FabSwingers.com forum: Why do people post, no accommodation or travel???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is the point of this?? Ok I know we all have a life outside fab. But come on, we need a bit of compromise!!!

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By *rRiosMan
over a year ago

dublin

My best guess is they are not looking to meet currently but keeping the door slightly ajar…

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
over a year ago

kinda dublin

What would a compromise actually be? Accommodate in their car?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Because they can't accommodate and what to meet someone local maybe

Not everyone has a car or if they have a car don't want to go for a few hours drive for a meet

Its just a preference and everyone has their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing some don't want to accomadate .. not wanting people to know where they live . I know I'll never make that mistake again doesn't know how long I know the person

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By *erry cMan
over a year ago

Longford westmeath

"I'm guessing some don't want to accomadate .. not wanting people to know where they live . I know I'll never make that mistake again doesn't know how long I know the person

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sounds interesting

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

I have dont travel cos when I did some eejit 6 hours away thought I'd just drop by and give him a bj.

I have dont accomodate as no one is welcome while my kids still live at home, I'll go halfers with hotel or airbnb costs.

Sometimes these things just need a little conversation and a solution presents itself, if not just move on.

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By *anUTV/TS
over a year ago

Rural

Some guys expect me to get dolled up and pick them up in my car down some country boreen or at a convenient place near where they live which could be in Monaghan or West Cork and drive to a secluded place where they can get off and blow their loads. Expecting me to drive home for up to 4 hours after 4 minutes of fun

I've a nice warm comfortable home and that's where I like to meet, if you don't drive that's your problem not mine.

I don't apologise for not liking their approach, I think it's cowardly, selfish and borderline creepy. Only a nutter would expect someone to drive a few hours away and fulfil their selfish desires.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"I have dont travel cos when I did some eejit 6 hours away thought I'd just drop by and give him a bj.

I have dont accomodate as no one is welcome while my kids still live at home, I'll go halfers with hotel or airbnb costs.

Sometimes these things just need a little conversation and a solution presents itself, if not just move on.

This

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By *ezoMan
over a year ago

The Kingdom

Honestly I always thought;

Can't accommodate = don't want people at their home, which is understandable.

Can't travel = don't have a car, not everyone does.

But I can understand peoples posts here. It would be frustrating to travel hours just for a quick few minutes of action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm guessing some don't want to accomadate .. not wanting people to know where they live . I know I'll never make that mistake again doesn't know how long I know the person

^^^^^^^

Same ~ As....

Safer not to let anyone know where we live....I had a crazy experience before & I thought the lad was 'normal'....far from it he was.....& I'd met him many many times until he turned creepy & I mean creepy....Let's just say I'll never ever accommodate again

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Many interpret 'travel' to mean a long distance, but meet locally

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Man can't accommodate - he must be attached.

Woman can't accommodate - she is protecting her privacy and safety.

Woman can't travel - needs to feel secure in familiar surroundings.

Man can't travel - lazy cunt.

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

"Man can't accommodate - he must be attached.

Woman can't accommodate - she is protecting her privacy and safety.

Woman can't travel - needs to feel secure in familiar surroundings.

Man can't travel - lazy cunt. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, need to take people at face value but at the same time I don’t want what is essentially a stranger rocking up to my house and knowing where I live. They could turn out to be a nut case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my home and I don't invite strangers into it. There are very few people I would be happy to visit in their home either. Do I have to compromise on this? No I don't. Does it hinder or curb my enjoyment here? No it doesn't.

As for travelling, I can understand people not wanting to go too far because of work or family commitments. Life happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see can't accommodate can't travel,I assume they don't drive and would want to meet at a hotel in their area

Em x

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