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By *ffairofthemind OP   Man
52 weeks ago

DC

Where does it start?

Is the sheer notion upon you for someone else enough to be deemed as infidelity?

Does it require physical daliance?

Asking for a friend and not looking for the legal definition, more of a reading the room thing.

Expecting a myriad of answers x

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
52 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

It's infidelity if you know that your partner would consider it infidelity

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By *electableicecreamMan
52 weeks ago

The West

You can cheat on yourself too. If something feels wrong in your heart and you do it anyway the first person you are lying to is yourself.

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By *s SingletWoman
52 weeks ago

Kilkenny

I read a story about two ladies who lived nextdoor to each other both husbands worked away, one never cheated but was with a different woman every night he was away the other cheated every night but never even spoke to another woman

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By *dfabMan
51 weeks ago

Dunboyne


"I read a story about two ladies who lived nextdoor to each other both husbands worked away, one never cheated but was with a different woman every night he was away the other cheated every night but never even spoke to another woman "

Is that some sort of riddle?

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By *exymonkeyplayCouple
51 weeks ago

navan

I agree with the above post about cheating yourself.

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By *xcited And CuriousCouple
51 weeks ago

Dublin

Mr here.

For me...

If you wouldn't want your partner to know, and you know that it would hurt them if they did know, then it's cheating.

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By *exymonkeyplayCouple
51 weeks ago

navan

"You can cheat on yourself too. If something feels wrong in your heart and you do it anyway the first person you are lying to is yourself.

I like this. Shows you have a conscience which means you have a heart. Something that's getting rear these days. A thought isn't cheating but an action is. Any kind of interaction that goes against your partner's wishes or you feel you have to hide an action. It's cheating. Your cheating your partner out of happiness, your cheating yourself out of a connection. Your cheating on the trust, the integrity and the intimacy that could be there. The gut screams something is off. Intimacy breaks down, communication becomes muddled and your energy starts to protect you pushing the cheat away. This is before solid evidence. If you can happily cheat with no guilt or regret or push the blame on the person you are cheating on. This is psychopath behavior and you need to leave. Giving the person a chance of happiness with someone they deserve. Texting, cam, phone, in person is cheating if your partner has made it clear of there boundaries in a relationship. Hidding, lies is cheating. My boundaries are any one to one interaction that I'm not made aware of is not innocent especially if your getting sexual gratification from that you are hiding.

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By *s SingletWoman
51 weeks ago

Kilkenny


"I read a story about two ladies who lived nextdoor to each other both husbands worked away, one never cheated but was with a different woman every night he was away the other cheated every night but never even spoke to another woman

Is that some sort of riddle?"
one wife believed her husband would never cheat so to her mind he didn't, the other was accusing her husband all the time so to her mind he was

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