FabSwingers.com forum: Fab Green Flags

By * Va OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

We spend a lot of time bashing reds flags around here. That has its uses, and different perspectives can be very helpful especially for those who are finding their feet.

What are the green flags you've come across (pun intended) in profiles or in messages or in person?

Let's celebrate the Good. Hit me with some happy stories...

(Again, pun intended

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
over a year ago

south Dublin

Hey Ava x

Pics of both in couples profiles

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By * Va OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes! That's a great start. Thank you

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"Hey Ava x

Pics of both in couples profiles

That truly helps alright. Also how they interact with other people on the forum. Especially if ye haven't meet up anywhere already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No negativity on their profile is one

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
over a year ago

south Dublin

"No negativity on their profile is one

Lets turn that around to only positives on their profile

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By *oleculeCouple
over a year ago

Wexford and Dublin

Ah, a forum thread with a focus on the positive. Refreshing. Well done OP.

People who clearly put decent effort into their profile in general - good quality and thought out pictures with a range of shots that show their bodies and a bit of who they are as people.

A well written, inviting, positive and factual bio that is kept up to date.

Finally, the actual green flag. It’s surprising how many well established and well meet verified profiles are not photo verified. Not sure why anybody would not choose to become photo verified as soon as they join Fab. The process is very simple and it only takes around ten minutes.

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

People who say more about what they like than they dislike .

Shows a positivity

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

A good arse trumps all.

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By *ohnboy74712Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Good thread Ava.

People who are positive about what they are looking for are always good as opposed to a long list of what they don't want ( appreciate some people feel they have no choice but to do this). Well shot photos always stand out, and I'm always particularly drawn to a bio that has a bit of warmth to it.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

A bio with personality that also shows experience or some thought gone into what they are looking for is always a good sign for me

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Consistency in pics, bio, verifications and forum interaction.

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
over a year ago

south Dublin

A big smile, good eye contact, smelling nice, relaxed friendly chat with lots of laughs, a good snog.

So many positives, keep them cuming

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

For us it's as simple as reading the profile. Checking that everyone is ok with everything being said. Very simple things the vast majority don't do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey Ava x

Pics of both in couples profiles

Yes!!!! I (Ginger) love when there’s pics of both the people in the couple. Big green flag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regarding messages…we like them respectful, interest in us both and we love a bit of banter! Giggles are our bread and butter.

With pics (along with cpls having a mix of both people in them, usually the guy is the shy one) we do like a bit of tease element to them, if alls on show in every pic it just doesn’t appeal to us as much.

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By *ikewantstoplayMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Clarity/positivity in the bio and up to date pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexiness

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

The absence of warnings about using their data.

The absence of a code word to be typed in the subject line.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Matching preferences. Sexual attraction. Nicely worded profiles

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

And definitely full pics of both people in the couple . It's a real plus .

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Spellings

A well composed bio with consistent veris. And no dick pics. Stylish or interesting photos always get my attention. Non smoker is a definite.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

A profile that doesn't read like it's written by an angry person on a rant

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"Hey Ava x

Pics of both in couples profiles

This is a big green flag for us, Mrs in particular, as many couple profiles are completely female orientated. She tends not to give them a second look!

Also, profiles that say what they like. As opposed to those with what they don't like e.g. "dont contact us if xyz" "must be xyz"

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
over a year ago

south Dublin

"Hey Ava x

Pics of both in couples profiles

This is a big green flag for us, Mrs in particular, as many couple profiles are completely female orientated. She tends not to give them a second look!

Also, profiles that say what they like. As opposed to those with what they don't like e.g. "dont contact us if xyz" "must be xyz""

Haha we're the same. Couldn't count the amount of times the hubby has said check out this hot profile only for me to find a zillion pics of Mrs (which i appreciate

) but there's feck all to none of Mr

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Evidence in the profile of sexual interest in bi short hairy bald bespectacled men is a big plus for me

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Hey Ava x

Pics of both in couples profiles

This is a big green flag for us, Mrs in particular, as many couple profiles are completely female orientated. She tends not to give them a second look!

Also, profiles that say what they like. As opposed to those with what they don't like e.g. "dont contact us if xyz" "must be xyz"

Haha we're the same. Couldn't count the amount of times the hubby has said check out this hot profile only for me to find a zillion pics of Mrs (which i appreciate

) but there's feck all to none of Mr

Snap

Makes no sense when they want to meet couples. I need to see himself! Mrs

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Veris received with some thought put in to them. The ones with all the clichés suggest they weren't really liked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people actually message you referring to something in your bio/on your profile…shows they’ve went through your page before messaging

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Someone that carries on messaging with normal conversations without resorting to show us your bollox type messages from the start

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

I do love profiles that are completely honest about what they want. Extra points if they add stuff about their personality.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

When someone recognizes you from real life and decides to say hello - they say exactly who they are or attach their face photo.

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Hot body pics of both partners of the couple (a few pics of both together all the better) is a major green flag… _ variety of pics to give confidence that pics aren’t off internet is another green flag.

Verifications, (meeting in person) verifications and more (play) verifications would be akin to a homecoming after a Limerick all Ireland win.

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By *MCOUPLECouple
over a year ago

North Coast

"Hot body pics of both partners of the couple (a few pics of both together all the better) is a major green flag… _ variety of pics to give confidence that pics aren’t off internet is another green flag.

Verifications, (meeting in person) verifications and more (play) verifications would be akin to a homecoming after a Limerick all Ireland win."

We must learn how to take pics naked together like yours as they are very very pleasant

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By * Va OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

It's great to see people mentioning green flags regarding the profiles of people commenting here. Kudos!

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Well posed attractive pics,

Well written bio,

A warm, nicely worded intro message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recent photos.

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By *ickin2Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny

Well done for posting this thread.

Not good at writing about myself or taking photos of myself so don't judge me on them.

Must say I do enjoy posting on the forum and I do love to fab the ladies photos. Will never meet most of them anyway but it's nice to compliment a Lady that way. Happy Fabbing everyone

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Tell the truth on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages with humour and a flow of conversation.. green flags all over

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