FabSwingers.com forum: Organising group fun

By *dventurousDuoxX OP Couple
over a year ago

Blaney

Just wondering if anyone had any tips on organising group fun, we have tried this s few times in te past but of course it never really worked out :/

Of course your always going to a have a few pull out at the last second but it seems so hard to organise and have genuine people actually willing or wanting to attend :/

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By *aidRXTV/TS
over a year ago

ashbourne

Honestly never had any success with this in Ireland... went to the UK on a couple of occasions and went really well.

Very difficult to arrange her in our small country however thats nit to say it cant be done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering if anyone had any tips on organising group fun, we have tried this s few times in te past but of course it never really worked out :/

Of course your always going to a have a few pull out at the last second but it seems so hard to organise and have genuine people actually willing or wanting to attend :/ "

I lived in London for a few years and a guy I knew ran a successful “group”.

The primary aim of group was for females seeking multiple guys.

The guy who arranged the group vetted all the guys.

I attended 4 of his meets and the drop out rate was low.

Yes life happens.

Are you looking a mix of sexes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say with the price of hotels now more people will start organising group fun. I attended a small little gathering in Carlow recent that was very nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best option is to get to some organised events build rapport with people.

Always organise double the amount of men you require. As an organiser and speaking to other organisers through the years it's usually men who always pull out last min. Women are harder to find but a lot more reliable.

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By *rRiosMan
over a year ago

dublin

"it's usually men who always pull out last min."

Probably safer that way

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By *dventurousDuoxX OP Couple
over a year ago

Blaney

My aim would be a mix of sexes but deffintly ok with being seen to buy a group of fit guys too

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

You have to meet people in advance. Build up friendships and trust over a period of time.

Use Eventbrite to get commitment and set deadlines so you know where you stand with people before it gets too late to invite others.

I can't see it working by inviting strangers, even when you are all well verified. We'd normally not attend a party where we hadn't met the hosts beforehand.

Good luck

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By *wingpeterMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

I organise parties at mine as you can see from my verifications. I post it on the forum and my status.It is difficult at the start but the trick is to get a regular crew and then newbies after that.Make sure they are verified.

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By *artyHardMan
over a year ago

North Coast

"You have to meet people in advance. Build up friendships and trust over a period of time.

Use Eventbrite to get commitment and set deadlines so you know where you stand with people before it gets too late to invite others.

I can't see it working by inviting strangers, even when you are all well verified. We'd normally not attend a party where we hadn't met the hosts beforehand.

Good luck

Absolutely nailed it!

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"You have to meet people in advance. Build up friendships and trust over a period of time.

Use Eventbrite to get commitment and set deadlines so you know where you stand with people before it gets too late to invite others.

I can't see it working by inviting strangers, even when you are all well verified. We'd normally not attend a party where we hadn't met the hosts beforehand.

Good luck

Absolutely nailed it! "

Nice one

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By *rishguy3217Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny / Dublin

Look for well verified people and those who have attend events and parties as they more than likely have had some group experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People say it's the ladies who are the unicorns around here. In reality it's the guys. It's very difficult to find experienced guys in group play. If you could find one key guy who has a trusted network of other reliable guys would help you. My most successful group meets I had one extremely reliable guy who helped find and organise it. Honestly it feels like a full time administration job to organise things like this. Best of luck though

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Exactly what Rosy has just said. I've even stopped going to social nights here as my main interest is single guys or guys from couples who play with permission and the last one I was at there were 3 guys out of all the confirmations who turned up

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By *rutus321Man
over a year ago

Offaly

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