FabSwingers.com forum: Things you discovered late in life

By *asual777 OP Man
40 weeks ago

i travel all over

Peanut butter

Some women have higher libidos than their male partners

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By *electableicecreamMan
40 weeks ago

The West

Driving slower is relaxing.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
40 weeks ago

South Down

Scallops

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Whiskey

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By *og-ManMan
40 weeks ago

somewhere

Being bi

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
40 weeks ago

South Down

"Whiskey

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I'll buy you one to make up for derailing your thread

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By *s LollyWoman
40 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Kissing the ladies

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By *iscuits8Man
40 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

The joys of a heated towel rad

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Whiskey

I'll buy you one to make up for derailing your thread

Midelton rare so

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By *ozzlesMan
40 weeks ago

galway

"Driving slower is relaxing."

For me it is, but the line of traffic behind me looks a little less relaxed

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By *tillWaters182Man
40 weeks ago

Dublin

I'm much more of a people person than I believed as a shy teenager.

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By *aseylee324Couple
40 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I'll let you know when I get there

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By *tingray271Man
40 weeks ago

Sligo Donegal

I enjoy sex more than I thought 10 years ago.

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By *risharrowMan
40 weeks ago

clare

The difference between emotional pain/hurt and anger

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By *astelloWoman
40 weeks ago

Far far away

Tantric massage

Its okay to be vulnerable

Lager is the devil's juice

Traveling alone is ok

Learning is never over

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By *urvaliciousMeWoman
40 weeks ago

lisburn/Quigleys Point

Confidence

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By *reedy699Man
40 weeks ago

mayo

Jamie dodgers

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Something I’m eager to try

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
40 weeks ago

Cork

I don't need to be perfect for everyone. I'm actually pretty okay as I am

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By *ythenMan
40 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin

"Whiskey

I'll buy you one to make up for derailing your thread

Midelton rare so "

Expensive tastes

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By *chochamberWoman
40 weeks ago

Munster

Solo travelling is liberating.

Women are not endless service people for men/ children.

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By *chochamberWoman
40 weeks ago

Munster

OB Yes lube: very pleasant indeed.

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By *appydatscMan
40 weeks ago

dublin

Am a good golfer

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By *mmmm300Woman
40 weeks ago

cork

That it was ok to have relationships/situationships lol with a guy or a girl. All is acceptable. Love it.

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By *aseylee324Couple
40 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

That you get the kind of relationship you feel you deserve

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By *ardyboy54321Man
40 weeks ago

Fermanagh

How to load a dishwasher

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By *ildAtlanticSecretCouple
40 weeks ago

around Clare, Galway, Limerick

That 99% of what we fill our heads with doesn't really matter it's the 1% that counts

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By *oe_TimerMan
40 weeks ago

Sandyford

As they get older and sex is absent, men become interested in other men

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
40 weeks ago

ireland

To please myself,and tell people to fuck off (politely sometimes )!

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

It’s okay to be unavailable to other people.

I’m not a sex fiend just because I enjoy lots of sex daily.

Milly x

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By *antra MassageMan
40 weeks ago

South Side.

Full body orgasms.

Lidl on a Thursday.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
40 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

That attempting to understand why someone is saying something is every bit as important as what they are saying.

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By *icksdickMan
40 weeks ago

Co. Dublin

Knowing that I really am good enough.

My love of nature.

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By *antra MassageMan
40 weeks ago

South Side.

I discovered Tantra. I wish I'd come across it as a younger man, as it has changed my life so much.

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By *ShezWoman
40 weeks ago

belfast

That I was saying penguin wrong my whole life lol

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By *og-ManMan
40 weeks ago

somewhere

"That I was saying penguin wrong my whole life lol "

You and Benedict Cumberbatch

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By *ogday2181Man
40 weeks ago

Dublin

That I'm way better off staying single!!

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By *amon.dMan
40 weeks ago

antrim

Being horny all the time doesn't make you a bad person.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
40 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

Say the things to the people you give a sh!t about, even they don't give a sh!t about you - rather than spend the rest of your life wishing you'd said them.

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By *asual777 OP Man
40 weeks ago

i travel all over

"Full body orgasms.

Lidl on a Thursday.

Are those two things related ?

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
40 weeks ago

City Centre

That I wasn't odd or weird in my thoughts surrounding my sexual desires. That many others also enjoyed the same fetishism/kinks as me.

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By *amon.dMan
40 weeks ago

antrim

Staring at the TV doesn't make your eyes go square and eating your vegetables doesn't make you big and strong.

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By *ednuts101Man
40 weeks ago

Here

Living in the most densely populated areas can also be the unfriendliest

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By *leasurer77Man
40 weeks ago

Athlone

That I have an exceptionally hard cock

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By *I TwoCouple
40 weeks ago

PDI 12-26th Nov 24

My cock is a lot bigger than I thought

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By *chochamberWoman
40 weeks ago

Munster

Oh really?

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By *amsevenMan
40 weeks ago

cork

Your cock is longer if ya lose your bear belly

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yoga isnt just for women and is really good

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By *mmmm300Woman
40 weeks ago

cork

"That I wasn't odd or weird in my thoughts surrounding my sexual desires. That many others also enjoyed the same fetishism/kinks as me."

