FabSwingers.com forum: Shoot your shot

By *elfastSteamWhistle OP Man
over a year ago

bangor

I see more and more profiles that say if I/we don't reply it means not interested. Surely that goes without?

If I see someone that's attractive and interesting to me, I shoot my shot if they don't reply I delete and move on. Now I'll probably still be attracted to them, but fab has a wee thing at the top of the profile that recaps your interactions

"You winked 5 mins ago,"

"You mailed them 20 mins ago,"

If it doesn't read like a 2 way street then it probably isn't.

Do people really not take the hint? Is it always single men who don't?

Do I need to find a like minded woman to start a couples profile on here so I'm not tarred with the single male brush...

Tea time musings nothing to see here, carry on with your evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While the little notes fab leaves are handy, I find writing your own notes to be the best thing. I remember trying them at first but now a few months on they're a godsend. In my opinion, I wouldn't say its solely a single lads problem to not take the hint. I find often the mr in a couple could be the culprit too...

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

If I had dollar for every woman who wouldn't take no for an answer...

I'd still be broke

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"If I had dollar for every woman who wouldn't take no for an answer...

I'd still be broke"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had dollar for every woman who wouldn't take no for an answer...

I'd still be broke"

Youd have one

lmao

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's definitely not just men.

Over the years I've had women who really don't understand boundaries and preferences.

In one case daily status updates with suggestions for what I should wear in my next pic for weeks after being told I wasn't interested.

In another, contacting my verifications to get them to persuade me to message then because they were well outside my age filters.

When that failed and they were told to feck off they started a thread quoting parts of my profile.

I've never owned a pet rabbit but I'm sure they would have brought their own.

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By *elfastSteamWhistle OP Man
over a year ago

bangor

"While the little notes fab leaves are handy, I find writing your own notes to be the best thing. I remember trying them at first but now a few months on they're a godsend. In my opinion, I wouldn't say its solely a single lads problem to not take the hint. I find often the mr in a couple could be the culprit too... "

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"If I had dollar for every woman who wouldn't take no for an answer...

I'd still be broke

Youd have one

lmao

Perfectly polite persistent propositions are pleasant and perhaps profitable!

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"If I had dollar for every woman who wouldn't take no for an answer...

I'd still be broke

Youd have one

lmao

Perfectly polite persistent propositions are pleasant and perhaps profitable!

Nice use of alliteration

almost a tongue twister

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

"If I had dollar for every woman who wouldn't take no for an answer...

I'd still be broke

Youd have one

lmao

Perfectly polite persistent propositions are pleasant and perhaps profitable!

Alliteration almost always absolutely accentuates attractiveness.

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