FabSwingers.com forum: MFM as a single girl

By *pacekitty OP Woman
43 weeks ago

dublin

Any advice on how to organise a MFM as a single girl and be able to do it safely ?

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By *aseylee324Couple
43 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Ask a guy you already know and trust to be the first male.

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By *pacekitty OP Woman
43 weeks ago

dublin

Most of the ones I trust say “it’s not for them”

Have to keep looking I guess!

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By *s LollyWoman
43 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Even good fab friends especially males don't feel comfortable in front of other men...

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By *pacekitty OP Woman
43 weeks ago

dublin

Exactly!

I find a lot of MFMs are hotwife situations but somehow it’s harder as a single girl.

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By *ilderMan
43 weeks ago

dublin

"Any advice on how to organise a MFM as a single girl and be able to do it safely ?

Firstly ask two guys if they would be interested. Preferably ones that have experience but that's not essential as everyone has to start somewhere.

Preferably guys you've played with before so you know you're compatible but at the least have met socialy.

Explain in advance what vision of the experience you have in your head and what your likes and dislikes are (so they'll not be disappointed /surprised).

Then book a venue and arrange. Ensure you get someone reliable as you don't want to be left alone but fingers crossed. Beyond that have the usual safety measures in place, tell a friend where you're going etc etc.

Enjoy

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By *anillabelliniCouple
43 weeks ago

limerick

As someone who recently have started looking for one guy for MFM the best advice we could give you is take your time and eventually it will fall into place. We know finding two guys is even more challenging but do take your time as most guys will claim to be comfortable crossing swords with another guy but when their fantasy becomes reality they bottle it

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By *osyRedLipsWoman
43 weeks ago

Kildare

They can be difficult as single girl most men will jump at the chance of FMF but will be reluctant to cross swords with another guy. Ideally get one guy you're comfortable playing with then scout for the other guy. Good luck I love MFM so much fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I done this recently as a single lady and I spoke to the chosen men for weeks coming up to build a good connection . We discussed what was happening and expected and allowed so on the day no nerves and it was an amazing experience

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By *ofusplusCouple
43 weeks ago

Limerick

Have you considered the M of a very well verified couple who are into MFM? He will be experienced, (probably) safe and can help find the elusive third.

Many single guys are not into MFM or have little experience.

Many couples play separately so don't rule them out i'd suggest. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Any advice on how to organise a MFM as a single girl and be able to do it safely ?

Seen that one know fabber and his matte are looking for female to join. I seen few women verifying him and saying they had great MFM organised by him

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By *s LollyWoman
43 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Check out the the profile of the Gangbang Bulls on here there a bunch of lads think about 6 who are all well verfied and very well experience ive chatting to one there lovely blokes

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By *og-ManMan
43 weeks ago

somewhere

If you use the advance search facility and search any county looking for a mm couple

There's a fair few that play with single women

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By *otownkid1967Man
43 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Invite about 100 men, if you are lucky you might get 2 to turn up.

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By *ano53Man
43 weeks ago

Wicklow

"Any advice on how to organise a MFM as a single girl and be able to do it safely ?

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meet me for coffee . Perhaps

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By *eijaWoman
43 weeks ago

City Centre

OP there are tons of posts of guys looking for a girl keep an eye on updates.

Personally, I've only had mfm's with two guys I've met before. You then know if the two guys might get on. I find if everyone is more relaxed and comfortable around each other it leads to better fun....it is actually worth the wait to find two suitable guys.

Best of luck...I absolutely love them

B x

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
43 weeks ago

South Down

So this is how I started out. Single and looking for an MFM and I wasn't on Fab - yikes!

My starting point was a FWB who I trusted and was happy to facilitate. Finding a second guy involved a little more legwork! I narrowed it down eventually through chatting to 3 guys who I thought might fit the bill, and met each of them socially to see if I thought they'd be a good addition to the mix. I wanted to make sure that, not only did I get on with them, but that the two guys would gel also.

I found my guy but the threesome never happened but that's another story

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By *pacekitty OP Woman
43 weeks ago

dublin

Good point!

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By *tingray271Man
43 weeks ago

Sligo Donegal

I would suggest you look at bi guys first. They would be half way to playing together.?

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By *exguy1990Man
43 weeks ago

rosslare

"I would suggest you look at bi guys first. They would be half way to playing together.?"

I’d second this

I’m bi myself but would never put any pressure on couple that purely play Straight. Good luck OP

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By *og-ManMan
43 weeks ago

somewhere

"I would suggest you look at bi guys first. They would be half way to playing together.?

