FabSwingers.com forum: Longest time you've gone without sex...

By * la carte OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Borrowed from the lounge:

What's the longest time you have gone without having sex - AFTER you lost your virginity? Masturbation doesn't count, but oral does (apparently).

The winner gets - nothing

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Does Casual know you've borrowed from the lounge

8 long years made easier by resigning myself to it after a few months

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

A few months

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By * la carte OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Does Casual know you've borrowed from the lounge

8 long years made easier by resigning myself to it after a few months "

Sssshhhhhhh

Uff, that's a long time but topped by 2 years from a private messenger x

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Does Casual know you've borrowed from the lounge

8 long years made easier by resigning myself to it after a few months

Sssshhhhhhh

Uff, that's a long time but topped by 2 years from a private messenger x"

One race no one wants to win

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

10 years from age 40-50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 months was long time too long without sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ld say about 3 years...... Yikes, what a waste

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

"I ld say about 3 years...... Yikes, what a waste "

Not half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

24 years

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

Naas/City centre

Creeping closer to two years here sadly.

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By *ergalMan
over a year ago

east cork

Weeks/months at a time

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Three or four months.

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Borrowed from the lounge:

What's the longest time you have gone without having sex - AFTER you lost your virginity? Masturbation doesn't count, but oral does (apparently).

The winner gets - nothing

It has been a while, would lady consider assisting me with my plight.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

4 years. Misery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

43 minutes and 27 seconds.

I let her out of the cage then.

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By * la carte OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"24 years "

So still a virgin

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By * la carte OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"43 minutes and 27 seconds.

I let her out of the cage then. "

How many are you currently keeping?

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By *ichael CoolMan
over a year ago

unknown

Currently almost ten months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At present lol nearly 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 months. Focused on myself.

Didn’t text anyone in that time either.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

"24 years

So still a virgin

Yeah.... sure... I'm totally innocent and it's up to you guys to corrupt me

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By *carlettlady69Woman
over a year ago

city

11 years

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By * la carte OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"24 years

So still a virgin

Yeah.... sure... I'm totally innocent and it's up to you guys to corrupt me

Corruption?! On Fab?!

Never

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

"24 years

So still a virgin

Yeah.... sure... I'm totally innocent and it's up to you guys to corrupt me

Corruption?! On Fab?!

Never

I'm willing to sacrifice myself to save others from depravity

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

4 years.... Long time indeed

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By *ickin2Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny

2 years was my longest time

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast

I once went 6 weeks, hope that doesn’t happen again

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

About 2 years in the early 2000's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year and a half now, and only had one round to break the 2 years before that! Safe to say I’m getting hungry for something

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By *antasyFrolicksWoman
over a year ago

Behind The Bales

9 / 10 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years after divorce

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"Borrowed from the lounge:

What's the longest time you have gone without having sex - AFTER you lost your virginity? Masturbation doesn't count, but oral does (apparently).

The winner gets - nothing

(I can't remember) YEAR'S doe, at the same time. Doesn't seem to be changing anytime soon yet either.

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By *igtasty121Man
over a year ago

Nowhere

Surprised so many peeps remember down to the month.. probably months in my case but no idea of how long tbh.. I try not to scrape the wall with lines to mark it, like a prisoner in some shit hole Jail..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 days and 40 nights I always wondered why my mom called me Jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Borrowed from the lounge:

What's the longest time you have gone without having sex - AFTER you lost your virginity? Masturbation doesn't count, but oral does (apparently).

The winner gets - nothing

I think about 3 years. Next longest was around 2 stints of 2 years each. My 20s were bleak years

Since more than made it up for that thankfully

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Before COVID so near on 5 year's I'm nearly getting my virginity back at this stage

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By *imerick ladyWoman
over a year ago

suburbs

5 years …. I went through a long period of anxiety and total lack of self confidence and was in a pretty bad place . Safe to say I’m back to my self now and making up for lost time lol

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"5 years …. I went through a long period of anxiety and total lack of self confidence and was in a pretty bad place . Safe to say I’m back to my self now and making up for lost time lol "
good to hear.onwards and upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years....was in a dysfunctional relationship....he had a very low sex drive & was so selfish....only ever had sex when he wanted it & after he'd cum he'd roll over & say I'm done

I'd be left there totally sexually frustrated....it put me totally off him.... so much so that having sex with him wasn't a nice experience....it just left me craving more & totally sexually frustrated so I stopped....it just wasn't worth it & I resorted to self satisfying self pleasure for 4 years....

I eventually strayed .... who'd blame me for straying.... seriously though

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By *wantpleasure4uMan
over a year ago

Dublin

This is the longest I've went Currently 3 months. Hoping to change that though if anyone intrested ??

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Just recently broke my 6 year dry spell.. just lost interest.. realised I was going through menopause, got HRT and ohhh yes!! I’m back..

It’s amazing what good regular sex does to your confidence and general outlook.

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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago

moira

9 years, after a traumatic life event that ended up in a loveless and sexless marriage.

Still think I'm making up for lost time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years in my early 20’s, I was depressed and had zero interest

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By *ailor40Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Had sex once since February and I'm married

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By *eehornyWoman
over a year ago

Mayo

2 years, relationship ended then I was sick for over a year and it just didn't come on my radar

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By * la carte OP Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Thanks for your contributions.

Always interesting to get insights into others lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest was during my mid 20s to early 30s so almost 10 years.

Since than been spells of a year or two with no intimacy. Coming up on 4.5 months with no intimacy whatsoever

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

About 8 years. Then I joined fab and the rest is history

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

"5 years …. I went through a long period of anxiety and total lack of self confidence and was in a pretty bad place . Safe to say I’m back to my self now and making up for lost time lol "

Its scary to think someone as sexy as you would have lack of self confidence

(In all seriousness, we are our worst enemy sometimes)

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By *s SingletWoman
over a year ago

Kilkenny

Almost 8 years, the joy of a sex less marriage

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

Well theres obviously my childhood but after losing the big V at almost 18 I went 8 years celebate in my twenties then had a 1 night stand and went without again for another 2 years. Haven't gone more than a few months since then thankfully.

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By *2357Woman
over a year ago

clonmel tipp

I have gone without for 6 yrs that was until this summer.

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By *Whiskey Guy 2.0Man
over a year ago

Ballynaughty

still seeking after my relationship ended... I blamed the covid-19... to pause it

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By *rinibooWoman
over a year ago

clare

About 2 years maybe a little more With nothing not even a kiss .

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By *oman StringerMan
over a year ago

Sallynoggin

Over 2 years, about 5 years ago. Kept away from any distractions while I focused primarily on sobriety. Sober over 3 years now, not that that is relevant to the topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up until about a year ago me and hubby went over a year once without sex, looking back I’m not sure how I coped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over 2 years, about 5 years ago. Kept away from any distractions while I focused primarily on sobriety. Sober over 3 years now, not that that is relevant to the topic.

Fantastic achievement and you did what you had to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19 years... i never has sex for the 1st 19yrs

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

How do people last that long without sex.

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By *ed Viking80Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

Currently in a 12 month drought

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By *arleyguy40Man
over a year ago

Waterford city

Over 12 months and still counting

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Over a year.. Covid Lockdowns etc

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By *ollypop9Woman
over a year ago

wouldn't you like to know

6 years

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