FabSwingers.com forum: Would you date someone you met on fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

So as the title say,

Would you date someone you met through fab?

Very curious to hear what people think about this.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I didn’t join fab as a dating site, but (there is always a but). I would never say never. So yes I would date someone I met on Fab

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By *ungry CatCouple
41 weeks ago

Belfast

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1446358

Very similar thread OP, worth the read

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By *og-ManMan
41 weeks ago

somewhere

I am.....2 years last week

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By *ofusplusCouple
41 weeks ago

Limerick

The only issue with this decision is being aligned in your stance on monogamy. One may want it and the other may not. Clear communication from the beginning would be needed to avoid any issues

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By *cottybear74Man
41 weeks ago

kilkenny

Yes I would

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By *osferatu82Man
41 weeks ago

North Cork

I have and I would again no problem

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By *adhatter and coCouple
41 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Dated and then married

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Yes if they were also of a similar mindset

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By *panishRebelMan
41 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

The right one is the right one. In fact if you are on here, it's probably best option to date someone who at the very least would like being on fab too, preferably with you.

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By *lan157Man
41 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I have done on two occasions

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By *lavemale66Man
41 weeks ago

Carlow

Yes I would date someone from Fab, in fact I would rather do so than date a person off a vanilla dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"So as the title say,

Would you date someone you met through fab?

Very curious to hear what people think about this.

I wouldn’t say no

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By *mmortalbMan
41 weeks ago

kildare

I think it is alot of the couples having the most fun here on fet. If you met someone here you dont have to establish the kinkyness over time, you would both know your dirty fuckers already hahahaha. But dating is dating, i dont think it matters where you meet someone as long as you love them.

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By *BT4KICKSWoman
41 weeks ago

Cork

Why wouldn't you is the question. Its hard enough to find a spark and connection with someone why wouldn't see where it would go if you are open to dating regardless where you meet.

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By *wingpeterMan
41 weeks ago

Enniscorthy

Absolutely

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
41 weeks ago

kinkytown

We met here and ended up getting together. Now engaged with kids and still having as much fun as when we met years ago. Still say he's a fecking dickhead but he's mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

Im happy to see nearly all of the replies share the same mind set as me.

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By *oco_Social_ClubWoman
41 weeks ago

North

"Dated and then married

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omg this is so cool

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By *o strings but a G-stringMan
41 weeks ago

city

"So as the title say,

Would you date someone you met through fab?

Very curious to hear what people think about this.

100%

In many ways fab relationships can be the most honest because it helps us be completely honest about deepest desires, many of which are taboo in other contexts. Once we are open about deepest desires we can be open about anything - but it comes with the caution of remaining free of jealousy and possessiveness in regards to partners and their swinging desires. Both parties must remain free, but aligned

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"So as the title say,

Would you date someone you met through fab?

Very curious to hear what people think about this.

I didnt set out to date but found a guy and 3 yrs later im living with him. Sometimes fab has good folk about

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By *artina cdTV/TS
41 weeks ago

co dublin

10 years this April still having fun . And we are sole mates x

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By *electableicecreamMan
41 weeks ago

The West

Fab provides a framework for upfront honesty as some questions are already answered.

I feel like the root of the question is would you date someone who is non monogamous.

My answer to that would be yes and I have and will again.

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By *ysticalWoman
41 weeks ago

north wexford

Yes I have done and I do it again if the right guy comes long

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By *ural delightMan
41 weeks ago

Enniskillen

Absolutely would. See so many wonderful cpls on here.

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By *rinibooWoman
41 weeks ago

clare

Would for sure . Know a few that have met on here and married or in long term relationships

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By *lueLotusWoman
41 weeks ago

the _ilderness

Absolutely yes

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Yes absolutely I would

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By *ilderMan
41 weeks ago

dublin

Have done, more than once

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Have done, more than once

Fab Ireland's most eligible single guy

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By *otownkid1967Man
41 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Yup

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By *hiteKniteMan
41 weeks ago

Nearby

I would, yes

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By *affa31Woman
41 weeks ago

Galway

Have multiple times, prob would again in the right circumstances

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By *ominanTeeMan
41 weeks ago

Sligo

where better to meet someone with similar interests and outlooks??

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By *asilbrush999Man
41 weeks ago

Dublin

Yes, definitely I would a way meet someone with common interests and mindset too!