I’d second this

I’m bi myself but would never put any pressure on couple that purely play Straight. Good luck OP"

Absolutely not unless thats part of the fantasy for the op

She's looking for an MFM so I dont think she is

Since 90 odd % of the men on fab are really straight and not just fab straight then thats who she needs to find

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By *ajRallying555Man
43 weeks ago

Galway .Limerick

Hi. I surprised to hear men U met before wouldn't be up for it

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By *ildatlanticMan
43 weeks ago

city

I’ll do it if your interested. I’ve lots of experience doing it and been recently verified as such. Come say hi!

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By *hoenixagamTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Rural

Best bet is two guys who are bi and obviously there needs to be chemistry between those two lads and yourself.

When that scenario work's it's absolutely epic, nothing like a guy and a woman running their tongues up the shaft sucking and kissing each other and then sucking you again you kissing them them you, them them lol

If one individual doesn't fancy one it's a no go.

There has to be attraction on all three sides of the triangle in order for it to work.

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By *pacekitty OP Woman
43 weeks ago

dublin

Guess I should invite two guys on here I like for a drink and see how we get on.

Is it important to men for a straight MFM who the other guy is? Like do they have to like each other or am I better off making that introduction ?

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Persoanlly its nice to get on with the other guy of course, but doesnt mean we have to be best friends.

If you were to setup a group chat with yourself and the 2 guys, it would be a good start to them getting to know each other if they wanted that extra level of "comfort"

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By *weetfrenchkissMan
43 weeks ago

cork city

"Guess I should invite two guys on here I like for a drink and see how we get on.

Is it important to men for a straight MFM who the other guy is? Like do they have to like each other or am I better off making that introduction ?

They just have to accept your plan to make a straigt 3sum and have do be ok with it could be a close contact if you want a dp

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By *weetfrenchkissMan
43 weeks ago

cork city

"Guess I should invite two guys on here I like for a drink and see how we get on.

Is it important to men for a straight MFM who the other guy is? Like do they have to like each other or am I better off making that introduction ?

Better way if they did before and it’s wrote on them vérification they met couple

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By *pacekitty OP Woman
43 weeks ago

dublin

Good tip!

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I think there is also prob a level of comfort for you and you feeling safer in yourself if you know the guys have at least messaged with you and know each other through messaging.

At the end of the day its about your safey which is paramout.

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By *iggy200Man
43 weeks ago

beside the seaside

If u really want it will not be difficult to organise these a lot of good guys on here n would respect the wishes best if look u beuty

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By *ajRallying555Man
43 weeks ago

Galway .Limerick

I got together an impromptu MFM recently. I had only meet her once for Social. We all got on Great. So I don't think it should make a difference if fellas don't know.each other

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By *avysbackyetagainMan
43 weeks ago

Dublin

Dm me have a friend for this scenario we can host to well verified both of us

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By *angbangbullsCouple (MM)
43 weeks ago

City and County

"Check out the the profile of the Gangbang Bulls on here there a bunch of lads think about 6 who are all well verfied and very well experience ive chatting to one there lovely blokes

Why thank you Ms Lolly

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"Any advice on how to organise a MFM as a single girl and be able to do it safely ?

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I would be more than happy to help you with that !

I’ll pm you

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By *ngle69Man
42 weeks ago

Midlands

"Guess I should invite two guys on here I like for a drink and see how we get on.

Is it important to men for a straight MFM who the other guy is? Like do they have to like each other or am I better off making that introduction ?

Hi Nat

It's not about guys.. it's about you, guys don't need like each other the point is can they team up and work together with ease to please you

I'm talking from my experience well more I've met several couples in past and main key for guys be chilled and relaxed and no cocky.. both should respect each other and concentrate to one goal, you! So it's pretty much same couple or two single guys.. once you trust one yous are just like a couple so just go and find other guy you both comfortable with.

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By *ames19911Man
42 weeks ago

all around

"Ask a guy you already know and trust to be the first male."

I totally agree with this . You’re first step is a male you have a connection and trust with . The next will be the hard part . You might have a few socials to find a suitable candidate !!! I wish you lucky and if you get this right you’ll never look back . MFM all the way

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By *urious lillieWoman
42 weeks ago

Kildare

I did organise a mmmf before. It took a long time organising. I spent months finding the right guys all of whom I'm still in contact with a year later. Finding my 3 stars was much fun and would advise OP to enjoy the journey as well as the destination x

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By *pacekitty OP Woman
42 weeks ago

dublin

Amazingggg

Working on it. Slowly but surely

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By *pforfun17576Man
42 weeks ago

Kildare

It can be a very hot scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Any advice on how to organise a MFM as a single girl and be able to do it safely ?

