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By *rcadefire OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Wicklow/Carlow/Kildare

Hey all. I've signed up to this a few months ago but only put pics up a few days ago as I'm fully single the last month.

The likes of tinder and bumble are overwhelming for me with the amount of matches that lead to boredom. So I'd said I'd give this a chance to connect with the type of girls I want to ??

Only thing is either none responds or no one even views my profile. I'd just love to know what the key is to on here (other than having great verification, which is my catch 22).

Not just bogging myself up but if I could get girls to give real life verifications, It would be a different story as I know how to please a woman and am very easy going ??

So long story short, any advice ftom the ladies please. I know events are a great way but I the ones I asked an invite for never got back to me...

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By *electableicecreamMan
42 weeks ago

The West

Most people won't even open a message if they don't like the profile.

Do you ever look at other guys profiles? It can help. Some guys do pretty well on here.

Use the forum search function too. This question is asked pretty regularly so am the answers are there.

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By *s LollyWoman
42 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I think your profile looks good, you're bio explains what your looking for, your a good looking lad from what i can tell, there's a few free events coming up for none verfied people just scroll down and have a look there's a great way to meet and connect with new people and get verified aswell

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By *rcadefire OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Wicklow/Carlow/Kildare

Thanks for the reply and advice. No never checked other men. Ha, didn't want messages back from viewing. But maybe I'll have to. Great advice thanks. Yep I've read alot about the socials, but the couple that were no invite needed I couldn't make and the ones I could I couldn't get an invite

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By *ubadubdubWoman
42 weeks ago

Hereabouts


"Thanks for the reply and advice. No never checked other men. Ha, didn't want messages back from viewing. But maybe I'll have to. Great advice thanks. Yep I've read alot about the socials, but the couple that were no invite needed I couldn't make and the ones I could I couldn't get an invite "

Go looking in ninja mode

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By *indenMan
42 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Thanks for the reply and advice. No never checked other men. Ha, didn't want messages back from viewing. But maybe I'll have to. Great advice thanks. Yep I've read alot about the socials, but the couple that were no invite needed I couldn't make and the ones I could I couldn't get an invite

Go looking in ninja mode "

The voice of experience…..

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By *otownkid1967Man
42 weeks ago

Portlaoise

First get verified by going to meet and greets or socials for newbies. The are plenty coming up ,check the forums.

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By *rcadefire OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Wicklow/Carlow/Kildare

Thanks for all the replies, much appreciated. And for those that replied privately, thanks. Some good tips and even hoping to get verified soon, so thanks to a great community! Anything glaringly wrong with my profile or just the verification really?

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By *rRiosMan
42 weeks ago

dublin


"Thanks for the reply and advice. No never checked other men. Ha, didn't want messages back from viewing. But maybe I'll have to. Great advice thanks. Yep I've read alot about the socials, but the couple that were no invite needed I couldn't make and the ones I could I couldn't get an invite

Go looking in ninja mode

The voice of experience….. "

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By *s LollyWoman
42 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Thanks for all the replies, much appreciated. And for those that replied privately, thanks. Some good tips and even hoping to get verified soon, so thanks to a great community! Anything glaringly wrong with my profile or just the verification really?"

Your welcome

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By *ofusplusCouple
42 weeks ago

Limerick


"Thanks for all the replies, much appreciated. And for those that replied privately, thanks. Some good tips and even hoping to get verified soon, so thanks to a great community! Anything glaringly wrong with my profile or just the verification really?"

The title of your profile would put many women off, it suggests you'd shag anything when you say "any woman". Surely you also have standards and would prefer a social first to see if there's Chemistry?

Also, what do you mean by DP? On Fab it means double penetration.

If you're single, state it and if attached it's only fair to state that too.

Other than that it's fine. Just know that being meet verified is not the golden key, you'll still have to work hard for meets.

Try to attend a few socials, meet people face to face. There's a thread on here listing all events for 2024. There are often socials for unverifieds so keep an eye on the Forum for those.

Good luck. Mrs

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By *ofusplusCouple
42 weeks ago

Limerick


"Thanks for all the replies, much appreciated. And for those that replied privately, thanks. Some good tips and even hoping to get verified soon, so thanks to a great community! Anything glaringly wrong with my profile or just the verification really?

The title of your profile would put many women off, it suggests you'd shag anything when you say "any woman". Surely you also have standards and would prefer a social first to see if there's Chemistry?

Also, what do you mean by DP? On Fab it means double penetration.

If you're single, state it and if attached it's only fair to state that too.

