FabSwingers.com forum: Neighbours OMG Awkward

By *opdubcat OP Man
50 weeks ago

Dublin

OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird

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By *ulkMan
50 weeks ago

How bad!

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
50 weeks ago

dublin

Ahhhh! Don’t leave us all hanging. Tell us the tea? How’d you find out?

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By *opdubcat OP Man
50 weeks ago

Dublin

Very Awkard situation I went to drop in a parcel that was delivered to our house. Obviously they were expecting someone else but the neighbours opened the door well let’s say she wasn’t dressed for going out and they certainly didn’t expect me. Was all a bit red faced situation. I also copped another couple I had met years ago were there. They were obviously having a mini party as I was going another couple arrived.

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By *opdubcat OP Man
50 weeks ago

Dublin

They arrived as I was leaving I meant to say

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By *ickin2Man
50 weeks ago

Kilkenny

Thank the delivery man

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By *ogday2181Man
50 weeks ago

Dublin

Excellent stuff

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By *ano53Man
50 weeks ago

Wicklow

"OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird

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Sounds like .... U are gonna b in for lots of fun now ...

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

op don't let it be awkward I've 3 people from my estate on here, we just wave if walking by, all adults, met another in our local shop just act normal

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By *s SingletWoman
50 weeks ago

Kilkenny

Small world met neighbours at a social all very polite

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By *erry cMan
50 weeks ago

Longford westmeath

"op don't let it be awkward I've 3 people from my estate on here, we just wave if walking by, all adults, met another in our local shop just act normal

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portlaoise must b a small world

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By *aeandjonCouple
50 weeks ago

athlone

Seen neighbour at house party before and left quickly before she seen me.

Always regretted it we were both there for same reasons.

Was in club in London years ago and also met cpl I knew we chatted and laughed it off.

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By *opdubcat OP Man
50 weeks ago

Dublin

My neighbour defo feels awkward not as chatty as usual. Probably wondering what I am thinking, or embarrassed as to what I saw. All I can say is what I saw turned me on ??. Not sure if I should say something as feel the may be worried I might talk. Which I’m not!!!

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By *og-ManMan
50 weeks ago

somewhere

"My neighbour defo feels awkward not as chatty as usual. Probably wondering what I am thinking, or embarrassed as to what I saw. All I can say is what I saw turned me on ??. Not sure if I should say something as feel the may be worried I might talk. Which I’m not!!!"

But you are by posting this on the forums if they are on fab

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By *irdnBorisMan
50 weeks ago

meath

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
50 weeks ago

dublin

I can only imagine!! Maybe they’re unaware that you swing too and are just embarrassed by how they were dressed? You say you’re married on your profile so I guess if the Mrs doesn’t know you may need to tread lightly with it being a neighbour….

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By *opdubcat OP Man
50 weeks ago

Dublin

Yea defo I’m not sure if the other couple in the back ground I knew from the past saw or recognised me. Can’t be sure, some how I don’t think so, was through a glass door.

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By *andytownMan
50 weeks ago

Gods Own Country

Yea defo I’m not sure if the other couple in the back ground I knew from the past saw or recognised me. Can’t be sure, some how I don’t think so, was through a glass door."

Ahhhh the looking-glass

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
50 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

You should probably reassure them that their secret is safe with you and they have nothing at all to worry about. Don't mention meeting immediately as reassurance is probably what they are looking for first. Then you can contact them privately and propose something once everyone is reassured and happy and comfortable.

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By *ofusplusCouple
50 weeks ago

Limerick

"You should probably reassure them that their secret is safe with you and they have nothing at all to worry about. Don't mention meeting immediately as reassurance is probably what they are looking for first. Then you can contact them privately and propose something once everyone is reassured and happy and comfortable."

Playing away from home normally means not propositioning your neighbours

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By *1n_eaterMan
50 weeks ago

Newcastle

Is it safe? Considering the secret keeper has come onto here to tell the entire community. Even though details are few it's still enough....

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
50 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Playing away from home normally means not propositioning your neighbours

I'm pretty vocal with my thoughts on cheating on here so I probably don't need to restate that lol

But even still this couple might be panicking as for some people it's a big big secret, and they could do with a little no pressure reassurance.

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By *ofusplusCouple
50 weeks ago

Limerick

Playing away from home normally means not propositioning your neighbours

I'm pretty vocal with my thoughts on cheating on here so I probably don't need to restate that lol

But even still this couple might be panicking as for some people it's a big big secret, and they could do with a little no pressure reassurance."