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
41 weeks ago

Portstewart

Yes if we clicked enough to get naughty then yet certainly we would consider having a dating partner

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By *ilderMan
41 weeks ago

dublin

"Have done, more than once

Fab Ireland's most eligible single guy

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By *BelfastGuyMan
41 weeks ago

Belfast

Would you trust them or have to share?

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By *adhatter and coCouple
41 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

"Would you trust them or have to share?"

You don’t have to be on fab to be a untrustworthy partner lol

Tinder is just as bad for casual hook ups

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By *hinbutlong1Man
41 weeks ago

Trim

Tbf you’re going to meet someone whos just as horny as you

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Absolutely 100% , it's not like we have to get married

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By *haunhennaMan
41 weeks ago

nearby

Absolutely probably find your best match here

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By *arry and AnnCouple
41 weeks ago

Louth

Gearing up for our 2nd wedding anniversary

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By *voidingboredomMan
41 weeks ago

around

"Gearing up for our 2nd wedding anniversary

Awww congrats!!

I'd definitely date someone from fab if we clicked!

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By *evinxxMan
41 weeks ago

Drogheda

I would no problem. I'm on the look out lol

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By *mmmm300Woman
41 weeks ago

cork

Yes, I definitely would, I think it might be the only place to meet someone ok with what I am currently looking for.

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By *alvin.Man
41 weeks ago

Cork/Dublin

Yes of course. If the right person came along.

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By *ofusplusCouple
41 weeks ago

Limerick

"Would you trust them or have to share?"

What has trust got to do with it? Surely you'd only date someone you trusted and you'd discuss the question of monogamy before embarking on the relationship?

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By *og-ManMan
41 weeks ago

somewhere

"Yes of course. If the right person came along. "

I'm still not going out with you

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By *arkog36Man
41 weeks ago

Dublin

Yes I would if you meet someone on this your both going to be into this lifestyle and from talking to couples it has only made them stronger

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By *alvin.Man
41 weeks ago

Cork/Dublin

"Yes of course. If the right person came along.

I'm still not going out with you

Ya big Tease

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By *oseredWoman
41 weeks ago

Dublin

Have done and would again.

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By *panishRebelMan
41 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Fab provides a framework for upfront honesty as some questions are already answered.

I feel like the root of the question is would you date someone who is non monogamous.

My answer to that would be yes and I have and will again.

Nail on the head.

And as I said previously yes I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I would 100% for sure

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By *razy-CplCouple
41 weeks ago

and surrounding areas

We met on a different Swing site nearly 12 years ago , still going strong, dont think i could be with anyone in the Vanilla life ,

Mrs crazy

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
41 weeks ago

Casa Del Fun

We first met here and have been together 5 years now.

We have a fantastic and open relationship mainly thanks to who we are and because of the site, but also how it educated us over the years.

Some ‘Vanilla’ relationships can develop insecurities and untruths, leading to paranoia etc.

With us both being lovers of the lifestyle it was so easy to continue this path together.

We are the perfect ‘Wingman’ and ‘Wingwoman’

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I'm committed to myself these days, happily single

I also don't think I have ever been on a date in my life, it's just not my style

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By *un4fun23456Man
41 weeks ago

ennis

"Would for sure . Know a few that have met on here and married or in long term relationships "

Can I date you trini

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By *spMan
41 weeks ago

Who know's

Yes yes yes I would and did. It’s was fantastic and loved every moment of our time together. We loved been in our own company and both enjoyed seeing each other with others. We were both singing of the same hymn sheet and had no jealousy

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By *rish_GuyMan
41 weeks ago

Foxford

"So as the title say,

Would you date someone you met through fab?

Very curious to hear what people think about this.

Another question to ask is, why not? As ye'll know thing's about eachother beforehand. Compared to meeting someone off a dating app or wherever ye meet eachother. Dating app's aren't for everybody either.

Dating app's weren't for me at all. So I'd be open to dating someone from here, if we click.

So like I asked earlier, "why not"?

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By *antra MassageMan
40 weeks ago

South Side.

Yes, of course. You'll get a massage every day!

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By *dfabMan
40 weeks ago

Dunboyne

I would but unfortunately my wife likely won't agree to it

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Would you not break it off with her and do all these things you write on the forums about that she holds you back on

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I have.

