FabSwingers.com forum: It never is just NSA

By *hinbutlong1 OP Man
over a year ago

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Ive yet to meet a woman that genuinely wants NSA meets ..always seems complicated lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're out there.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women DO desire NSA sex.

But the difference is it might take a little while to suss out someone they want to meet, because us women need to feel safe with that person. Men think we're here looking for a relationship because we want a social first. Like ffs

It’s annoying AF because us Fab ladies just want to have sex, just as much as the men here.

Basically women do like casual sex, they’re picky about who they want it with,we just like to be treated than more than a set of holes

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Well said Rosy

I'd add that women often need some sort of a connection before getting their kit off. Some men are the same, other men just need to be physically attracted and for the rest, any holes a goal. Which category do you fall into OP?

Women are generally wired slightly differently. It doesn't mean we'll fall in love with you, don't worry. Mrs

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im looking for NSA sex on here that said im extremely fussy and picky who i meet with, i don't meet very often but when I do its usually for a night or two when im away so connection for that particular time is key for me, after that away home i go and that's it

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"Ive yet to meet a woman that genuinely wants NSA meets ..always seems complicated lol"

I could say the same about men . I want nsa and the few I've tried here so far didn't work out. So it happens in all genders. The search goes on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im looking for NSA sex on here that said im extremely fussy and picky who i meet with, i don't meet very often but when I do its usually for a night or two when im away so connection for that particular time is key for me, after that away home i go and that's it

Exactly Lolly with family commitments I meet once in a blue moon. So I book a hotel for night away. Have a wonderful experience and go back to our respective lives.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I'd imagine a huge percentage of the site are looking for NSA meets be it at a party or hotel

Find them,Fuck them and Forget them as we used to say in our youth...there's used to be 5 F's back in those days

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Ive met so many lovely ladies had more social meets as well as just nsa meets sometimes nice just to have social side of it too im always open to coffee meets well gave up coffee so its tea meets even had few cinema meets with one lady which turned into regular fun for 2 years then it just fiizzled out we still chat but the lady is off the scene now sure it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of women on here that are looking for NSA. The difference between men and women on here is that women have a lot more self respect for themselves.

Women have a lot more of a higher standard compared to men. Most Women look at sex as not just having a quick ride where as the majority of men look at it as I’m sticking the cock in.

Especially as the ratio on fab is probably 50/1 women have more of a choice

Let’s be honest the majority of men on fab would never turn down sex if a woman offered it on a plate even if the woman wasn’t his type where is a woman wouldn’t which is down to having self respect. Most women prefer some sort of an attraction where most men couldn’t careless once it was a guarantee of getting the leg over

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Do most men on fab think most other men on fab would fuck any woman?

Does that apply to most men not on fab too?

And if you wrote that do you include yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do most men on fab think most other men on fab would fuck any woman?

Does that apply to most men not on fab too?

And if you wrote that do you include yourself?

That’s what I believe but maybe I am wrong.

I believe it’s most men and that’s not limited to fab.

I wouldn’t put myself in that category now as I’m older and grow up but in my 20s I would have had lower standards when I was single and looking for fun. Doesn’t paint me as a pretty picture but I’m just been honest

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By *agic mike1Man
over a year ago

around

"Do most men on fab think most other men on fab would fuck any woman?

Does that apply to most men not on fab too?

And if you wrote that do you include yourself?

I have to disagree!!!

Unfortunately all men are tarnished with the the same brush here.

Some, and I'm only saying some women think that guys will fuck any woman that offers themselves to them.

As previously said, some women have respect for themselves and who they decide to "sleep" with.

There is a certain portion of guys here that are the same!!!

But everyone has the choice in what or who they "sleep" with.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Put it like this

Ive yet to see a female profile say

Looks,age,size unimportant

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

NSA doesn’t mean meet straightaway no matter who it is

We can all take our time and decide who we would like to meet for NSA

Just let them take their time

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By *alvin.Man
over a year ago

Cork/Dublin

Takes a lot to get me off my shelf. A lot

As for NSA op. I think (most) women use its value and understand its value. They for the most part ideally require a different setting. A night in a hotel creating a little bubble. The boot of the car hanging on to the tow bar won't do. (Insert "go on the fuk" emojie face right here. Two of them)

But interesting question OP. Good for you for asking.