Other than that it's fine. Just know that being meet verified is not the golden key, you'll still have to work hard for meets.

Try to attend a few socials, meet people face to face. There's a thread on here listing all events for 2024. There are often socials for unverifieds so keep an eye on the Forum for those.

Good luck. Mrs "

Ah you changed the title, scratch that bit of advice

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By *rcadefire OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Wicklow/Carlow/Kildare


"Thanks for all the replies, much appreciated. And for those that replied privately, thanks. Some good tips and even hoping to get verified soon, so thanks to a great community! Anything glaringly wrong with my profile or just the verification really?

The title of your profile would put many women off, it suggests you'd shag anything when you say "any woman". Surely you also have standards and would prefer a social first to see if there's Chemistry?

Also, what do you mean by DP? On Fab it means double penetration.

If you're single, state it and if attached it's only fair to state that too.

Other than that it's fine. Just know that being meet verified is not the golden key, you'll still have to work hard for meets.

Try to attend a few socials, meet people face to face. There's a thread on here listing all events for 2024. There are often socials for unverifieds so keep an eye on the Forum for those.

Good luck. Mrs "

Ha, yep great advice. I'll reply back properly in a few minutes when I do some more urgent editing thanks to you!! I meant dick pics not actual DP. Ha, oh fuck what must people think.. FFS, only me. And I'm single so will add thanks

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By *ofusplusCouple
42 weeks ago

Limerick


"Thanks for all the replies, much appreciated. And for those that replied privately, thanks. Some good tips and even hoping to get verified soon, so thanks to a great community! Anything glaringly wrong with my profile or just the verification really?

The title of your profile would put many women off, it suggests you'd shag anything when you say "any woman". Surely you also have standards and would prefer a social first to see if there's Chemistry?

Also, what do you mean by DP? On Fab it means double penetration.

If you're single, state it and if attached it's only fair to state that too.

Other than that it's fine. Just know that being meet verified is not the golden key, you'll still have to work hard for meets.

Try to attend a few socials, meet people face to face. There's a thread on here listing all events for 2024. There are often socials for unverifieds so keep an eye on the Forum for those.

Good luck. Mrs

Ha, yep great advice. I'll reply back properly in a few minutes when I do some more urgent editing thanks to you!! I meant dick pics not actual DP. Ha, oh fuck what must people think.. FFS, only me. And I'm single so will add thanks "

DP for dick pics is a new one on me

Envy in Dublin are holding a social for newbies tomorrow night, you could try to get to that. A veri from them would be great as you'd get to their other events which are really good https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/weare_envy

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By *orkguy086Man
42 weeks ago

Happy to travel or get Hotel

Hate to jump on someone else Post like this but figured there was no point starting a new one...

Any advice on my profile?

Is there things I could improve on or remove?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

No offense OP but you say you're "not interested in sending dick pics over snap" or any other app....tbf most do exchange such solicitly before a meet....

I do like to see the full 'package' before a meet tbh....but that doesn't mean I want them shoved virtually in my face unsolicitly

Your profile is good & it's great to see not one dick pic publicly....nice to just have them as friends only imo

Best of luck anyway op.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"No offense OP but you say you're "not interested in sending dick pics over snap" or any other app....tbf most do exchange such solicitly before a meet....

I do like to see the full 'package' before a meet tbh....but that doesn't mean I want them shoved virtually in my face unsolicitly

Your profile is good & it's great to see not one dick pic publicly....nice to just have them as friends only imo

Best of luck anyway op. "

PS~ I'd also add a topless body pic from above the waist

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By *astelloWoman
42 weeks ago

Far far away

Good luck. Nice to see variety in the pics. Personally ld prefer more content in the bio and maybe a torso pic. Great advice from the posters above.

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By *astelloWoman
42 weeks ago

Far far away


"Hate to jump on someone else Post like this but figured there was no point starting a new one...

Any advice on my profile?

Is there things I could improve on or remove?

Thanks "

Profile is good maybe some more pics than the average dp. But maybe something to make it stand out....

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I never trust a profile with a pic that is a screenshot. But that is just me

Misses

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By *antra MassageMan
42 weeks ago

South Side.


"No offense OP but you say you're "not interested in sending dick pics over snap" or any other app....tbf most do exchange such solicitly before a meet....

I do like to see the full 'package' before a meet tbh....but that doesn't mean I want them shoved virtually in my face unsolicitly

Your profile is good & it's great to see not one dick pic publicly....nice to just have them as friends only imo

Best of luck anyway op. "

I never send dick picks, even when asked. I have a few, that I might show on profile for a day or two. It seems to spark curiosity in the women who contact me. If I'm going to meet someone, it's based on a spark of desire, attraction, and curiosity, not the size of her tits, and I'd like to think she feels the same about me.