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By *mmortalValkyrieWoman
40 weeks ago

From a galaxy far far away

As an eternal romantic, i definitely would love to meet someone on here and date them, as the groundwork would already be done as to kinky likes and dislikes....how wonderful would it be to have a partner in kink to share all this naughtiness with and do the whole cinema, dinner, sunset walks on the beach with... whilst wearing a butt plug and carrying a flogger too x lol

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By *dfabMan
40 weeks ago

Dunboyne

"Would you not break it off with her and do all these things you write on the forums about that she holds you back on"

Probably will, when kids are sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"As an eternal romantic, i definitely would love to meet someone on here and date them, as the groundwork would already be done as to kinky likes and dislikes....how wonderful would it be to have a partner in kink to share all this naughtiness with and do the whole cinema, dinner, sunset walks on the beach with... whilst wearing a butt plug and carrying a flogger too x lol

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Exactly, when I was on here many moons ago I used it for dating as you said, there's no need for explanation as it's in writing.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
40 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Yep. 7 weeks to our big day. Actually does anyone know where to get decently priced mens wedding attire in Cork?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"Yep. 7 weeks to our big day. Actually does anyone know where to get decently priced mens wedding attire in Cork?"

Oh wow exciting! Congratulations x

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
40 weeks ago

City Centre

I have and would again.

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By *nightrider777Man
40 weeks ago

Dublin

Yes, I'm open to everything, theres no reason you cant find someone here. In the long term you either stay here together with some ground rules or you explore together, leave together but know what you both like now and live happily ever after

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By *eijaWoman
40 weeks ago

City Centre

I have in the past and I am currently

Who wouldn't love finding someone open minded enough to explore the scene with you. Someone you can be honest and open with about your kinks and desires

Not sure I could ever be in a 'vanilla' relationship again.

B x

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By *urious lillieWoman
40 weeks ago

Kildare

I'd happily date someone from fab if we both had the same outlook on the relationship. I don't ever forsee me being a one man woman ever again. Have always thought I'll never be in a relationship again but maybe a fab connection might change my mind.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
40 weeks ago

outside belfast x

Am certainly not here to date but possibly meet a fwbs certainly that would be the closest thing I'd be looking for... reason I joined fab is because relationships don't work for me and previous ex's showed me that time and time again....

No the answer would be no from me that's why I joined fab am a swinger through and through

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I would asked a few profiles for lunch or dinner ....no luck

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
40 weeks ago

Midlands

Like anything That would be down to communication, honesty and trust.

Wouldn’t rule anything in or out.

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By *urganguyMan
40 weeks ago

around

I am at every opportunity, met as a one off and has developed into a fwb situation where we both have lives outside the site. However with a different set of circumstances I'd say we pretty much would be having a relationship.

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By *illow and FionnCouple
40 weeks ago

Cork

Of course

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By *hatbiatchWoman
40 weeks ago

craigavon

"I am at every opportunity, met as a one off and has developed into a fwb situation where we both have lives outside the site. However with a different set of circumstances I'd say we pretty much would be having a relationship."

I’d say you’d be 100% right on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yep we met on here

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yes of course , similar outlook

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By *humper22Woman
40 weeks ago

waterford

Here is hoping

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By *BelfastGuyMan
40 weeks ago

Belfast

Would you both stay on fab?

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By *angtasticallyMan
40 weeks ago

Drogheda

It can work yes

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By *inkanddesireCouple
40 weeks ago

Sth Dublin

No it's just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Absolutely 100% yes.

I think in fact the people you meet via Fab or someother "alternative" sites have a greater chance of me dating due to a common outlook on life and approaching relationships and dynamics.

I would see it as only enhacning the dating experience and making it last longer.

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By *voidingboredomMan
40 weeks ago

around

You know the more ive considered it I'd say I'm far more likely to discuss a longer-term relationship or commitment to someone I met on fab rather than elsewhere.

The genuine romance stories from here are amazing!

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By *attooYouMan
40 weeks ago

just about northside

"We met here and ended up getting together. Now engaged with kids and still having as much fun as when we met years ago. Still say he's a fecking dickhead but he's mine

Love it!

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By *londieckWoman
40 weeks ago

Dublin

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By *londieckWoman
40 weeks ago

Dublin

Definitely !!! As long as everyone communicates it can be more honest …

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
40 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Would you both stay on fab?"

