FabSwingers.com forum: Advice needed

By *igMartyRebel OP Man
over a year ago

East Cork

Good evening all you beautiful people and souls of Fab.

I need some advice. Been on here 10 months now and really really struggling to either get a meet or even a message back from most.

I’m a gentleman and always polite in my messages, never pushy and don’t send dick pics, that’s not my style.

Where am I going wrong???

It’s got to the point were I’m considering adding a dick pick to my private pics maybe that’s the only way of getting interest?

Any help or advice from you experts who have been here a long time would be greatly appreciated thanks x.

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By *tudentForFunMan
over a year ago

Craigavon

Do what 99% of other people identical to you on here aren’t doing, go to socials and meet people that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You didn't ask for advice on profile. But have another look at it, no matter what type of message you send majority will look at your profile and decide whether to reply or not.

What your looking for and been straight don't match

There's a help a fabber thread why not comment on that, it's a good way to get a veri and show you are real.

Best of luck OP and stick with it

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By *igMartyRebel OP Man
over a year ago

East Cork

"Do what 99% of other people identical to you on here aren’t doing, go to socials and meet people that way!"

Thanks, that’s what I’ve been trying. I’ve had tickets booked for 2 social events that were on close enough to me but unfortunately I had to cancel both last minute due to work and family commitments at the time but def looking forward to attending a few soon.

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By *igMartyRebel OP Man
over a year ago

East Cork

"You didn't ask for advice on profile. But have another look at it, no matter what type of message you send majority will look at your profile and decide whether to reply or not.

What your looking for and been straight don't match

There's a help a fabber thread why not comment on that, it's a good way to get a veri and show you are real.

Best of luck OP and stick with it "

Thank you! I’ll have another look at my profile and see what changes I can make.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Hey OP

I'd say messaging is the least efficient way to go start a conversation

I can tell you what worked for me if it might help.

I got my first few coffee meets through participating in forum games and that made me some good connections and I got verified.

Then I went to social events.

That's basically it.

If you really want specific advice on your profile feel free to ask. You will no doubt get some good tips

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By *igMartyRebel OP Man
over a year ago

East Cork

"Hey OP

I'd say messaging is the least efficient way to go start a conversation

I can tell you what worked for me if it might help.

I got my first few coffee meets through participating in forum games and that made me some good connections and I got verified.

Then I went to social events.

That's basically it.

If you really want specific advice on your profile feel free to ask. You will no doubt get some good tips

Thanks for the advice and I’m not on the Forums that much but I’ll try that and see will it help.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Hey OP

I'd say messaging is the least efficient way to go start a conversation

I can tell you what worked for me if it might help.

I got my first few coffee meets through participating in forum games and that made me some good connections and I got verified.

Then I went to social events.

That's basically it.

If you really want specific advice on your profile feel free to ask. You will no doubt get some good tips

Thanks for the advice and I’m not on the Forums that much but I’ll try that and see will it help. "

2ofusplus are right above. The forums are not for everyone. Try everything. Feb has loads of tools and approaches available.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

"Hey OP

I'd say messaging is the least efficient way to go start a conversation

I can tell you what worked for me if it might help.

I got my first few coffee meets through participating in forum games and that made me some good connections and I got verified.

Then I went to social events.

That's basically it.

If you really want specific advice on your profile feel free to ask. You will no doubt get some good tips

Thanks for the advice and I’m not on the Forums that much but I’ll try that and see will it help. "

I can say from zero experiences at large socials, large socials are your best bet.

The forums are great but, as others have said, only represent a tiny percentage of people on Fab.

Being on Fab doesn't guarantee a meet but you do very much get what you put in. As with anything, be active (in real life instead of on your phone) and things will happen for you.

Good luck OP

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By *igMartyRebel OP Man
over a year ago

East Cork

"Hey OP

I'd say messaging is the least efficient way to go start a conversation

I can tell you what worked for me if it might help.

I got my first few coffee meets through participating in forum games and that made me some good connections and I got verified.

Then I went to social events.

That's basically it.

If you really want specific advice on your profile feel free to ask. You will no doubt get some good tips

Thanks for the advice and I’m not on the Forums that much but I’ll try that and see will it help.

I can say from zero experiences at large socials, large socials are your best bet.

The forums are great but, as others have said, only represent a tiny percentage of people on Fab.

Being on Fab doesn't guarantee a meet but you do very much get what you put in. As with anything, be active (in real life instead of on your phone) and things will happen for you.

Good luck OP

Thanks guys, great advice much appreciated

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Persevere. I met a fab lady on here in April. We still meet up. I've given up several times.You need to realise that there's 100s of men for every woman and they effectively get to pic and choose. Be patient, be well mannered, make sure your profile is upfront and honest.

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