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By *udding RoseWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere out there

"Women DO desire NSA sex.

It’s annoying AF because us Fab ladies just want to have sex, just as much as the men here.

Basically women do like casual sex, they’re picky about who they want it with,we just like to be treated than more than a set of holes

100 percent this!

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

To answer your question OP.

My opinion would be that, bar a small minority, everyone on this site is looking for NSA sex.

Whether or not people have the emotional maturity to manage a lifestyle that involves non-monogamous NSA sex is another question.

OP according to your profile you've only met one woman in person so I'm curious what your basing your assertion on.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Ironic that your tag line is no bullshit

There are plenty of us looking for NSA but that doesn’t mean zero connection. It means being able to have fun and chats and then enjoying your own lives separately until the next time.

NSA is not the same as a one night stand.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Plenty of women looking for NSA here and elsewhere. Maybe the OP is looking in the wrong place or it's an attempt at a humble brag that he thinks the women he meets are all falling for him or maybe I'm just a tad cynical in my 40s

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

"Ive yet to meet a woman that genuinely wants NSA meets ..always seems complicated lol"
what's your definition of an NSA meet?

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Ive yet to meet a woman that genuinely wants NSA meets ..always seems complicated lol what's your definition of an NSA meet?"

FAF

Sure

Urs now?

Sure

Leave de door open

Sure

No talking

Sure

Gonna cum and leave

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By *ndie and CindyCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Women DO desire NSA sex.

It’s annoying AF because us Fab ladies just want to have sex, just as much as the men here.

Basically women do like casual sex, they’re picky about who they want it with,we just like to be treated than more than a set of holes

Round of applause for Rosy with THE answer on this . Ella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s actually some men have an issue understanding NSA.

Women are generally fully aware and know exactly what they are getting into by joining a site like fab and the swinging scene.

As the ladies mentioned above women need that connection and the need to feel safe in the man’s energy. Or else and this is me and I would presume that most women would feel the same simply won’t enjoy the sex.

It most certainly does not mean I want a relationship or marriage off that man.

Some men get this and will always provide the friendship and safe space for the women they are fucking.

Some men just can’t grasp that concept.

9 times out of 10 it’s the men who make things awkward and complicated not the women.

But not with the men that get it.

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By *a1970Man
over a year ago

East cork

Fantastic tread op....

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre

Blow and Go

Splay and Lay

Eat Shoots Leaves

Gee and Flee

Smash and Grab

Cum n Go

Creampie Goodbye

Quick Fire Round

Or sometimes what is known as a no questions asked, quick fuck. Is that what you're looking for OP?

Yep there's a few, but not many into it. For me, it's not the same or to be confused with NSA.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Gee and flee is my new favorite type of butter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do most men on fab think most other men on fab would fuck any woman?

Does that apply to most men not on fab too?

And if you wrote that do you include yourself?

That’s what I believe but maybe I am wrong.

I believe it’s most men and that’s not limited to fab.

Not all men actually wanna fuck anything with a pulse, some have standards

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

The best things in life often take time to happen.

And I need a connection with the girl or it wont happen with me.

And repeat meets often are better than one off as it takes time to discover all those little things that make her purr...

So while I'm not looking for a relationship I dont have time for crap meets. Would rather go without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a lot do.

As mentioned before.

Safety for women I'd a big thing. Especially if it's in their home.

Lots if things factor into meets nsa or not.

People have lives outside of fab, family, work, social commitments.

It can be a number of factors that can limit meets.

So for nsa you'd want it to be a decent meet when you can.

Just because someone says no dosent mean they don't want nsa.

I could be because they're not attracted to the person too.

A lot of women and men actually need to be attracted to someone, why have sex with someone if you're not attracted to them.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

A fab male friend met a couple at their hotel two weekends ago

Me: What do they look like?

Him: No idea

Me: Your really going to go?

Him: Absolutely a fuck is a fuck....

Few hours later

Me: Wel how did you get on?

Him: Well she wasn't very attractive and didn't fancy her in the slightest..

Me: Ye obviously left?

Him: Fuck no a fuck is a fuck just got it over and done with and left...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes a lot do.

As mentioned before.

Safety for women I'd a big thing. Especially if it's in their home.

Lots if things factor into meets nsa or not.

People have lives outside of fab, family, work, social commitments.

It can be a number of factors that can limit meets.

So for nsa you'd want it to be a decent meet when you can.

Just because someone says no dosent mean they don't want nsa.

I could be because they're not attracted to the person too.

A lot of women and men actually need to be attracted to someone, why have sex with someone if you're not attracted to them."

This

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"A fab male friend met a couple at their hotel two weekends ago

Me: What do they look like?

Him: No idea

Me: Your really going to go?

Him: Absolutely a fuck is a fuck....

Few hours later

Me: Wel how did you get on?

Him: Well she wasn't very attractive and didn't fancy her in the slightest..

Me: Ye obviously left?

Him: Fuck no a fuck is a fuck just got it over and done with and left...

Fuck that

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
over a year ago

There and Here

I guess OP the starting point has to be what you consider to be NSA sex.

Speaking for myself, I need attraction and connection. I want us to be into each other. I want someone who isn't just going to stick his dick in my vag, poke it in and out a few times then be on his merry way. I want languid encounters interspersed with passages of red hot intensity. I want to chat and laugh afterwards. I want whoever I'm fucking to want the same.

None of these things preclude NSA sex.

I do think that some men believe NSA is rocking up, inserting P in V for 5 mins, blowing the load, wiping themselves on the bedsheets before going their merry way. Question is OP, do you fall into this camp and is this why you're finding NSA sex difficult to find?

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By *ickin2Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny

"Do most men on fab think most other men on fab would fuck any woman?

Does that apply to most men not on fab too?

And if you wrote that do you include yourself?

That’s what I believe but maybe I am wrong.

I believe it’s most men and that’s not limited to fab.

Not all men actually wanna fuck anything with a pulse, some have standards

Totally agree with your comment

Respect goes both ways

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"A fab male friend met a couple at their hotel two weekends ago

Me: What do they look like?

Him: No idea

Me: Your really going to go?

Him: Absolutely a fuck is a fuck....

Few hours later

Me: Wel how did you get on?

Him: Well she wasn't very attractive and didn't fancy her in the slightest..

Me: Ye obviously left?

Him: Fuck no a fuck is a fuck just got it over and done with and left...

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By *oxy_xxxWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm only looking NSA sex, not looking anything complicated. But I will also not just rock up for a fuck. We gotta have chemistry to enjoy it or there really isn't any point. I've toys at home to get me off.

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By *agic mike1Man
over a year ago

around

"A fab male friend met a couple at their hotel two weekends ago

Me: What do they look like?

Him: No idea

Me: Your really going to go?

Him: Absolutely a fuck is a fuck....

Few hours later

Me: Wel how did you get on?

Him: Well she wasn't very attractive and didn't fancy her in the slightest..

Me: Ye obviously left?

Him: Fuck no a fuck is a fuck just got it over and done with and left...

Sick puppy!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

On a previous profile I met someone who insisted she was only interested in NSA and had 2 or 3 fbs to prove her point.

After we met for the second time she insisted I become exclusive to her and agree to not meet anyone else.

Meanwhile she would continue to meet her fbs when she wanted and anyone else who caught her eye at the numerous socials she travelled the country to attend.

There was no polite way to say fuck off.

In regards to men and women having different standards or degrees of self respect I call bs on that.

I can honestly say that I can only think of one man I've worked with who treated women as any hole's a goal.

All my male friends and work colleagues were very fussy about who they shagged.

I couldn't say the same about a few of my female colleagues, especially at work dos.

In 8 years here I have 60+ veries and had sex with 6 of those.

That has always been by choice and I have refused at least twice as many offers for various reasons so I've never subscribed to a fuck n' go approach.

There are lots of women here looking for NSA but as others have already said, for such a simple acronym there are many definitions.

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

"I'd imagine a huge percentage of the site are looking for NSA meets be it at a party or hotel

Find them,Fuck them and Forget them as we used to say in our youth...there's used to be 5 F's back in those days

Find them,Fool them,Feel them,Fuck them and Forget them!!! I actually laughed when I remembered those, haven't heard them in a very long time

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

I'd get up on a cracked plate but I do like a bit of a pattern lol aww I'd agree with the girls there it's not the p&o ferry fun there looking for most like an aul cuddle and a bit of a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive yet to meet a woman that genuinely wants NSA meets ..always seems complicated lol"
lot them catch feelings easier then men lol. Not all id say it's majority tho

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Ive yet to meet a woman that genuinely wants NSA meets ..always seems complicated lol lot them catch feelings easier then men lol. Not all id say it's majority tho "

Have you met many women on fab that have caught feelings for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these Andrew Tate loving "high value" men thinking we be catching feelings really does crack me the fuck up!

But the smart respectful genuinely lovely men here who get it get it! It's a mutually satisfying experience for both parties

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

There is a difference in mentality between both sexes a lot of the time when it comes to no strings attached sex

. That’s the big thing. I’d say a lot of women on here would like just 1 man, compatitble and sex with just him where as some men I have no don’t would like different women over a period of time. Broaden the horizons and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here lies the problem men automatically assume that every woman they fuck will catch feelings for them

A woman can develop a crush on the man they are fucking.

That's purely physical attraction.

Catching feelings is emotional attraction. Two very different things.

Men until any woman says to u.

I want a relationship with you.

Don't be assuming anything else.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"There is a difference in mentality between both sexes a lot of the time when it comes to no strings attached sex

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre

"All these Andrew Tate loving "high value" men thinking we be catching feelings really does crack me the fuck up!

But the smart respectful genuinely lovely men here who get it get it! It's a mutually satisfying experience for both parties "

I'd agree.

Myself personally, I think it's a very high percentage of men compares to the women on fab who want more than that satisfying experience.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

There is also the case if you spend a lot of time with one another and sex is part of it, feelings could become an issue.

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By *samaleMan
over a year ago

tralee/newcastlewest

In my opinion I think if you are looking for regular nsa with the same person then the most important thing you need to do is get to know them a little first.. once you are chatting with someone for a bit you will know if they are after the same thing or not, if you feel they might be looking for more than nsa then it's easy to steer clear of them but if you feel they want strictly nsa then it can lead to weeks, months, years of fun (or just a once off).. everyone on here would have different experiences where "no strings attached" were involved.!! Once you know the person all it takes is a quick text or snap etc for fun

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By *rakesterlingMan
over a year ago

Dublin

*bites off a piece of apple with a succulent crunch, and chews it loudly, then gestures with his hand holding the apple, trying to speak with his mouth half full*

I am all for NSA sex fun... It's just that I don't find...

*waves his hand vaguely*

most of you desirable, attractive, challenging, entertaining nor engaging enough...

Kudos, though, to the few of you that are an exception... I simply love you.

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By *ldrMan
over a year ago

Cork

"Not all men actually wanna fuck anything with a pulse, some have standards

Amen

;-)

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By *ubenesqueBlondeWoman
over a year ago

lisburn/Quigleys Point

Me to a tee! Well explained xx

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By *ubenesqueBlondeWoman
over a year ago

lisburn/Quigleys Point

"There are plenty of women on here that are looking for NSA. The difference between men and women on here is that women have a lot more self respect for themselves.

Women have a lot more of a higher standard compared to men. Most Women look at sex as not just having a quick ride where as the majority of men look at it as I’m sticking the cock in.

Especially as the ratio on fab is probably 50/1 women have more of a choice

Love this! You are 100% right xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive yet to meet a woman that genuinely wants NSA meets ..always seems complicated lol"

It really depends in what NSA means to you. Ladies definitely have a different opinion in that front. Ticking a few more boxes than ,

1. Pulse

2. Wet

3. Willing

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