We are both still here, and she has her own single profile, but we aren't very active. This stuff is really down to the individuals and how their relationship works.

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By *ofusplusCouple
40 weeks ago

Limerick

These threads appear every now and then, usually by women and I always wonder what she means by 'date' because in the past women have clarified to 'leave Fab to be monogamous'.

A guy who has been successful on here with many meets and much experimentation with group sex, fantasies etc in my opinion might agree to monogamy but might find it difficult in the long run, _specially if they were still reasonably young.

I think the OP means to 'leave Fab' here too. Open to correction of course. Mrs

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By *voidingboredomMan
40 weeks ago

around

Oh... So the question would be 'would you leave fab to be monogamous with someone you met on fab'?

That would take a bit more consideration. All depends on the individual situation!

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Definitely !!! As long as everyone communicates it can be more honest … "

This is it bang on, as long as both parties communicate well and honestly and given ghat place to do so it can be an amazing dating experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
40 weeks ago

"These threads appear every now and then, usually by women and I always wonder what she means by 'date' because in the past women have clarified to 'leave Fab to be monogamous'.

I think the OP means to 'leave Fab' here too. Open to correction of course. Mrs

I didn't mention leaving fab, Or monogamy.

I was just curious if people would start dating or have a relationship with someone they've met here.

I've had a few men tell me they wouldn't want that with a woman from fab, and was told that they wouldn't tell future partners that they were ever on fab. Which I thought was ridiculous.

I'd happily date someone from here. And hopefully continue having lots of fun with them

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By *aseylee324Couple
40 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

"These threads appear every now and then, usually by women and I always wonder what she means by 'date' because in the past women have clarified to 'leave Fab to be monogamous'.

I think the OP means to 'leave Fab' here too. Open to correction of course. Mrs

I didn't mention leaving fab, Or monogamy.

I was just curious if people would start dating or have a relationship with someone they've met here.

I've had a few men tell me they wouldn't want that with a woman from fab, and was told that they wouldn't tell future partners that they were ever on fab. Which I thought was ridiculous.

I'd happily date someone from here. And hopefully continue having lots of fun with them

Madonna-whore complex is alive and well

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By *electableicecreamMan
40 weeks ago

The West

"These threads appear every now and then, usually by women and I always wonder what she means by 'date' because in the past women have clarified to 'leave Fab to be monogamous'.

I think the OP means to 'leave Fab' here too. Open to correction of course. Mrs

I didn't mention leaving fab, Or monogamy.

I was just curious if people would start dating or have a relationship with someone they've met here.

I've had a few men tell me they wouldn't want that with a woman from fab, and was told that they wouldn't tell future partners that they were ever on fab. Which I thought was ridiculous.

I'd happily date someone from here. And hopefully continue having lots of fun with them

You made an excellent point there.

I date outside of fab and once I get to know a person I'm up front about my lifestyle.

Sometimes that's cool and nothing changes and sometimes a person might say no thanks the ENM life isn't for me.

Sometimes a person might say they are cool with ENM and it turns out down the road it's not for them.

It's not uncommon to see things like "No ENM, Poly or other Acronyms" on people's dating profiles now.

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
40 weeks ago

Casa Del Fun

"Definitely !!! As long as everyone communicates it can be more honest … "

Exactly this!

It’s all about communication and it really adds something more when we can chat about our desires etc.

it’s a HUGE sexy plus, knowing what we know about each other and how we like to play.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
40 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Oh... So the question would be 'would you leave fab to be monogamous with someone you met on fab'?

That would take a bit more consideration. All depends on the individual situation!"

That's trickier. It's something that I'd have to think long and hard (giggle) about.

It's something I'd find kinda difficult to just turn away from once the box is opened.

Honestly I'd probably struggle to be with someone who is very closed off with regards sexual adventures .

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By *ofusplusCouple
40 weeks ago

Limerick

"These threads appear every now and then, usually by women and I always wonder what she means by 'date' because in the past women have clarified to 'leave Fab to be monogamous'.

I think the OP means to 'leave Fab' here too. Open to correction of course. Mrs

I didn't mention leaving fab, Or monogamy.

I was just curious if people would start dating or have a relationship with someone they've met here.

