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By *ovedeeplove OP   Man
over a year ago

Rathdrum

I'd love to record and produce videos of people, whether it's two people or a large group. I have a lot of video production experience, but never this kind of thing and I'm quite attracted to the idea

So just wondering, is being filmed a turn on for anybody? Obviously we all have phones with great quality camera these days, it's easy to make your own videos. But, is being recorded by someone else a turn on for anyone I wonder...

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By *ed386Man
over a year ago

close by

Really enjoy knowing someone is watching/ filming etc! So sexy and a big turn on ??

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By *exbi608Man
over a year ago

Wexford

If you have any exhibitionist in you then yes the thought of being filmed while in the act would be a turn on

So yeah, my inner exhibitionist is raising a hand

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By *e MasseurMan
over a year ago

lk

I have about 10 years of experience in audiovisual production and I would love to produce something with and for some Fab members.

I don't know if "fetish of being recorded by someone else" would be the best approach hence it might let people thinking that you would use the video somewhere else.

I personally would go with something like, "Any couple want to be the stars of their own porn movies?", "Do you want to surprise your partner with a sensual photoshoot/film this Christmas?!"

You can do that for fun or as an extra income, either way I'd recommend you also drawing a little contract just in case.

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By *itlbeeCouple
over a year ago

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I also have plenty of video production and photography experience.

but my take is that it's WAY less sexy than people expect it to be!

Posing for photos can be uncomfortable, unnatural, and take several attempts to get right.

and with filming - it's not very sexy, much like how porn set's are very unsexy places in reality, and even a short video might take hours.

So I warn people of that going in. It's more of something you pursue for the end result than for the process.

If you're a guy looking to do this, I would straight up ask you what do you expect in return?

there is a lot of vulnerability in the process so you need to be upfront in how this will work.

E.g - Are you doing this for your own sexual gratification? Are you going hoping to be able to whip it out mid shoot?

if not, say so, because you'll probably get more interest if your going to stay professional - because then you're being selected as a videographer, not a sexual partner.

You'll also need to talk about privacy, and content ownership. Another fear might be that you could upload content to the internet without permission, some people might be less comfortable with you holding onto the video.

In terms of selling yourself, I think you need to tell people what you bring to the table. For example, if you were able to set up your home like a home studio, a nice setting, lighting, some lighting equipment and tripods set up, it might be pretty appealing for a couple to pop by.

I've always found lighting to be the number one thing people struggle with in their home photos and videos. So maybe talk to some portable lights you can bring in would be appealing?

overall, to proposition anyone around this kind of thing, you need to anticipate all their hesitations, and consider how you can make them comfortable and feel safe.

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road


"I also have plenty of video production and photography experience.

but my take is that it's WAY less sexy than people expect it to be!

Posing for photos can be uncomfortable, unnatural, and take several attempts to get right.

and with filming - it's not very sexy, much like how porn set's are very unsexy places in reality, and even a short video might take hours.

So I warn people of that going in. It's more of something you pursue for the end result than for the process.

If you're a guy looking to do this, I would straight up ask you what do you expect in return?

there is a lot of vulnerability in the process so you need to be upfront in how this will work.

E.g - Are you doing this for your own sexual gratification? Are you going hoping to be able to whip it out mid shoot?

if not, say so, because you'll probably get more interest if your going to stay professional - because then you're being selected as a videographer, not a sexual partner.

You'll also need to talk about privacy, and content ownership. Another fear might be that you could upload content to the internet without permission, some people might be less comfortable with you holding onto the video.

In terms of selling yourself, I think you need to tell people what you bring to the table. For example, if you were able to set up your home like a home studio, a nice setting, lighting, some lighting equipment and tripods set up, it might be pretty appealing for a couple to pop by.

I've always found lighting to be the number one thing people struggle with in their home photos and videos. So maybe talk to some portable lights you can bring in would be appealing?

overall, to proposition anyone around this kind of thing, you need to anticipate all their hesitations, and consider how you can make them comfortable and feel safe.

"

Everything you mentioned came to mind when I read the OPs opening message. Well said and crucial points covered

You might get a few requests to film yourself as you have experience in the industry.

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By *ingleLadLookingMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'd love to record and produce videos of people, whether it's two people or a large group. I have a lot of video production experience, but never this kind of thing and I'm quite attracted to the idea

So just wondering, is being filmed a turn on for anybody? Obviously we all have phones with great quality camera these days, it's easy to make your own videos. But, is being recorded by someone else a turn on for anyone I wonder... "

I'm interested if this is going ahead. Would be fun to experience the other, more realistic side of porn. We all know each video is the highlights of a longer process, but meeting different people and having a laugh would be good. I agree privacy has to be discussed though.

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By *rishcouple12Couple
over a year ago

Cork County

We always like the idea of pics and vids during play meets (with everyone's consent) but when it comes down to it not many are taken, as everyone is caught up having fun .

Vids are the hardest , as they need better lighting etc

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

If you’re good with lighting and camera angles and can turn a 3 minute poke into a 30 minute performance then I’m in

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By *e MasseurMan
over a year ago

lk

The process of making an amateur porn between some friends is fun as you don't have much pressure. Once you're doing it professionally, the fun will last a couple hours. It's exhausting for both cast and crew as your focus isn't to have fun but do your job properly and don't waste production time.

The way I'd produce something for a fab couple or a group of friends is letting them doing the things on their way and just record it directing them the least possible to preserve them and their essence, this way you'll always capture something unique

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By *rystalsswingCouple
over a year ago

Galway / Midlands / West


"I also have plenty of video production and photography experience.

but my take is that it's WAY less sexy than people expect it to be!

Posing for photos can be uncomfortable, unnatural, and take several attempts to get right.

and with filming - it's not very sexy, much like how porn set's are very unsexy places in reality, and even a short video might take hours.

So I warn people of that going in. It's more of something you pursue for the end result than for the process.

If you're a guy looking to do this, I would straight up ask you what do you expect in return?

there is a lot of vulnerability in the process so you need to be upfront in how this will work.

E.g - Are you doing this for your own sexual gratification? Are you going hoping to be able to whip it out mid shoot?

if not, say so, because you'll probably get more interest if your going to stay professional - because then you're being selected as a videographer, not a sexual partner.

You'll also need to talk about privacy, and content ownership. Another fear might be that you could upload content to the internet without permission, some people might be less comfortable with you holding onto the video.

In terms of selling yourself, I think you need to tell people what you bring to the table. For example, if you were able to set up your home like a home studio, a nice setting, lighting, some lighting equipment and tripods set up, it might be pretty appealing for a couple to pop by.

I've always found lighting to be the number one thing people struggle with in their home photos and videos. So maybe talk to some portable lights you can bring in would be appealing?

overall, to proposition anyone around this kind of thing, you need to anticipate all their hesitations, and consider how you can make them comfortable and feel safe.

Everything you mentioned came to mind when I read the OPs opening message. Well said and crucial points covered

You might get a few requests to film yourself as you have experience in the industry. "

I think you have a few clips I'd like to see again, lighting and angles weren't a problem

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By *ilverfox74Man
over a year ago

dublin offaly

It can be fun looking back on them. Have done a few and was only for personal use. On both sides.

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By *op_G85Man
over a year ago

Clonakitty

Id love to do long movie with some scenario

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