FabSwingers.com forum: That’s too big!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there such a thing as having a penis that’s too big? As a man who’s not exactly blessed in this department at what point does it become too painful for a woman or man to have sex with a very well endowed man? What’s the perfect size, considering the fact that one size doesn’t fit all?

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By *reams_Come_TrueMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Yup. Not every woman is the same. I'm rather average, or tiny above (17,5cm),but had partner where couldn't really go all the way as it was painful and I felt the wall too.

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Yes!!! Have you never watched that episode from Sex and the City where Samantha ends up hightailing it out of her date cos his slong is too big? Lol! I’ve also heard horror stories from friends…

Think it’s all very personal what each person can take and sometimes that’s down to their mental state/arousal in the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes!!! Have you never watched that episode from Sex and the City where Samantha ends up hightailing it out of her date cos his slong is too big? Lol! I’ve also heard horror stories from friends…

Think it’s all very personal what each person can take and sometimes that’s down to their mental state/arousal in the moment"

Never watched a single episode of sex in the city.

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

It's definitely different for everyone. I personally don't like my cervix being bashed, it can be quite painful. Average sized does me just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One ex partner of mine had cervical orgasms and they were intense and a pleasure to behold, and my most recent friend couldn’t bear deep penetration it hurt, no matter how aroused she was. So different horses for course me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!!! Have you never watched that episode from Sex and the City where Samantha ends up hightailing it out of her date cos his slong is too big? Lol! I’ve also heard horror stories from friends…

Think it’s all very personal what each person can take and sometimes that’s down to their mental state/arousal in the moment"

I think he’s called Mr Cocky! She ends up taking few whiffs of the good tobacco, tries to take him and then asks if they can be friends!

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
over a year ago

dublin

"Yes!!! Have you never watched that episode from Sex and the City where Samantha ends up hightailing it out of her date cos his slong is too big? Lol! I’ve also heard horror stories from friends…

Think it’s all very personal what each person can take and sometimes that’s down to their mental state/arousal in the moment

I think he’s called Mr Cocky! She ends up taking few whiffs of the good tobacco, tries to take him and then asks if they can be friends! "

That’s the one!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes!!! Have you never watched that episode from Sex and the City where Samantha ends up hightailing it out of her date cos his slong is too big? Lol! I’ve also heard horror stories from friends…

Think it’s all very personal what each person can take and sometimes that’s down to their mental state/arousal in the moment

I think he’s called Mr Cocky! She ends up taking few whiffs of the good tobacco, tries to take him and then asks if they can be friends!

That’s the one!!!

What are you talking about? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!!! Have you never watched that episode from Sex and the City where Samantha ends up hightailing it out of her date cos his slong is too big? Lol! I’ve also heard horror stories from friends…

Think it’s all very personal what each person can take and sometimes that’s down to their mental state/arousal in the moment

I think he’s called Mr Cocky! She ends up taking few whiffs of the good tobacco, tries to take him and then asks if they can be friends!

That’s the one!!!

What are you talking about? lol "

Episode of sex and the city! YouTube Samantha & Mr Cocky and you’ll find!

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By *xcited And CuriousCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

A friend of P's told her she'd been with a guy whose dick looked like it belonged in a zoo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, you just got to be patient, plenty of foreplay, relax , and enjoy

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

The only patience that is going to help with a cervix is a nine month wait

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By *uteirishaWoman
over a year ago

ghost town

Both the length and girth can cause women pain. It depends purely on what the woman can feel comfortable with (or not) for pleasure. I'd say the cervix stretching to expel a small person( no..guys you can not compare).. Will not alter the

penis accomodation necessarily

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Apparently there is a C spot above the cervix which, if stimulated accordingly, can give an orgasm as strong or more than G spot/clit.

I'll never reach it but it would be remiss of me not to inform my fellow Father's of much longer cockspur of a spot to concentrate on, with women who like that

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
over a year ago

kinda dublin

I recall a thread ages ago, about a guy complaining (but actually humble bragging) that his cock is too big for ladies, and he got ripped to shreds, with people saying "it's designed fit a human baby head through, it can take your cock".

