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By *electableicecream OP   Man
over a year ago

The West

What gets your goat?

I'll start.

When forum regulars treat every other thread as a personal chat room and are whispering sweet nothings to each other while ignoring the really important discussion about what is exactly the right amount of public hair.

Seriously, get a room guys. Sure it's totally normal to post random replies for shits and giggles but if you've stopped by to endlessly quote each other in off topic drivel then please exit stage left. It's rude and it disrupts the thread.

Unsolicited advice. I am guilty of this in the past but I'm trying more and more to actually read what (especially newbies) are asking and not just trotting out a wrote list of tick box answers

If you have no experience in something, don't give people advice about it.

That's my rant! My first on fab I believe.

Any pet peeves? Let it rip. This is a safe space.

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Snide comments which are off topic. Or ridiculing people for questions especially newbies.. Yes, we all heard the questions before takes nothing to be polite.

As for public hair ice cream... I like to bring mine out occasionally.

Oh and typos

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Ooops

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I try not to rant as well OP but sometimes you gotta call a spade a spade and not a club

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By *electableicecream OP   Man
over a year ago

The West


"I try not to rant as well OP but sometimes you gotta call a spade a spade and not a club "

I credit your measured responses as an influence on me trying to listen a bit better.

But yeah if someone is being a dick they are fair game.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Plus I agree on all your points above (as usual)

One of mine:

Advising single guys to use the Forum as a way to break into the swing scene. This is poor advice.

By all means use the Forum to chat if you enjoy it (its fun!) BUT remember that 99% of women won't see your posts (as they don't use the Forum) or take any heed of your efforts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few as above. My biggest gripe is the snide comments and the posters who think their the oracle on here.

I've seem the true colours of a few and in all honesty nothing surprises me anymore , paddle your own canoe and ignore the waffle.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The only thing that gets my goat on the forums are when people list all the things they hate about the forums without the slightest hint of irony.

They must really struggle with self loathing.

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By *electableicecream OP   Man
over a year ago

The West


"The only thing that gets my goat on the forums are when people list all the things they hate about the forums without the slightest hint of irony.

They must really struggle with self loathing. "

Nice to see you joining us. At least you have one thing to hate. Everyone is welcome here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the forums. if I didn't I wouldn't bother with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the forums. if I didn't I wouldn't bother with them"

Like the thread saying the threads are boring .. hand on heart I love chatting here and I've chatted to many and never met them but are true fab friends,I prefer chatting here than one to one

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Tippoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate to see the forum having a string of messages arguing usually nothing to do with the topic and bringing stuff from other forum posts into the argument e.g. I see from your posts on other forum threads you say x, y, z normally completely off topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a positive side I do enjoy the games that kick off on the forums

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I enjoy the forums,dont care what threads are about as I can chose whether to post a reply or not

Sometimes they go off on a tagent and turn very very funny

Sometimes the topics are over my head

Sometimes they give me answers to questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/09/23 22:42:42]

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By *electableicecream OP   Man
over a year ago

The West


"[Removed by poster at 17/09/23 22:42:42]"

Foamy, you do not, in fact, have a profile pic.

Probably the only thing that unites everybody on fab is a dislike of the absence of profile pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site should not allow anyone join the site unless they send a face pic to the site

Just our opinion

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By *electableicecream OP   Man
over a year ago

The West


"This site should not allow anyone join the site unless they send a face pic to the site

Just our opinion "

Yes biometric access controls are definitely the way forward.

What could go wrong.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

If I don’t like a thread or a profile i don’t engage with it. There isn’t a possible solution to twatty behaviours (which are only subjectively so anyway) …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, it’s the internet, why would you allow anything to ‘get your goat’

Lighten up man

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"This site should not allow anyone join the site unless they send a face pic to the site

Just our opinion "

Eeek.. that would make this place a prime target for hackers. Remember what happened at AM

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I don't mind exploring related little avenues off topics that are raised. I don't feel that the thread creator owns the content in a thread and it's ok to deviate to some extent.

Nothing really annoys me here, but I don't mind calling out the BS where I see it

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't really get irritated by any particular forum conduct, it's easy enough to avoid, ignore or skip stuff that isn't up my street.

However fab never stops me being fascinated - sometimes up to a mind boggling point - by certain (naive) believes or cringey behaviour in the fab forum community. It can be quite entertaining.

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By *ob0409Man
over a year ago

navan

Yip, nothing would stir the juices of the hacking/extortion community more than a facial database of professionals/attached fabsters to extract from

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

The only things that annoy the fuck out of me here is the opinions of the self proclaimed experts or the folks that mouth off about others not attending socials so can't have an opinion on those even though said people were attending socials before the "experts" even knew this site existed.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

People that use emoticons other than those supplied by fab which results in question marks or similar

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

Sometimes everything annoys me, sometimes nothing does. Sometimes I call BS, sometimes I ignore and log out. Depends on my mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blue cheese

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Yip, nothing would stir the juices of the hacking/extortion community more than a facial database of professionals/attached fabsters to extract from "

We un-photo verified ourselves recently and it seemed to irk them because in the process they rejected two of our previously approved photos

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