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By *orkguy086Man
42 weeks ago

Happy to travel or get Hotel


"Hate to jump on someone else Post like this but figured there was no point starting a new one...

Any advice on my profile?

Is there things I could improve on or remove?

Thanks

Profile is good maybe some more pics than the average dp. But maybe something to make it stand out.... "

Thanks for the advice, I actually thought all my dick pics were private, didn't mean to have any on public

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By *s LollyWoman
42 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

There's an pop up social on the 18th Feb for verfied and none verfied there a great way to meet and connect with new people

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By *rcadefire OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Wicklow/Carlow/Kildare

Hi ya, I never even thought of that. Great point! Was just the quickest way to get the photos uploaded. So changed now and more photos needed, thanks!

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By *rcadefire OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Wicklow/Carlow/Kildare

Hey ya, thanks for the feedback. Yep need to sit down and write a proper bio, not just keep editing the original! I think it's fairly dialled in to what I'm after, but then I haven't a clue how others, on this site, interpret certain sayings, but I'm learning

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By *acob12369Man
42 weeks ago

URPANTS

Looks like you've scratched your eyes out

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By *rcadefire OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Wicklow/Carlow/Kildare

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By *affa31Woman
42 weeks ago

Galway

Those pics are very very familiar…

Were you here previously?

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By *rcadefire OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Wicklow/Carlow/Kildare


"Those pics are very very familiar…

Were you here previously?"

Nope never here before and most only taken within the past few days. Unless you know me in person?! Maybe I better do more than scratch my eyes out

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By *affa31Woman
42 weeks ago

Galway


"Those pics are very very familiar…

Were you here previously?

Nope never here before and most only taken within the past few days. Unless you know me in person?! Maybe I better do more than scratch my eyes out "

Nope I don’t. I just feel like I’ve seen those pics before.

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By *rcadefire OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Wicklow/Carlow/Kildare

Are you on Tinder or Bumble?

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By *affa31Woman
42 weeks ago

Galway


"Are you on Tinder or Bumble?"

Yea but not with a distance that takes in the east of the country

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By *rcadefire OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Wicklow/Carlow/Kildare

Ha, I've no idea then. I have one of those stupid faces that people ask an I from the TV or I look familiar...Ha, and I'm not, so?

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By *og-ManMan
42 weeks ago

somewhere


"Ha, I've no idea then. I have one of those stupid faces that people ask an I from the TV or I look familiar...Ha, and I'm not, so?"

As long as its not off crimewatch

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By *rcadefire OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Wicklow/Carlow/Kildare


"Ha, I've no idea then. I have one of those stupid faces that people ask an I from the TV or I look familiar...Ha, and I'm not, so?

As long as its not off crimewatch "

Ha yep, or the Tinder Swindler

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"Hate to jump on someone else Post like this but figured there was no point starting a new one...

Any advice on my profile?

Is there things I could improve on or remove?

Thanks

Profile is good maybe some more pics than the average dp. But maybe something to make it stand out....

Thanks for the advice, I actually thought all my dick pics were private, didn't mean to have any on public"

When I looked at your profile way way earlier this morning there wasn't one dick pic on public & I actually liked that about your profile. No need to show 'everything' to 'everyone' (imho) but that's just my pov.

I'm kinda confused now when you say "I actually thought all my dick pics were private"....as I said there was none on public way earlier this morning.

Maybe you've just misread of misinterpreted a comment....

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By *traight sligoguy67Man
42 weeks ago

sligo

You have just inspired me to update my profile

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By *orkguy086Man
42 weeks ago

Happy to travel or get Hotel


"Hate to jump on someone else Post like this but figured there was no point starting a new one...

Any advice on my profile?

Is there things I could improve on or remove?

Thanks

Profile is good maybe some more pics than the average dp. But maybe something to make it stand out....

Thanks for the advice, I actually thought all my dick pics were private, didn't mean to have any on public

When I looked at your profile way way earlier this morning there wasn't one dick pic on public & I actually liked that about your profile. No need to show 'everything' to 'everyone' (imho) but that's just my pov.

I'm kinda confused now when you say "I actually thought all my dick pics were private"....as I said there was none on public way earlier this morning.

Maybe you've just misread of misinterpreted a comment....

"

It turns out at the time I posted that there was 1 picture that was public but I never meant it to be so I changed it to private

Glad you liked my profile, feel free to get in touch anytime

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