FabSwingers.com forum: Should I?

By *lueLotus OP Woman
48 weeks ago

the wilderness

Just recently became super aware of a red hot single guy living literally a minutes walk from my house in a very rural area.... He's not on fab. What would you do?

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By *lay rock69Man
48 weeks ago

monaghan

Sent him a gift

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By *ucka39Man
48 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Do you have a pet dog if not buy one and keep passing his home

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By *argus12Man
48 weeks ago

meath dublin / london

Bake him an apple pie knock on his door to welcome him to the area

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
48 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Did he give you any sign that he might be interested?

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By *ealitybitesMan
48 weeks ago

Belfast

Put yourself in his shoes for a minute and ask yourself if the responses on here would be different if he was talking about approaching a single woman in a remote rural area?

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
48 weeks ago

Midlands

Ride the brains out of him. Lol.

Or accidentally bump into him see what he’s like before suggesting a coffee tea or me

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By *yesgreenMan
48 weeks ago

north and south

"Ride the brains out of him. Lol.

Or accidentally bump into him see what he’s like before suggesting a coffee tea or me

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Walking and let him say hi to the hot lady , Merry cheers

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
48 weeks ago

belfast

Follow him to the supermarket, when he’s lifting items of the shelf, accidentally bump into him, then get down and help him pick them up, then make eye contact while apologising, then go in for a kiss. It’s bound to work.

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By *lueLotus OP Woman
48 weeks ago

the wilderness

He's been here longer than me I've been ignoring his existence for the last year lol but I dropped in Xmas choccies last week and invited him to a party I was having and he came to it

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By *lueLotus OP Woman
48 weeks ago

the wilderness

We've chatted about this.... He wanted to know if my dog could cover his but mine is neutered... Was he flirting with me?

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By *lueLotus OP Woman
48 weeks ago

the wilderness

Yes I did that thanks. I'm asking if, assuming there was interest, 99.9% sure there is, what would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Go up to the door introduce urself then whisper in his ear I want you to fuck me. Life's too short give it a whirl

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
48 weeks ago

belfast

"We've chatted about this.... He wanted to know if my dog could cover his but mine is neutered... Was he flirting with me?

Don’t tell him your dog is neutered and do a bartering deal with him.

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By *ofusplusCouple
48 weeks ago

Limerick

"Yes I did that thanks. I'm asking if, assuming there was interest, 99.9% sure there is, what would you do? "

Well then just go for it. Ask him if he'd be interested in going for a drink sometime. If he's not interested then so what, at least you'll know for sure. The poster above is right, life's too short to let opportunities like this pass you by. Let us know how it goes. Mrs

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By *lueLotus OP Woman
48 weeks ago

the wilderness

"Go up to the door introduce urself then whisper in his ear I want you to fuck me. Life's too short give it a whirl"

Not sure I could pull that off now lol but thanks

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By *lueLotus OP Woman
48 weeks ago

the wilderness

"Yes I did that thanks. I'm asking if, assuming there was interest, 99.9% sure there is, what would you do?

Thanks I might just do that tmrw

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By *reyingbeardMan
48 weeks ago

city

If ye have been chatting already ask if he fancied a few drinks down the local seen as your pretty new to area & go from there

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By *llthewaysMan
48 weeks ago

City centre/Naas

Guys in life don't get many compliments or women approaching them, it would make his day to have you approach him.

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By *irdnBorisMan
48 weeks ago

meath

"Yes I did that thanks. I'm asking if, assuming there was interest, 99.9% sure there is, what would you do?

Thanks I might just do that tmrw

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go for it girl nowt to loose and everything to gain hope it works out for you

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By *electableicecreamMan
48 weeks ago

The West

I agree with everyone above. You've met, chatted, felt a little spark. Sure what more do you need. Ask him to join you!

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Leave him alone! What is it with all you women treating us men like pieces of meat! I find this whole thing disgusting!

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By *ildatlanticMan
48 weeks ago

city

When do you tell him your a swinger?