I've had a few men tell me they wouldn't want that with a woman from fab, and was told that they wouldn't tell future partners that they were ever on fab. Which I thought was ridiculous.

I'd happily date someone from here. And hopefully continue having lots of fun with them

Thanks for the clarification

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By *electableicecreamMan
40 weeks ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
40 weeks ago

The West

Pretty define dating differently too.

Right now I enjoy dating casually and non exclusively. I'm not open to a relationship.

Just as I like to meet casually and non monogamously.

And I prefer too have regular more intimate connections than one offs

Some people associate dating with looking for relationship.

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By *electableicecreamMan
40 weeks ago

The West

People, not pretty

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By *eftariiMan
39 weeks ago

Dublin

Sorry ; nope.

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By *imandher123456Couple
39 weeks ago

gosport

NSA Relationship now married

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Sorry ; nope."

Why is that. I'm just curious to know.

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By *ir Lance a CockMan
39 weeks ago

Belfast

Have done in the past... but you need to sit down and chat about if your both going to start meeting people as a couple and give up the single meets. Or come off fab while in the relationship?

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By *DSGCouple
39 weeks ago

That place in

It's now worse then dating

I live with them now

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By *urvyLouLouWoman
39 weeks ago

Tyrone

I have done and would do xx

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By *eftariiMan
39 weeks ago

Dublin

"Sorry ; nope.

Why is that. I'm just curious to know.

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. No worries.

It will just get complicated going forward, with dating; building a life together post Fab et Al.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
39 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

For those saying no... What if you both found out (after deciding to try for a proper relationship) that you were both active on here previously? Would that be an issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Sorry ; nope.

Why is that. I'm just curious to know.

. No worries.

It will just get complicated going forward, with dating; building a life together post Fab et Al. "

You should never look at problems ahead, look for solutions

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"For those saying no... What if you both found out (after deciding to try for a proper relationship) that you were both active on here previously? Would that be an issue?"

Great question

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By *eftariiMan
39 weeks ago

Dublin

"Sorry ; nope.

Why is that. I'm just curious to know.

. No worries.

It will just get complicated going forward, with dating; building a life together post Fab et Al.

You should never look at problems ahead, look for solutions

. True! But on this occasion; I'd rather elimate any possibility of problems or need to look for a solution

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By *eftariiMan
39 weeks ago

Dublin

"For those saying no... What if you both found out (after deciding to try for a proper relationship) that you were both active on here previously? Would that be an issue?"

More or less….

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
39 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
39 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"More or less…."

Can you describe what the difference is?

This person is exactly the same person you liked before, but once you know they were on fab what changed?

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By *ifeisforliving2016Man
39 weeks ago

waterford

It all depends on the couple ,if they really are happy with each other's company, then there will be no issues as long as they are honest & comunicate with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Yes, I do- and it’s wonderful. Milly x

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By *eftariiMan
39 weeks ago

Dublin

"More or less….

Can you describe what the difference is?

This person is exactly the same person you liked before, but once you know they were on fab what changed?"

I guess the baggage that comes with it and how to properly proceed from there.

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By *chochamberWoman
39 weeks ago

Munster

I wouldn't date anyone, not on Fab.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
39 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"More or less….

Can you describe what the difference is?

This person is exactly the same person you liked before, but once you know they were on fab what changed?

I guess the baggage that comes with it and how to properly proceed from there. "

Do you feel your potential partner would worry about how to proceed with you since you were previously on a swinging website? Has your future relationship potential been ruined from this place? Do you feel you have baggage from here that makes you a poor partner choice for a girl in the future?

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By *eftariiMan
39 weeks ago

Dublin

"More or less….

Can you describe what the difference is?

This person is exactly the same person you liked before, but once you know they were on fab what changed?

I guess the baggage that comes with it and how to properly proceed from there.

Question: Do you feel your potential partner would worry about how to proceed with you since you were previously on a swinging website?

Answer : Yes.

Question : Has your future relationship potential been ruined from this place? Do you feel you have baggage from here that makes you a poor partner choice for a girl in the future?

