FabSwingers.com forum: Getting verified

By *piceisright OP Man
52 weeks ago

blanchadstown

Hi lovely fabbers,

Just want to introduce myself here and ask the lady's how does a guy get a meet if unverified most of you lady's will only meet if verified but if you need to meet to get verified it's a viscous circle

I'm married have permission for discreet safe fun that's why my profile isn't full of photos I'm a nice genuine guy who would love to meet for fun maybe regular I'm not looking to ride the world would love to explore ffm situation would just love to have some fun uncomplicated I'm a gent with very horny side help please

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By *ano53Man
52 weeks ago

Wicklow

I'm the same .... Not Verified ...

If anyone liked to meet.

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By *eathguy200Man
52 weeks ago

trim

A lot of us in the same boat..

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By *ickin2Man
52 weeks ago

Kilkenny

Scroll down 5 days

Help a fabber out November

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By *ilderMan
52 weeks ago

dublin

Unverified socials happen often, keep an eye on forums.

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By *ofusplusCouple
52 weeks ago

Limerick

Suggest you put all that info on your bio. Having permission is a big deal to most ladies but you haven't explained that in your bio. Also, you MUST have a range of decent photos as you are pissing against the wind otherwise.

Your profile is your shop window, it has to be great to stand out.

Also get yourself to a few socials and meet ladies face to face.

Also, why can't verified men offer advice when they were once in the same boat? I'm a bit mystified by that comment.

Good luck. Mrs

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By *electableicecreamMan
52 weeks ago

The West

Without trying to sound too harsh your profile has so many red flags you could hang them up as bunting.

You've been on here over a year with no meets.

No pics.

No bio.

Age range 18-99

The women you are looking for would like to meet a person not a placeholder.

The answers you seek are.

Delete your profile and start new.

Upload photos

Fill out your bio (honestly)

Try the Help a Fabber out thread

Attend social events for unverified members.

In that order

Best of luck.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
52 weeks ago

South Down

What the previous two posters said, with bells on

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By *itlbeeCouple
52 weeks ago

Agreed with above.

If you have permission why do you have to be more discrete than other swingers?

Have you given her the same option to see other men?

Women on this site do look out forn ach other and will empathise more with other women..we're going to do everything in our power to make sure we're not messing around with cheater's. So is your wife able to give women confirmation of some sort?

After all, many cheaters pretend they have permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Gosh, this is going to sound controversial, and I’m really not trying to be, but not all women here- me included, will judge a man for looking for sex here if he’s not getting it at home. It’s not my concern and they weren't my vows. If they are married, separated, I’m not concerned.

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By *piceisright OP Man
52 weeks ago

blanchadstown

_ofusplus

Thank you and appreciated ??

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I agree with a poster above... if permission is granted why is there a level of secrecy or "discretion"

For me, any man playing without permission is an immediate no. I can imagine other women find it to be off putting aswell.

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