Similar here and it's the loveliest realisation and feeling.

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By *rBandMrsGCouple
40 weeks ago

Kilkenny

Stop caring what people think.

I know people in their 50s and 60s that still can't manage this.

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By *ilderMan
40 weeks ago

dublin

What a tracker mortgage is.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
40 weeks ago

kinkytown

Giving a fuck about what others think. Way too much time wasted thinking about other people's opinions of us.

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By *I TwoCouple
40 weeks ago

PDI 12-26th Nov 24

[Removed by poster at 08/02/24 16:53:57]

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By *I TwoCouple
40 weeks ago

PDI 12-26th Nov 24

"Oh really? "

Nah. wishful thinking

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By *cuk4funCouple
40 weeks ago

city centre

Grey hairs ....

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By *oey4somefunMan
40 weeks ago

Dublin/Drogheda

Not to give a flying f##k

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
40 weeks ago

Midlands

Swinging.

Socials.

Biscoff spread.

Guiness and taco fries don’t mix or end well

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By *oxic1998Woman
40 weeks ago

Belfast

Life's too short to be unhappy with it

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By *ythenMan
40 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin

How to slow down, and really appreciate/ enjoy the things that are really actually important in life ..,

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By *dfabMan
40 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Homebrew is cheaper and can often be nicer than what you pay 10 times more for in pubs

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

That I can cook.

Going for breakfast alone.

Travelling alone.

Sometimes something simple to you can mean the world to somebody else.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
40 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Homebrew is cheaper and can often be nicer than what you pay 10 times more for in pubs

Also homegrown. Vegetables I mean of course

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By *eijaWoman
40 weeks ago

City Centre

Not being afraid to let go

Not being afraid to ask for what you want

My bi side

That I love watching

That I love bi men

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Forgiving people is more important for you than for them.

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By *panishRebelMan
40 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

That I like orgies.

Always am discovering things. Life is a never ending teacher.

But orgies is what I am going with here

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By *oodOmensfor2Couple
40 weeks ago

Ennis

Telling yourself you are happy really does make a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

That being kind is more important than winning

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By *alvin.Man
40 weeks ago

Cork/Dublin

"Things you discovered late in life"

I've discovered lots of things from experience which I suppose is a learned wisdom. This I'm grateful for.

For example. I no longer leave my slippers near the cat litter tray as I'm sick of finding cat crap where my big toe goes. Poxy cat. Wisdom in action

Also.

I've discovered a way to sit down and not sit on my newly arrived dangly balls. Again... Wisdom.

Discovering stuff is great.

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By *og-ManMan
40 weeks ago

somewhere

""Things you discovered late in life"

I've discovered lots of things from experience which I suppose is a learned wisdom. This I'm grateful for.

For example. I no longer leave my slippers near the cat litter tray as I'm sick of finding cat crap where my big toe goes. Poxy cat. Wisdom in action

Also.

I've discovered a way to sit down and not sit on my newly arrived dangly balls. Again... Wisdom.

Discovering stuff is great.

What do you do with the dangly balls ...asking for a friend

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By *alvin.Man
40 weeks ago

Cork/Dublin

""Things you discovered late in life"

I've discovered lots of things from experience which I suppose is a learned wisdom. This I'm grateful for.

For example. I no longer leave my slippers near the cat litter tray as I'm sick of finding cat crap where my big toe goes. Poxy cat. Wisdom in action

Also.

I've discovered a way to sit down and not sit on my newly arrived dangly balls. Again... Wisdom.

Discovering stuff is great.

What do you do with the dangly balls ...asking for a friend

Your friend!. Say no more

The quick instructions is like origami lite for the dangly objects. Grab, lift, hold, sit, loosen grip slowly. Nestle into place. Take deep satisfying breath.

This can be done via pocket in trousers if in company but it takes Pratice.

Oh... Word of caution. Bar stools are esp tricky. That's next level difficult. Many a ball was never seen again by the hasty jump onto a bar stool

Tell your "friend

" to be patient and Pratice.

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By *igglefunWoman
40 weeks ago

Cork

Get a room U 2

Can I watch

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By *cooby5555Man
40 weeks ago

galway

My bisexuality and boy do I regret not realising it much earlier

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By *ornywife20Couple
40 weeks ago

North Cork

Don't try to please everyone else because you won't be happy. Just be happy and live your own life as a couple or alone just be happy.

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
40 weeks ago

Funville

That I get turned on way more by providing pleasure than receiving it

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
39 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

Red wine

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
39 weeks ago

outside belfast x

That relationships aren't really for me and I should of joined fab many many moons ago ...

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By *onny boy 71Man
39 weeks ago

Dungannon

Chameleons Darlaston club

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By *s LollyWoman
39 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Marriage isn't for me as one man for the rest of my life absolutely wasn't for me nor will it ever be again

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By *weetpea2000Woman
39 weeks ago

Wexford

To let go of the person who doesn't really want you,has no respect for you,and has already moved on from you..no matter how hard it is to do so.

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By *elljoe 2Man
39 weeks ago

cork

Travelling

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