Yeah I figured you hadn't realised he was attached

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
50 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I guess my thoughts were with the couple and the worries they might have about being found out, but it's true that the attached man looking to proposition the couple next door despite the fact that they undoubtedly know he is attached, makes the whole story have a whiff of either total stupidity or utter bullshit.

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By *ustBoWoman
50 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I find it odd that you find it awkward that your neighbours are swingers,I don't see why it should be an issue really.

I also don't think you should even consider having any swinging fun with them if they were interested and know you are on here then they would approach you. Which to be fair is highly unlikely a bit like this whole story .

And to be fair if you are attached then you have a hell of a lot more to lose by it getting out or making it awkward.

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By *acob12369Man
50 weeks ago

URPANTS

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By *acob12369Man
50 weeks ago

URPANTS

All sounds like a porn scenario. Talking through his hat

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By *ohng69Man
50 weeks ago

athenry

Is it safe? Considering the secret keeper has come onto here to tell the entire community. Even though details are few it's still enough....

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exactly my first thoughts. How can they trust the op when he was quick to blab on here. What if they're on here and are reading this?

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By *otownkid1967Man
50 weeks ago

Portlaoise

"op don't let it be awkward I've 3 people from my estate on here, we just wave if walking by, all adults, met another in our local shop just act normal

portlaoise must b a small world "

It is,everyone knows everyone's business.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
50 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

To be fair he didn't give out their eircode or anything

But I'm defo in camp-bullshit

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By *urfdudeMan
50 weeks ago

WEXFORD

Bit close to home but good to see it going on. Ive met some previous meets in the local supermarket !

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By *oody BondMan
50 weeks ago

Sligo

Who cares anyway? It's not like they are murderers or criminals so you all should keep it to yourselves and that's about it. That's the adult thing to do. Nothing awkward about it, mostly because you are on fabswingers, therefore, you should know the drill. I have met people I know on here and we still act "normal" when we pass each other.

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By *tickymicky222Man
50 weeks ago

Dublin

"OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird

Where you up late last night watching pornographic material? Certainly seems a bit sussy. Think I've watched that movie before.

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By *antra MassageMan
50 weeks ago

South Side.

"OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird

Where you up late last night watching pornographic material? Certainly seems a bit sussy. Think I've watched that movie before."

It's absolutely none of your business.

You are indiscreet and not to be trusted.

You should have the common sense to know never shxt in your own backyard.

Walk away, and stop stirring the shxt in a small town.

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By *opdubcat OP Man
50 weeks ago

Dublin

Thanks to every one for the genuine response and good advice

First off for those of you who think I was about getting with the that was never the case,to close to home and would never happen and I wouldn’t want it too, never suggested that.

Secondly it has all been dealt with like adults should, and is history now. And all are comfortable.

I still have to say was taken back. All is good that ends well.

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By *hilaboutMan
50 weeks ago

kilkenny

Imagine it's all just a fantasy tbh

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By *tickymicky222Man
50 weeks ago

Dublin

"OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird

Where you up late last night watching pornographic material? Certainly seems a bit sussy. Think I've watched that movie before.

It's absolutely none of your business.

You are indiscreet and not to be trusted.

You should have the common sense to know never shxt in your own backyard.

Walk away, and stop stirring the shxt in a small town.

Be careful or you will be banned again

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By *alwaymaaaaanMan
50 weeks ago

Claregalway

If your a member of a swingers site and notice that your neighbours are swingers I don't see why there would be awkwardness unless ye had a failed get together at some time

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By *indenMan
50 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Secondly it has all been dealt with like adults should, and is history now. And all are comfortable. "

Could you elaborate on this second point?

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By *electableicecreamMan
50 weeks ago

The West

"OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird

Where you up late last night watching pornographic material? Certainly seems a bit sussy. Think I've watched that movie before.

It's absolutely none of your business.

You are indiscreet and not to be trusted.

You should have the common sense to know never shxt in your own backyard.

Walk away, and stop stirring the shxt in a small town.

Be careful or you will be banned again

It's a badge of honour

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By *nightrider777Man
49 weeks ago

Dublin

Ive bumped into so far : neighbours, relatives, school mates, a teacher from my school days, customers from my job , colleagues, teammates through out the years on different profiles on Fab. Awkward at first but I just carry on as normal and dont judge and keep it to myself, discretion asssured as we say

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
49 weeks ago

nr Letterkenny

"OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird

I really don't see why you're posting discretion is always key. I'd say you're in fantasy land.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
49 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I don't see what's indiscreet about posting that your neighbours are swingers if you aren't also supplying your address.

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