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Letdowns for MFM

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By *upermanslovechild OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasnevin

Anybody else experience let downs from MFM's? Chatting away to three different couples who were all keen on on MFM, all going well in the chats up until once it comes down to booking a date to meet up. Then Ghosted. Anyone else have the same issues lately?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Arrange a social coffee meet first. That will ease their nerves

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By *aseylee324Couple
over a year ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Are they couples with experience? It can be daunting to bring a third party into your sex life, alternatively are you sure they are real couples and not just a man getting off on the idea...

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By *upermanslovechild OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasnevin


"Arrange a social coffee meet first. That will ease their nerves"

That's what I'm saying, soon as it comes to talk about meeting up, ghosted, be it a social or if they were looking for a straight meet and ride, ghosted regardless

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By *upermanslovechild OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasnevin


"Are they couples with experience? It can be daunting to bring a third party into your sex life, alternatively are you sure they are real couples and not just a man getting off on the idea..."

That's true, you never really know with some "couples" but these last few, yes they have verifications. Granted, not many but they have been verified by others. It's just annoying when it comes to most profiles claiming lads are time wasters when in my experience it's couples who end up wasting the majority of my time on here

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By *tingray271Man
over a year ago

Sligo Donegal

I had my first mwm meet a week ago. Yes I will say I was rather nervous at first. The things that went through my head. Like will they like me.will they gang up on me. Will I be able to perform to there expectations. So I can understand if some guys may get nervous and cry of at the last minute.

For myself I did meet the couple first for a drink and chat to break the ice and get to know each other before anything else happened.

It worked and they put me at ease and everything went better than I expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had let downs with FMF with couples so only really meet at events now. They would be all chat until I ask for social. There's so many amazing couples here but unfortunately there are some that just want a bit of sexy chat to liven up their sex lives. They have zero notions of meeting. You'll meet so many lovely couples at events so maybe check one out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are let down by singles males repeatedly. It’s actually got to the point where we’ll probably block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the experienced ones, were you nervous first time?

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By *xstevenxxMan
over a year ago

Ashbourne


"We are let down by singles males repeatedly. It’s actually got to the point where we’ll probably block them

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Keep the faith there’s still some genuine ones on here

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By *arper8000Man
over a year ago

cork

my advice to single guys is very simple.... turn up when you arrange a meet, I hear lots of couples hear they are sick of single guys backing out at the last moment, gives us all a bad name

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"I've had let downs with FMF with couples so only really meet at events now. They would be all chat until I ask for social. There's so many amazing couples here but unfortunately there are some that just want a bit of sexy chat to liven up their sex lives. They have zero notions of meeting. You'll meet so many lovely couples at events so maybe check one out. "

This is what's happening 100%.

All most want is some sex chat. The fantasy is enough for some.

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Anybody else experience let downs from MFM's? Chatting away to three different couples who were all keen on on MFM, all going well in the chats up until once it comes down to booking a date to meet up. Then Ghosted. Anyone else have the same issues lately?"

I've come across this. 2 couples in the last couple of months who sought a mmf meet pulled out on the day. Both had experience. Another couple had sought a handful of males for a gangbang. They cancelled citing a lack of willing participants even though I'd messaged but it wasn't opened

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I get let down regularly with just the M

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By *rishmanabroadMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Belfast

Worrying to hear… main reason I’m here. Not met a couple on here yet but everyone I speak with seems great, enthusiastic and friendly as you indicate… guess I need to wait to see re the rate of chat to meet conversions.

Also, really sorry to hear re single men letting people down. Nerves have played with me in the past on other platforms when heading into a meet… so get the vulnerability but it’s just good manners to uphold a commitment. So glad I’ve always went ahead with it. Best craic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get let down regularly with just the M "

Don't talk to me 4 months celibate because of this. Between the farmer who baled and the Postman who left me undelivered! With my luck if I fell into a barrel of dicks I'd come out sucking my thumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get let down regularly with just the M

Don't talk to me 4 months celibate because of this. Between the farmer who baled and the Postman who left me undelivered! With my luck if I fell into a barrel of dicks I'd come out sucking my thumb "

Lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else experience let downs from MFM's? Chatting away to three different couples who were all keen on on MFM, all going well in the chats up until once it comes down to booking a date to meet up. Then Ghosted. Anyone else have the same issues lately?"