For me I was interested but didn’t know how I would react if it did happen , I had suggested it to a regular, and then she brought her dildo along one night and added it in with double barrel blow and other scenarios and it was so hot, it’s a great way for a guy to get comfortable if he is just a little shy to the idea, that how it started for me! And was very comfortable and understood in a controlled environment what to do and not to do

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By *rishmanabroadMan
42 weeks ago

Dublin/Belfast

A lot of great advice here. Reassuring to know it’s not just a struggle for single men to organise these things. Key take away is time and effort, investing for the best outcome.

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By *ombikerMan
42 weeks ago

the right side of the river

"Any advice on how to organise a MFM as a single girl and be able to do it safely ?

I would think your inbox was overwhelmed with messages offering assistance, 5 minutes after you posted that message.

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By *electableicecreamMan
42 weeks ago

The West

"Guess I should invite two guys on here I like for a drink and see how we get on.

Is it important to men for a straight MFM who the other guy is? Like do they have to like each other or am I better off making that introduction ?

Hi Nat

It's not about guys.. it's about you, guys don't need like each other the point is can they team up and work together with ease to please you

Respectfully disagree. Of course its about the guys too. Sure why would you be there if you didn't want to feel pleasure.

I can only speak from my limited experience but when it's about everyone's pleasure and time is taken that everyone is comfortable with each other, the potential for exceeding expectations goes way up.

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By *ichael ScarneMan
42 weeks ago

rathcoole

I could help organise that no problem

(Without sounding creepy lol)

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By *weetpea2000Woman
42 weeks ago

Wexford

Some great advice here. I've been thinking about mfm for a long while now. I have a fwb that I'd trust and be comfortable with. The search now starts for number two...

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Always wanted a trip to Dublin

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By *pacekitty OP Woman
42 weeks ago

dublin

I guess the main things for me are being able to talk boundaries and finding chemistry with both.

What I like, what I don’t

Safe sex, no anal etc.

And it’s more than just finding two people who will fuck me together. I am a very chemistry person, so it still has to be hot despite my boundary setting. Maybe a night out, have a few drinks and a flirt and a build up

Almost felt like I should have sexual chemistry with both. But also together

I’ve gotten a lot of messages but it’s a lot of “Im in”. if this is something you’d be into, willing to meet up for a social (with me) and eventually another person, are verified with verifications I can read and can send me a photo (of your face) I’d be happy to take applications.

Please tell me a little bit more about you, what you’re like, what you think about when you cum.. a little bit more that “I would be into this”

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
42 weeks ago

Funville

I’d be happy to take applications.

You might also want to take applications with regards hiring a PA to manage your inbox for you for the next while

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By *osyRedLipsWoman
42 weeks ago

Kildare

"I guess the main things for me are being able to talk boundaries and finding chemistry with both.

What I like, what I don’t

Safe sex, no anal etc.

Almost felt like I should have sexual chemistry with both. But also together

Please tell me a little bit more about you, what you’re like, what you think about when you cum.. a little bit more that “I would be into this”

I can only imagine the usual dreamers saying count me in. It took ages for me to find the second guy for MFM I wanted to have with Fwb. I had a lot of coffees! Was totally worth the effort had such a amazing night. It's worth putting the time in to find the right guys.

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By *pacekitty OP Woman
42 weeks ago

dublin

That’s promising to hear

Not gonna compromise so!

Even with filters in my inbox, some of the messages are insane lol

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By *osyRedLipsWoman
42 weeks ago

Kildare

"That’s promising to hear

Not gonna compromise so!

Even with filters in my inbox, some of the messages are insane lol

Feel free to PM if you want to get advice privately x

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By *pacekitty OP Woman
42 weeks ago

dublin

Thank you! I will

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By *parkyt500Man
42 weeks ago

midlands

"Most of the ones I trust say “it’s not for them”

Have to keep looking I guess! "

They just dont want to share

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By *panishRebelMan
42 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

Hey opp. Interesting post.

As a fella who likes the FMF counter part and has had club moments with it, which isn't quite the same as an organised meet, I sympathise. There's not a lot of actual willing participants.

I have joined in a hotwife scenario a few times which I found fun. Being the third, however has definately an outsider feeling.

The posts above saying get two guys who know each other sounds like good advice to me.

If I was any where close I'd offer to buy you a coffee.

Good luck.

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