FabSwingers.com forum: How long you been on fab and has it changed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok quick question I’ve been on and off fab for say over 5 years through various profiles I’d say my first profile was probably the most difficult the usual not getting replies blah blah you know yourself but I adapted and learned to do things differently… how has you’re experience been from the beginning to now .. just a quick fill in I’ve met some great people made some amazing friends but there’s also been bumps in the road how’s your experiences been

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Joined over a year ago.

Struggled for a few months then got offered a coffee meet and a verification by a "fab angel" on a "help a fabber" thread.

Things took off from there and have had lots of meets, been to socials, have had good fun on the forums and have made some very good fab friends but unfortunately also lost a few along the way.

The only thing that has changed is the forums have become less fun and need some new OP's to post some fresh topics.

Looking forward to even better times in 2024.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Completely agree with what you said about the forums … I won’t get into it cos I’ll be banned again .. great to hear you got on from your initial start … get you when you say you lost many friends… that’s the downside on here so many great people just get driven away

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've been here almost 5 years I think. Fab hasn't changed really in that time I've found.

People come and go,a lot return again at some point. Some people are great others not so much.But it's the same a life outside here and I find it's easier to concentrate on those you get on with that worry about those you don't.

The forums are pretty much the same just some different people than when I started on here.Fanny blindness is still an illness that seems to affect quite a few on here though,that hasn't changed

Fab is fab I don't think it will ever change,it's up to everyone on here to find their own path and to make the most of their own journey.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Been on about 5yrs found it very hard to communicate at start but past 2 yrs have been great met some beautiful genuine people for socials and some have resulted in fun

It takes a while to trust and gain peoples trust but well worth the wait

Enjoy all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on and off fab for over 10 years. It has changed in that people move on and new people join, just like life in general really.

I have never been to a social nor any forum arranged outing so really cannot give an opinion on the forums as I know no one who comments on it so have never really been part of the banter. I have shared messages with a few nice people who post on it but never met them.

The Ireland chat room though I knew well in the past. I can confirm that it is nothing like it used to be. The banter was fantastic

. Well over a hundred people on it some nights and everyone was welcomed and very friendly. It is generally very quiet now and no buzz...no chat either at times!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

About 15 years I think. People cum and go, but the feel is the same.

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By *ogday2181Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I've been on and off. I'm taking it alot slower this time reacquainting myself so its slightly different for me. Though like my first time that usually all changes when you start going to clubs and socials.

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By *urfdudeMan
over a year ago

WEXFORD

Have been On and off for a few years but keep returning and have seen changes.

People are more demanding now and know what they want both sexually + physically, people discovered more about themselves during covid I think.

More bi people now seem to be expressing that new freedom.

People are a lot more conscious of image, looks, body-shape, tattoos, hair penis size etc.

A lot more forum bashing / bullying going on here but that is the progression of the internet.

Too many pushy single guys that haunt single women.

People come and go but some nice chatty people here and more also.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Coming up on 8 years but can't say I've noticed much difference.

Only been using the forums for about half that time and seen people come and go and come again.

There have always been the grenade throwers both in status updates and the forums and some who don't appear to have a life outside of fab but that's true of most social platforms.

Chatting to people who had been here for years before I joined it's funny how most of their negative experiences are virtually identical to issues still discussed now so nothing really changes.

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By *axlecool03Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Ok quick question I’ve been on and off fab for say over 5 years through various profiles I’d say my first profile was probably the most difficult the usual not getting replies blah blah you know yourself but I adapted and learned to do things differently… how has you’re experience been from the beginning to now .. just a quick fill in I’ve met some great people made some amazing friends but there’s also been bumps in the road how’s your experiences been "

5 yrs on and off now … nothing changes same one liners same dick pick issues … i like the forums and how the social part of fab has gone in the yrs..

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Over ten years and has changed. A lot busier then when I started here. Was harder to get a verification as well due to low numbers of women and couples. A lot more drama nowadays too but I'll put that down to the more users then when I started

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By *ctoboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am a Founder Member of Fab but after 15yrs of original membership I have since been on & off site. I have seen many changes since day one including changes of ownership/operators..Been lots of good changes but like any group also some not soo good. I think you make and take out of site what you want with still lots of very sexy people on it.

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By *uckmycorkMan
over a year ago

west cork

The only constant in life is change. Everything changes. Years ago, it was the pink pages of the evening echo on a Tuesday. Fab is a major improvement on that. I have noticed a lot more people joining fab, given my geographical and relationship status (clearly stated in my profile) I'm like an observer nation in the UN, I can see what's going on, but can do sweet fanny adams about it. It is fantastic that so many people are exploring their sexual identity, there are ups and downs. Happy fabbing one and all. One love.

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By *eangivesithardMan
over a year ago

monaghan

Been off and on it for the last 16 yrs it certainly has changed from the beginning the whole layout of the site and the chat used to have a quiz on a sat night used to be great craic

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By *hyeyesMan
over a year ago

meath

Is there anyway to check the length of time I've been here ?

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I'm on fab with the same profile since 2012. I just hide it when I need a break. I think the only real change that I've seen is the same as I see in everyday life. People seem to have less patience and tolerance these days. I think covid lockdowns has had a very negative effect on a lot of people.

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