So I dunno who to believe anymore.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"I recall a thread ages ago, about a guy complaining (but actually humble bragging) that his cock is too big for ladies, and he got ripped to shreds, with people saying "it's designed fit a human baby head through, it can take your cock".

So I dunno who to believe anymore."

Apparently 3 inches is enough to stimulate the G spot, in the correct position.

So pretty much all can work, given the right partner and position.

There's someone for everyone

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By *rystalsswingCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Can't believe some of the shite that's been posted above, seriously

Size doesn't really matter, skill does

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By *igkidexyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Everyone says mine to thick for anal

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By *ickin2Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny

"Can't believe some of the shite that's been posted above, seriously

Size doesn't really matter, skill does

Definitely agree with you. It's how you use it. It's meant to please the Lady

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Can't believe some of the shite that's been posted above, seriously

Size doesn't really matter, skill does

Yeah I don't really agree with that. Call me a size queen but I'd like a cock to be a decent size. There is too small (based on experience).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is like a penis, often hard for no reason!

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

My version of what of too big could be different to others

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't believe some of the shite that's been posted above, seriously

Size doesn't really matter, skill does

Yeah I don't really agree with that. Call me a size queen but I'd like a cock to be a decent size. There is too small (based on experience). "

Size queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a guy here who has id estimate 11 inches , my eyes almost popped out when I saw it , sadly he was just too big , penetration was very uncomfortable and caused me to bleed , had to turn him down for another meet .

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By *uteirishaWoman
over a year ago

ghost town

"Apparently there is a C spot above the cervix which, if stimulated accordingly, can give an orgasm as strong or more than G spot/clit.

I'll never reach it but it would be remiss of me not to inform my fellow Father's of much longer cockspur of a spot to concentrate on, with women who like that

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yes..I've been lucky enough to have had a fab that was able to hit that spot.. frankly..he didn't have to move...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Is there such a thing as having a penis that’s too big? As a man who’s not exactly blessed in this department at what point does it become too painful for a woman or man to have sex with a very well endowed man? What’s the perfect size, considering the fact that one size doesn’t fit all?

Cock size seems to be more important for most men than for most women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s a guy here who has id estimate 11 inches , my eyes almost popped out when I saw it , sadly he was just too big , penetration was very uncomfortable and caused me to bleed , had to turn him down for another meet ."

Ahem...can I have his fab name please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to suck a big cock. Karen

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I think it's interesting that the conversation around the right fit is almost exclusively spoken about in terms of the man's size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its out there i`ll give it ago. Karen

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"I think it's interesting that the conversation around the right fit is almost exclusively spoken about in terms of the man's size.

Women seem a lot less obsessed about the size of their vaginas, than men are about the size of their cocks.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"I think it's interesting that the conversation around the right fit is almost exclusively spoken about in terms of the man's size.

Women seem a lot less obsessed about the size of their vaginas, than men are about the size of their cocks. "

That's what I think too. We do adore our dicks.

I think it leads to a habit of language in both genders that reinforces it.

It's more common to hear 'that's too big' than 'I'm too small for that' for example.

They both mean the same thing.

The middle ground of simply talking about a good fit or a good match feels like a better way to use language in a less phallic way.

Obviously I'm knocking anyone's preference here. Some women like it big and some men like it tight.

I'm just curious about the language we chose to talk about it.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"I think it's interesting that the conversation around the right fit is almost exclusively spoken about in terms of the man's size.

Women seem a lot less obsessed about the size of their vaginas, than men are about the size of their cocks.

That's what I think too. We do adore our dicks.

I think it leads to a habit of language in both genders that reinforces it.

It's more common to hear 'that's too big' than 'I'm too small for that' for example.

They both mean the same thing.

The middle ground of simply talking about a good fit or a good match feels like a better way to use language in a less phallic way.

Obviously I'm knocking anyone's preference here. Some women like it big and some men like it tight.

I'm just curious about the language we chose to talk about it."

The conversation is definitely phallocentric (yay for made up words).