On three different occasions with three different couples. But have had two amazing MFM experiences with two different couples.keep faith. I found with the ones that were serious, there was less txt tennis but that made the meet very nerve wrecking at first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are let down by singles males repeatedly. It’s actually got to the point where we’ll probably block them

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Not far off this ourselves..but hopefull one or two we are chatting to will change our opinion

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"I get let down regularly with just the M

Don't talk to me 4 months celibate because of this. Between the farmer who baled and the Postman who left me undelivered! With my luck if I fell into a barrel of dicks I'd come out sucking my thumb "

Im litterly howling here

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By *eestar10Man
over a year ago

cavan


"I get let down regularly with just the M

Don't talk to me 4 months celibate because of this. Between the farmer who baled and the Postman who left me undelivered! With my luck if I fell into a barrel of dicks I'd come out sucking my thumb "

Ha love this

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I can honestly say that any time I arranged to meet a couple, I was there.

Not saying they necessarily had a good time with me, but at least I turned up!

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

As part of a couple we had one lad ghost us twice.. worse ejits us for giving him the benefit of the doubt a second time..

Luckily we did manage to find a great guy to play with. It’s hard work finding the right guy

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By *aseylee324Couple
over a year ago

Valley of Squinting Windows


"I can honestly say that any time I arranged to meet a couple, I was there.

Not saying they necessarily had a good time with me, but at least I turned up!"

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By *ythenMan
over a year ago

North Co. Dublin


"Worrying to hear… main reason I’m here. Not met a couple on here yet but everyone I speak with seems great, enthusiastic and friendly as you indicate… guess I need to wait to see re the rate of chat to meet conversions.

Also, really sorry to hear re single men letting people down. Nerves have played with me in the past on other platforms when heading into a meet… so get the vulnerability but it’s just good manners to uphold a commitment. So glad I’ve always went ahead with it. Best craic!"

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By *igtasty121Man
over a year ago

Nowhere

Ah it’s the same for lads .. hard to meet a couple that fits too..

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By *xstevenxxMan
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Nothing is ever easy on here

For what it’s worth always here for a chat and coffee if anyone fancy’s just getting out for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get let down regularly with just the M

Don't talk to me 4 months celibate because of this. Between the farmer who baled and the Postman who left me undelivered! With my luck if I fell into a barrel of dicks I'd come out sucking my thumb

Im litterly howling here "

Likewise

Ah I find it hard to get replies from Women but I understand we all have types and the ratio for M:W is heavily skewed, that being said when me and my play partner attempted a few MFM, there was a couple bumps to the road until we found the perfect candidate. Made it very easy and fun compared to the first guy who just made it all about him..

But as for 1:1, I’ve resided that it’ll be best for me to meet Women at events, less pressure I think. Maybe it’ll be the same for you both?

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

That fecks it up for everyone.

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

That's cause they are the wrong males obviously!

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

As I said previously..... Wrong males.... Some of us follow through!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad stories for everyone. I reckon some people just like jerking off to the idea of meeting someone.

Personally I prefer to jerk off to the memory of it.

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

From personal experience, I have learnt to play the long game. I have both been let down and let down. I have only ever pulled out due to reasons beyond my control. I like to give others the same benifit of doubt.

There is a couple 40 minutes drive away who have my number and we have been unable to meet for 6 months now. But this is due to time constraints. Mostly work times we don't have the same free times. Plus I am a single dad, with children 50 percent of the time. I just assume everyone has a busy life, no matter how layed back by nature. One day I will meet this couple, until then I don't get carried away with blue balls.

I have other outlets.

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By *spMan
over a year ago

Who know's

Always Always Always a social coffee meet in the afternoon and with a couple of days gap at least before thinking about going any further it does the head good for both parties

A good vibe for each other outside the bedroom is 100% vital

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By *hiteKniteMan
over a year ago

Nearby

That happens now and again. For some people, swinging is just a fantasy that never goes beyond this website.

Thankfully plenty of people that follow through on it though. Each to their own I suppose

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