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By *lueLotus OP Woman
48 weeks ago

the wilderness

I'd have to be straight up about being a swinger. Oh but I'd love to have an fwb just down the road

But if it all goes tits up I'll probably die

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By *o strings but a G-stringMan
48 weeks ago

city

"I'd have to be straight up about being a swinger. Oh but I'd love to have an fwb just down the road

But if it all goes tits up I'll probably die

Perhaps he is on here but you don't know?

It's Christmas, bring over a bottle of whiskey, say you never saw him locally before and wanted to welcome him to the area. You'll see what vibe he gives back.

If you never noticed him before he might just introduce you to his wife etc who also lives with him, that would solve a good chunk of your query.

But if you start getting good vibes, just see where it goes. He might also have a shit personality

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Shoulda woulda coulda.....

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
48 weeks ago

Midlands

"I agree with everyone above. You've met, chatted, felt a little spark. Sure what more do you need. Ask him to join you!"

Fact. Talk to him. If he’s interested he’s interested if he’s not move on to the next nice looker. Don’t say anything about swinging shite until you know him better after meeting him a few times. A lot of men don’t like to share just like a lot of ladies don’t like to share either. Feel it out.

Nothing ventured nothing gained. Go for it …or hold your peace till the grave (with regret).

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By *iablo soloWoman
48 weeks ago

southside

I've had a nice hot builder guy proposition me while working in my house recently.....I gave him signs that I would partake in what ever he wanted...but I think I scared him off!! The jobs finished and he hasn't called back....little did he know!!

Fantasy Vs reality must have spooked him

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I've had a nice hot builder guy proposition me while working in my house recently.....I gave him signs that I would partake in what ever he wanted...but I think I scared him off!! The jobs finished and he hasn't called back....little did he know!!

Fantasy Vs reality must have spooked him

You maybe came across as too easy. Flirty but not slutty

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By *arper8000Man
48 weeks ago

cork

First decide you want from him.

a relationship or just good ol shagging.

Ask him out and just let him know ur interested in him and possible looking for a fwb.

I would be surprised if he didn't take you up on the offer

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By *lueLotus OP Woman
48 weeks ago

the wilderness

Fantasy Vs reality must have spooked him

Should have been sluttier he probably wasn't sure if it was okay! Now he can't call back because that would be too creepy of him if you weren't 100% on board, which he's not sure about?

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By *lueLotus OP Woman
48 weeks ago

the wilderness

"First decide you want from him.

a relationship or just good ol shagging.

Ask him out and just let him know ur interested in him and possible looking for a fwb.

I would be surprised if he didn't take you up on the offer"

Thanks yes definitely not a relationship a regular shagging with no strings would be amazing I think the whole place would know what we were up to though... The more rural the area the nosier the neighbours lol it's comforting to know they be clocking everything but also restrictive

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Just recently became super aware of a red hot single guy living literally a minutes walk from my house in a very rural area.... He's not on fab. What would you do? "

Bump in to him smile ask you new round here , just ask .See if smiles what feed back then suggest coffee some time .

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By *iablo soloWoman
48 weeks ago

southside

Fantasy Vs reality must have spooked him

Should have been sluttier he probably wasn't sure if it was okay! Now he can't call back because that would be too creepy of him if you weren't 100% on board, which he's not sure about?

What's meant for ya won't pass ya....as they say!!

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By *alvin.Man
48 weeks ago

Cork/Dublin

Just ask him to go for a coffee with you. He won't say no. Politeness and curiosity will prevail. Just like a cute-meet right out of a Bridget Jones film. (be the star of your own movie)

Be brave and maybe fortune will come. Food luck and happy new year to you.

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By *yesgreenMan
48 weeks ago

north and south

"Just ask him to go for a coffee with you. He won't say no. Politeness and curiosity will prevail. Just like a cute-meet right out of a Bridget Jones film. (be the star of your own movie)

Be brave and maybe fortune will come. Food luck and happy new year to you. "
I have a drill any shelving you need putting up !

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Just ask him to go for a coffee with you. He won't say no. Politeness and curiosity will prevail. Just like a cute-meet right out of a Bridget Jones film. (be the star of your own movie)

Be brave and maybe fortune will come. Food luck and happy new year to you. "

Don't think auld Bridget is the best gal to taking advice from Lol

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