The long story short is that an average normal penis and an average normal vagina work together just fine, but there are likely to be edge cases for both sexes that can cause an issue for a couple.

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By *ilverfox74Man
over a year ago

dublin offaly

Size is all about preference. Some ladies like it big. Some don’t. I don’t think it really matters about the size.

“Some girls will. Some girls won’t. Some girls need a lot of loving and some girls don’t”

Who sang that lol

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Size is all about preference. Some ladies like it big. Some don’t. I don’t think it really matters about the size.

“Some girls will. Some girls won’t. Some girls need a lot of loving and some girls don’t”

Who sang that lol "

Size is all about preference. Some guys like it big. Some don’t. I don’t think it really matters about the size.

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Most seem to focus on length. IMO, girth seems to be more of a challenging issue..

No one wants painful intercourse. Men seem to think a big shlong is the biz... Its in the foreplay.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I'm my my opinion theres not nearly though windmilling in the bedroom.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Size is all about preference. Some ladies like it big. Some don’t. I don’t think it really matters about the size.

“Some girls will. Some girls won’t. Some girls need a lot of loving and some girls don’t”

Who sang that lol

Size is all about preference. Some guys like it big. Some don’t. I don’t think it really matters about the size.

Nicely illustrated

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By *rAndMrsRightCouple
over a year ago

newtownabbey

I had a few encounters where my partner was too long and skinny girth wise ... ouch

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By *xcited And CuriousCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

This must all be linked with porn... in the same way that it's generally stated that women could come to feel inadequate if they're not hourglass with big boobs and a shaved pussy, ready for anal pounding (á la porn actresses), do men feel inadequate if they don't have a 6-pack and a 10" micky?

Neither of these common porn physical clichés are realistic.

In my experience, women seem to be more interested in the flirting and laughing and teasing and playfulness and him not being a thick or being disrespectful than the size of his mick... Maybe this perspective is outdated?

This is a copy/paste of my own (Mr) post from the forum thread "Hung".

"Anyone read the Kama Sutra?

IIRC, there's a passage in it about penis size and vagina tightness. If memory serves, the short version (pun not intended) is that it's only when the man's penis size is compatible with the tightness and/or depth of the woman's vagina that both parties can enjoy sex fully...

Smaller penis + "looser" or deeper vagina = low pleasure/satisfaction for both parties.

Smaller penis + "average" vagina = moderate pleasure/satisfaction for both parties.

Smaller penis + tight & shallow vagina = high pleasure/satisfaction for both parties.

Average (mid-size?) penis + "looser" or deeper vagina = moderate pleasure/satisfaction for both parties.

Average penis + "average" vagina = high pleasure/satisfaction for both parties.

Average penis + tight & shallow vagina = moderate pleasure or possible discomfort for both parties.

Large penis + "looser" or deeper vagina = high pleasure/satisfaction for both parties.

Large penis + "average" vagina = moderate pleasure/satisfaction or possible discomfort for both parties.

Large penis + tight & shallow vagina = low pleasure/satisfaction, possible discomfort or even pain for both parties.

I've (Mr) probably summarised that poorly, but I think that's the jist of it.

I guess some tighter ladies might enjoy a larger penis, so there are probably exceptions to the book's generalisation.

In my observation, while size CAN matter (to ladies), it seems to be men who care more about it. A huge mick won't necessarily make a guy with a dull personality or bad teeth (for example) more attractive.

Ladies - would a large penis override or compensate for otherwise unappealing appearance or personality traits?"

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

That's it exactly. Our phallocentric language (thx filthy) neglects the physiological facts of compatibility and reinforces male anxiety about dick size. Too big, too small, too skinny.

Porn has a lot of answer for but I do feel like it's more of an amplifier than a cause of the preoccupation we have with our dicks.

My first girlfriend and the first person to touch my dick told me it was beautiful and perfect. That imprint has stuck with me my whole life. It really is btw

I can only imagine that a young lad seeing a horse cock pound a woman into oblivion with before having a chance with a real world experience is going to have a different and equally lasting impression.

On reflection there was a lot to be said for passing around a sticky playboy. For the articles obviously.

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