Answer: At the minute ; I'd be leaning towards a yes.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
39 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
39 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Thanks for your honest answers. Its a shame to me that you feel that your activities here mean that you will struggle to have a relationship. I guess I feel the opposite that being open to casual sexual encounters could encourage positive sexual experiences and relationships. For me nonmonogamy and sexual openness is something that can be a positive force in life rather then something that is to be damaging. Also I feel that being with someone who has been (and is) sexually open doesn't damage them, it enhances their breath of experiences and can lead to new excitement and experiences together in the future.

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By *on Juan the MADridMan
39 weeks ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/

Not looking for dating at all but if so, definitely a fabs woman. I have had the chance to meet the most amazing people here.

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By * peas in a podCouple
39 weeks ago

Youghal

We met on Fab. Going on 6 years now and happily engaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

The Question is why not

Date someone from Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"We met on Fab. Going on 6 years now and happily engaged. "

Fantastic so happy for you both

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By *mmaleiaWoman
39 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

If it happens, it happens, not looking for it

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
39 weeks ago

Home

Of course why not

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I believe that relationships can manifest in various ways, and connections can be formed in unexpected places. If I meet someone on here and we share a genuine connection beyond just the swinging aspect, I am open to exploring the possibility of dating. Ultimately, it's about the connection, r_spect, and mutual understanding between two individuals or theree, regardless of where they initially met.

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By *oodOmensfor2Couple
39 weeks ago

Ennis

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
39 weeks ago

Magical Forrest

"I believe that relationships can manifest in various ways, and connections can be formed in unexpected places. If I meet someone on here and we share a genuine connection beyond just the swinging aspect, I am open to exploring the possibility of dating. Ultimately, it's about the connection, r_spect, and mutual understanding between two individuals or theree, regardless of where they initially met."

Took the words out of my mouth

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By *eftariiMan
39 weeks ago

Dublin

"Thanks for your honest answers. Its a shame to me that you feel that your activities here mean that you will struggle to have a relationship. I guess I feel the opposite that being open to casual sexual encounters could encourage positive sexual experiences and relationships. For me nonmonogamy and sexual openness is something that can be a positive force in life rather then something that is to be damaging. Also I feel that being with someone who has been (and is) sexually open doesn't damage them, it enhances their breath of experiences and can lead to new excitement and experiences together in the future."

You make some convincing points ; but it will probably be a challenge for me to switch into that lane if you will ; _specially with someone who is still sexually open on Fab.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
39 weeks ago

somewhere out there

We met on another site in 07 joined fab together following year as fwb now married 15yrs so it can work

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
39 weeks ago

Magical Forrest

"We met on another site in 07 joined fab together following year as fwb now married 15yrs so it can work"

Seee … it does work … for some

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By *mazingTimesMan
39 weeks ago

Dublin

"We met on another site in 07 joined fab together following year as fwb now married 15yrs so it can work"

Wow…..would love that!!

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By *astelloWoman
39 weeks ago

Far far away

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

Wow so many longterm happy relationships and marriages that started on fab.

Was not expecting to see all those post.

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By *apaBravo1988Man
38 weeks ago

Waterford County

If we hit it off after a social meet then I don't see why not

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Yes I sure would date someone I've met on Fab & I have done..5 in fact & still 'close' friends with them & still 'date' them..My meets involve nights out after a strong r_spectful connection has been formed..

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By *ickin2Man
38 weeks ago

Kilkenny

"Yes I sure would date someone I've met on Fab & I have done..5 in fact & still 'close' friends with them & still 'date' them..My meets involve nights out after a strong r_spectful connection has been formed.."

I think that that is Fab at its absolute best

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By *nghellicMan
38 weeks ago

Antrim

It would certainly be challenging, but I wouldn’t rule it out.

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By *inkykitten999Woman
38 weeks ago

cork

I did date a guy I met on here for 2 years, obviously didn't work out but a good experience

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By *ecentguy321Man
38 weeks ago

nearby

2 similar threads on the 1 night and i missed both!

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By *carlett!Woman
38 weeks ago

Late to this thread but...

I've went on a couple of dates with guys from fab since joining almost 3 years ago & had positive experiences (mostly). But haven't dated per say, as in been "exclusive" or whatever the hip word is these days lol I also haven't dated outside of fab in that time either. It's all personal perspective & allows for so many variables.

I think if/when you meet "the right person" all perspectives & previous thought process goes out the window. You may not know the answer to this question till your caught by surprise

But agree, if I were going to date someone it would only be someone that I met here and honest open communication would be the only way.

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