of anal toys and accessories (I don’t work for them lol!)

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Who told you it was a social norm to have anal sex? Who do you socialise with lol

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By *oss_BeaumontMan
50 weeks ago

Skerries

A modest proposal,

No expectation of anal unless you're willing to get pegged yourself?

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By *dfab OP Man
50 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Interesting mix of responses.

Thanks all

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
50 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Who told you it was a social norm to have anal sex? Who do you socialise with lol"

To be fair it has been somewhat normalised in recent years. Having said that, as with all sex acts it's something that shouldn't ever be assumed, and is something that two consenting adults agree on, otherwise it shouldn't happen.

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By *s LollyWoman
50 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Him: Can I fuck your ass?

Me: Absolutely if i can fuck your's?

Him: Er..........noooooooo

Me: You got your answer

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By *_05Man
50 weeks ago

dublin 7

"Him: Can I fuck your ass?

Me: Absolutely if i can fuck your's?

Him: Er..........noooooooo

Me: You got your answer

Great decisions can be made right here

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By *oghunter33Woman
50 weeks ago

on the hill NordWest of

I can imagine that there's a higher expectancy of having anal with the widespread of porn. However never do something that doesn't sits with you

Based on my experience the lads who shout the loudest for it, can't deliver eventually for various reasons. So it's only the special few you'd go there, the reliable and trustworthy ones.

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