Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to Ireland |
Jump to newest |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Apologies, bit early with this thread considering it’s only the 31st of October. Happy Halloween folks. This is a thread to help unverified fabbers get verified. Simply say you’re in, what area you’re from and if you’d be willing to meet in order to verify someone who’s not verified by meeting in person. " You wanted to get in before anyone else, didn't you Not cool. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Tempted to post a “help a fabber out December” thread….." 2024 I presume | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Tempted to post a “help a fabber out December” thread….." Do it! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Apologies, bit early with this thread considering it’s only the 31st of October. Happy Halloween folks. This is a thread to help unverified fabbers get verified. Simply say you’re in, what area you’re from and if you’d be willing to meet in order to verify someone who’s not verified by meeting in person. You wanted to get in before anyone else, didn't you Not cool." Exactly | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Available around the North Coast area but would travel as far as Ballymena and no mistake for anyone thinking it's anything but a cuppa and a chat " Cuppa and chat would be perfect next time I am down that way. Normally stay in ballycastle | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’m in, anyone help me out? I’m in Wexford area but can travel too" Willing to verify over a coffee and also get a new verification as I've been off the scene for a few months. Dublin City center based. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’m in, anyone help me out? I’m in Wexford area but can travel too" You have a coffee meet with anyone yet | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Free for coffee tomorrow morning ( Newry)if anybody needs verified." Il be in newry tomorrow if your about | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'm in Portlaoise .. I'll meet up for a cuppa and Choc HobKnobs when I can, busy Mammy n Work.. I'll try " where can I purchase a ticket | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'm in Portlaoise .. I'll meet up for a cuppa and Choc HobKnobs when I can, busy Mammy n Work.. I'll try where can I purchase a ticket " You don't need a ticket your a forum friend.. if your ever in portlaoise.. mesg me I'd love a cuppa and choc hob knob biscuit.. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'm in Portlaoise .. I'll meet up for a cuppa and Choc HobKnobs when I can, busy Mammy n Work.. I'll try where can I purchase a ticket You don't need a ticket your a forum friend.. if your ever in portlaoise.. mesg me I'd love a cuppa and choc hob knob biscuit.." I always heard the only good thing in portlaoise is the road out of it | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Seems to be a lack of Northern folks needing a cuppa and you should all try the sticky toffee pudding flavoured hob knobs there yummy" Are they actually a thing??? If so they're defo on my next shopping list!!! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Seems to be a lack of Northern folks needing a cuppa and you should all try the sticky toffee pudding flavoured hob knobs there yummy" Could certainly do with one myself! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Apologies, bit early with this thread considering it’s only the 31st of October. Happy Halloween folks. This is a thread to help unverified fabbers get verified. Simply say you’re in, what area you’re from and if you’d be willing to meet in order to verify someone who’s not verified by meeting in person. You wanted to get in before anyone else, didn't you Not cool." Post this thread while I was waiting in A&E, the next day I was admitted to hospital. Let’s just say it wasn’t the best Halloween I’ve ever had. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Seems to be a lack of Northern folks needing a cuppa and you should all try the sticky toffee pudding flavoured hob knobs there yummy" Some of us are genuinely happy for a cuppa | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hmmm....I'm not sure Fab would be too pleased about this??? " This thread has been around for months now, chatted privately about this thread with the person who originally came up with the idea. Can’t remember her name at the moment. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hmmm....I'm not sure Fab would be too pleased about this??? " These threads were originally set up by a fabber called Devine Destiny as far as I know and have been going for months Why would Fab not be happy with them | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hmmm....I'm not sure Fab would be too pleased about this??? These threads were originally set up by a fabber called Devine Destiny as far as I know and have been going for months Not sure if you can mention anyone’s name in a thread, might get this one closed. Why would Fab not be happy with them " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hmmm....I'm not sure Fab would be too pleased about this??? These threads were originally set up by a fabber called Devine Destiny as far as I know and have been going for months Not sure if you can mention anyone’s name in a thread, might get this one closed. Why would Fab not be happy with them " What are you doing putting your reply in the middle of a post Of course you can mention people's names in thread as long as you're not calling them out on something | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hmmm....I'm not sure Fab would be too pleased about this??? These threads were originally set up by a fabber called Devine Destiny as far as I know and have been going for months Not sure if you can mention anyone’s name in a thread, might get this one closed. Why would Fab not be happy with them What are you doing putting your reply in the middle of a post Of course you can mention people's names in thread as long as you're not calling them out on something " Making an honest mistake! Lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Available to meet for a coffee/chat/veri Tuesday 21st around Naas in the afternoon. " I’d like to take you up on that if I may please. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I can meet up for a cuppa in Portlaoise,between work,lunch time is best for me." what time is lunch time in portlaoise | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think this is a BS process … we need veris to go to a swinger party … but to get in we need to convince others to meet us at-least once, now the point is that it may takes time to organise a meet with such restrictive profiles and rules and regulations etc u k know the drill. So some people have started meeting people just to provide a veri and validate them so they could have a valid party entry. My question is does this solves any problem ….either we should have parties without a verification related entry regulation or we should ban such groups which are providing verification just with a social coffee meet. I mean whats the point of a regulation when we have a way to gwt around it. Either meet others genuinely … do the effort and earn an entry pass, or. Just open the party for all and keep a high price entry …. " A verification, at least initially, simply confirms that the person running the account exists and that their profile information is accurate. It also provides an indication of the sincerity of the person in as much as they made the time and effort to meet someone. There are many zombie accounts on fab that are simply fantastists and time wasters. Verifications are the foundation of the trust based system that people use to vet potential play partners or event attendees. Verifications can also show that someone has the requisite experience that another member maybe looking for. There are ways to game that system but it doesn't get anyone very far. There are events for unverified members running throughout the year. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think this is a BS process … we need veris to go to a swinger party … but to get in we need to convince others to meet us at-least once, now the point is that it may takes time to organise a meet with such restrictive profiles and rules and regulations etc u k know the drill. So some people have started meeting people just to provide a veri and validate them so they could have a valid party entry. My question is does this solves any problem ….either we should have parties without a verification related entry regulation or we should ban such groups which are providing verification just with a social coffee meet. I mean whats the point of a regulation when we have a way to gwt around it. Either meet others genuinely … do the effort and earn an entry pass, or. Just open the party for all and keep a high price entry …. A verification, at least initially, simply confirms that the person running the account exists and that their profile information is accurate. It also provides an indication of the sincerity of the person in as much as they made the time and effort to meet someone. There are many zombie accounts on fab that are simply fantastists and time wasters. Verifications are the foundation of the trust based system that people use to vet potential play partners or event attendees. Verifications can also show that someone has the requisite experience that another member maybe looking for. There are ways to game that system but it doesn't get anyone very far. There are events for unverified members running throughout the year." I agree and thats the way it should be… but why do we have these shortcut events then to get veris and then get an entry into an event … if we are so serious about the originality of a person why not ask him to get in touch with a verified person and prove your existence and skill and organise a meet with him/ her . Why do we need to have a even just so all new attendees get a veri and get eligible for a party… | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’m in, anyone help me out? I’m in Wexford area but can travel too You have a coffee meet with anyone yet " Hey, sorry only back to forum now, no coffee meet set up yet. Message me there and we can organise, thanks | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" I agree and thats the way it should be… but why do we have these shortcut events then to get veris and then get an entry into an event … if we are so serious about the originality of a person why not ask him to get in touch with a verified person and prove your existence and skill and organise a meet with him/ her . Why do we need to have a even just so all new attendees get a veri and get eligible for a party…" I'm not sure I understand what you mean. What is a shortcut event? The help a fabber out thread is something that people do out of generosity because they know it can be hard for single men to get verified and it does work. Many guys on fab got their first verification through this thread and went on to enjoy the benefits of the site on whatever way suits them. Not everyone wants to go to clubs out parties or even social events. What do you think is the greatest barrier to you getting verified? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'm in Portlaoise .. I'll meet up for a cuppa and Choc HobKnobs when I can, busy Mammy n Work.. I'll try " Very Kind ?? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We’d be interested in getting verified and up for a coffee. We are available to meet in Galway/Westmeath area " We're mullingar if that suits ? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It's December. But I'm in and want to be in ????" Really December you must be at least a week ahead of everyone else lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"November nearly over, let’s not all rush to start a help a fabber out December thread! " Too late. It's already up and running | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |